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MULTI-HYPHENATE MAMI. coffee is addicted to me. caribbean. creative. courageous

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@TAP_thecreator
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If you need to reach me for anything business related, please don’t be lazy. My email is literally everywhere. I don’t wanna hear “I DMd u and u didn’t reply” Of course I didn’t, sometimes I be dodging weird ppl there. Be an adult and email 😂 Theycallmetap @gmail .com 📧📧📧📧
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Sit with yourself. Sit with your hurt. Sit with your grief. Sit with your confusion. Sit with your questions. Be transparent with yourself. This is where transformation, deep self love and the real work begins.
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Anytime I feel like panicking, I always say to myself, “when has it never not worked out in the end?” and I calm right down. God has literally never failed me. Ever.
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I unintentionally overstepped a friend’s boundary. She honestly confronted me about it. I realized I was wrong, apologized & offered a way to fix what I did. She said she forgave me & loves me & I thanked her & told her I loved her. My friendship are so healthy & top tier!🥹
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@TAP_thecreator
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The truth is, being a victim of domestic abuse doesn’t have a look. Some of the most outspoken & confident women deal w/ abuse in silence. And it’s a known fact that on average it takes a woman at LEAST 7 tries before she actually leaves. Please show grace to Keke & other women.
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Right now, I don’t need “tough love” or judgement. This isn’t the season for that. I need to be closely surrounded by those who can extend compassion, empathy & softness to me. I need to ppl who understand that despite how well I look or carry things, I’m still carrying things.
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I don’t think u realize how much you’ve been on the receiving end of breadcrumbing until u put an end to it & then open yourself up to other people. Then u see how easily other people are able to give u the things you want when you were begging others to do the same things.
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I deserve a soft life. I deserve ease. I am worthy of it. I receive it. I already have it.
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Let this Mike Todd situation be a reminder: Please know God for yourself. I’m not bashing community. But the truth is, church really isn’t for everyone, especially the way it treats a lot of people in our community: namely, women and queer folk. Connect with God for yourself.
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My social battery definitely isn’t the same anymore. I’ll have spurts where I can be outside but for the most part I wanna stick to myself these days.
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No matter how self aware you are, getting over past traumas and rewiring your brain is very hard.
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ESSENCE magazine made a post that warmed my heart🥹it’s about holiday celebrations in BLACK households & to have CARIBBEAN countries included made me so happy bcuz we’re often left out of the convo & unrecognized when it comes to the BLACK experience. Thank u to whoever did this.
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Re-launch that YouTube channel, re-visit that business idea, re-join that gym class; whatever it is, don’t ever be afraid to try and try again. No matter how many times you’ve started and failed in the past: start again!
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Balloons on my page 🎂♊️6/16🎂♊️
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Like, I really forgot that I attract amazing people with ease and they are people eager to get to know me and give me the world on a platter. All because I was playing mortal kombat with ppl who weren’t aligned and who didn’t like me, lol.
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@TAP_thecreator
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Burnin up🥵☀️
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Spend all day in it 🌴💚
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And honestly, this makes me wonder why have I entertained romantic interests that fall soooooo far below what my friends and I offer and freely give to each other??????
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@TAP_thecreator
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The “why did she stay so long?” And “why did she have a baby with him?”questions don’t help anyone. The way abuse & trauma can alter your brain and effect how you make choices is indeed a thing.
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You can be grateful and still want more for yourself.
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I take my relationships very seriously and my friends are my sisters. If we’re locked in for real, I will always fight for you and if I’m wrong, I have no problems at all apologizing, ever.
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Kendrick, if you intend to respond to the “the heart part 6” response Drake just dropped tonight, make sure it’s no later than 11pm EST time. Tomorrow is the start of the work week and the MET Gala. Wrap it up! 😫
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#EmilyInParis the show villian the actual villian
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Plans change. Life happens. Things go wrong. But never stop trying. Never stop laughing. Never stop looking ahead.
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And this is why Rihanna and persons like her will always win. She’s authentic and stands in the truth of who she is and her imperfections. I really love to see it.
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The woman literally talked about postpartum hair loss & you guys are turning it into something that isn’t 🤦‍♀️
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It’s amazing what people will do when they actually like you and what they want and they don’t like you, lol. It sounds simple but a lot of us haven’t fully grasped the concept and integrated it into our dating life which is why we struggle so much.
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This weekend was so amazing 🥹🎂♊️
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Safe to say he’s so the asexual/aromantic spectrum? So brave of him to talk about this because a lot of people, even in the queer community are totally oblivious to people on this spectrum.
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In a world that amplifies romantic relationships, this was so courageous and bold of Law Roach and I have a new found admiration for him
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Also, women are rarely FULLY supported when they expose their abusers. When it comes to naming your abuser, the cons unfortunately outweigh the pros in this society. So don’t start with the narrative that anyone does this for attention or to set up a man.
