Author|International Speaker|MC|Facilitator|HIV coach. Child of God and saved by Grace. Awarding winner: African youth hero 2019. Founder of LM INSPIRATIONS.
How I got infected with HIV.
I was 17, my friend and I went to a club to watch a performance by Chomee. During the performance, I spotted Tebogo Ndlovu (Zombo), and he was winking at me. He had lost a lot of weight.
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I remember in 2011 when I had full blown AIDS the doctor's told my family to take me to a hospice, cause there was nothing they could do to help me. Years later I am still here, I woke up from my death bed more than once. You will pass through whatever situation you are going thr
Good morning, my name is Lebogang Brenda Motsumi aka African Queen. I am NOT HIV, I am LIVING with HIV. I am not the virus, the virus lives in me.
I am not defined by HIV, but I define HIV.
I was molested at the age of 5 and raped twice (once by a policeman).I did 3 abortions,lost a son at 16, dropped out of matric,diagnosed HIV positive and lost my womb in my early 20s.Currently living with depression and a kidney disease. What matters is, I'M STILL HERE!
Hey guys, please kindly donate and share my link, I am raising funds to help with my medical bills for dialysis which is keeping me alive until I get a transplant. Thank you.
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That I am openly living with HIV and now Manic Bipolar..I got pregnant at 16...had 3 abortions...I have an 8 year old daughter...I have a kidney disease...Rape Survior....I have made a lot of reckless choices...I only have a matric N3 senior certificate.
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HIV doesn't have a face, and it can happen to anyone. Let's start testing regularly with our partners. Get on prep, and use a condom consistently. An HIV infection is avoidable.
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In the 11 years I have lived with HIV I have learned that my HIV status does not define me but I define what HIV is in my life. I am
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and I am greater than HIV.
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I have made a lot of choices I am not proud of, I am not my past, and my mistakes don't define me, I am not defined by HIV but I define HIV.
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I don't look like what I been through...I fought HIV....I fought Kidney disease...I fought Bioplar...I fought being broke...I fought being made a joke ...I fought pain...I foyght rape...I fought being molested..I fought being unemployed..I am still fighting. If I can you can too
So we had health and wellness today at work....Decided to do an HIV test and it came out negative....NO I AM NOT HEALED...But this is due to the fact that I take my medication and my viral load is suppressed.
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I'M STILL HERE!
I was molested at the age of 5,raped twice, had 1st backstreet abortion& lost my baby at 16, diagnosed HIV+ at 17,did 3 more abortions&lost my womb, almost died after stopping my ARVs,got diagnosed with major depression&, a kidney disease...
He then reached out and asked me to watch a music show on SABC1. I think it's called "Liveamp" now. He appeared on the show sitting on a wheelchair. He then disclosed his HIV status and mentioned he went around spreading the virus cause he didn't want to die alone.
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So, growing up, I have always wanted to be famous, and I saw this as my ticket to fame. All I could think about were headlines in different newspapers, magazines, etc. "LEBO MOTSUMI PREGNANT WITH ZOMBOS CHILD" yeah that how desperate I was.
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Little did I know, he also had his own plan, which was to infect me with HIV on purpose. This relationship was not one built on love. I wanted fame, and he wanted to infect me.
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Well, people lose weight, so It wasn't a big deal. He approached me and asked for my numbers, and I gave them to him. We hugged, and he left the club.
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We had sex everywhere and anywhere, mostly in his white golf 1. I remember the wife would call me to leave him alone, did I listen? Nah, I was on a mission. To date, I feel she was warning me, but at the time, I didn't really care. I wanted the fame.
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Months later, he got ill and was admitted to Sunninghill Hospital and told me he had TB. I still made nothing out of it, and when he recovered, we continued having sex, I would even feed his drug addiction with my school fees money.
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We spoke on the phone for a couple of days and planned to meet, he came to my house cause I was living alone at the time. We had unprotected sex and I really didn't mind cause I had a plan.
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How do I know he infected me? At 16, I was pregnant, and after giving birth to a premature baby (after trying to abort), I tested negative for HIV, and zombo was the next person I slept with after burial of my son.
Now you probably thinking the first thing I would do is test? Nope, I thought I was immune to getting infected with HIV, I just never associated myself with the virus.
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I eventually fell pregnant, and I was so excited. I called to inform him, and he denied the pregnancy. After some time at 6/7 months, I decided to have an abortion at a back street clinic. Went on with my life.
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Name : Lebogang Brenda Motsumi aka
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Age : 31
Children : 1
Married : No
HIV status: Positive
ARVs : Yes
Let's make this trend....
Good morning...my name is Lebogang Brenda Motsumi...I am not HIV...but I am living with HIV..HIV does not define me...but I define HIV...I am greater than HIV....and all other illness that are in my body...
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Dear young women, one bad choice can shape the rest of your future. Doing adult things while I was young eventually led me to having kidney failure. Please make informed choices and look after yourself. Stay in school if you have sex get on contraceptives, and use condoms.
Guys my inbox is breaking me emotionally so many people needing support 😭😭😭 I need to plan camps guys. I hope you guys will come. But I will start with young women and so on.
