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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@lovedoveclarke Reminds me of my mom reading a poem about losing my virginity while I was at Christian camp then crying when she asked me about it when I came home, as if she didn’t read a book I kept hidden with over 100 entries to get to that part like babes… I’m the victim. Wipe your face 💀

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@IWriteAllDay_ I was getting washed on TikTok for weeks because I said True Crime is used to advance classist/racist/xenophobic views by socially mobile women & actively changes their worldview to be more apathetic towards disagreeable survivors. They said I was reaching!

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@3ch0___ After that first “Good Morning Beautiful” voice memo with that deep ass sleepy voice…? I’m gone

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@ShakingSheetss

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@RealGayArbys I work in oncology and have this convo with patients DAILY. Since our practice dropped mask mandates, we’re not allowed to be “suggestive” about mask wearing but I get lots of questions cause I’m the only one who still does. Ppl think recent infections are immunity & it’s scary

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@ShakingSheetss

10 months

@WrittenByHanna And every time I see comments thanking them for “explaining things in a way that makes sense” a little part of me shrivels up and dies

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@shaTIRED Eustace & Muriel from Courage the Cowardly Dog. My boy was fighting for his life daily and they was picking earwax, arguing over a staticky tv- had me hot

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@kemimarie We’re being fucked up, need an emotional tranquilizer asap 🫠

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@ShakingSheetss

9 months

@shaTIRED The bus to hell never looked better

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@lovedoveclarke Made a video on TikTok about that this week cause the girlies put fingers in their ears when current/former sworkers tell them all that “female dating strategy” is just co-opting SW tactics. I’m tired of women trying to gain moral high ground at the expense of SW’s!

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@angryangeltears I teach sex ed/kink to adults & distinctions like these are lost to a lot of them. The idea that desire, “libido” and arousal can all be mutually exclusive blows a lot of minds. Most of my clients struggled for years to have “good sex” because they were viewing sex wrong!

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

That kind of talk (that you’re QT’ing) is what happens when people adopt the language of abolition & transformative justice with little to none of the politic or praxis. How can the path to recover/rehabilitation be earnest if we have to diminish the abuses that took/take place?

King Pierre. 🦁🇭🇹🇵🇸🇸🇩🇨🇩

@pierrefleury_

2 years

How can we give someone space for rehabilitation when they have the resources to get rehabilitated, but actively choose to abuse other people and then lie about said abuse? He doesn’t have to wait for us to get help. He can simply pay for it.

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@WrittenByHanna They don’t lack the range and it’s clear. Got me scared for these kids!!! No arithmetic, just Ashwagandha. No science, just Sebi 😩😩

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@ShakingSheetss

9 months

@WrittenByHanna And both were medicalized & popularized to cover up gross negligence on behalf of police so … 😬😬

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@shaTIRED I’m blaming this all on anti intellectualism making massive strides. If one raises concerns about anything, the first thing out of people’s mouths is “it’s not that deep” when we know good and well… it’s always that deep!

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@shaTIRED As a DV survivor… it really scuffs my timbs when people do that. Like what does it say about you that people have to “earn” your time & energy by jumping through hoops? That’s a 🚩 & not so different from forms of manipulation used by abusers & chronic manipulators alike

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@ShakingSheetss

1 year

@shaTIRED Listen… I was tight, like me and the lady next to me started cussing when people were screaming! We know who was bad at Simon says, damn 🫠🫠

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@shaTIRED I’m on TikTok rn fighting for my life in the comments cause I, a sex educator, pointed out that there’s no conclusive evidence that porn addiction exist & folx are telling me it doesn’t matter cause “the end justify the means” & it feels connected to this anti intellectual push

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@lovedoveclarke I’m a sex educator & the amount of people genuinely disturbed by squirt bothers me. Sex includes fluids! If you’re not queasy about sweat or cum… you’ll be aight around a little urethral fluid & female ejaculate

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@pierrefleury_ As a sex educator, this conversation makes my head spin because sex “drive” doesn’t exist! It’s a system (in the 🧠) that is context specific & informed by society. So the solution is creating an environment that encourages leaning towards sex naturally, not by force. 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@lovedoveclarke When the gig economy has you playing mission impossible for minimum wage 💀 no but seriously, I’d have waitressed longer if we had this at the restaurants I worked at!

