@imo_drew
๐ yeah I'd be running. So basically by saying you should still hang out platonically, he has given control of your sex life to a third party. I would absolutely not be ok with that. There's no way this isn't hierarchical.
@WhatTheADHD
Interesting. This particular window of time is really a struggle for me as well. For many years - it's when I would start drinking. But even now - I just feel really anxious during that time in general. I don't like being out of my house then LOL.
@ddlg_playground
Of course it can. Can it work FOR EVERYONE? No. Or EVERY relationship dynamic? Also no. There are like infinite variables. And who is to say when it has deemed to "have worked"? ๐คฃ๐คฃ.
@meetmissmarie
I once gave someone a list of times I would be available, which amounted to nearly 40 hours in a week, and the guy asked why I wasn't available more... like... because i don't WANT to be, for one thing. LOL.