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I’m literally going to do everything I said I was gonna do and I’m literally going to have everything I desire. I’m not playing.
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Bigga Mo Memorial Weekend ⛈️💕🇧🇸
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I applaud and support any woman that finds the inner strength and bravery to LEAVE. It’s harder than people would like to think.
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I believe I can be successful without cheating and without scamming people. I believe I can actually be comfortable and well off WHILE HELPING my community.
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Don’t ever for a second think that men don’t know what they’re doing.
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I love that my friends and I are constantly showing each other that we’re in this for the long-haul and we mean enough to each other to always work out our problems.
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No matter what, don’t let this world make you bitter and cold. Maintain your humanity, your kindness and your ability to love.
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The hill I’m willing to die on: CHILDREN should NOT be posted on social media until they are of the age of consent 16-18 years old. Send the cute videos and pics to the family group chat!
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A lot of y’all are scared to live out your true desires because you want other people’s validation and approval so bad.
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Bahamians doing big tings 🥹🇧🇸❤️ Angel Cartwright, Miss Bahamas Universe on the COVER of Harpers Bazaar Serbia. 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
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In a daze✨
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So I finally finished #fromscratchnetflix and all I can say is, at the end of the day, the MOST important thing in this life that we need to be intentional about is RELATIONSHIPS. We NEED people. Everything is pointless without love. The end.
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Ine ga lie, it does hurt a little bit when you still have a soft spot for someone and you see or hear they have moved on. Sometimes, no matter how much therapy, shadow work, affirmations and praying you do, certain things you have to let run its course and let time do the job.
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The Bahamas has the best macaroni aka Mac and cheese in the entire black diaspora and I’m not even being funny or biased.
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This is COLTON ALBURY. He is a predator & abuser. He is also a youth pastor. He sexually assaulted an 11, 13, 15 and 17 year old. Remember this face as he will be back on the streets of The Bahamas in 3-8 years.
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@GuardianNassau
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A disgraced youth pastor was yesterday sentenced to three years in prison for indecently assaulting three girls, ages 11, 15, and 17 in 2017. Colton Albury received the sentence as part of a plea deal after pleading guilty.
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So grateful for supportive, protective and loving friends.
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One thing about me: I am not afraid to pack up and start a new life, start a new career, start a new degree, start a new relationship, be in a new location or just start over! I’ve seen how strong and fearless I can be & life is too short to be attached to one version of myself.
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island gyal spring 🌼🇧🇸🇯🇲
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Staycation with me?
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Girls just wanna have sun ☀️
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I seriously don’t care what sounds unrealistic to other people. I’m getting a life of my dreams. That’s all.
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God really was flexin when creating The Bahamas 😍🥺
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I wanna hear every “I love you” and receive every flower while I’m alive to hear and see it. I intend to do the same for others. Life is so fragile and fleeting. Please don’t hesitate.
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intention AND action. That's where the true magic, delight and balance is.
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It’s a GOOD FRIDAY 🦋🧡✝️
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IYKYK 🇧🇸📍🤤
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The Bahamas from above never gets old.
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It’s my fn birthday 💖🎂♊️ Thankful is an understatement.
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I got soooo many compliments on my nails todayyyy 🏝
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La Flaca takes Cinco de Mayo 🇲🇽😝
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I can’t wait for Cinco de Mayo celebrations tonight with my girls! Call me La Flaca and talk to me nice 😝
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How it started vs How it’s going 🥺 I’m headed to NOLA, y’all 🥳🤯🙏🏾
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Just posted my bday vlog & omg I felt so gorgeous 😭🥹
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Year 32 was about resilience, rebirth and refinement. Year 33 is about restitution, rejuvenation and reward. Happy personal new year to me 🎂
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My peace is more important than a lot of things right now.
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Yeah I’m done with the hyper independence thing. Good riddance to that phase. Accepting ALL the help from people who care for me. Human beings are wired for connection and community. Embrace it.
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Being loved takes work too.
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It’s scary how many men will be drawn to or intentionally seek out women who are bright lights, just to be insecure or resentful because of the very thing they were drawn to. And then, attempt to extinguish and dim their lights and make women feel small.
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You gotta realize that some people really just get a high out of having access to you. They don’t have any serious intentions. They just wanna be able to say they can get your attention or be in connection with you whenever the wind blows or they feel like it.
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Twitter is gonna see it first: I secured an amazing partnership with one of my favorite brands 🥹🪄Can you guess who? 👀 Content drops tomorrow! 💃🏿
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Be kind to yourself. Be careful of the way you speak to yourself, even when you make mistakes. The world beats us all down enough, no point in beating yourself up, too.
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Caught in 4k
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I just be wondering…hear me out…should the purpose of having children be just because you’re fearful of being alone in old age and wanting lifelong personal assistants?