Guys I am dedicating my life to all of you.
35 years old
14 years living positively with HIV
Also, I live with kidney failure, anemia, Bipolar and hypertension.
I am undetectable
I have an HIV negative daughter.
I am not defined by HIV but I define the HIV.
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How I lost my uterus after unsafe abortions.
I lost my virginity at 13, growing up, I had low self-esteem, and I would do anything to fit in or be "popular."
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I was molested at the age of 5, raped twice, had my first abortion at a tender age, did three more abortions, lived the blesser-blessee life, got infected with HIV at the age of 17, But I am still here. Don't give up. You are not defined by your past.
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Even though I walk through the valley of HIV...I shall fear no AIDS nor death...because Thou ARV'S and positive living are there for me. Verse 1 in HIV Bible.
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You can insult me and hate me....but this girl right here has accepted her past and has no regrets. I walk confidently with boldness. What you say about me or my Status makes no impact in my life.
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They told me HIV/AIDS is a death sentence I told them "Its a new sentence", they told me HIV will define me, I told them my HIV stands for "Highly Irresistibly Victorious"! They told me HIV will bring shame to me, honey I shame HIV by waking up healthier everyday!
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Hate HIV, not the people living with it. Show your support to people who are living with HIV. An HIV infection can happen to anyone.
I have been living with HIV for 14 years.
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I have been called all names you can think of, kodwa. I walk with my head held up high. I am not proud of my past, but my past doesn't define me or my future. I am not shaken by your insults, and my story is one I will never stop sharing.
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30 Years Old.
Diagnosed with HIV 10 years ago.
Surviving, thriving and nyising.
Greater than HIV and drop dead gorgeous.
This is the face of HIV.
Rebranding HIV..
Tell everyone that HIV is a manageable chronic illness.
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Ereng HIV mogwaneng 😍😍😍 HIV is also a mental slavery, free yourself from that. ...it's not easy but very possible. YOU ARE GREATER THAN HIV 😎
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Morning I don't have AIDS 😏😏 I am not sick! I am not dirty! I can still have sex and enjoy it..I live a normal life because I am Human in HIV.
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I am not what happened to me nor am I my mistakes...My HIV, Abortions, dating Sugar daddies l, depression and kidney disease do not define me or my purpose. I remain Lebogang Brenda Motsumi
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From my death bed to the world 🥰🥰 HIV has nothing on me............I am not HIV POSITIVE BUT I LIVE WITH HIV......IT DOES NOT DEFINE ME BUT I DEFINE THE VIRUS....IT BRINGS NO SHAME TO MY LIFE....I AM GREATER THAN HIV.
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I was diagnosed with HIV on the 15th August in the year 2009. I thought it was the end of the road for me and my dreams.
Tomorrow I'll be reflecting on my journey of living with HIV for several years. Join me on Twitter and Facebook between 13h00 and 13h30
I have now dedicated my life to educate....share my story and help young women make more informed choices.
Next time I will talk about the Naked truth about living with HIV. There are struggles but we can always look beyond and choose life. I am Greater Than HIV..
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Mother and daughter moments.
I am living with HIV and I gave birth to an HIV negative baby.....you can still have healthy kids when infected with HIV.....provide you adhere to your medication as per Dr's orders .YOU ARE GREATER THAN HIV.
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Guys I am currently lying in a hospital bed with some kidney disease named Focal Segmental Glomerulosclerosis.....I promise to answer all your inboxes one I get out...Goodnight and I shall countinue sharing my story.
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it is not easy living with HIV and taking ARV's. Accepting my status is a daily struggle and on going fight. But it's all posibble ❤❤
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Yes I fell pregnant at 16 I had 3 abortions.....I made the wrong choices....But that does not mean I should keep quiet and help young people who find themselves in the same situation. Turning my mess into a message 😍😍😍
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Somewhere in Germany my story is being used to teach students about HIV/AIDS 😭😭😭 I am really honoured. We will indeed end stigma and discrimination.
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We had sex at my moms house....in his car at the roof of Hyde Park Corner.......like it was a sexual lituation wabona moes. Tlof Tlof everrrrrrywhere and anytime.
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Dear HIV.....
Remember how you tried to take my life and you put me on my death bed, how you ate me up and left me looking dead....BUT YOU DID NOT WIN AND YOU STILL NOT WINNING.
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Got admitted on Christmas day.....besides the fact that I am not well and I have more medication to take.....I'm still here......This Thyroid diagnosis left me with so much fighting spirit....Yes it's alot to take it but I have to stay strong.
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Even though I walk through the valley of HIV...I shall fear no AIDS nor death...because Thou ARV'S and positive living are there for me. Verse 1 in HIV Bible.
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While you'll think I want sympathy....my inbox has got more than 30 people disclosing they status and needing help. And that us why I share my story.
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My son was discharged from ICU....a month later I woke up and he had turned blue and very cold. He passed away.....Yes I was hurt but I felt a sense of relief. Only moaned him years later.
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Do I look like HIV? .....................NO! Neither does anyone who is infected! So put your head up high beautiful and embrace what God has given you! I know its hard, but you can not be beaten by something that can not speak.
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