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Jess O'Reilly

1 year

We share our insights on The @TODAYshow : @HodaAndJenna @brandonware

Relationship expert shares how she keeps her marriage spicy

Relationship expert Jess O’Reilly and her husband, Brandon Ware, who co-host the popular podcast called “Sex with Dr. Jess,” share how they keep their marriage alive and offer advice to others.

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

3 years

❤️Hope @lunamatatas is getting paid & credited for the use of her #pegthepatriarchy trademark. #metgala

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3 years

“If someone doesn’t know what this means, you’re gonna have to look it up” — Cara Delevingne #MetGala

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Happy Holidays!❤️❤️

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Jess O'Reilly

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5 years

#TBT : @KendraLust joins Jess to discuss modern day relationships and shares her insights on sexual confidence! Listen now: Brought to you by @desireresorts .

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Jess O'Reilly

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5 years

Testing... Can you see this?

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Jess O'Reilly

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5 years

What does it mean to be sex-positive? Check this out... @Cosmopolitan @carinahsieh

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

3 years

The hat is on the road again!

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

3 years

Also, I’m so excited to be heading across the pond to host a couples’ retreat this weekend! I think all relationships can use a little TLC right now.

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

3 years

After a fried chicken, bacon, waffle, egg & berry breakfast in Atlanta, I’m ready to facilitate my first in-person conference workshop in 18 months: Getting Press: Branding, Monetization & More at @sexdownsouthatl #sexdownsouth

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

4 years

Oh hiii!

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

3 years

15 years ago today. 💕 @brandonware

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Jess O'Reilly

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6 years

Floating away while showing off.

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

6 years

Arrived at @Desireresorts 🧡❤️💛💚💙

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

3 years

Good morning from Mexico City! I’ve got early morning meetings and then I’m going to enjoy as many tacos as possible.

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

5 years

My hometown:)

Toronto sex toy billboard gets international attention

"Scream your own name." It's a simple, yet provocative call to action—one that takes only seconds to read while passing a billboard on th...

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Jess O'Reilly

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5 years

Once you’ve felt the salt water against your skin, there’s no going back. I learned this at @Desireresorts .

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

3 years

@birgitomo Sending you all the love and appreciation this morning. There is no excuse for using a recounted experience of racial trauma to prove a point, hijack a conversation, & then ignore the intersections of power, privilege & identity to belabour that point.

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

7 years

Hanging at @Oasis231mutual #toronto

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

6 years

Today is not the day to bully me. A man tells me I must move my bag from the overhead bin (we’re in the same row) because he needs the overhead bin. Unsurprisingly he didn’t ask the guy in the row behind us to move *his* bag — just me. Flight attendant set him straight.

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

7 years

Being a woman on social media (with public accounts) sometimes feels a little like walking down a dark alley late at night.

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

5 years

This is also my current view in Ibiza with @Desireresorts ...

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

2 years

Adulting is when your mom’s chiropractor appointment is right after yours, so you hide under the bench to surprise her, but instead you scare her and her terrified screams scare the patients in the next room. Sorry Mom.❤️

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

3 years

Being a woman online is exhausting. This morning I was called a “bitter gold digger” by some dude who apparently didn’t like my video on relationship check-ins. Another stranger called me a “bitch” because I didn’t answer his rambling unsolicited DMs. 🙄

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

7 years

Today I've been called a "common slut", "skank" and "typical lost unregenerate soul". And I got into this field to help people...

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

6 years

It's a tiring day. Men are getting mad it me on FB today because I've suggested that relationships require ongoing effort -- not just finding *the one*. They also love to put "Doctor" in quotes.

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

5 years

I’m posting this even though it will likely get reported. Nudity is not inherently sexual. And breasts can’t harm anyone; they can, however, nourish and sustain life.

Giant breast balloons pop up across London to make statement about nursing in public

The inflatables are part of the #FreetheFeed campaign to fight the stigma around breastfeeding in public.

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

7 years

The view from my room at @Desireresorts 🖤💜💙❤️

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

7 years

#Myths about #BDSM debunked... @Dr_Markie_Twist @DAPitagora @PsychToday

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

6 years

It was my work as a high school teacher in Toronto that led me to my current career. Classroom-based sex and relationship education can save lives if we get it right.

7 Myths About STIs You Learned In Sex Ed

In this week's Sex IDK column, certified sex educator and writer Emma McGowan addresses common STI myths and the facts you should know instead. Oh, sex ed class — the day that teenagers simultaneou...

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

4 years

I’m in self-isolation now for 14 days. But I was NOT advised of the 14 day self-isolation period when I landed last night (as Trudeau just claimed is policy). Why not announce & reinforce the self isolation policy on the plane? Perhaps have folks sign & agree to it upon arrival.

