“‘Your internet connection is unstable.’ Yeah, so am I, you ain’t special.” —me talking to my computer this afternoon just before suddenly becoming very aware that I was mid-class with my mic on
I told my 9yo son the “I can’t operate on him; he’s my son” riddle the other day, and it went like this:
Me: …so how is that poss—
9yo: It’s his mom.
Me: Yeah.
9yo:
Me: Or his other dad, I guess.
9yo: Right.
Me:
9yo: I don’t get how it’s a riddle.
Spoiler alert for today’s NYT Connections. But seriously: what the hell games are three of these? Charades, sure. But werewolf? There’s a “classic party game” called werewolf??
When I die I want to come back as a ghost to haunt my adult children’s houses, just passive-aggressively turning off lights they’ve left on and pointedly moving their shoes to the shoe cabinet, just heavily sighing the whole time
Law professors, a real kindness you can do for your students: find a way to casually pronounce aloud any terms that might be new to them before they have to say them aloud in front of their peers.
Hey just fyi law students your female professors would be gosh-darned fascinated to hear about this kind of thing happening at your school. Please tell one you feel comfortable with & trust. It would be our deep, deep pleasure to handle it, and you absolutely shouldn’t have to.
During 1L, the male students of my law school section created and circulated amongst them a “top 10” list of girls in our section they wanted to have sex with.
That is the tweet.
DID U KNOW: You can buy a party-size bag of potato chips even if you’re the only one at your house that eats them and you plan to eat them slowly over two weeks. They don’t come check if you’re having a party. They can’t stop you
I so rarely read for pleasure anymore, which would horrify younger me. Thinking about making myself a punch card where after I read six books I get a personal Pizza Hut pizza
My husband and I have been married almost 19 years and he just picked up both dogs under his arms and pointed them at me and said I DOUBLE DOG DARE YA and I burst out laughing and folks this is how you keep a relationship fresh
9yo correctly inserted a semicolon in this proofreading assignment and got it marked wrong because “it was supposed to be a period.” I have never been so close to calling the school in a rage
What's the word for "the feeling when you've taken your shoes off under your desk & change positions & then a visitor appears in your office so you need to put your shoes back on but now can't find them so you desperately flail under your desk like a weirdo"? It's probably German
Rules for my students in our upcoming Zoom classes/meetings:
1. Wear clothes.
2. If you go to the bathroom, don’t take us along.
3. Hold any pets or kids up where I can see them at the beginning of each call so I can squee. If I ask “who’s a good booooooy” you need not answer.
Friends, I am thrilled that Twitter is still afloat so that I can share this news: the
@unc_law
faculty voted to promote me to Full Clinical Professor! I wish I could say that I received this news with professional dignity, but honestly, THE SCREAM I SCRUMPT
I just want to say, to all you 1Ls who just finished your first year: CONGRATU-FRIGGIN-LATIONS!!! You should be so, so proud of yourselves. 1L year is famously difficult—academically, emotionally, & mentally—and you DID IT. 🧵
If you feel like you haven’t accomplished much:
I don’t know who needs to hear this but if you buy those giant clear plastic bins for “organization” all it’s gonna do is put your crap into a rectangle shape
What to do!! Only one answer: have a representative draft a motion for extension of time and file it with their RRWA prof. It’s beautifully formatted, cites the syllabus & other sources, and is just generally delightful.
When I was a kid I was supposed to practice my clarinet for an hour a night. One morning I handed my practice log to my Dad to sign and this happened:
Him (reading): I haven’t heard you practicing for an hour at night.
Me: Do you want to?
Him:
Him: (quietly signs form)
My dear 1Ls: Please let me monologue at you for a moment.
January & February are notoriously hard months for 1Ls, especially. You survived your first semester, you got a few weeks of very well earned rest, you remembered that your family and friends exist.
And now you're back.
Any chance we can get a law professor to host the next debate? Someone who feels comfortable interrupting people and demanding that they explain & support their answers?
My daughter & her boyfriend(ish) are arguing about a photo he posted of them on IG from his phone. Apparently it's getting a lot of likes, but she's uncomfortable with it. Should I intervene? On one hand, I *am* her mother. On the other, they are 8 + 6 and it is a pretend phone.
@alittleleader
Truly. I find it heartening to remember every so often that my kids don’t know the words “fireman” or “policeman”—they only know “firefighter” and “police officer.” The world is successfully changing in small ways.
