Stop listening to sad music.
Stop watching sad movies.
Stop watching sad news.
Stop reading sad books.
You surround yourself with sadness and depression and you wonder why you feel like shit all the time.
Watch what you’re consuming.
It has a massive effect on your life.
Without confidence, you'll never talk to that girl you like.
You'll never have the guts to ask for that promotion.
You'll never feel ready to start that business.
You'll never feel sure about the path you're walking.
You need unbreakable confidence to lead your own life.
@SaveYourSons
Most women don’t understand how lonely most men are nowadays.
We’ve done away with men groups and isolated men to the point where it requires massive effort to form strong bonds and male friendships.
If you don’t have such a group, try to build it. Not only for you but for
On X everyone is rich.
On IG everyone lives a beautiful lifestyle.
On Linkedin everyone is successful.
In real life most are lonely, insecure, and sad.
Don’t take social media seriously.
It’s 99% fake.
Touch grass and be with your loved ones.
That’s the real flex.
@LifeMathMoney
Your 20's are not the time for balance.
That comes later, after you've built something worthwhile.
If you're in your 20's, don't seek balance. Seek speed and explosive growth.
Anxiety is simply a consequence of overthinking.
You start imagining scenarios about what could go wrong and feel as if they were real.
The easiest way to control this?
ACTION.
Impossible to feel anxious when you’re in flow state, taking action towards meaningful goals.
As a man, you need to be able to thrive in the chaos.
Read that again: not "tolerate" but "thrive".
You need to be able to perform even when under pressure, with bloodshot eyes and sleep deprivation, while traveling around with your routine all messed up.
Too many
Never forget you are 100% in control of your life.
Hate your job? You can quit.
Hate where you live? You can move.
Hate the people around you? You can choose new friends.
Not saying it’ll be easy. But it’s possible.
All it takes is a choice + the commitment to make it happen.
Stop idolizing men.
So many on here literally worshipping Tate, Hormozi, Jordan Peterson, etc.
They are all men with good things and bad things. Like all of us.
Nothing gheyer than worshipping another dude and trying to copy all they do.
Worship The Lord and no one else ✝️
@lamxnt
@jakeyngblood
You need to be IRRATIONALLY self-confident.
Zero doubts allowed in your mind.
Everything is set up for you to win.
Just go out and grab what you want.
Me 8 years ago:
• Skinny as hell
• Rebellious against God
• Lost and insecure
Me now:
• Athletic and strong
• A servant of Christ
• Confidence through the roof
This can happen to you too.
Here's how I did it:
Stop caring about things that don't have anything to do with you.
You don't need to have an opinion nor be emotionally attached to every tragedy, every war, every drama.
Focus on you and the things close to you. Your attention is a limited asset.
Use it well.
There’s no finish line.
You need to come to terms with that fact. You’ll always be wrestling against difficulties.
There’ll be moments of peace and quiet, but you can’t let yourself think that someday you’ll be free of all struggle.
Not the reality of life.
No amount of money is worth selling your soul for.
So many betray their ideals, changing who they are for money and turning on those who were there for them since the beginning in the hopes of making an easy buck.
Don’t ever do this. Divine justice is real. Guard your soul.
“I’ll get it done”
That’s the kind of energy you want.
Even when you have no idea how.
You’ll find the solution afterwards.
This makes you look superhuman. Your confidence skyrockets.
Everyone around you respects you instantly.
Be the man that steps up and comes through.
You attract what you are.
Baffling how most don’t understand this simple concept.
“Oh, all women I date are h03s.”
My brother, that speaks more about you than about women.
I’ll be honest with you:
I feel like quitting.
I feel the temptation to just drop everything and be mediocre from time to time.
I understand the appeal of comfort.
I understand how tough it is to stay in the fight when you feel like you’re not there yet.
When your efforts
@EgoDriv
Sad to see JPs downfall over the last couple of years.
I loved his books, and his original content was good too.
His current rants against anonymity and the constant crying are not it though.