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@ShakingSheetss

3 years

@tlmrnx It falls under the umbrella of Reproductive Coercion, a type of DV approx. 30% of women and teen girls go through. That number gets higher as well, when the abusive partner suspects their victim attempting to leave. It’s as effective making women stay as financial abuse is

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@ShakingSheetss

9 months

@queersocialism Yes, everything has become a QVC operation. I posit it’s part of the reason we’re so removed from the horrors required to sustain our consumerism as a populace because we understand that often times we’re the product as well, doesn’t excuse the complicity but… something to note

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@DeejayCombs We used to be a country!! 😭

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@brit_too_lit_ @Shomicita @MaryashMiss Sex Educator here… over 60% of unintended pregnancies occur while using a birth control method. There’s a barrier to sex healthcare for Black & Poor folx. The majority will still carry to term even with the highest maternal mortality in the West- the failure is systemic ≠ moral

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@ShakingSheetss

3 years

I think forgiveness is heavily attached to morality & as survivors, it’s used as a tool against us to never address the abusers accountability, I don’t think forgiveness is imperative to healing sort of #doveclarkesafespace

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@sunnydrip This transit in my 10th house must mean my career is going to get more expansive & profitable. It must! 😬😬🙏🏾🙏🏾

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@Sttarkus @girIfaiI Sex Educator here-the vibrator as treatment for hysteria is a myth. There was pelvic floor therapy treatment that involved digital exams but it was non sexual & diagnostic in nature.The abuse of MI women were usually reserved for institutions such as asylums & psych hospitals

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@ShakingSheetss

6 months

@pierrefleury_ Not while I’m ovulating Pierre, please!

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@kemimarie If I knew you were looking… I could have recommended one. I’m a Queer Sex Educator, that’s what I do! Lmao

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

That rhetoric, the 2nd “rule” is frequently deployed by civilians & brings active harm to everyone, but sex workers especially. No one can pay for consent & the public endorsing the “sells pussy=consent” myth aids the violences SW’s face at work & strengthens rape culture

King Pierre. 🦁🇭🇹🇵🇸🇸🇩🇨🇩

@pierrefleury_

2 years

Fuck it. Rule #1 : Dont be a predator. Rule #2 : Instead of having conversations about consent and understanding all it encompasses to ensure healthy relationships, use a movement meant to highlight the seriousness of SA to make a joke about men being predators and getting caught.

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@shaTIRED What’s wild is that people are doing all of this for folx they don’t even really know! Setting up elaborate ruses/gotchas and y’all might not even be compatible- testing hoes for what?! Y’all haven’t been talking for a whole moon cycle yet, give it up 💀

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@kemimarie Since I was a kid… I’d tell people I would be blind one day. Then when I was 19, I got a diagnosis that confirmed I was going blind along w/h some other stuff. I believe my Ori was preparing me because by time I was diagnosed, I wasn’t scared of being disabled anymore

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@ShakingSheetss

1 year

@PattysBradley @IWriteAllDay_ They told me I was “gaslighting women” because trafficking is a real danger and when I explained there are certain populations most at risk & their rhetoric actively harms ppl, they just doubled down

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

People aren’t even “selling pussy”, they’re selling a service, but lemme not get too into that cause folx politic falls apart once we start discussing sex work 🤦🏾‍♀️ also, this isn’t about Pierre but rather the man he was responding to— in case further clarity was necessary

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@shawtyastrology ♋️ 10th house Venus @ the 15° & I always said my partners help level up my career- and that they’d likely be highly successful. Also, with Cancer @ a Gemini degree, I can see home life being very whimsical and fluid. Big constantly remodeling the dream home vibes 😊

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@lovedoveclarke Love the use of “bareback” like what else were you gonna do… put a condom or dental dam over your tongue first? This is wild 💀

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@CandyTheApple @plsleaveamsg_ Sex Educator here 👋🏾. Your g spot is your clit! The clit has more internal structure than external & sometimes our brain receives stimuli on different areas more, very common to be hyposensitive in one place&hypersensitive elsewhere. Also, all sex w/h consenting peers is normal!

