My dad actually speaks to my baby as if heโs an adult. He picked him up today and told him, โheh monna, everything in life has consequencesโ. Ah ๐ค๐พ๐ญ
My brotherโs idea of coparenting is fetching his kids from their mom and dumping them off with my sister until itโs time for them to go back to their mom. Then he writes long posts on WhatsApp about what a joy it is to be a present fada ๐
We drove to our date in one car and he dropped me off in another. Kept on leaving our table to take calls outside so we didnโt actually get to enjoy our time togetherโฆ when I asked him later what that was all about he calmly said heโs in the hijacking business ๐ญ
My cousin is just one of those people who believe in an eye for an eye. Itโs her personal dynamic and if you start with her you better prepare for the aftermath. For instance, a distant uncle tried to beat her once (think she was 9) for being โdisrespectfulโ and she told my /1
Hubby got a stable job at some point and rented a place in the city for them to live together. Theyโve got four kids now and sheโs also employed a continues to deny that she ever beat that hun up. From a distance, it actually looks like theyโre okay now. Ends. /14
And, Iโm very very sorry to say because I know yโall like her, but on her deathbed she was asking for donations for her medical bills. While having medical aid and a fairly good salary as a doctor.
side because historically, sheโs been the root of their problems. (My family absolutely knew that my cousin beat her up but in the absence of proof, they stand with her.) Next thing mom in-law decides to insult my family for not raising their kid well. Lol /12
My auntโs retaliate and tell her theyโll beat her up โfor realโ this time for making up such lies about their kid. Sheโs in disbelief. No one is on her side. Anyway, my family reiterated that she wonโt move back in with the in-laws to avoid future conflicts. Everyoneโs happy. /13
uncle gore, โkatse e tlo hwa e te ngwapetลกeโ which basically means, โletโs square up!โ So yeah sheโs just always been like that. However, marriage had tamed her in a way. She has ALWAYS had problems with her mom in-law. Her father in-law would intervene here and there but /2
alone at the house. Apparently insults were thrown around and other general forms of disrespect. My cousin decides to beat her up once and for all. Moghel doesnโt fight back. She just cries. Hubs and his dad come back and cousin asks them to drive her back to her parentโs /9
& that thereโs no way heโs marrying someone else. Cool, he apparently tells the lady to pack her stuff and her kids so he can drive them home. Emotions are obviously high but it is what it is. Husband and dad in-law drive the fertile bbz home, leaving my cousin and mom in-law /8
house. Hysterical mom in-law says she got a beating. Cousin denies and says sheโd never hurt a fly. On some, โbut baby you know me mos? Why would I hurt an old woman?โ
They fail to resolve it and drive her home anyway. Cousin makes it clear that the only time sheโs leaving /10
her parentโs house again is to move into her own house. Not back to his momโs. Cool, both families meet over the weekend. Mom in-law says sheโs emotionally scarred over my cousinโs actions. Cousin continues to deny. Both families agree that itโs hard to take the mom in-lawโs /11
Cousin is obviously angry but she waits for her husband to return in a day or two. On the day hubby gets there, sheโs packed her bags and tells him she wonโt stand for the abuse anymore. Hubby doesnโt like this. Makes it clear that theyโll have kids when theyโre ready /7
it wouldnโt help much in the long run. She had never retaliated. Once she felt she had taken enough shit she came back home. Both families intervened and mapped the way forward. Cool she went back to bogadi. (They lived with her in-laws at the time) /3
Eventually, mom in-law gets impatient with her โbarrenโ makoti and fetches her bestieโs daughter (who has two kids) to live with them, with the intention to get the bestieโs daughter married to her son since she has proven that sheโs fertile. /6
They werenโt besties but they managed to coexist peacefully for the longest time after the family intervention. After a few years mamazala decides to taunt my cousin regarding her not having kids. She lets it go for a while. Idk what agreement her and the husband had re: kids. /4
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Anyway, cousin endures until sheโs had enough. She tells hubby to call his mom to order. Hubby does. However, hubby isnโt always there (he worked in construction and they town hopped a lot). This gave mom in-law reason to abuse my cousin more. /5
My cousin is just one of those people who believe in an eye for an eye. Itโs her personal dynamic and if you start with her you better prepare for the aftermath. For instance, a distant uncle tried to beat her once (think she was 9) for being โdisrespectfulโ and she told my /1
Ladies on Footy Twitter, what particular reward comes with being a patriarchy princess? This is not a safe space but you can tell us anyway because I assume with all the twirling you do, youโll be protected by these losers youโre tryna impress?
The wives of illegal mining kingpins in Carletonville have been arrested for unduly benefiting from the proceeds of crime, and theyโre set to have their assets seized. They were caught because they post their ill-gotten wealth on the clock app ๐คฃ
โI donโt want to go to Sundowns because I wonโt get game timeโ means youโre not confident that you can go head-to-head with the best. I respect it, but it surprises me that other fan bases find this mentality flattering โฆ
โManqoba is not in chargeโ
โNo one knows what Steve is doingโ
โRhulani is not a good coachโ
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I know people who couldnโt get into Model C schools because their fathers are on their birth certificates and wouldnโt cooperate. Nna Iโm begging you to leave men off your childrenโs birth certificates how
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House of Zwide casting a queer person to play a queer role really makes a difference to me. You can see that the actor is in their element with this character. Everything gels really well
How about men start celebrating men as a start? Go ahead and do it. Post ten men worth celebrating in your life. You can do it king - rooting for you!!
This app is one of the places where men are generally not celebrated, I mean sharp we cant post fathers because they shit but are you also saying your brothers are like their fathers?
Since itโs easy to lie to some of yโall who havenโt learnt much about our cultures, enjoy this video of the Batau people of Ga-Mogashoa - under the N. Sotho umbrella. What do we have here? Men in Scottish kilts. Our ancestors wore those โค๏ธ
You are very wrong. It means your fatherโs biological sisters in general regardless of age, as well as their spouses. Your parents Rakgadiโs and their spouses are also referred to as such. Your paternal grandfatherโs same sex siblings daughterโs and their spouses as well
Lizzie canโt be Rakgadi to Mapitsiโs children because sheโs not Tboseโs blood sister. Instead, depending on whoโs older between Kwaito and Tbose, sheโd be Mamogolo or Mmangwane.
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Everyday we hear how Sundowns players are not the best in their respective positions but today they win because they have the resources to buy โthe bestโ talent? Which version is the truth? ๐ฅบ
Telling us that you donโt know who to vote for is no longer cute tbh. If you engaged in matters that affect your community, you would know exactly who to vote for. But you want to make it look like the ANC is the only party available
National team selections are a balance of merit and a coachโs style of play/ideology. Broos has been impartial and true to himself so far. Honestly not complainingโฆ
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Sylvia Monyela had been trying for years to escape her abusive husband and to open cases of abuse against him and the police didnโt take her seriously. Her husband, Lucas Phasha, ended up killing their four kids. He was on parole for murder and attempted murder at the timeโฆ
Murder victim Karabo Mokoena laid charges against her killer Sandile Mantsoe after he assaulted her.
But that docket โdisappearedโ and the case went nowhere.
Our law enforcement system is BROKEN and often easy for abusers to corrupt
Laying charges is very often totally futile
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I could propose that Makhadzi is the best pop star right now and you'll disagree because of the language she sings in, besides other factors. I am now proposing that she's a better lyricist (as per your definition) than all the local rappers who rap in English.