I used to feel so unwelcome at cis gay furry parties because of being trans but now I just bulldoze my way over those feelings by letting myself be loud, obnoxious and have excessive amounts of fun. Some sweaty dudes in puphoods and boxers don't stop my pussy from popping
The whole "furries are shit at respecting monogamous relationship boundaries" makes me feel uncomfortable going to party floors n' cons, like man I don't want to have to bite and tear someone's ear off and then get arrested