A couple weeks ago my doctor's office told me "Before we can refill this prescription again, the doctor needs to see you," so I made an appointment online. Where it asked for the reason for the appointment, I just wrote "you said I had to"
Here you go: fancy big city lawyer Kate gets sent to picturesque small town in another state to defend Conglomerated Conglomerates against pollution lawsuits. A local, handsome, down-to-earth lawyer-turned-avocado farmer makes her see the bigger picture. Title: Pro Guac Vice
I don’t have a Soundcloud to promote so I’ll just say please tip waitstaff etc. very generously as their customers and also pay them more as their employers
After years of working in a state university system I still don’t really know the difference between a chancellor and a provost and at this point I’m too afraid to ask
Student: (says how law school is exhausting & frustrating right now) “I’m just impatient to get out and start practicing. But I suppose lots of practitioners would say they wish they were in law school again.”
Me: “Literally no lawyers would say that.”
Me: Ah, a quiet house; class prep time.
My brain: Hey
Me: NOPE.
My brain: It's something fun!
Me: NO.
My brain: How about a song that's only 15 seconds long but incredibly catchy AND singing it aloud will make you sound insane
Me:
My brain:
Me: Please, I need t--
My brain:
I'M NOT GONNA ANSWER ANY MORE QUESTIONS UNTIL YOU COME DOWN HERE WITH PANTS ON
--what I just bellowed up the stairs and also the title of my next parenting book
Lessons I’m trying to teach my kids because some adults I know could use them:
• You have to take “no” for an answer.
• A compliment for someone else is not an insult to you.
• Everybody gets to set their own boundaries.
• You don’t have to say *everything* you’re thinking.
Hey parents of boys please teach them that pulling girls’ hair etc. is not how to communicate a crush or I will teach my daughter that punching boys in the stomach is how to say “oh thank you”
I'm working on the citation website I built for my students and writing a quick primer re the parts of the Bluebook they need to care about. It opens: "Ah, the Bluebook. You might hate it now, but ask any practicing attorney and they will tell you they also hate it."
7yo and 4yo are shouting Harry Potter-style made-up spells at each other and I am resisting the urge to point a straw at them and shout IN LIMINE or DE MINIMIS or RES IPSA LOQUITUR
Westlaw features I’d like to see on clothing websites:
—little glasses: You already looked at this and decided not to get it
—filter by jurisdiction: Where would you wear this in your actual real life
—red flag: YOU ALREADY BOUGHT AND RETURNED THIS, WHY ARE YOU BACK
The kids are playing cop (8yo) & fugitive (5yo). 5yo came to hide behind me in my office & I sternly forbade 8yo from entering without a warrant. He asked what that was & I explained. He came back a few minutes later with this. (I acknowledged receipt in the bottom right corner.)
To the loved ones of law students:
When they say they have to leave/miss an event to study, they are being entirely sincere. This is an awful time in the semester. They’d much rather be relaxing with you.
Sincerely,
A law prof who’s holed up to grade while her family has fun
I was called into an urgent meeting but it was just about brushing me and wiping me with a damp cloth? Apparently the sticky stuff on my back was “urgent” to resolve
One of the most sought boudoir photographers in the Southeast and champion barrel racer Matt Mathews is fighting back after he says state officials swarmed his property and took his opossum.
Just thinking about the time I saw a Reddit post saying "is it okay to go to law profs' office hours just to chat?" and everyone said no, don't waste her time, & when I said absolutely, I'm a prof & we love talking to students, I got downvoted into oblivion
People who are like “I do my share of the housework!” ask yourself this: do you know how many rolls of paper towels are currently in your house? Because someone in the house has to keep up with that kind of thing, and if it’s not you, it’s your partner
My 9yo is doing some thing at school called Think Like a Lawyer and started telling me about it last night.
Him: (describes scenario where a kid accidentally hits another) So then the question is can they sue the first guy.
Me, immediately: What state is it in?
Medium: Mother Warf, why is your soul not at rest??
Me: Because APPARENTLY I hold SECRET KNOWLEDGE about how to CLEAN A HOUSE (snapping open a garbage bag aggressively)
7yo: I invented a thing: it's a pancake sandwich.
Me: Oh yeah? What's in the middle?
7yo: Pancakes.
Me: ....oh, so what's the bread?
7yo (whispering): Pancakes!!!