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

2 years

Anyone else find bagging groceries stressful because you're worried about holding up the line behind you? People-pleaser problems.

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

5 years

My current view in Ibiza on board the @Desireresorts ' Mediterranean Cruise...

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

6 years

To the guys who post comments about whether or not I’m wearing underwear under my dress or say you want to see me naked: IT’S OKAY TO YHINK SOMETHING AND NOT SAY IT. This Canadian isn’t sorry for yelling.

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

6 years

#CastingCall for couples interested in exploring open relationships.

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

2 years

Talk about double standards. I post a heart emoji in response to a nice comment on my photo of @brandonware . IG blocks it and says they need to restrict my comments to keep IG safe for everyone. Guys send me 🍆 pics. I report & IG says I’m they don’t violate community standards.

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

6 years

"Many couples stop having sex because the onus of sexual initiation falls primarily (or exclusively) upon one partner," Dr. Jess says. "In many cases, this partner becomes frustrated...

9 Questions To Ask Each Other To Improve Your Sex Life

If you've been feeling like you and your partner are stuck in a rut in the bedroom, the thought of figuring out how to improve your sex life can seem super overwhelming. The good news? It's totally...

www.bustle.com

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

5 years

My heart hurts after losing our pup today, but eleven years of conditional love left us with so many sweet memories. Brandon, my partner, wrote this for our four-legged love: “I love you. If someone would...

Dr. Jess Sexologist

My heart hurts after losing our pup today, but eleven years of unconditional love left us with so many sweet memories. Brandon, my partner, wrote this for our four-legged love: “I love you. If...

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

5 years

I hope everyone out there is having a wonderful Family Day long weekend!

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

3 years

I'd have so much more time on my hands if autocorrect didn't exclude language related to sexuality(e.g. clitoris, orgasm, ovary, testes, foreplay). I'm sure I could gain at least 17 secs daily. Also, it'd be cool if autocorrect could get that I'm never trying to write "ducking".

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

4 years

Wishing everyone a safe a happy new year! Looking forward to a better, more prosperous 2021!

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

3 years

Fact: Meetings are more productive with tacos.

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

6 years

On my way to @Desireresorts in Mexico and I just realized that I didn’t pack a bathing suit. It’s clothing optional, but I like long walks on the beach into town. 😫

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

7 years

Today is my birthday so I'm throwing back to last year when one of my favourite groups made me a…

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

3 years

My body loves its "weekend hours". Awake at 5am with no place to go. So, good morning:)

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

4 years

ICYMI: Fetishes. Sexual oppression and repression. Kink. Porn. Music and parenthood. Listen to @KingNoire 's podcast to learn more! #JessonAir

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

4 years

One day late here, but I know @brandonware won’t mind.

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

2 years

Congrats to the fabulous @lunamatatas & @VelvetLipsSxEd (Marla) on their @TheAASECT award! Well-deserved and overdue. Go besties!

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

5 years

#Throwback to having a great time at @Desireresorts ! Can’t wait for my next visit.

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

4 years

Today at noon...

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

3 years

Tonight at midnight! Intimately You With Dr. Jess launches on @City_tv presented by @ShopTSC ! Our first guest expert is @lunamatatas and tonight’s feature brand is @Lovehoney . So many good vibes! #canada #tv #adult

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

7 years

When you're jetlagged and Keynote (Mac's Powerpoint) doesn't think "clitoris" is a word and you begin to question everything you know! ;)

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

6 years

Are you and your partner staying with family this holiday season? Check out these sneaky sex positions so you can keep things on the down-low... @goodhealth @ashleymateo

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

7 years

Please RT! This is so exciting. I'm on the cover of @OptiMYzMag 💋💋💋

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

7 years

"I do not know where the traditional advice that having sex with a man will make him disappear came from, but I...

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

3 years

I lost my wallet today downtown. Left it on my car at the gas station and pulled away. A good samaritan found it, (somehow) called me & returned it. Thank you.🖤⭐️🖤⭐️

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

6 years

And I’m off to @sexdownsouthatl ! Can’t wait to meet all the brilliant minds. @neuronbomb @Afrosexology @MeowKoko @Makeupandsin @VelvetLipsATL and many more! #sdscon18

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

3 years

📺 🎥 Good morning! Tune into @morningshowca on @GlobalTV at 9:15am. I’ll be chatting about 2022 dating trends with @carolynglobal & @jmacspeaks .

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

6 years

Homeward bound.

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

6 years

I love walking to town.

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Jess O'Reilly

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2 years

🇯🇲

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Jess O'Reilly

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2 years

My mom. 💕

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

2 years

Good morning!

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

2 years

A lady on my flight has been belly-laughing out loud every minute or so (she must be watching a show or movie) and it’s bringing me so much joy this morning.

