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I'm open about my ND struggles and try to help others through their struggles. That's about it 🌳 📚 ❤️

Wales, United Kingdom
Joined July 2022
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@fesshole I've just found out I was left out of a hen do that happened a few weeks ago and I didn't even know about it. I, too, have walked out of their lives.
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@clhubes Always accept their gifts too, like the little stones they hand you because it's all they have and they chose to give it to you 🥰 My ex partner's 2 yr old does this to me, he might not be mine but he's still a child giving me gifts
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@SydDivineTarot It's gonna ba Libra or Aquarius
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@fesshole Cheaters are always projecting onto the partner that they could be cheating
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@fesshole "I'm very sorry but I'm not able to help this week, could I drop by maybe in a couple of weeks when I've caught up with myself?" They might not be aware or it might be that you are their only company.
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@simonharris_mbd I've said it many times & I'll keep saying it. I did everything by the book during pregnancy but my boobs just DIDN'T WORK despite the midwives & HVs helping. There's a multitude of reasons why formula is chosen, it's not laziness.
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@Theholisticpsyc Occasionally "no-one's interested in what I have to say". Might be related to middle child syndrome 🤷‍♀️
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@starryeyemystic Scorpio - till they DIE ☠️
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@mnp_47 @itsnashflynn My daughter when she was 4 would get upset at the old man with beard in her room. When she went to her dad's I explained to her dead grandfather that she could see him, it scared her and could he drop by when she was asleep instead. She never mentioned him again.
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@DENA_MATTAUSCH @silentkil_er All biscuits are biscuits but we have levels of biscuits. Plain biscuits to "the good biscuits". Digestives - crap dry blargh. Cookies also biscuits but good biscuits. All biscuits can be dunked in tea (fight me).
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@mattcoyney I once smiled politely at a police officer. It was a window sticker on the door of Home Bargains. I also smiled politely at a very smiley woman in Boots. She was a cardboard cut out.
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@empressatlantis Scorpio moon, my mug right now:
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@fesshole If it's a local council you have my utmost respect. The county council next door to mine is literally and obviously draining the public funds and no-one will do anything. They're untouchable apparently.
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@IAPonomarenko So in layman's terms U faked attacking somewhere so R would move all its troops there to defend, thus leaving somewhere important lightly defended, then U cut all these troops off by attacking behind and gaining ground them?
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@fesshole If you're UK look out for local men sheds, they are socialising groups for men and usually involve woodworking, fixing bikes etc to keep them busy
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@somethingelsetm @ItsEmilyKaty I don't advise uni - you get to read lots (yay) but they expect you to write about it too (pfftt)
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@mission__belle @itsnashflynn I studied the origins of fairy-tales in uni and this is pretty much an accurate description!
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Eigg standing stone, re-erected in the 90s when the community purchased the island from their absent landlord. Beautiful island with a very welcoming environment - even the sheep was saying hello! #StandingStoneSunday
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@AstroByMax Am I doing it right?
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@fesshole I had a friend who frequently drove after heavy drinking. If I ever got the chance I would hide her keys somewhere like the sugar pot and she would have to phone me in the morning to get them back. Must have saved her and other's lives numerous times. We're not friends any more.
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@invitinghistory Even as an undergraduate I found authors who are held in such esteem and yet when you check their sources - very dodgy. One source you can't track because it 'disappeared' over time but is used repeatedly in other's work 🤷‍♀️ It's not even questioned!
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@Morbidful There was a similar case in UK where the parents left their disabled daughter to pretty much rot to death in her bed due to their laziness. They fed her takeaways & cake til she became obese, stopped taking her to the toilet & used puppy mats. It was absolutely heartbreaking.
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@OOTDbyRosie @fesshole People change when weddings are organised, I've seen it so many times
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@Teenygozer @fesshole I was removed from thr bridesmaid list with the excuse that it would be easier as I was a single parent and needed childcare, when in fact it was because I lost weight and the bride didn't. I was replaced in 24hrs
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@simonharris_mbd I'll say it again. The media have got people losing their minds over a family they don't know, have never met, and have only seen them carry out heavily choreographed performances.
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@TudorChick1501 My sister died two weeks before Diana. I was sent to stay with some family friends who decided it was appropriate to all watch Diana's funeral right after I'd been to my sister's. I won't be watching the Queen's because it hits a trauma nerve I didn't know existed until now.
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@fesshole As a single parent I hope to God I'm not with you guys because this fess makes me feel sick. This is nothing to be proud of.
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@fesshole I need a... No, I don't.... I need a.... No, I dont... I need a... No, I don't...
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@fesshole They've built some by us, half mil each. 90% of the day they're in the shade of a mountain and in winter, a constantly damp area because it doesn't get sun. View is of the asbestos roof of the local garage. Just one's lived in...by the builder.