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@Imani_Barbarin As if pregnancy doesn’t end in maternal death 2.9X more for Black folx. Or that pregnancy doesn’t disable parents all the time! I remember people were relieved I wasn’t having kids because I’m Autistic. Meanwhile they’re raising able’d gremlins that I would trade in anyday

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@kemimarie Okay! My faves are the POP squirting dildo & the King Cock 6". For ICI (conception)- I'd recommend the POP, it comes with a syringe to load fluid (ideal for sperm)! Both are harness compatible as well, the King Cock is on the girthy size also. I'm dropping links in the next tweet

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@shaTIRED Is it a reach to say I think this has been a goal of anti intellectualism this whole time? To make people so fatigued from critical thought that actual nonsense starts to check out? Like… I’m concerned fr 💀💀

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@lovedoveclarke I’m of the belief that most clothes can be made sexy for occasional wear. I buy see through/mesh fits that I can wear sexy bras with & I love a tight leather moment. If you love cleavage, cowl neck shirts or dresses in thin fabrics looks sexy with low effort. I wore these 2 clubs

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@Imani_Barbarin LMAO, the loneliness is crushing sometimes Imani, let us dream 😭

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@ehimeora The way I’m currently applying for apartments I don’t know how I’ll afford because I just ✨believe✨ the income will appear once I get the one I want 😬🫣

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@ShakingSheetss

1 year

@IWriteAllDay_ Honestly if folks just started turning 🧠 this on… that’s payment enough!

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@theericklouis The issue is PrEP isn’t readily available to AFAB’s which is such a disservice as we know the partner receiving penetration is at greater risk of contraction. You can technically get it, but doctors won’t prescribe, we’re considered “reasonably low risk”

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

This framing is just desirability politics (which is inherently bigoted). And further supports the notion that beauty (& one’s ability to be “beautiful”) is moral or indicative of their character, which it’s not. This take is odd to me…

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2 years

You simply cannot be short AND bigoted. You can’t be bald AND bigoted. You can’t be awful & bigoted. It’s really not that hard to find videos of me saying that. Chalking up my jokes to very specific men as me “hating all short men” is cheap, and untrue.

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

Being stalked & harassed like this by a prior partner is one of the scariest/degrading things to ever happen to me. I wouldn’t wish it on anyone— sending you love & hoping you get some peace soon 💛💛

JD • they/he

@jd_occasionally

2 years

genuinely sick of his tears as if he has not actively harassed me and shown up on my doorstep and at my job blackmailing me, even going so far to make burner accounts and spam email me for months on end.

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

The moralizing of STI status is one of the main reasons people don’t get tested or truthfully disclose. It’s been studied in length! 1 in 5 Americans will have an STI throughout their sex life. There’s a syphilis outbreak right now that’s exacerbated by rhetoric like that.

King Pierre. 🦁🇭🇹🇵🇸🇸🇩🇨🇩

@pierrefleury_

2 years

And let’s keep thinking here… if I know people are going to call me dirty for simply having an STI (because some are incurable), why would I feel comfortable to even go find out if I have one? That’s what stigma does. It doesn’t create a safe space for people to seek services.

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@jd_occasionally As if desirability politics isn’t already an effective tool & agent of oppression, one that people build platforms leveraging (Drew included)

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@kemimarie Happy Cumming! (and good luck with insemination for all those who are seeking conception. Praying for happy, healthy babies and pregnancies!) 💛

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@ShakingSheetss

10 months

@pierrefleury_ No, fr like I’m feral for romance right now!