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

3 years

Over the weekend, I was standing on the sidewalk with a friend half a block form my house & a man hurled anti-Asian racial slurs and harassment our way. I was very shaken and so I looked for some joy in floral arrangements:

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

3 years

“Think of the exposure for your brand!” 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

6 years

Today was a long one. I got stuck in Houston, but luckily found a flight to Detroit. No flights out of Detroit tmrw, so I'm going to try to take the train home from Windsor. It's our wedding anniversary!

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

2 years

Party done.

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

6 years

#FBF : Putting my feet up...literally.

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

7 years

A room with a view. @Desireresorts ☀️🌴🇲🇽

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

4 years

We took a few mins to enjoy the falls at the Ancaster Mill before starting the hike back.

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

7 years

I'm having a blast on @Desireresorts #VeniceCruise ! Catch my last sea days on Instagram stories:

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

7 years

Ready for @TheTabooShows #vancouver ! Come say hi. We open in 5 and will be here all weekend.

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

3 years

@birgitomo I can't find the tweet now, but I saw a reply suggesting the response to racist harm in the workplace should be patience + education. That seems like an unfair ask of those who are harmed by racism at work.

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

7 years

Do you sleep in the nude? @MaximMag @zeynepyenisex

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

5 years

Thanks for setting the mood for a great flight, @AirCanada .

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

3 years

My cousin looks thrilled to be sharing his sandwich.

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

6 years

#TBT : @DrAmieHarwick delivers great people-pleasing advice on the podcast. Listen now! #JessonAir

People-Pleasing Advice | Sex with Dr. Jess

Stop trying to be a people-pleaser. You probably question its worth sometimes. This week, Jess sits down with Marriage and Family Therapist and author of The New Sex Bible for Women, Dr. Amie...

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

3 years

@TheCut Credit to the fabulous WOC who coined and trademarked #pegthepatriarchy : @lunamatatas

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

7 years

How to go down on her and leave her wanting more! @EliteDaily @RachiePants

7 Tips For Going Down On A Girl That'll Make Sure You Blow Her Mind

Is there a bigger bedroom bummer than when someone doesn't know how to go down on you properly? Nope, there sure isn't. That's because cunnilingus — even so-so cunnilingus — is awesome. So on the...

www.elitedaily.com

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

7 years

Just because you're shy doesn't mean you can't be a part of the lifestyle experience! Read this:

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

1 year

I’m a few days late posting here, but please follow @WoodGreenDotOrg . They’re working to address the unmet needs of Torontonians — from housing to employment to social services. #unmetcampaign #Toronto @brandonware

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

4 years

We also climbed to the top of Devil's punchbowl the other day.

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

2 years

And here are some pics of what I ate in between teaching workshops in Europe.

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

3 years

🥐 @Suresh describing delicious fresh croissants (while challenging stereotypes about who ought to be baking them) is a great way to start the morning. #toronto #food

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

3 years

Does anyone else love offering directions to strangers on the street who look lost? I don't know why it brings me so much pleasure. Bonus if they're from out of town/country.

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

2 years

I discovered a natural high: walking full speed on a moving sidewalk. It feels as powerful as being on stage under the bright lights.

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

7 years

I was there:)

I Went On a 7-Day 'Sex Cruise', And It Was The Wildest Vacation Ever - Maxim

Welcome to the world's kinkiest cruise line.

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

3 years

Wish I would’ve hit snooze this morning. First DM this morning was from a white person denying racism and telling me not to call it out until I “have all the facts”.

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Jess O'Reilly

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7 years

Agree or disagree?

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

4 years

MILFs are icons!

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

5 years

Who's at @Desireresorts today? If you're staying at Desire RM, come check out my workshop at 5pm, 'Full Body Ohhh' in the Disco! I hope to see you there. :)

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

4 years

One year has passed. I still look for her in the bathroom when I get up in the morning — just for a tenth of a second, before I remember that she can’t possibly be there.

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

7 years

Today's #JusttheTip : Don’t treat the clitoris like a doorbell!

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

5 years

New week, new #SexualitySuperhero . Check out @DirtyLola 's feature here:

Sexuality Superheroes: Dirty Lola | Sex with Dr. Jess

Meet Dirty Lola. She's this week's Sexuality Superhero! Lola is a sex podcast producer, a sex-store manager, a sex educator, and sextainer (coined by her!). Check out her work and advice below.

www.sexwithdrjess.com

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

7 years

Did I mention I'm hilarious? 😂

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

4 years

Do you know the difference between spontaneous sexual desire and responsive sexual desire? Understanding the difference will help control your libido. Learn more about this here: @gabriellekassel

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Jess O'Reilly

@SexWithDrJess

6 years

I hope to see you in Brooklyn next month for @thesexexpo with @ASTROGLIDE . I bet I’ll make you laugh out loud. If I lose the bet, I’ll juggle on the street. Free passes here:

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