Women need to stop manipulating thier kids into hating thier fathers and father's side of the family.
You kids are not your friends & your emotional dumping bags.
Let kids be kids don't ruin thier bond with their fathers and relatives.
My mom just told me these auntie's scheme... They hunt for girls at funeral cuz no one wears makeup at funerals.... So they can actually see how the girl actually looks like😂😂
Esi scheme tou shaitan ny b nae sochi hogi 😭😭😭
Intimacy is not who you let touch you. Intimacy is who you text at 3am about your dreams and fears. Intimacy is giving someone your attention, when ten other people are asking for it. Intimacy is the person always in the back of your mind, no matter how distracted you are.
"They left you in chaos and did not think twice about your wellbeing. It's painful to realise that someone you cared about could be so careless with your heart. They walked away without considering the mess they left behind or the hurt they caused. But remember, their actions 1/2
My Punjabi friend telling me not to fast cuz i had flue.
My mom's Nani who was 95 years old, diabetic, had blood pressure issues and suffered a stoke still never left a single farz fast.
Nahhh I'd never.
When i was living in Islamabad many people didn't keep fast and they used to show their surprise when they saw me fasting !!
I am not racist but Punjabis & Sindhis they are not punctual in keeping fast!
This uncle of my father's age i met in a meeting i was attending for a friend got to know I am a psychologist. Told me he's seeing a psychiatrist was trying to find a psychologist and asked for my clinic adress and all. Came in for session. Was acting really wierd full on thark..
How a toxic women can turn a healthy family into psychiatric patients in just 4 months is the most astonishing thing I've observed.
Be aware of who you marry!
This Woman also weaponized her unborn child 🥲
What about the pain that dies inside? Is there a graveyard for incomplete wishes and mangled thoughts? Where does everything that dies inside of us go?
Allah is cruel sometimes. Sometimes, he is unnessessarily cruel to some people. He puts them through so much cruelty thoughout thier life. Isn't he Al-Rehman and Ar-Raheem? How is he that? When he lets people suffer this much thoughout thier life- a never ending suffering.
We don't fall in love with people because they're good people. We fall in love with people whose darkness we recognise. You can fall in love with people for all the right reasons, but that kind of love still falls apart. But when you fall in love with a perosn because...
How painful it must be to be married to a woman who isn't attracted to you and won't give you any warmth or affection.
How heartbreaking it must be to be married to a man you don't want or like but you are expected to love and care for him.
What a tragedy!
A narcissist would ruin your birthday or any occasion celebrating you! They can't handle that for once they are not centre of attention and instead you are. To them it's a best way to put you down, show you how unimportant you are and show you your place.
If your are experiencing memory issues there is a high chance you are suffering from depression or anxiety.
So many people come to me with that complain.
Esy mardon ko jo apni oraton ko nanga kr k "siyahat ya buissness" ko promote kry usky lia eik khas word istemal hota hy.
Ma is budhay k peechy apni zuban napak nae krna chahti per esi k lia woh lafz bana hy.
“Women wearing shorts and swimming in beaches will promote tourism in Pakistan. Our restricted religious environment won’t let it flourish”
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@najamsethi
What do you expect from a father whose son is gay and daughter writes sexual lgbt novels ?
Don't be judgemental guys.... Be degenerate and let others fall into degeneracy but don't be judgemental. Because being judgmental corrupts society and doing all this stupid shit does no harm to anyone.
Take a look at the standard of our educational institutions, This is Beaconhouse National University.
Notice the attire and style of the “Guy” in the pictures below.
Please tag the relevant authorities in this tweet and urge them to address this issue.
P.S he is a boy
Having conflict with the father doesn't mean you confide in your kids with problems you two are having in your marriage. I've seen this is the case with 90% of desi household.
Reflect on them, not you. You deserve someone who values you and respects you, someone who would stand by you, not leave you to pick up the pieces alone."
I was thinking about what if my future husband has an affair.
I asked myself would I love him enough to forgive him.