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@fawfulfan @SpeakerPelosi Sorry if I sound ignorant, was Pelosi on site when she was having these conversations, because I am so impressed by how calm and assertive she is. (I'm UK)
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@DrIndyEinstein Noooo wayyyy this is so sad because I dreamt that all was cool with us again and it was such a lovely feeling 😔
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@witti_indi Can I add we don't do this on purpose, we're not horrible people looking for weak spots through which we can manipulate you. I hate that I can do this - sometimes I wish I was ignorant to what other people felt.
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@mjs2022121272 @TomLondon6 Hi, NHS worker here, have2children. Don't have any of the above you've listed apart from a car, can't afford them. Kids are fed, I'm sat here very hungry which is a regular thing despite the hours I work. Please tell me how to fix it, you seem to to have the answer for everyone?
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@KayanaRich I've literally had no trouble this retrograde but a hell of a lot of epiphanies, started to think I was retrograding wrong lol 🤷‍♀️
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@jonathanmb32 I hadn't seen the film when they awarded the Oscar posthumously and I cynically thought it was done just out of respect. When I saw the film I was blown away and it's one of my favourite comfort films, he absolutely without a doubt deserved it.
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@roses4viv @abby_e_o As a British person this is INSANE 😬
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@AstroByMax Calamities around water omg the Baltimore bridge 😥
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@I_amMukhtar It's Milly Dowler I can't get over. I mean, how could they??
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@EssElle_D @fesshole I've known something was up since last autumn and I found out by accident the other night. Now I know I can move on without thinking I'm just being paranoid 🙄
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Bought a scratchcard today using numbers from the episode of #Hellier where they interview Alan Greenfield. Won a tenner👍 A balloon should appear any minute....
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@Work_Ethic_ @HomeGirlsUnite I'm 40, mum of two including a daughter with financial independence and support her views. Her parents were clearly controlling, as were mine. I love seeing my daughter's independence and make her decisions, it was my job to raise her to not need me.
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@TudorChick1501 The anniversary of his mum's death has not long passed, I can't imagine how he is inside his head the poor lad
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@obscurepluto Believe it or not I have found exercise helps, the harder the better because I'm focusing so much on not dying I can't pay any attention to my overthinking😂
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@fesshole I'm the ex in a situation like this and I know she won't leave him because she's slagged me off so much in the past having listened to him, she doesn't want to be wrong and end up in my shoes even though it's SO much better than being with him. It's sad to watch but her choice.
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@justthinking_2 @fawfulfan @SpeakerPelosi It's both sad and impressive to watch I'm not massively clued up on USA politics (ours are atrocious!) but she seems a solid leader by her actions despite what was going on - and she was watching it live coming towards her. No tremor in her voice or anything.
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@Emmijen I've been here before - I have to leave it all behind and start again without nostalgia for the past. They were not 'simpler times', they are simply fond memories and presented their own challenges at the time. I can do it again, so let's step up to it! ❤️
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Finished series 1 of #Hellier , watched intro of series 2 - "something that was already waiting for us to find it". Paused it, went in kitchen to make a cup of tea. Fridge magnet falls to ground, the magnet I bought at York Museum, UK. The museum I went to 1/2
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@supermoongirl9 We don't ask, people just TELL US EVERYTHING!
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@kemimarie I'm a Scorpio moon and I vanish after a few drinks 😂 I can usually be found on the dance floor dancing on my own!
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@Kelly_G_X @NoContextBrits No word of a lie everything around me went silent when I saw that, then my eyes darted round looking for the missing word....
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@anon_opin Can we still say we like Father Ted 😬😬😬
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@TicsnTatts Saying you'll meet up with no actual plans to do so. Even worse, saying it in front of kids. Don't do that.
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@FloellaBenjamin Without sounding self-pitying I have very few memories of feeling comfort and normality in my formative years but that's what I feel when I see your image. However you did it, thank you for being my safe space ❤️
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@millymichelle *cries in 10th house*
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@NickTrodd @campbellclaret @PrifWeinidog @MarkDrakeford No it was a man doing the best he could with the scraps given to him, losing his shit when asked why things were bad by the people handing out the crumbs and thinking he should be grateful.
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@neuro_lou I've failed interviews and been passed for jobs because I simply cannot navigate office politics 😔 It's a foreign language. How do you know what to say, when to say it, how to say it? How do they get it so right and make friends? Why am I always wrong?
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@starheal I see them for who they are, not who I want them to be. I stopped making excuses for their behaviour
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@pantsofperil @fesshole The celebration before the bride is married. Groom's equivalent is called the stag do
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@TarotByBronx Asking for advice from other Scorpio moons - how do you keep friends??? I'm so sick of the hate that eventually comes from someone who knows how to hurt you hardest 😔
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@rod_earle My MA dissertation heavily used Goffman too but for asylums- I despise the word institution now. . I plan for my PhD to be on the penal system and these kind of experiences are what I want to represent.
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@anon_opin Why do phones have to be so smooth?? Give them friction and we'll stop dropping them!
