Even when you “pass” a test by removing someone from your life the universe will send you someone extremely similar to see if you’ve really learned your lesson 😭
the 2H/8H axis feels like the “doll” axis sometimes. I’ve seen 8Hsers and ppl who have 8H synastry w/ their family be treated like dress-up dolls to project on.
She prioritized the feelings of a boy she had never even met over her own child and I will never forget it. “He was probably just happy to be talking to you and you behaved so cruelly towards him.” Wicked bitch
A boy kissed me against my will in the 10th grade and I called my mother crying, she laughed at me. Next period I gently told him it wouldn’t work out btwn us. When I told my mom she said I should be grateful a boy desired me and yelled at me for hurting his feelings.
anyway, when they display their individuality or frankly even EXIST in a way that doesn’t align with the idea of them that exists in the others’ heads it’s met with cruelty or emotional abandonment. have a breakout? they’ll act like looking at you is a burden
I wish my family was actually intellectual. They loved my pursuit of knowledge as a kid because it made them look good and they could take credit for it, but now that I’m an adult it makes them look stupid so they resent it
She told me the boys I liked would never want me back so I should basically settle for the ones that would assault me. This was a woman who always propped herself up as a fiercely protective “mama bear,” mind u.
The dress-up, appearance-related part is usually more prevalent with girls but I know 8Hser boys who have their appearances nitpicked by their families too
@europeanfairy
It’s an established pattern for millions of girls and often taken to much worse extremes. It can and is being challenged and fought but I see proof if its existence every day
sometimes ppl are shocked that saturn naks suffer immensely because they hear that they’re auspicious. like, ime the good results often happen after or are concurrent with the suffering
my eldest mausi, or maternal aunt, (1H Magha Sun, PP Mercury) is not perfect by ANY MEANS but it’s insane to see how her own mother, sister, AND husband are just constantly trying to dim her light
one thing I love about Bharanis is that (unless they have more Jupiterian energy in the chart) they tend to resist religious conditioning easily. They’re more likely to question what they’re being told and resist the narrow confines that organized religion/society place on women
@VENUS1NSATURN
yeah we gotta be critical thinkers about this because what some ancient sages considered to be a bad person won’t necessarily fit what modern people think a bad person is
Like I hear about my friends reading cool books on and discussing history and science with their parents and aunts and uncles and I’m like 🥲 I can’t even watch the news with these mfs bc they start belligerently yelling at the headlines without listening to the actual story
A pattern I’ve observed is that Ardras can be /very/ territorial over their interests and style, often because they weren’t rly allowed to be themselves or were discouraged from expressing themselves in their youth.
I hate to break it to y’all like I know you guys are sick of the western individualistic culture because you live in one and it sucks but romanticizing collectivist cultures when they have their own social horrors is not it. like mayyyyyyybe there should be…balance
I really don’t give a fuck about family honor. Too many women have suffered in silence or been murdered because of this nebulous concept since time immemorial. Family honor can go to hell
Astrology loka says that ppl with Rahu in Virgo have to learn to let people help them and not try to do everything themselves and it got me wondering. How many of you w/ this placement deal w/ weaponized incompetence and sabotage from others?
@akirasliight
yeah this is an established pattern ive noticed with many sidereal taurus. they get super clingy and manipulative when they need emotional fulfillment but god forbid you come to them for the same thing. the negative side of taurus feels like emotional vampirism
like literally every time I see someone say lunar ppl are detached, stingy, cold yadda yadda i’m like “it’s because they do not like you” or have other placements and aspects that are making them that way.
I hope everyone has a beautiful and blessed day on this Mula full Moon ❤️🔥💗🌕 May Ketu’s flames cleanse your life of what is holding you back from reaching your highest potential
I hate when I dislike someone immediately for seemingly no reason I’m always like oh I’m just being a hater but they always reveal themselves eventually. I still feel crazy until then tho every time
@Stellar_Astro1
Sometimes I can be legit lazy but 90% of the time my “laziness” is fatigue from chronic pain, executive dysfunction, or being emotionally drained.
People thinking Gojo gives Sunshine energy need to be studied. that man is mean and blunt and super straightfoward. he's extroverted but he's not by any chance //nice//
Yuuji is a sunshine character! Tanjiro!! Part of the description is being "overly nice." Gojo is none of that