This is my pinned tweet. I'm sharing it again because Twitter knocked the impressions down to 800 when it was almost at a million. Guess a million people need to see some trans joy again. Please share and retweet this as much as you like to remind our community we are loved❤️🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈
Today, I blocked a few hundred transphobes. I'd love it if I could get some new trans and trans supporting followers. I'll gladly follow back anyone standing up for trans rights and against bigotry!🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈❤️
Since people liked the other picture so much, here's a bonus of us cutting the cake! Our son was adamant he needed to assist lol🥰🥰
I am beyond blessed and happily defy the bigots all day every day!
If you are a trans person or an ally, there's a pretty good chance I want to follow u and find out what you think about all this bullshit going on in the world. 🌎💩 👀🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈❤️
Love how people will frame a question about trans folks full of harmful inaccuracies and when we get passed and point it out they get all coy with the "why so mad, just asking questions!?"
So here's some bad faith questions in return!
Are transphobes stupid or just mean?
So I woke up to approximately 700 new trans/ally follows on here, and I'm beyond grateful. It warms my heart and refuels my hope in a better tomorrow, I look forward to following back all you wonderful people and sharing some of my stories/adventures with you!❤️🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈😊✌️
If trans people make you uncomfortable, it's because you've existed in a bubble of homogeneity for so long the concept of human variation jars your little mind. It probably seems safe in that little bubble, but it's like existing in a fishtank instead of an ocean. 🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈
#Trans
@Ranting_Trans
1st Xmas after I came out, after months of uncomfortable, emotional tension, hard conversations/arguments, my mom gave me a cute little phone case with a flower stitched on it as a gift. It was the first femme thing my mom ever gave me and a signal she was starting to accept me
Since it's pride month, I'm asking y'all to retweet the hell out of this picture. Show the naysayers and haters that trans people are loved, accepted, and live happily ever after.❤❤❤
#Pride2022
I'm a trans woman and transitioning was 100% the right decision for me. I've never been happier. I've never felt so stable for so long. My life is full of purpose and joy where there once was sadness and detachment. Transitioning is life saving care for many, myself included.🏳️⚧️
Do cis people choose their gender or does Jesus?
Do people watch Fox "News" because they're bigots, or are they bigots because they watch it?
When transphobes use all caps is it because they like the attention of trans people online or are they furiously masturbating?
Wow so much appreciation on this post, thank you all so much. This community is second to none!! I hope you all know just how very worthy you all are, to be seen, known, and loved for who you truly are, not in spite of it. ❤🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈🥰
I'm fucking proud of you all!!
Trans people aren't a new fad. I remember my first notions I was trans when I was 5. That was 41 years ago, before the internet, before the majority of information on trans people had even been the publics radar. What is new? We don't reject and abuse people who are different.
As a parent do u really value the skills that youth sports can help develop or are you hoping to traumatize your kids with unnecessary genital examinations by "doctors"?
Are transphobic people just heartbroken chasers or frustrated by their own lack of identity?
Anyone else?
So I want to update y'all. When I put out the call for trans and trans supporting people to follow me the other day I went from abt 1500 to nearly 4500 followers. You all lifted my heart into the stratosphere!! I hope I can return the favor somehow!! Trans and proud!
#Trans
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I have no transition regret. People who abandoned me? Good riddance. The relationships I kept? Only gotten better. My self-acceptance has increased 10-fold. Transphobic people are so wrong about everything they're clownish. Up with trans rights, away with the bigotry🏳️⚧️😊
Being trans is not a political statement.
Being trans is not a religion.
Being trans is not an ideology.
Being trans isn't a choice.
Being honest is a choice.
Being kind is a choice.
Trying to heal, to feel whole, and to be happy is a choice anyone should be able to understand.
I feel after the influx of new follows I should say something meaningful. I don't have a product or organization to endorse, so I'll ask a favor. Be kind and help those in need, as much and often as possible. I believe in kindness and hope you do too.❤️🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈
Turns out I maxed on my follow-backs for today. Welcome to all the new faces. I'm so happy to meet you and look forward to sharing with you! Please be patient as I try to keep up!!
