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Bi+ Confessions

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Updates pinned. This account exists for all you lovely bi+, pan, omni, ply, abro folks to share your anon thoughts, confessions, rambles and annoyances. We'll post within 6-8 hours, and usually quicker. Submit here:

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If you don't want to DM @OurBiSecrets on twitter, this form adds another layer of anonymity. We'll check it a couple of times a week.

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Bi+ Confessions

@OurBiSecrets

7 months

So lemme get this straight. If I (a bi woman) have sex with a woman, I'm just a male-gazing dirty fetishizer who takes advantage of real™ queer women. But if I don't have sex with women, I'm just using queerness as an aesthetic?

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@OurBiSecrets

10 months

I hate the bi VS pan bullshit so much. We’re all attracted to multiple genders, who cares what label other people want to call themselves? We should be working together against our shared oppression instead of oppressing one another and tearing each other down.

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@OurBiSecrets

3 years

"Bi means two like Oct mean eight. Only sometimes and only when we want it to".

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@OurBiSecrets

1 year

If anyone calls me half gay half straight, I'm gonna call them half bisexual 🤷‍♂️

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@OurBiSecrets

3 years

"Coming out as bi was the best decision I ever made. That's it. That's the confession".

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@OurBiSecrets

1 year

"Fascinating how biphobia, transphobia and aro/acephobia all connect with each other (scratch a transphobe, find a biphobe, etc, etc). People really hate things that challenge the binary, don't they"

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@OurBiSecrets

10 months

It's always "bisexual women shouldn't bring their boyfriends into queer spaces because he's homophobic." But I never see those people calling out the gays and lesbians with their racist, transphobic, fatphobic and ableist partners

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@OurBiSecrets

2 years

We don't publish panphobia. Sorry you wasted your time typing all that out.

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@OurBiSecrets

11 months

Dating a bi girl as a bi guy is freaking awesome. If she's checking out a cute guy, so am I!!

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@OurBiSecrets

10 months

People be like "bisexual women always end up with men." Haha, well joke's on you because I'm gonna end up all alone 🥲

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@OurBiSecrets

10 months

Time after time I keep seeing viral tweets attacking bi women who have never had sex with women. How come you never have this energy for lesbians who have never been with a woman? Why do bisexuals have to jump through a million hoops to prove our queerness?

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@OurBiSecrets

1 year

"Ive been questioning my gender presentation, and feeling an affinity with the butch identity. I want to talk to someone about it. But as a bisexual woman in a long term relationship with a man, I don't feel like I have the right to explore that part of myself. It's very lonely."

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Bi+ Confessions

@OurBiSecrets

2 years

1/2 "In order to prevent domestic violence against bisexual women, it is necessary to make it easier for women to leave abusive relationships. One strategy is supporting women to reach financial independence and have more agency in managing their private and professional lives.

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@OurBiSecrets

1 year

1/2 "im bi gay. i dont like women but i like men & enbies that arent men and my attraction to them feels different then binary men, since im nblnb. i tried identifying as bi but everyone thinks it means attraction to men and women and im just so tired...

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@OurBiSecrets

2 months

We as bi people desperately need cooler and sexier stereotypes than things like lemon bars and cuffed jeans.

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@OurBiSecrets

2 years

1/2 "Honestly the prevalence of Bi and Pan people in rock/metal/punk etc fandoms needs to be seriously studied, because they seem to go hand in hand. Both the sexuality and the music mean you're looked down upon in Straight and Gay communities,

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@OurBiSecrets

3 years

"I wish there had been more bisexual representation when I was younger".

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@OurBiSecrets

2 years

1/2 "Tempted to play the villain and call any relationship with a bisexual person involved a “bisexual relationship” just like monosexuals like to erase bisexual partners and call the relationship “gay relationship” “straight relationship” “lesbian relationship”. They can pretend

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@OurBiSecrets

2 years

1/2 "People love to say that bisexuals who are dating the opposite gender don't face discrimination, aren't actually queer, shouldn't be going to LGBTQ events, etc. They only view us as valid members of the community if we're dating the same gender. But of course they would

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Bi+ Confessions

@OurBiSecrets

2 years

"When I think about my bisexuality, sometimes I am overcome with a feeling of joy and pride. Then I go online and see the infighting in the queer community or hear something biphobic and I am brought down again. This seems to be the new bi-cycle for me."