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@lovedoveclarke With expansive sizes pls! So many cute suits aren’t built for us Big Body Benz plus size baddies 🥰

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@ShakingSheetss

1 year

From a sex theory perspective: I’ll add that horror movies, particularly slasher flix presenting the idea that poorly managed teens/young adults (read: sexually active &/or queer) were highly susceptible to ALL “deviant/antisocial” behavior, elevated the ubiquitousness of it all

Wagatwe Wanjuki 🇰🇪 🇧🇸

@wagatwe

1 year

part of it is patriarchal backlash: it was a way to demonize women's participation in the workplace, which was steadily increasing. and in the 80s they targeted day-care providers, who are predominantly women. the message: keep women at home with their own children

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

Agreed & I believe this speaks to the culture around perceived “sacrifice” in the West. People can beg for folx not to do things & instead of not doing them… they workshop ways to do it guiltlessly which says a lot about how individualistic & selfish our culture is

King Pierre. 🦁🇭🇹🇵🇸🇸🇩🇨🇩

@pierrefleury_

2 years

Nah, being respectful would mean listening to locals saying don’t come here because you coming here is directly affecting them. Being respectful isn’t ignoring people’s direct words and thinking “I’ll just be nice about it.”

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@ShakingSheetss

1 year

I also think these responses are heavily related to “sexual immorality” being considered an appropriate place to display vigilantism especially if they negatively impact folx material realities. Morality clauses at work almost always include infidelity or promiscuity for example

Wagatwe Wanjuki 🇰🇪 🇧🇸

@wagatwe

1 year

we really need to teach children in school that calling a job to get a cheater fired bc you watched a stranger's tiktok video is not ok

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@lovedoveclarke Very much “vulnerable and ill resourced young parents need apply!” Ugh, I hate how much of a win this is for the private infant adoption complex

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@ShakingSheetss

3 years

@tlmrnx There isn’t a ton of data on reproductive coercion perpetrated by women but the estimate is around <10%

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@athicchick I interpreted it as we’re not strangers to suffering so we find it hard to accept we’re not fated to suffer. 🪐 creates an independence in us that makes us resent ppl’s care & Venus’ influence in ♉️ makes us great w/h other peoples resources but bad with our own.

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@astropriestesss Jupiter in Pisces in the 7th house which I’ve interpreted to mean, I have immense luck negotiating contracts and relationships as long as I keep the rose colored glasses off and see things as they are. But the trine w/h my ♏️ moon makes me leery of people as well 😭

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@unicornthorn It took my optometrist seeing the deterioration of my optic nerve & sending me to the ER to find out I have a rare neurological condition that makes my brain think I have a tumor and causing symptoms akin to brain cancer. I’d been going blind/having TIAs & being told to lose lbs

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@sagistarbb @supermoongirl9 So how’d you get access to last nights therapy session?

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@planetmari_ I have my Saturn in Taurus in the 8th house. I be out here holding on for dear life and still struggling 😭

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@Imani_Barbarin As a fat person w/h a disability that requires LP’s… I wouldn’t trust them to perform them (especially on fat folx) without causing permanent nerve damage and pain. Neuro sub specialist have made me quite the cynic 😅

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@ShakingSheetss

8 months

The majority of abortion seekers are already parents, and nearly half were using a family planning method then turned up pregnant anyway. The myth that abortions must be available for “casual sex slip ups & hook ups” is ahistorical but a well peddled (and believed” myth

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@thecindynoir

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I get that sex can be recreational, but especially after roe v. wade’s overturning, sleeping with someone you wouldn’t want to experience any of the potential outcomes of sex with is WILD. 20 minutes of pleasure can’t be that blinding.

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@ShakingSheetss

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@dominickevans That the only person who needs to be at peace with my prognosis is me! If I’ve processed that I’m going blind & will have increasing hemiplegic episodes & TIA’s until I pass… you don’t get to force me into fear or anger. I don’t have to hate my body or myself for being disabled

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@ShakingSheetss

6 months

@thotscholar Maybe it’s the pro heaux in me, but I never understood why it’s such a big deal to express attraction towards friends. It’s puritanical to leverage the earnestness of rxships to the standard that they be devoid of sex. Really shows they consider sex inherently debasing

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@lovedoveclarke It’s because they’re aware of how steady their position is socially as men. It’s a little fantasy to be directed by women - one that doesn’t threaten his material circumstances in any way because outside of this relational playfulness… he holds the chips in the real world

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@ShakingSheetss

1 year

They also have way too much energy/time and tolerance cause I don’t even have the minutes/hours/days to be in a relationship with someone I don’t really like RIGHT NOW.

