I've been seeing a lot of dommes struggling with getting started and getting scammed a lot so I've been looking for beginner guides, this one is good for new dommes
New dommes are just as important as experienced dommes.
We all started somewhere, and everyone deserves a chance!
As long as you're committed and consistent, you're gonna kill it even when it seems like you want to give up
Consistently sending her silent tributes anonymously then introducing yourself a week or two after
Sometimes thoughts matter more than the amount.
Learn how to make her happy even with smaller amounts
Aftercare is so underrated that when it happens, it makes me want to commit to only one domme and it creates a lot of comfort and trust between a domme and a sub.
Tip for dommes
#4
Not every sub is into degradation or humiliation so, if you’re going to approach THEM, don’t start hurling abuse and insults thinking you’re being dominant when you’re just being rude to a sub for no reason.
I normally feel guilt and shame and will do a runner now and then but I would always come back so I think I'm just going to accept my place and find an ethical domme that really works with me and helps me better myself to serve her better!
Just woke up in sweat dreaming about a goddess I never served on here and the dream had nothing to do with findom, it keeps pinching my brain.
If she interacted with this tweet in anyway I'm sending her 1k because wow
Sometimes you can delight a domme with minimal effort.
A simple gesture like sending for coffee can tell her a lot about you as a sub. It's just the beginning, and you'll most likely want to send more.
Start by showing you're useful one way or another. Even starting small.
If you're afraid to create some sort of relationship with your subs, you're most likely not going to have a long term servitude.
Subs and Dommes, don't be afraid to build a relationship
Don't let anyone undermine your worth, new dommes!
Your energy, dedication, and passion are just as important as anyone else's.
Keep shining bright! ✨👑
I LOVE proving vanilla girls and new dommes wrong when they don't believe that real paypigs exist
Their reaction always reminds me of why I started this in the first place