Rules of life, put that shit in your head:
1. Never touch a child or a woman.
2. Never do unnecessary violence
3. Never beat a helpless one
4. Try to solve your problems with words
5. Learn to defend yourself and your loved ones.
This is a practice in Namibia where a bachelor is seduced by the sisters of his bride. If he gets an erection, the marriage is canceled due to believing he will cheat on his wife.