King Pierre. 🦁🇭🇹🇵🇸🇸🇩🇨🇩

@pierrefleury_

1 year

Y’all don’t like the people you date because if you did, you wouldn’t be expecting them to change so much about themselves just so you can stay with them.

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@ShakingSheetss

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@martianlune 6 of cups. One could look at the past like rippling water fondly & move on or be consumed by the reflection of a perceived future & lose the present. Just my thoughts

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@lovedoveclarke This whole trial has been shitty as a survivor. Every1 thinks they’re so smart until their “takes” show 0 nuance. Topics like reactive abuse have been so misunderstood… by a lot of standards, most of us wouldn’t be considered survivors anymore but equal participants in violence

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@shawtyastrology 10th house Gemini & I definitely have two careers! I have a budding academic career based in research (neuroscience) and I have entrepreneurial career teaching sex ed & kink

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@pierrefleury_ So cute bestie 🥰🥰

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@valkyrierunes @supermoongirl9 Same. It’s not for the weak 🥹🥹

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@SydDivineTarot Taurus Saturn in the 8th house. I tell people crossing me will curse you for life. They’ll be no such thing as luck, you’re not in the will, always lose when gambling and will owe back taxes 😂

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

Pierre, TAG ME IN!... Higher weight is NOT causal to poorer health outcomes, weight STIGMA is & it's not the highest risk factor anyway. You're also less likely to be employed, more likely to be a victim of IPV/DV, SA etc... Receipts are attached.

King Pierre. 🦁🇭🇹🇵🇸🇸🇩🇨🇩

@pierrefleury_

2 years

How you disagree and then add to my point? Y’all know there are people who have things out of their control, but want to view and treat them as if they’re not part of the society.

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@ShakingSheetss

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@JessicaValenti In the Mandate for Leadership doc about a 25’ conservative president, they explicitly state the plan to ban emergency contraceptive & incentivize teaching “fertility awareness” family planning as contraceptive are abortifacients & impedes on their religious beliefs & freedoms

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@astropriestesss 7th house ♓️ so I’m hoping this bodes well for my speaking gigs & negotiating contracts & developing relationships. Though I’m sure it’ll propel spiritual growth through emphasizing patience over instant gratification. Learning to lean on faith to better receive blessings 😭

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@prisonculture It always makes me think of bell hooks in Communion when she speaks of women feeling betrayed by feminism because they were working a “second shift” of domestic labor & found zero equality in the home sector in the 70s/80s. I wish more women knew this isn’t a novel experience

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@Rude_Astrology ♏️ moon in the 3rd house. School & siblings are rough, very volatile and have been my whole life 😭

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

The way TikTok has led to conversation & bad (and/or dangerous) advice about sugaring & other forms of SW… literally made me out myself as a former SW just so I could combat misinfo without people asking “how would you know?” The girls really don’t know how hated we are 🫠🫠

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@OgLakyn

2 years

Normally, I’d keep this in the circles but y’all: I just saw a TikTok s*gar b*by tell girls to call the restaurant ahead of time to ask them to look out for you on your sugar date. I cannot stress it enough: DO NOT do this.

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@josefadlb Hozier wrote “You are a call to motion. There all of you a verb in perfect view. Like Jonah on the ocean, when you move, I’m moved.” And I’ve been profoundly unwell ever since, like I thought I was romantic but THAT?! To be called a verb?! Something that requires action?! 🫠🫠

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@astropriestesss I’m a 3rd house Chiron in Scorpio and I teach sex ed and am a reproductive justice advocate as a CSA survivor. I think it lines up nicely & is aided by my ♊️ MC

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@WrittenByHanna Meant to type *definitely lack the range but what is twitter if not a huge typo? 🤦🏾‍♀️

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@Raquel_Savage It’s the gastrocolic reflex. Your body is freeing up space for more optimal waste management. The process starts before you begin to digest food & can be induced by the cephalic phase (when you think of your coming meal & your stomach preps in anticipation) hope that helps!