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@OurBiSecrets

1 year

Shoutout to the awkward bisexuals who have no idea how to date! <3

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@OurBiSecrets

2 years

"The bi umbrella makes up the second largest percentage in this world, and that’s only accounting for those who aren’t closeted as monosexual or questioning. Don’t let anyone make you feel like you’re faking being bi just because they can’t believe there are so many of us".

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@OurBiSecrets

2 years

Having a tantrum in the Google form isn't going to change this.

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@OurBiSecrets

2 years

We don't publish panphobia. Sorry you wasted your time typing all that out.

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@OurBiSecrets

3 years

"I feel like I don't really "belong" anywhere, too gay for the straight world and not gay enough for the LGBT+ world. I "look straight" too so that adds another layer of fear of if I’ll be accepted b/c of how I look and act".

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@OurBiSecrets

1 year

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@OurBiSecrets

2 years

"More attracted, less attracted, equally attracted, not attracted. I’M BI. Monosexuals, stop dissecting bi into categories of “how monosexual” to identify us. I am not monosexual. I AM BI. That is ALL you need to know. Your prejudices and biphobia don’t define me".

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@OurBiSecrets

2 years

"I'm a bi woman and I feel real joy when my bisexual boyfriend talks openly about his relationships or sexual adventures with men. We don't have to explain ourselves to each other, we both get it. It's a very special bond and wish for every bi+ person to experience it".

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@OurBiSecrets

2 years

"I hate how people can make “jokes” like “ex-bisexual” and everybody just laughs. But if someone said “ex-homosexual” there would be an uproar".

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@OurBiSecrets

2 years

1/2 "I’m a bi woman dating a straight guy who uses he/him pronouns but refer to him using they/them in queer women circles because I don’t want to justify liking a guy. I still remember how I was laughed at the first time I said I was bi in a queer women space.

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@OurBiSecrets

10 months

I actually love being bi. I came out way into adulthood and I feel so free!

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@OurBiSecrets

3 years

"If I didn't put up with a small amount of biphobia from my dates I wouldn't date at all".

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@OurBiSecrets

2 years

"I feel like I don't really "belong" anywhere, too gay for the straight world and not gay enough for the LGBT+ world. I "look straight" too so that adds another layer of fear of if I’ll be accepted b/c of how I look and act".

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@OurBiSecrets

1 year

"Too many people treat bisexual and bisexuality as dirty words. "I don't like labels" "I'm heteroflexible" just say you're bi! No-one's going to shit on you for it."

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@OurBiSecrets

3 years

"I kinda only want to date other bisexuals".

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@OurBiSecrets

3 years

"I am a bi woman married to a straight man. I don’t feel like I fit into the straight or gay world. I would give anything to be a part of a bi/pan/queer community, but I don’t know where to start".

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@OurBiSecrets

3 years

"I came out to a group of my coworkers who assumed I was straight today. I immediately felt weird and nervous. Not because of anything that they said. I guess it’s just my internalized biphobia. I hate that!"

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@OurBiSecrets

2 years

2/2 "Which means that supporting worker's rights is not only a feminist issue but also important for bi+ activism. Happy first of May, everyone! ✊🚩".

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@OurBiSecrets

2 years

1/2 "Sorry, but the whole “be who you are” and kumbaya performance shit during pride always feels fake to me when everyone treats bisexuals like “don’t be bi” “be a cishet ally” “be gay instead” “be lesbian instead”. Are lgbtq organizations ever

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@OurBiSecrets

2 years

2/2 "never say the same thing to a gay person who's not in a relationship or invalidate them for not currently dating someone of the same gender."