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I just be wondering…hear me out…who gonna wipe y’all old selfish asses if y’all don’t have no kids and/or you hate y’all kids? I want to hear real answers. And don’t say y’all gonna have elderly care cause that’s not a reality for MOST Americans…
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I think a lot of yall are scary and boring? Lol. I assume anyone I’m not exclusive with is talking to someone or dating someone else and that’s okay. Time will reveal if I’m the best suited person for that person or if others are better suited for me. What’s the big deal?
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I do not believe in competitive dating. I will gladly take the L and let someone else handle it.
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If you can’t do that, fuck you very much 🙂
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Idk who needs to hear this but GOD loves you and has NOT forgotten about you and your concerns.
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Took a break to get some food and thought I saw a steak out, it ended up being someone’s family reunion and they still gave me a plate 😂 S/O the Petty/Stubbs/Demerrite family lol🇧🇸
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Suck da pum pum like a freeze cup or whatever @ThegirlJT said 🥤🧊
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If u live in The Bahamas or anywhere where the power goes out a lot, get you one of these! Power was off for 7 hours & it kept my wifi box and phone charged so I was comfy. Would have lasted longer if I didn’t have the tv plugged in too 😂 Netflix on my phone next time.
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My #mua & friend put her🦶🏿in dis @l0ve_ge 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
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Bahamians only, look who I ran into 😩🇧🇸🧀
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I read this scripture everyday during the darkest season of my life: “So do not throw away your confidence; it will be richly rewarded. You need to persevere so that when you have done the will of God, you will receive what he has promised.” Hebrews 10:35-36 I hope this helps.
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Lol why do y’all keep calling us “Caribbeans”? This is a serious question.
@celesitial
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the “excuse me?!” goes crazyyy why are caribbeans like this 🤣
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Them: I know that’s some man’s boat you on! Me:
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Just a reminder if you sign up with NHI, you can get tested for STDs for FREE and there are tons of options that offer at least free HIV testing. Let’s normalize this and normalize talking about std results and sharing them before we go to pound town with people.
@Tribune242
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GRAND BAHAMA NUMBERS FOR SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED INFECTIONS SEE INCREASE Grand Bahama is on track to record more sexually transmitted infections this year than in 2022.
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Speaking a week of confirmations, contracts and congratulations over your life today and this week!
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Ladies, be honest, do you have a “one that got away” or guy you “fumbled”?
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Trust me when I say, you HAVE no idea what people are going through: the cashier at the restaurant u get lunch from today, the pump attendant, even your close friends. Make an effort to be KIND and patient today and do NOT assume the worst about people.
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Hi, Barbie! 💖 👋🏿
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I am over the moon for Angela White aka Blac Chyna! So refreshing and inspiring. And this is why you never count people out, never judge, and always love on people, because whenever GOD is ready to use them, GOD will.
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Energy >>>>>>>>>
@LeArielleSimone
holistic mami✨
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my bf be having me cryin 😂
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I want the girls in their 20s to not be tricked! These are not the only best years of your life, even better is to come! I’m in my 30s and legit feel like I’m just stepping into my prime.
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Little Miss can’t sleep cause she’s up thinking about how to “fix” every single thing wrong in her life 🙃
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@thekayanova I had to stop watching. 😩 I’m not used to crying THAT much
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I just wanna add my 5 cents 🥺 & say in order to encourage ppl to have safe sex & talk about their status more, we have to stop demonizing ppl who may contract STDs. This idea that ppl who get STDs r “dirty” or “loose” & the blame/shame game doesn’t help us to destigmatize at all
@PsychMasterFlex
Mr. Pot Scraper 🦉♎🇯🇲🇧🇸
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Btw the reason this happening, is because the same small group of niggas who poppin grinding plenty of yall, and they skinning yall. And yall happy cause they got couple dollars. Go take yall test tho.
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Majority of adults are NOT doing the REAL WORK- emotionally, mentally & spiritually. That’s why there is so much conflict, damage & trauma in the majority of relationships- friendship, family, romantic. Ppl keep running away from the parts of themselves they need to face & heal.
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Putting the mistletoe above my coochie 🥹😊
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I’m a savage X fenty partner 🥹🥹🥹🥹
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A hill I’m willing to die on is that (a lot of) Bahamian men LOVE bad treatment. The moment you actually give them the time of day & are nice and reciprocal, they start acting super idiotic. A lot of them like all the cussin out, mind games & chasing with no real destination.
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@Oloni Women go through too much and it’s important we share our stories (doesn’t have to be on the Internet can be with your close personal friends) as a part of our release and healing.
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Idk if it’s an unpopular opinion or not but I’ve been doing some observing & a lot of Bahamian parents are simply mean to their children. Like, the way they talk to them is so unnecessary. Discipline doesn’t have to be derogatory and love doesn’t have to be tough.
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It’s so beautiful when you get to the point in your life where regardless of how things turned out, good or bad expected or unexpected, you have peace.
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@shaTIRED Leave us alone 😩
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