Since this gained some traction maybe I can add, I hope you are doing ok through everything you happen to be contending with right now. It's a lot but we're a strong bunch. I believe in us, we have the truth on our side. Love you lots! ❤
@amandadeibert
@CatStaggs
I once got tongue tied at a lounge when our especially attractive server asked if I was l ready to order. I meant to select the "Messy Fries" from the menu but it came out "I'll get some of your sexy fries".
Everyone at the table laughed at me while I died.
A message to all my trans friends and our supporters. We are stronger than they know. Believe in us. We will never stop fighting for what's right❤️🏳️⚧️✊️
So my friend called me last night to ask me if I'd be his "best person" at his upcoming wedding. We've been best friends for 30 years but I wasn't sure he'd want me in his wedding party. While he has always supported me since transitioning their families are quite conservative.
I've had so many new follows over the last 12 hours. This is a preemptive thank you and welcome. I hope I can reach out to all of you and say hello!! For now I'm working my job so I'll catch up later friends!!
I'm done! I can't feel anything from the waist down which is probably a good thing lol. I'm gonna get some rest now but I want to say thanks to all of you for keeping me in your thoughts. Love you!! xoxo
Over the last few days some of my friends and family who are cis/het are starting to speak out against the transphobia and homophobia being repackaged as parental rights. This is the way.🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈
@ksorbs
What I'm reading between the lines here is "I need a gun so people don't ever challenge my questionable behaviors and attitudes for fear of becoming another statistic."
Fear of speaking out, of challenging power, isn't being polite it's being oppressed through intimidation.
@Shenaniganiry
I saw a couple and blocked them instantly. If I start talking to them they'll start thinking they matter lol. I tend to avoid feeding the trolls the attention they think they deserve except for special cases when I'm in a "mood".
Today is electrolysis day. I continue my quest to become more and more beautiful in hopes that the people who hate me have to hate me even more 🏳️⚧️🖕🏻
@BecomingKelsey
Scott Moe is ok with religious schools abusing kids, and ok with bigots abusing their own kids, just draws the line at kids deciding for themselves who they trust and when to share personal information I guess.
@deesnider
I think it's perhaps disappointing because the statement is in opposition to parents rushing kids through transition or somehow pressuring them to do so against their wishes. It's quite the opposite that happens so defending a strawman argument is a bad look for an ally.
@EdtheSock
I was a trans kid who suppressed it so that people wouldn't reject or harm me. By 27 was ready to kms. Instead I came out, transitioned and flourished since. I was afraid when I was a kid because I felt alone with those feelings. Denying trans kids exist is a blatant falsehood.
@judgementshae
I feel waves of fear for our community, moreso in specific places. My ability to do activism goes through it's own tidal shifts depending on my spoon count. I see lots of reasons to be hopeful but we will probably always be fighting back the hateful and ignorant for our safety
If you're afraid your partner will fip out if they don't like how you voted, you're in an abusive relationship. I hope you can stay safe and find a way out.
@ErinInTheMorn
I've had family try that one with me. I asked how they would feel if they changed their name, remarried or something and I didn't bother to respect that change. I told them it hurt to have my feelings disregarded. Being trans isn't a choice, being kind absolutely is!!
Yesterday, I made a student cry. She was always very fond of my music lessons and I won't be seeing her as she's not coming back next year. Knowing she's going to miss me and has had her eye on my guitar I used at school for awhile, I gave it to her.
#happytears
#kindness
@XtinaGrimwade
Seriously. Had someone told me 17 yrs ago in Canada I'd have to wait this long for grs I would have went to med school and done it my fucking self.
Today's international women's day and I'm gonna shout out to the women, and in particular trans women of Ukraine. You are the strongest of us all because that's the only choice left. Power to you❤🇺🇦
Anyone who dare call a trans person selfish for transitioning better add up all the fucking years before they came out trying to be what everyone else expected them to be.
To call someone selfish when they have at long last made their own well-being a priority is disingenuous
@SmoothShinyShae
Cis people not understanding dysphoria isn't incidental, it's perpetual. I've become ok with telling people they don't have to understand me to respect me, and that respect isn't up for debate.