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@OurBiSecrets

11 months

Bi4bi until I die

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@OurBiSecrets

10 months

“Pansexual is more progressive” “You’re just biphobic!” MY SIBLINGS IN CHRIST trans people are being bullied by everyone and a woman was shot for a FLAG. Get some perspective!

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@OurBiSecrets

1 year

"I feel like there's a tendency to overintellectualize why we're atracted to people in the queer community, so here's a reminder that you can just be attracted to someone because they're attractive, and you don't need to cite some obscure gender theorist to justify it."

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Bi+ Confessions

@OurBiSecrets

3 years

"What's the point in having notable bi organisations if they just go around blocking their own people? Never interacted with and they went and blocked me!"

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@OurBiSecrets

1 year

1/2 "(Bi "Guy") attempting to date women is significantly complicated by the fact I'm 1) Bi (sadly it's a dealbreaker for some women) 2) naturally more submissive in bed, and 3) questioning my gender. what a combo to navigate a heavily

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@OurBiSecrets

1 year

2/2 "i want labels that will be comfy for me and wont be controversial aaaaah - 🕸"

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@OurBiSecrets

2 years

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@OurBiSecrets

8 months

I feel like I'd love something like a casual romantic partner, like the opposite of casual sex, just someone I could be affectionate and cute with without the pressure of being in a long-term relationship. A fuckbuddy/hookup but for romance

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Bi+ Confessions

@OurBiSecrets

3 years

"Sometimes I'm more scared to tell visibly LGBT+ people that I'm bi than straight people, for fear that they won't believe me because I don't "look" LGBT+, and I've seen how much hate gets thrown at guys who don't look LGBT for not being effeminate enough".

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@OurBiSecrets

2 years

"Can I still be bi if I don’t know what my preference is?"

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@OurBiSecrets

1 year

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@OurBiSecrets

3 years

"I’m the only fully out bi man that I know in real life and I’m just making it up as I go".

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@OurBiSecrets

2 years

"PSA for Straight, Lesbian and Gay people: Just because someone "looks" straight, it doesn't mean that they are"

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@OurBiSecrets

2 years

"Not a confession, but the B in LGBTQ doesn’t stand for Biphobes. For any LGBTQ saying kick bisexuals from the LGBTQ, let’s kick biphobes from the LGBTQ instead. We’re here. We’re queer. Bisexuals are here to stay. Pass it along".

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@OurBiSecrets

2 years

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@OurBiSecrets

3 years

"Anti-pan bisexuals make me ashamed to be bi and I 100% believe that claims that pansexuality is biphobic prevent us from dealing with actual biphobia by making it look like a non-issue".

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@OurBiSecrets

3 years

"I am so tired of being asked why I (a bi monogamous man married to a straight woman) feel the need to be out as bi since it seriously damages career prospects and it 'doesn't matter anyway.' It's because it's an essential part of my identity and I'm tired of being invisible!"

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@OurBiSecrets

2 years

"I'm going #bi4bi . It's the only way forward".

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@OurBiSecrets

5 months

Shoutout to the bi's that find body hair attractive on men. We're going on a bear hunt... 🐻

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@OurBiSecrets

2 years

"When you finally realise in your late 30s that you have been bi since you've been a teenager and can happily and peacefully in your mind embrace who you are....I'm still whispering it to myself at the moment, but every day that passes brings a little more happiness! 💓💜💙"

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@OurBiSecrets

1 year

"I'm bi. That's the whole secret".

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@OurBiSecrets

1 year

Don't get me wrong I love cool and badass bisexuals in films/TV/books, etc. But I do wish there were more examples of shy and awkward bisexuals. If anyone has any examples, I'd love to hear them!

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@OurBiSecrets

3 years

"I've been a bi activist for a few years but I'm pretty sure I'm gay and I don't know what to do. I've mislead so many people".

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@OurBiSecrets

2 years

"I went to my first ever pride yesterday (Swansea) and seeing so many Bi and Pan pride flags made me feel so happy <3".

