#TBT
:
@KendraLust
joins Jess to discuss modern day relationships and shares her insights on sexual confidence! Listen now: Brought to you by
@desireresorts
.
After a fried chicken, bacon, waffle, egg & berry breakfast in Atlanta, I’m ready to facilitate my first in-person conference workshop in 18 months: Getting Press: Branding, Monetization & More at
@sexdownsouthatl
#sexdownsouth
@birgitomo
Sending you all the love and appreciation this morning. There is no excuse for using a recounted experience of racial trauma to prove a point, hijack a conversation, & then ignore the intersections of power, privilege & identity to belabour that point.
Today is not the day to bully me. A man tells me I must move my bag from the overhead bin (we’re in the same row) because he needs the overhead bin. Unsurprisingly he didn’t ask the guy in the row behind us to move *his* bag — just me. Flight attendant set him straight.
Adulting is when your mom’s chiropractor appointment is right after yours, so you hide under the bench to surprise her, but instead you scare her and her terrified screams scare the patients in the next room. Sorry Mom.❤️
Being a woman online is exhausting. This morning I was called a “bitter gold digger” by some dude who apparently didn’t like my video on relationship check-ins. Another stranger called me a “bitch” because I didn’t answer his rambling unsolicited DMs. 🙄
It's a tiring day. Men are getting mad it me on FB today because I've suggested that relationships require ongoing effort -- not just finding *the one*. They also love to put "Doctor" in quotes.
I’m posting this even though it will likely get reported. Nudity is not inherently sexual. And breasts can’t harm anyone; they can, however, nourish and sustain life.
It was my work as a high school teacher in Toronto that led me to my current career. Classroom-based sex and relationship education can save lives if we get it right.
I’m in self-isolation now for 14 days. But I was NOT advised of the 14 day self-isolation period when I landed last night (as Trudeau just claimed is policy). Why not announce & reinforce the self isolation policy on the plane? Perhaps have folks sign & agree to it upon arrival.
To the guys who post comments about whether or not I’m wearing underwear under my dress or say you want to see me naked: IT’S OKAY TO YHINK SOMETHING AND NOT SAY IT. This Canadian isn’t sorry for yelling.
Talk about double standards. I post a heart emoji in response to a nice comment on my photo of
@brandonware
. IG blocks it and says they need to restrict my comments to keep IG safe for everyone. Guys send me 🍆 pics. I report & IG says I’m they don’t violate community standards.
"Many couples stop having sex because the onus of sexual initiation falls primarily (or exclusively) upon one partner," Dr. Jess says. "In many cases, this partner becomes frustrated...
My heart hurts after losing our pup today, but eleven years of conditional love left us with so many sweet memories. Brandon, my partner, wrote this for our four-legged love:
“I love you.
If someone would...
I'd have so much more time on my hands if autocorrect didn't exclude language related to sexuality(e.g. clitoris, orgasm, ovary, testes, foreplay). I'm sure I could gain at least 17 secs daily. Also, it'd be cool if autocorrect could get that I'm never trying to write "ducking".
On my way to
@Desireresorts
in Mexico and I just realized that I didn’t pack a bathing suit. It’s clothing optional, but I like long walks on the beach into town. 😫
Are you and your partner staying with family this holiday season? Check out these sneaky sex positions so you can keep things on the down-low...
@goodhealth
@ashleymateo
I lost my wallet today downtown. Left it on my car at the gas station and pulled away. A good samaritan found it, (somehow) called me & returned it. Thank you.🖤⭐️🖤⭐️
A lady on my flight has been belly-laughing out loud every minute or so (she must be watching a show or movie) and it’s bringing me so much joy this morning.
Over the weekend, I was standing on the sidewalk with a friend half a block form my house & a man hurled anti-Asian racial slurs and harassment our way. I was very shaken and so I looked for some joy in floral arrangements:
Today was a long one. I got stuck in Houston, but luckily found a flight to Detroit. No flights out of Detroit tmrw, so I'm going to try to take the train home from Windsor. It's our wedding anniversary!
@birgitomo
I can't find the tweet now, but I saw a reply suggesting the response to racist harm in the workplace should be patience + education. That seems like an unfair ask of those who are harmed by racism at work.
🥐
@Suresh
describing delicious fresh croissants (while challenging stereotypes about who ought to be baking them) is a great way to start the morning.
#toronto
#food
Does anyone else love offering directions to strangers on the street who look lost? I don't know why it brings me so much pleasure. Bonus if they're from out of town/country.
Wish I would’ve hit snooze this morning. First DM this morning was from a white person denying racism and telling me not to call it out until I “have all the facts”.
Who's at
@Desireresorts
today? If you're staying at Desire RM, come check out my workshop at 5pm, 'Full Body Ohhh' in the Disco! I hope to see you there. :)
One year has passed. I still look for her in the bathroom when I get up in the morning — just for a tenth of a second, before I remember that she can’t possibly be there.
Do you know the difference between spontaneous sexual desire and responsive sexual desire? Understanding the difference will help control your libido. Learn more about this here:
@gabriellekassel
I hope to see you in Brooklyn next month for
@thesexexpo
with
@ASTROGLIDE
. I bet I’ll make you laugh out loud. If I lose the bet, I’ll juggle on the street. Free passes here: