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PHONE: 215 919 7711 —- AVA CALL ME! Abolitionist; #AbolishFamilyCourt #AbolishCPS #AbolishFamilyPolicing #AbolishAdoption promoting #AdopteeVoices not adopted

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Did you know adoptees are rarely orphaned or unwanted? 98% of birthmothers surveyed would have chosen to parent had they been given resources and support. Perpetuating the myth that adoptees are “unwanted” causes harm.
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This person does what we generally do to feel comfortable with adoption, which is to flatten adoption into two scenarios: 1) the original parents died; 2) the original parents “abandoned” their child. We won’t face the realities of adoption *or* the foster-care system.
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So let me get this straight, a mother can’t ever get her child back after she has signed an adoption contract. An adoptee can’t void their own adoption, or access their OBC, even as an adult. But the adoptive parents? They can return the child, and even get a refund!
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“I’ve always wanted to adopt!” Really? You’ve always wanted someone else’s child?! That’s a really weird thing to always want!
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Why is this legal?
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Only in adoption will people talk about losing your mother like it’s no big deal.
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A mother’s presence reduces cortisol in children, and increases Oxytocin. Cortisol is a stress hormone which in large, prolonged doses causes brain damage. Oxytocin promotes neurogenesis. Childrens brains literally grow from love. Taking a child from their mother is torture.
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From Psychotherapist.Amy_ Let’s normalize asking adoptees how they feel about adoption.
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At its core, adoption is the separation of a mother and child so that a third party can purchase the parenting experience.
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Can you imagine being kept from your entire biological family because some rich, infertile people wanted a baby so they could play house?
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I am just trying to survive without my child. It’s been 6 years since she was ripped out of my arms. I love her with all of my heart; I could have never known what was happening until it happened to me. Now that I know I just can’t stay silent. #AbolishFamilyCourt #AbolishCPS
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My daughter, I love you so much. I miss you so much. I’m so sorry we are being kept apart, I am always thinking of you. You are the light of my life! ❤️💔💕
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I miss my daughter so much. I don’t know how much longer I can stand this pain. It’s so unnecessary and cruel to keep us apart. I don’t understand why anyone would want to hurt a child like this? Depriving her of a priceless thing that only I can give her: A mothers love.
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“Most people will lose their mother once. But if you’re adopted, like me, you’ll face at least three mother losses—when you are surrendered and then when your birth mother and your adoptive mother die.” #MotherLoss #MaternalDeprivation
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If #Adoption is not “buying a baby” explain this: #AdoptionIndustry #ForProfitAdoption
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“Very common for adopted people to be told how lucky they are to have been saved from their own flesh and blood families. Often we are told how awful they are by people who don't even really know them.” Truth About Adoption
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Separating a child from their mother is unnatural and cruel.
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How come when we protested #FamilySeparation during the #BorderCrisis it was understood that taking children from their parents was #torture ; but when it happens through #CPS or #FamilyCourt and in #Adoption people don’t understand that that is also torture? #adopteetwitter
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Why is it always, “You want to meet your bio parents? But how could you do that to your AP’s?! You’ll break their heart!” And never, “you kept them from knowing their bio parents? How could you do that to a child you claim to love? You broke their heart.”
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My adoptive dad, going back to England to visit his city of birth: Non-adoptees: What a positive, life-affirming, natural thing to do. Me, searching for my family of birth: Non-adoptees: Damned ungrateful bastard. Why do you want to hurt your adoptive parents? #AdopteeVoices
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Had a person (someone I admire and respect, mind you) tell me last night “well, you have to admit, at its core, adoption is a good thing, right?” Well, no actually. Although I understand where you’re coming from, and how you came to that conclusion. But, no.
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I should be raising my daughter right now. Nothing feels right without her in my life. This is not living. This is just existing. 💔
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We take babies from their mothers and we say “here, these are your new parents now” and we expect them to be ok with it.
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I want to know the names of the paper-shuffling social workers who decided who I was going to call “mom” and “dad.”
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What does this mean?
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People really think being infertile is a problem that someone else should solve for them by giving them a baby. It’s not a pregnant persons job, and certainly not an INFANTS job, to fill void in someone else’s life. This is not hard! #StopBuyingBabies
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All of this. #MarybethDoctor
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I asked her where she got the idea that “most birth mothers don’t want to be found”.
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Keeping a child from knowing their biological relatives is a form of child psychological and emotional abuse. Sadly, it has been normalized by the #AdoptionIndustry however, it is cruel and inhumane and must stop.
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Sending love to mothers separated from their children, and children separated from their mothers, because of family policing, family court, cps, the adoption industry, or any other corrupt government organization that traffics them for profit.
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Your ability to purchase a child says nothing about your ability to parent said child: Children should not be for sale to begin with.
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Adoption is supposed to meet the needs of the adoptee, not the adopters.
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Whenever I hear “What about people who want to adopt?”, I am hearing the truth about adoption going off script.
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You are not more deserving of someone else’s child because you can afford a better lawyer. No one is entitled to someone else’s child. Children are entitled to their parents. The US #AdoptionIndustry violates the basic human rights of children. #AbolishFamilyCourt
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I’ve actually heard it’s closer to $1,500. Which is why less babies were “available for adoption” after people received stimulus checks.
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Man the ratio on this. My view of adoption changed entirely when I found out that most birth mothers would keep their babies if given only about $4000 and resources. This company and others charges rich prospective parents $50,000 for this baby, and the mother usually isn’t paid.
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In 10 days my daughter will be 10 years old, and I haven’t seen her since she was 5. Please, please, help me reunite with my daughter! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻, #parentalalienation #AvaBenincasa #stolenchildren #ReuniteFamilies
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Children need their mothers, even if their mothers are experiencing (sometimes temporary) financial setbacks.
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Everyday without your child is like a knife stabbing you in the heart. Every single day, no matter what you’re doing. or what it looks like. No one can tell, you have to hide it, otherwise you’ll never make it…But, every single moment of the day the stabbing pain is there.
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“You could always adopt!” Translation: “You could always purchase the child of a marginalized person experiencing poverty and/or a temporary crisis, irreparably harming and traumatizing them both, in order to fulfill your selfish desires to cosplay parenthood!”
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Tony Corsentino
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People who tell me that adoption is an “option” should maybe think a little harder about what a genuine, freely chosen option is. And then learn a bit about the circumstances under which adoptions actually happen in the US and everywhere else in the world.
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That is to say, “losing your entire biological family the day of your birth is a risk factor for suicide”. When you put it that way, it makes sense, because that is an enormous loss. We have to stop sugarcoating adoption and call it what it is. #AdoptionIsViolence
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Separating an infant child from their mother is one of the cruelest, most violent and inhumane crimes against nature imaginable.
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Tony Corsentino
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“You angry adoptees love to play the victim” We are taken out of our original families, communities, cultures, countries; given new names & fake identity documents; told to embrace someone else’s fantasy as reality and not to dig up our own pasts. Where is *our* agency in this?
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People who ask “but where will all the unwanted babies go?” Do you really think there’s just a pile of unwanted babies lying around with nowhere to go? I assure you that is not the case!
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I wish #FamilyCourt was public like the #JohnnyDepptrial
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Imagine having your child ripped from your arms, or conversely, being a child ripped from the arms of your mother. Now imagine consistently being told this horrific, life altering trauma that you experienced was “beautiful”.
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Adoption is 'beautiful' 🤔🤨 Anyone out there who thinks this is actually true?? I'm here to listen 😊 But what I am NOT is YOUR ranting post when my EXPERIENCES/TRAUMAS disagree with you 🤨 Just saying 🫶 #adoptees ARE the true PROFESSIONALS We have LIVED it
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Some states now offer two weeks of ‘bereavement leave’ for HAP’s when their adoption “fails”. But do they offer bereavement leave for birthmothers after relinquishment? No! Can you imagine grieving because a family stayed together?!
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Adoption is about ownership, not child welfare. Owning a child and legally altering their identity does nothing for their wellbeing, and is unnecessary to provide them with care.
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You would think it’s a record of a birth! For adoptees, NO IT IS NOT. It’s a certificate of ownership.
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I hope that everyone who takes a child from their mother experiences pain equivalent to the pain they caused that child.
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I can’t get over the fact that they feel entitled to other peoples children because they have more money. They literally think they deserve them more.
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Adoption is not child centered, and that’s the problem. Adoption was meant to be about finding homes for children in need, not finding children for parents who want them. That adoption has become a profit driven industry is atrocious.
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Tony Corsentino
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Treating criticism of adoption as a personal attack upon adopters merely confirms what critics of adoption are saying: adoption, as legal arrangement and as social practice, exists to meet the needs of adopters first.
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Adoptive parents who don’t allow contact with bio parents are abusive. Contact denial is child abuse. Closed adoptions should be illegal, they violate the rights of the child.
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I love my daughter, Ava, with all my heart. We haven’t seen each other since she was 5. I wish my ex would let us see each other for her birthday.
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Most adoptees are not actually “orphans” which means they are grieving the loss of living relatives and their living relatives are grieving the loss of them, all because of a strangers desire to experience the joy of parenthood.
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I haven’t seen my daughter in over 3 years. #ParentalAlienation is child abuse.
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#Adoptees have every right to be angry.
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Adoptee Thoughts :
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If you haven’t been ripped from your mother as a small child, or had a small child ripped from your loving arms, you might not understand. #ListenToAdoptees #AdopteeVoices #AdoptionIsTrauma #EndFamilyPolicing
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Adoption is trauma, though “happy adoptees” are fond of saying they’re not traumatized whatsoever. Not everyone who experiences trauma will consider themselves “traumatized”, but many do, and their feelings are valid. My heart goes out to everyone experiencing #AdoptionTrauma
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I get so sad 😞 I try to fight it, but most times, I lose. I just mourn relationships I never had. I feel like I have to be grateful for crumbs. Some things you never heal from, you just learn to carry the burden for your entire life. #AdopteeVoices
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Adoption doesn’t guarantee a “better life”, only a different one.
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@Wooley3465 @metrospectre @CdrRogdan @bandit_zombie @disabilityharpy @fight4women @maqart55 @kpopnquarantine @zaphod67 @bigredsibin @Kuntrella @Blackbea16Manon @_2Sides1Stone @suannelqr @DFS_Lawd @felicia_hart13 @pixposies @FrackHazReveal Adjacency to adoptees renders you not at all knowledgeable as to how it feels to be adopted. We rarely talk about it because we’re expected to be grateful for ‘being saved’ and ‘a better life’. My life was not better, and in the most important aspects it was far worse.
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This is what i’ll never understand - How can someone be so cruel to a child they claim to love so much?
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My adoptive mother just admitted that she had an opportunity to get some health history information from one of my bio family members but she didn’t follow through bc she was afraid it would alert someone in the family who wanted me back. So that’s fun. #AdopteeVoices
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#ParentalAlienation is child abuse.
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Strip away all the “adoption is beautiful” BS we’ve had shoved down our throats by the industry, and think about what #Adoptees have actually been through. Do you think you could cope with a loss like that? #AdoptionIsNotBeautiful #AdoptionIsTrauma
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You think adoption is beautiful? It’s 100% profit driven. Babies, for sale. #BabiesForSale #AdoptionIndustry
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How completely messed up is this system? It’s 2024 & instead of providing funds for children to stay w/ kin, the state of Iowa would provide up to $20 000 to encourage complete strangers to change a child’s identity. #AdopteeVoices
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You don’t need evidence in #FamilyCourt , #FalseAllegations are accepted, evidence is not required, and perjury is not punished. #AbolishFamilyCourt
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Just because a child isn’t begging to be allowed to see their biological mother, doesn’t mean they aren’t secretly hoping, wishing and praying to be reunited with her. #AdoptionTruth
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So simple, and yet I never heard it said like this before. #AdopteeVoice #AdopteeVoices
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Stop separating families for profit.
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Taking a child from their mother is not “doing God’s work”, and adoptive parents are not saints! They are purchasing other peoples children so they can play house!
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This is how children are “rehomed” on facebook like pets! This is completely outrageous. This poor child was taken from his family, only now to be passed around and further traumatized. They call this “protection”. #FuckAdoption #AbolishCPS #EndFamilyPolicing
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It really is possible to care for children in crisis without legally owning them. Without changing their name, severing them from all bio relatives, etc. Adoption is a system of oppression and it must be abolished.
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If you “know a kid who’s adopted, and they seem happy” please keep in mind the enormous pressure they are under to maintain that illusion.
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I want to clarify that I mean listen to *adult* adoptees. It's not because I don't think children deserve a voice. It's because children tend to comply with what their taught and should not be expected to articulate things like trauma. Also, stop infantilizing adopted people.
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Adoption is rooted in colonialism and white supremacy. There is no reason for a child in need of care to be taken away from their entire community and robbed of their culture.
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"One important value in tribal ethics is that a child who loses a parent is accepted and cared for by other relatives in the tribal system. There was no concept of legal termination of parental rights before the Americanization of the tribal court systems which followed... + 1/3
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They say “given up” or “relinquished” when they really mean “pressured and coerced” or just “straight up stolen”. The adoption industry has created their own purposely misleading feel-good lingo to make the consumer believe that child trafficking is benevelont.
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#AdopteeTwitter . House and support the mother, then her baby won’t have to be “given up”. Taken away more like it!
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The #AdoptionIndustry would like us to believe that there are piles of unwanted newborns laying around, and that adopting them is the “green solution”. In reality, the demand for newborn babies far outweighs the “supply”.
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The act of severing a child from their mother is a violent and abusive act, which causes lifelong trauma to both mother and child.
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Adoptees don’t need to prove to you that our adoptive parents were abusers. The abuse at the root of adoption is in the severance it imposes upon us, and in the disempowerment of pregnant people in crisis. It’s not surprising that a system built on exploitation attracts abusers.
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Taking children from poor families and selling them to rich families as a solution to poverty. A pretty wild concept is right.
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#FamilySeparation is torture, yet #Adoptees are expected to be grateful?
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This is from December 26th, 2017 the last time I saw my daughter, Ava. She is actually inside my shirt in this picture, because she wanted to do “belly to belly”. #AbolishCPS #AbolishFamilyCourt #AbolishFamilyPolicing #ReuniteFamilies #EndFamilySeparation #EndChildTrafficking
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Saying someone “lost custody” of their child is purposely misleading adoption industry propaganda. Custody is auctioned off to the higher bidder. Children aren’t “lost”, they’re stolen and sold for profit.
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“Slavery is the ownership of a person as property, especially in regards to their labour.[1] Slavery typically involves compulsory work with the slave's location of work and residence dictated by the party that holds them in bondage.” (From Wikipedia)
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Closed adoptions are a HRV and should be illegal! #HumanRightsViolation #AdopteeRights
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Those of us advocating for adoptee rights have to start at square one; convincing people that it’s bad to take a child from their mother.
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@suzannecutler10 That's bc it's somehow still hard to convince ppl that separation at birth is traumatic. Esp if ppl are convinced the child is going to a "better" home. 😑
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Closed adoption IS child abuse.
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Good question.
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I want my daughter back! And she wants me, her mom!! Keeping us apart is cruel.
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I’ve heard its closer to 98%, clearly “unwanted babies” are a MYTH. The language is meant to imply that birthmothers are “choosing” adoption, when in reality they are manipulated and coerced, or lied to and promised “open adoptions” (which are not legally enforceable.)
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