For your new life to begin, you need to completely leave your old life behind.
Stop worrying about what your old friends from school will think. Chances are you’ll never even see them again.
Set your gaze forward.
A man that can't control his emotions is a man that can't be trusted.
The game of life has a lots of ups and downs.
You need to be able to remain framed throughout it all or you'll suffer unnecessarily and be pushed around like a bag in the wind.
Keep your emotions in check.
@jerr_rrej
The interesting thing is that Christianity, when interpreted correctly, is anything BUT a weak and soft ideology of "mindless tolerance".
"Think not that I am come to send peace on earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword."
Being a man is often doing shit you don't want to do.
You can whine and complain OR you can step up and do the things you need to do.
Which one do you think is the right choice?
Exactly. Stop lying to yourself and be a man.
Not being confident means you'll never live the life you want.
I wrote a 17 page document telling you EXACTLY how you can build unbreakable self-confidence using 5 simple steps.
Retweet + Comment "YES" and I'll send it to you.
Must be following so I can DM.
Just wrote a 17 page doc breaking down exactly how I went from insecure and socially awkward to extremely confident and driven & how you can do the same.
- 5 simple steps
- Applicable right now
Retweet + comment "YES" and I'll DM it to you.
(Must be following so I can DM)
You are either OBSESSED and fully committed to growth and self-improvement, or you’re already on a downward path to catastrophic failure.
Borderline insanity is what’s required to keep pushing through all the disappointments.
No middle ground for a man.
@ZssBecker
I’m 26 and most men I grew up with are still the same people they were in highschool.
There’s no sign of anything changing for the rest of their lives.
It’s a terrible thing to remain stuck like this.
Confidence is not just an inner feeling.
It's a comprehensive skill that you project in everything you do.
How you move, how you speak, how you dress, how you think.
All those things can signal either confidence or insecurity.
Choose what you want to be.
True confidence is often silent.
The man that can project an aura of respect, security, and competence without having to preach about his worth is usually the most confident.
That’s the kind of ABSOLUTE confidence you want to build.
A fatal mistake I’ve seen many of us make is that we long too strongly for past times.
And while I understand the appeal of daydreaming about eras long gone in which a man was free to act as a man should, we need to understand that the past is dead and it will never be
Times are changing quickly.
The spiritual war is accelerating. More and more people are choosing sides and leaving neutrality behind.
Things are escalating. This year will be very interesting.
Stop listening to sad music.
Stop watching sad movies.
Stop watching sad news.
Stop reading sad books.
You surround yourself with sadness and depression and you wonder why you feel like shit all the time.
Watch what you’re consuming.
It has a massive effect on your life.
Who are you when you’ve been knocked down?
That’s the only thing that matters.
Anyone can be confident and optimistic when everything’s going great. That’s easy.
Who you are when you’re bleeding and broken is who you REALLY are.
It’s difficult to respect a man that doesn’t do what he says he’ll do.
You’re only as good as your word.
This is not a difficult concept.
���Oh but I changed my mind”
You should’ve thought of that before speaking the words then.
If you want people to respect you, start there.
@MrOverprayed
Literally another version of the subway surfer clips under reels.
It’s an attention span thing. Can’t focus on simply exercising so they need to keep their mind jumping from one stimuli to the next.
Crazy.
Never before has it been easier to be a top 1% man.
Most are addicted to porn, videogames, shitty food and weed or alcohol.
You have a world of information at your fingertips.
Refuse to fall into vices and commit to taking actions to improve and it's impossible you fail.
I've been on Twitter for just over a month.
The best thing about this journey is the people that you get to meet, and who end up adding massive value to your life.
Here's 5 accounts that have helped me grow as a man, and that will help you greatly too 🧵
No wonder you're insecure when you never challenge yourself and always take the easy route.
Confidence comes from overcoming tough shit.
Challenge yourself daily and your confidence will build up very quickly.
Stop listening to sad music.
Stop watching sad movies.
Stop watching sad news.
Stop reading sad books.
