I think I prefer not knowing what people think of me especially if itโs people who have no effect on my livelihood. So I donโt like it when umntu unprovoked will come tell me what someone said about me.
Yhuu awunoze undibone accepting isgezo and inconsistency from a man. I no longer fear going through the pain of letting go of someone who I really like. Better that than have someone who keeps disappointing me.
I love a man who listens and makes a plan. So I've been going through the most and struggling to be productive. Does this man not book me a place just outside of Jhb cos uthi I need a change of scenery. Love big energyโค๏ธ
So I was at an interview this morning. The man who was conducting the interview watsho ukundibuza about my nails. Aww na?! "I love your nails, are they tips, it's not gel right " wowzer!
LADIES & LADIES ONLY!
My DMโs will be open in 30 seconds. I want you to message me about a time you TRIED an ODD or INTERESTING FETISH/KINK with someone.
You will be anonymous by default.
Iโm honestly all about protecting my peace this year. Not everything requires my attention. If it doesnโt affect my bag, Iโm not entertaining it โ๐ฝ
I'm proud of myself I'm slowly learning that not everything/everyone deserves my attention. I was able to ignore someone's call today just because I don't want to talk to them. Self careโค
It's a Queen's birthday, unoValentino๐๐๐. Happy birthday mntase khaya. Kwanga uThixo angakugcina, akuhlekise. I love you so much and I hope you get pampered todayโคโคโค have yourself an amazing day๐ธ
@Beemagqwanti
You need to stop making excuses for someone when they're not acting right just because you want to keep the idea you had of them. As sad as it is people don't always live up to our expectations of them.
Is it just my family or other Xhosa families practice the same thing where oomakoti kufuneka behloniphile. There are certain words that they can't use as a sign of respect.