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@DariusKKromah @pierrefleury_ Funny enough, I lied about nothing, not my profession, my credentials or the research. If this was a matter of sources, you could have requested them but you opted to insult me instead. Anti-intellectualism at its finest, everyones an expert in everything now 😂 Have a good one

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@ShakingSheetss

8 months

@kemimarie Got to do a solo trip and take psychedelics for the first time and it accelerated my healing by like a 1000%, reminded me that I’ve always been courageous… it feels like a flex!!

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@ShakingSheetss

1 year

Do folks realize they’re active participants in ongoing colonial projects or…? Cus the ability to leverage that blue passport & USD in the global south comes at the expense of the native populace—who’s priced out of their homeland so you & ur “expat” friends can live like kings

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@hulkswag85

1 year

Get me tf outta AmeriKKKa.

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@ShakingSheetss

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@WrittenByHanna

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

So we just lying now?!

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@Rihmani97 @angryangeltears Ofc! CAYA is the BIBLE of sex science for good reason & if you only picked up 1 book, read that. The others are practical & philosophical about how easy it is to cheat urself out of pleasure by making sex about everything BUT pleasure. All great reads but if that ain’t enough…

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@pierrefleury_ a date, huh?

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@shaTIRED My therapist today was talking me through grieving the version of ourselves we lose to trauma and stops like “oh shit. I needed that!” It was a great moment for us because people forget therapist are like them & I like the idea of us growing together 🥰

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@DariusKKromah @pierrefleury_ Believe what you want. The literature is out there & accessible. Books, scholarly articles & journals wrote about this in length. Just because something challenges your worldview & biases doesn't make it false but eh, do you.

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@kemimarie Bad Dragon was the blueprint! We all go through an alien phase right?! 😅

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

Fuck all that. I hope you’re opening your wallet. Bitches don’t need thoughts, they need well funded collective action & grassroots organizations with resources to aid them. That purse is heavy, time to open that thang up- and keep opening it up cause you’ll be aight regardless

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@taylorswift13

2 years

I’m absolutely terrified that this is where we are - that after so many decades of people fighting for women’s rights to their own bodies, today’s decision has stripped us of that.

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@ShakingSheetss

1 year

Yes, because it’s imperative abusers remain in good favor with MOST people they associate with so they can be character witnesses when the inevitable survivor comes forward about their abuses. Lundy Bancroft breaks it down really well in Why Does He Do That?

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@iamthecreatress

1 year

I was a lil shocked bcuz he was always gentle with me but I didn’t put it past him. I didn’t question it just bcuz he didn’t do any of that to me. It didn’t matter what my experience was with him. I need more ppl to understand that a mf can be kind to you AND be an abuser.

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@ShakingSheetss

4 years

Enjoyed the convo immensely. Would have loved for the panel to have addressed the privilege of being able bodied and becoming an expat because disabled folks have to examine what leaving the country means for medical needs on top of everything else. All types of intersections

The Grapevine

@TheGrapevineTV

4 years

Tomorrow on we are discussing whether or not Black people should leave the United States. It’s a good one ya’ll 🍇

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@TwittaHoney The myth of perfect victimhood was a convo a while ago w/h the Gabby Petito case & people didn’t learn a thing. They can’t even imagine how complex abuse survivorship can manifest. As a Black Femme I’m afraid of being in that position ever again cus no one would believe me either

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@ShakingSheetss

2 years

@DariusKKromah @pierrefleury_ Aside from that not being true in the past or now (sexual nonmonogamy was inclusive pre marriage, this has been debunked a lot)... men made monogamy compulsory during the agro revolution so they could be stingier w/h resources. So, take that up with your ancestors 😂

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@ShakingSheetss

1 year

@pierrefleury_ The violation is TREMENDOUS 😨😨

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