I asked myself would I love my children enough not to tell them the truth about their father's death?
Unpopular opinion men are supposed to listen to thier wife's complaint regarding his mother and his mothers complaint regarding his wife.
Cuz if they don't listen to both of them attentively. He won't be able to solve any issues. He is the leader & maintainer. This is what
What men think is a sign of weakness:
crying, being vulnerable, having no money.
Vs
What actually is a sign if weakness:
ego, lack of boundaries, lying, deceiving, having no morals & values, not keeping thier words or commitment, porn, being lazy, showing off material things.
Donation Call📢
Caution ⚠ sensitive case
Case referred by
@SMRQ_1
Target 🎯
Debt: 7 lacs
Marriage of 2 daughters: 120k
A family of 6 people. Father who had accident 5 years ago. Mother who works as a househelp to meet ends meet. And 4 daughters.
After Fathers accident
Saw a lawyer say:
"In family courts fights over custody of children are not for what's best for children. But rather ego battles of men and women."
There is nothing more heartbreaking than that.
When I was drinking water from my glass casually mentioned I wish I could drink water from your glass.😂
Wtf! BRO!🤮 Kicked him out
But
Yaar mery bnday ny esy na bola mjy tou uski khair nae😂. Kbi lgta mery generation k larkay itny romantic nae..q na budhay sy ee ishq kr ln😜
Only one mango left and I grabbed it quickly before my brother could.
Him: khair hy yeh aam tm kha lo tmhari jaidad ma hissa mainy waisy b ma kha jaonga 😵
“Women wearing shorts and swimming in beaches will promote tourism in Pakistan. Our restricted religious environment won’t let it flourish”
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@najamsethi
What do you expect from a father whose son is gay and daughter writes sexual lgbt novels ?
Jo shaks apka mushkil waqt ma sath chor jaye woh pata nae q per dill sy utar jata hy.
Aur jo apko tinkay bhar ka sahara dy dy woh sari zindagi dill sy nae jata.
Most people come to therapy thinking it's easy I just vent everything out and it will be okay. It won't.
Therapy is a verb, it's action, it's hard work. It's commitment.
These dramas have ruined men's mind regarding therapy.
They come in expecting a Linda to lucifer, or Paula to Harvey but my closest reference would be of Lipschitz to Lewis
Grief is such a cruel thing. The person who was part of you is no longer there but the part of you that holds the person is still there. It's like a phantom limb syndrome. You still feel them there but they are no longer there.
The truth is the more intimately you know someone. The more clearly you'll see their flaws. That's just the way it is. This is why marriages fail, why friendships don't last. You might think you love someone untill you see the way they act when they are out of money,
Whatever you do don't ever get any sort of drug near you. Not even to try it just once. Not only it is haram but if you knew what i knew. If you could see how many families get destroyed cuz of it, how many people have drug induced psychosis, have medical conditions & infections
@alishba54629742
He clearly stated he doesn't want counselling... He is just there to see me..
Amd help him with what??? My job isn't about helping people who don't want to be helped.
Secondly My safety and protection comes to me first... The person i care about the most is me.
I will not have you
Without the darkness that hides within U
I will not let you have me
without the madness that makes me
If our demons cannot dance
Neither can we
You should be able to love yourself more than you love another person. If the day comes where you have to choose between staying with the one you love and your self respect. Chose self respect.
It's said that he loves his creation more than 70 mothers. But would a mother leave her children to suffer? Would she let them suffer in the name of testing them?
Your Monsters have found a home in them-that's the kind of love that owns your skin and bones.
Love, I am convinced is found in darkness. It is the candle in the night.
~Hannibal
Love require you to strip down all your armors, protective barriers and defenses and let go of the need for control and power.
A person incapable of doing that is incapable of loving.
One of the worst thing you can do to your partner is when the meet you with vulnerability and openness and you meet it with abuse, neglect and Shaming them.
“Please don’t expect me to always be good and kind and loving. There are times when I will be cold and thoughtless and hard to understand.”
— Sylvia Plath