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@pyrtiresias One boundary that's been overstepped is that I won't be spoken to like dirt or be made to feel guilty when I didn't do anything wrong. I don't think I needed to tell them that and now they're gonnnnnne byeeeeee
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Auld Wives' Lift in Glasgow, Scotland is located in a natural bowl in a peat bog. No-one's 100% if it's a burial chamber or was left this way by a receding glacier. It's covered in incredible graffiti from over the centuries #StandingStoneSunday Image: Ancient Scotland*
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@supermoongirl9 I have lilith in 1st and this rings SO true it makes me uncomfortable. A lot of the times I find myself saying "what's the point in trying to help if people just hate me, I'll just keep it to myself," but fortunately it passes
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@bame_sanah I tried warning someone, we haven't spoken in 9 years after she called me bitter and jealous. Er OK. Good luck 👌
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Because they were letting me into their warehouse to see archaeological evidence of the worship in the area of Roman genus loci. Aka Faunus. Aka PAN. Fastest #synchronicity ever?
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@DocBrownLloyd Hopefully you'll see this and maybe pass it on - my sis died at 18 in '97 and on the last home video we have of her, the first BTTF is playing in the background so it has special significance to me, thank you. (It's the scene at the dance if you're wondering) 🙂
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@Emerah I know who's doing it to me and the hilarious thing is, when you compare us from the outside she has everything I don't. And yet she's watching me?
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@fesshole I have similar when getting to the bottom of a yogurt after staying with a family at 15 who took the piss of how I scraped it with the spoon. I'm 41.
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@Emmijen I've heard someone else describe this time as "you only got one shot, do not miss your chance to blow, this opportunity comes once in a lifetime" and if I'm honest, everything is falling apart around me right now & I'm panicking I'll miss it with the stress 🥺
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@Emmijen This Scorpio moon has decided she is going to write two bestsellers books and live in the middle of nowhere in the Scottish Highlands. I will chop my own wood like they do in films and one day a tired cop will pull up outside asking for my help in a strange case.......
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@Sorrelish The PIP process would be happy with people dying in the gutter if it meant they were out of the way.
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@Violettaqx @ChaoticwithaK @witti_indi Rising and moon here, work in a room full of negative people and I am literally the only positive one there. Like an annoying sparkly little star in their dark lives 😂
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I gave my 9yr old £10. He spent some in Subway, gave some to a homeless man then came home and made a PowerPoint and why we should help others when we can. Omg my heart ❤️
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@librastrology_ 12th - they don't exist 😂
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@supermoongirl9 Me overaharing then my Scorpio moon ensuring I never speak to them again.
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@LETSGO33456 @yungdesperad0 I have 12h too but most of the time I have NO clue why people are jealous!! The mystery of the 12h!
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@AstroByMax There are very few times I feel powerful, and this is one. Usually, I'm just trying to exist being a Scorpio rising!!
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@MaxAlbedo @SaulStaniforth @RMTunion Why didn't anyone step in???
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@fesshole As someone whose dad never bothered....please try. Just go and try. Had my dad done that it would have changed the course of my life.
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@SamWhyte My g grandad was raging alcoholic because he lost his wife after childbirth of their second who also died, the neighbours raised my grandad. He grew up angry at everything & abusive, my nan a timid mouse, my dad ended up abusive.
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@keeper_of_books 👋👋👋
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@SydDivineTarot I have Scorpio moon. Once you embrace it, it's so empowering ❤️ Wouldn't swap it for the world
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@simonharris_mbd People who hold views like hers genuinely don't realise how easily poverty can happen to them and at this rate, may very well happen to them. To them, they haven't been affected as much as others, therefore others must be doing life wrong.
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@mgmatt1983 @anon_opin *plastic bit stabs me in the lip
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@fesshole Fixed it for you
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@eneswithnfts @crazyclipsonly My dog with something in her mouth that she shouldn't have
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@kemimarie 3rd house, always being left out. Goes well with the hidden enemies of my 12h.
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@fesshole It's the ones where they clearly enjoy upsetting their partner or relish in seeing them uncomfortable which make me worry what else goes on begond closed doors that the partner is being "over sensitive" to "over reacting" to 🤷‍♀️
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@yogigirl626 @liverational22 @Gardenmorning13 You can't destroy energy, it takes other forms.
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@mjs2022121272 @TomLondon6 Ps work more hours? Comes out my UC. Lower my bills? Already did to the bone. Cheaper house? There are none, been searching for 8 years. Dad pays maintenance, CSA sets the rates. Use food banks, uniform recycling centres etc. Why, if you're ok, tell us we should be?
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@simonharris_mbd School: " Children must bring a named water bottle into school" 10 yr old son: "I've named it Bob"
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@dgn_893x @Killistoxo THIS, I've heard "things are coming to you" SO MUCH for the last year I've given up
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@bsd_junkie @chrisshipitv @AP Turn your phone upside down - her hand's upside down. That's her little finger at the top with the knuckle further back.
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@fesshole I lost my best friend when she met her now-husband, she changed overnight. I miss her horribly every day but having tried already to offer an olive branch, I know she is definitely a different person.
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