You surround yourself with sadness and depression and you wonder why you feel like shit all the time.
Watch what you’re consuming.
It has a massive effect on your life.
I’ve been realizing this lately.
Some have that all-consuming fire in their souls. And they will either make it or die trying.
Some don’t. And they will forever live as passengers.
It’s simple really.
Advice only gets you so far.
Life is a mind game.
You’re either mentally strong enough to get through the pain of growth.
Or you’re too weak and live in the endless suffering of mediocrity.
Not everyone will make it.
And this is what makes the difference
You've been programmed for insecurity and fear by the modern world.
There are 5 incredibly effective mental models to reprogram your mindset to bring confidence, resilience and self-esteem.
RT + comment "Mindset" and I'll DM them to you
(Must be following so I can DM).
This really feels like a big accomplishment.
It’s not easy, growing an account. It truly takes a lot of discipline and resilience.
When your posts don’t get any reach.
When you spend time and effort into creating something no one ends up appreciating.
When you see others way
Most men underestimate how powerful their mind is.
They see themselves as lacking control over it.
Whatever they feel seems non-negotiable.
I’m here to tell you you are in full control.
Feel down? You can choose to feel better.
You can do things that elevate you.
Do them.
First step to achieving your goals is believing they’re possible.
This is why near irrational self-confidence is key.
Need to be convinced that you’ll get there, no matter what happens.
Otherwise you’ll find excuses to quit at every step.
“I’ll get it done”
That’s the kind of energy you want.
Even when you have no idea how.
You’ll find the solution afterwards.
This makes you look superhuman. Your confidence skyrockets.
Everyone around you respects you instantly.
Be the man that steps up and comes through.
You earn respect by being true to your values even when it's difficult.
You earn respect when you keep your promises and stay true to your word.
You don't "deserve" respect if you are not doing those things.
All you really need to succeed is a big pair of balls and a relentless mindset.
Risk taking + consistency and patience will get you there.
No way to win if you’re scared of everything and quit at the first sign of trouble.
Nobody owes you their respect.
Respect is something that you earn every day.
So before you go around feeling bad because you're not "respected", ask yourself this:
Do you even look respectable?
Something to consider.
@MenMoneyMindset
Time is kind to some men.
To those that put in the work and actively seek improvement.
The mediocre and lazy will become worse and worse with time.
I've been doing the self-improvement thing for 8 years.
I've consumed tons of books, videos, articles, podcasts, and so on.
Some terrible, some good, and a select few that completely changed my life.
These are the 5 resources that skyrocketed my development.
Confidence comes from competence.
At the end of the day, you won’t feel insecure with a long list of achievements behind you.
The lesson?
Get those wins. Overcome challenges.
Build a track record of competence.
A man finds purpose in responsibility and sacrifice.
Feeling lost, unmotivated, scared?
How about you try to challenge yourself and practice some self-restraint and sacrifice?
You shouldn’t focus on “balance” if you’re a man in his 20s.
There’s plenty of time for that later.
Right now you need speed. You need FIRE.
What you do NOW will determine the kind of “balance” you’ll enjoy later.
Learn to sacrifice for the future that you want.
You have a responsibility to stand up for yourself and your beliefs.
To speak up and claim what you’re worth.
You letting others push you around is an insult to the man you could’ve been.
Build the confidence you need to earn that respect.
Confident men don’t spend their time making up stories in their minds about what could go wrong.
Of course you’ll be anxious and insecure if you’re doing that.
How do you expect to be bold, fearless and upfront if you’re always placing doomsday scenarios in your head?
The
Be unblackpillable.
Throughout it all, maintain a spirit of optimism and faith.
Yes the world is dark at times.
Yes life will get tough.
So what? Will you let that turn you into a nihilistic loser?
Choose to bring light into the world instead. No black pills, ever.
Where will you be at 50 if you keep being insecure and a pushover?
How will your life look like if you never take the lead for your own life?
What kind of man will you be then if you don't stop being afraid all the time?
What kind of social and romantic life will you have if