I like to garden with my wife. She plants things, I build stuff and help weed/water. I steal peas when she's not looking and eat as many raspberries as I can. I look forward to curating our space this summer💚🪴🌞
It's taken some work, but I'm at a time in my personal life that I don't have anyone causing conflict. Online is, of course, a cesspool, but those goofs don't phase me. I'm seeing the rewards of boundary maintenance and self care, and probably a great deal of patience and luck.🏳️⚧️
My wife and I met 14 yrs ago this week! Retweet this pic as much as possible!! It's 20G away from 1 million impressions, which is impressive! Show Twitter what Trans joy can look like!! Show the transphobes the door!!
#Trans
Transphobia is just a mix of cruelty and ignorance. What a sad thing to involve oneself in. Read a book, pet a cat, get some fresh air, and stop abusing people.
People who take issue with trans folk have a skewed concept of what being trans is and how trans people experience/navigate our identities. They're fed manufactured, hateful depictions of us and then attack us based on the lies that they feel permit them to do so. Sadists.
It's our wedding anniversary today!! Coincedentally, we're celebrating at a friends wedding!! Could this day get any better!? Feel free to check out and share my pinned tweet to amplify the love!!❤️🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈
A cleaning, two fillings, a re-coat, flouride treatment, and molds cast for a guard. When asked if I grind my teeth, I just laughed in trans. I think I'm all dentaled out.🦷
@christophelston
I grew up in a conservative city before cell phones. Didn't hear the word transgender until adulthood, which finally gave a term for how I'd been feeling my whole life. People aren't pressured into becoming trans, gay, bi, but we're certainly pressured into being straight/cis.
I've barely seen his family coming out 18 yrs ago. I'm relieved that our friendship is strong and my being trans hasn't changed that. I've always had a nagging feeling my friends are a bit embarrassed of me but I think that's mostly my insecurities. This means alot to me!❤️
#bff
3 weeks after surgery, I'm happy to report I am in fact feeling a wave of relief from dysphoria. Yeah, it's still a ways to go before being healed and truly experiencing the scope of this change, but the intended effect is definitely occurring. I kinda feel happy in my skin 😌
@WarlockChloe
I uh...made a baby 5 years after starting hrt. He's 10 yrs old now and his other mom and I have been together for almost 12 yrs. We got married last summer and I sure didn't expect any of that to happen lol
Well, I don't know if showing my incision is bad Twittering but damn it's gnarly!!
@tonyhawk
My reward for trying to ride my skateboard with my son yesterday. 3 titanium screws, 6 staples, and 1 hell of a scar at the end lol
The truth about trans people isn't that we're being influenced to transition. It's that many of us choose to transition in spite of mounting pressure to remain closeted, remain unhappy, and to be ashamed.
I'm proud to be trans, and to trust my own heart and mind.
#trans
Happy Anniversary to my beautiful wife Kate! I continue to be the luckiest woman alive and look forward to sharing our happy life together. Thank you for being so amazing! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Today is Mother's Day and I know that for some it can be a hard day and not a celebration. I see you and recognize your feelings. This tweet is for those of you with complicated relationships with the mothers in your life and even the mother you may or may not be. You are loved❤️
Don't listen to the naysayers and muckrakers. Transitioning was the best choice I could have made for myself, and it helped me immensely. Improving my sense of wellbeing, eliminating so much persistent anguish. A newfound love of life and harmony with my body. 10 fucking stars!⭐️
If there is an uptick in how many people identify as trans it's 100% due to increased social acceptance creating a safer environment in which people are willing to risk their public safety for personal well-being. Even in these progressive times exist pockets of bigotry.
@LeahWhiston
@KatyMontgomerie
Katy is thoughtful, well-spoken, and people trying to attack her simply for being a trans woman are as disingenuous as they are malicious. Transphobia is ugly.
Trans people are incredible. In a world dead set on making us hate ourselves, we dare to love ourselves more. In a society full of lies, we speak truth to power. Revolution is written into our genetic code. We have already changed the world and continue to make it better. 🏳️⚧️