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@OurBiSecrets

3 years

"I feel like an imposter in LGBTQIA+ spaces. I'm a guy who's been in a Hetero relationship for 6 years and realised I was Bi 2 years in. My partner is very supportive but I still feel like I am imposing in queer spaces by not being in a same-sex relationship"

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@OurBiSecrets

2 years

2/2 "off rip that it won’t bother them, but let’s see how they feel down the years of being erased like they purposely erase bisexuals. Maybe then they’ll learn to stop labeling relationships with sexual orientations and stop acting like erasing bisexual partners doesn’t hurt us"

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@OurBiSecrets

3 years

"I’m not a monogamy bi or a polyam bi. I’m just a “do whatever feels right for me in the moment” bi. Can any other bisexuals relate?"

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@OurBiSecrets

7 months

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@OurBiSecrets

2 years

"I was thinking about the whole "I wouldn't choose to be bi because wouldn't choose oppression" narrative. I would choose to be bi. It's awesome. I won't let oppression define me".

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@OurBiSecrets

3 years

"I'm in a polyamorous relationship with different genders and I don't care I people think I'm a bad bi for also being poly".

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@OurBiSecrets

2 years

"You’re so right! I’m not gay enough. I’m not lesbian enough. I’m not straight enough. That’s just it! I’m bi enough! I’m not monosexual. Monosexuality isn’t the default".

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@OurBiSecrets

7 months

you're so desperate to call us straight! you say a bi woman dating a man is no different from a straight woman dating a man. well then i guess that means a gay person without a partner is the same as a single straight person 🤪

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@OurBiSecrets

2 years

1/2 "As a teenager I felt bad about myself for fantasizing about women, not only men. Today, in queer and feminist spaces, I feel bad about myself for liking men. I feel like it's shameful or like I'm supporting the patriarchy and exploiting the queer community.

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@OurBiSecrets

3 years

"I'm bisexual but I'm so picky that I don't end up being attracted to many people at all".

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@OurBiSecrets

2 years

Dear Bi+, If you ever feel lonely or unlovable in this world, remember we love you always and forever and unconditionally. You are the epitome of love itself. Sincerely, Your Heart & Soul

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@OurBiSecrets

1 year

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@OurBiSecrets

1 year

People talk a lot about bi's being fluid etc, but at a time where I'm questoning my gender and what exact type of non-cis I am, my bisexuality is ironically the most fixed, solid thing about me

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@OurBiSecrets

2 years

1/3 "I'm scared of people who aren't bisexual. I know that sounds weird,but I'm scared to even talk about my experiences as a bisexual with those who are not. I've been harassed on tumblr by GROWN women when I was only 13. They called me a "bi whore" or a "dick maiden".

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@OurBiSecrets

1 year

Sometimes I feel like bisexuality is wasted on me because I'm 29 and have never been in a relationship of any kind and never been kissed. I'm just so introverted, non-assertive and rubbish at talking to people

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@OurBiSecrets

2 years

"Tbh I always wonder why bi+ women are erased by feminist history. We have always been such a big part of it, but let anybody else tell it and all you hear is “straight women” “lesbians”".

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@OurBiSecrets

1 year

"i genuinely do not want to date monosexuals at all, none of them ever understand my identity and its very annoying"

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@OurBiSecrets

1 year

"I feel guilty for wanting the community to centre bisexual issues for a while"

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@OurBiSecrets

3 years

"I'm so tired of discourse. I just want to live".

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@OurBiSecrets

3 years

"So I kind of want to get this off my chest. As a teacher I know that coming out at work would be huge in terms of representation for a lot of bi students, but I’m barely out to anybody and I’m not brave enough. I kind of hate myself for it".

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@OurBiSecrets

3 years

"I didn’t come out as bi for years because I’ve only ever been in straight relationships. It took me a long time to realise that bisexuality is not defined by who you have been with, but who you are open to being with".

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@OurBiSecrets

2 years

2/2 "so is it any wonder we tend to gravitate to them? We're all a bunch of grubby moshers basically..."

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