@Pretiblkunicorn
I've literally been scolded at for NOT opening the door for a mobile order when the cafรฉ was closed. They pick and choose what to enforce.
@keescrawford
@Cellowphane
Last time I actually confronted a dude, he was like "But I'm a person of color" and I was like "Is that what it means?" and he was real silent. Just don't say it around me if you aren't black.
@kat_blaque
I dont have a huge problem with it but it depends on how its addressed. I feel like it too easily and too often turns anti-black, when the connection between homophobia and the black community wouldnt even exist without the WASP hegemony.
@keescrawford
@Cellowphane
Like if no one uses the slur against you, maybe you shouldn't use it yourself. I barely use it and I've been called it many a time.
For fucking real. People get so surprised when fem black men end up with nonblack partners, but don't realize all that femmephobia in the black gay community.
โIs he white??โ
No, but even if he was most of the blk ppl in my area do not want to date me bc Iโm โfem & dorkyโ.
I ainโt bout to stay single, sad, & get played all my life just so I can say โIโm waiting for a good blk man to find me.โ
Literally the only reason western culture teaches us "violence is never the answer" is so the masses don't revolt. If western society truly believed us, state sanctioned violence wouldn't be so accepted. They just want a monopoly on violence.
@maxhiigli
I'd say something about small animals and sixth being in opposition but that might be a vedic tradition. 6th house being below the seventh, representing someone who is not your equal, ie "slaves", pets, etc.