I like the sending a man the invisible ink text idea. Another idea for y’all…create a shared/private album and add him on the invite list. You can upload a bunch of videos and pics and he’ll be surprised every time he checks the album. 😊
Let BMF be a prime example on how a man doesn’t leave a woman completely alone until that woman is done. You see how Terry ran back to his family after Markaisha was done!?😂 So predictable!
I highly recommend journaling! You really get to see your growth and how much you actually healed from certain things. It also can serve as an accountability reminder.
One thing I learned in my 20s about being a ride or die kind of chick is that you’re most definitely gonna ride on the highway to hell AND DIE! I’ll never be that kind of woman EVER again lol!
Friendship is not about going out and being bad b**ches on the scene all the time. A true friendship is about being there for each other during the lows and the highs. It’s about respecting, protecting, and being loyal to each other.
Learn the art of detachment. Abundance over scarcity mindset. Boundaries. Read self help books. Have a good skin care routine. Have a clean diet. Workout. Take your vitamins. Focus on building your career early so you can party later with more money. Men will always be there.
When a woman is secure and happy in a relationship she’s going to pour so much into you you not even gonna believe that kind of love even existed. And that’s what y’all men failed to realize.
I think we should all be mindful that everyone is living life for the first time….no one is going to have it all figured out. Everyday is an opportunity for self discovery and personal development!
I love the part of growth where you don’t feel like being in spaces that don’t align with who you or be around people that don’t deserve access to you. ✨
I really don’t believe in closure. You can heal on on your own. You don’t need the very person that disrespected you to help you understand why they spit in your face and dragged you through the mud. I truly believe people that seek closure subconsciously desire a person back.
Some of these men will see a hard working woman and want to take the load off her…offer a helping hand. Then you got the others that offer nothing and have the nerve to try to drain her of her energy and complain all day. My biggest ick!
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Please stop acting like this don’t happen in real life. Men do it all the time. Trust me I’m very self aware and smart to know the difference between just a show and real life.
Choosing the right man to father your children is more important than rushing to be in a relationship all because of “biological clock”… or because you think you’re “in love”. I promise you!!!
I feel like if you really like/love a guy and you notice he’s paying every dinner or whatever the least you can do is acknowledge that and say “hey bae dinner is on me today” or take him to do his favorite thing. Show some appreciation.
You should never hit a woman with “you can come if you want to” that’s not a real invite. Especially if you love her. A simple “I would like for you to come with me” “I want you to be there”. It’s like some men don’t care how they crush a woman’s spirit.
Let me tell y’all women something. You never have to prove to another woman that your ex is a terrible, she’s gonna figure it out. Trust me. Let her look old and stressed out.
God is very intentional. If you look back and pay attention to how certain things played out you will realize and understand why those things happened.
You get one life…stop living it for other people. Do what you want. Say what you want. Check mfs or don’t. Cuss them mfs out…or not lol. Whatever brings you peace. Stop giving af about other peoples’ opinions. I promise you they don’t even like themselves fr.
My favorite prayer of all time is the removal prayer. It works expeditiously. I said the biggest one before my 30th birthday and God did a clean sweep all at once. So make sure you’re prepared and specific!!!
I don’t believe in cheating and making the relationship work! Having sex with another person is not an accident! It’s a damn choice ! That’s just me. I’m not tolerating that shit! On my momma!