If you’re a provider who is unapologetically ok with doxing fellow provider’s personal information for literally any reason, you are dangerous and need to quit this industry. It is outright violence to do something like that.
A brief lesson for suitors in the language of consent and why it's important:
There are so many ways to make asking for consent sexy and in no way "mood-killing." For those that need some help in understanding, let me share an example!
Today is National Love Your Red Hair Day!
This is a red head appreciation post!
Providers, drop your photos and links!
Suitors, tag your fave redheads below! 👇
I'll go first...
@marbledmaggie
@requiemlenina
@cloversquirts
just to name a few
(📸 by
@PartitionLA
)
Just putting it out there, as I see some clients retweeting anti-Islamic things…
Y’all know I’m half Muslim, right? Like, if you’re anti-Muslim then I’m not sure why you’re booking me. While I don’t practice any religion, my heritage is Muslim.
The longer I’m alive the more I realize that so few people understand how boundaries work.
I promise that if someone expresses a boundary to you and it doesn’t work for you/your needs/boundaries you can also express that and it may mean you’re both simply ✨incompatible.✨
Y’all I’ve never been more serious about getting onto our mailing lists right now! Things don’t look good for this app, but you love to keep in touch with us.
So visit our sites and sign up now! Mine is in my bio.
Providers drop your links so folks can keep in touch with you!👇
@BodyBionicNY
Doxing a SWer is outright violence. The fact you so flippantly suggest it as being a balanced reaction to being cancelled speaks to a lack of understanding of just how objectively dangerous it is. You’re promoting violence to your fellow workers. Full stop.
I love having friends like
@datemarcella
who are not only super talented hair colorists, but are allllllso super hot and like to bully me along with our special friend. 🥵🥵🥵
Alright, what did I miss?! I open this app and it’s nothing but y’all all saying “I accept clients of all race/age/etc” or “don’t set subs on fire.” I know there’s usually some drama on here, but c’mon now this sounds like way more than normal.
Literally the hottest thing I’ve ever experienced just happened. I got a first email with every. Single. Piece of screening I ask for, INCLUDING a selfie with ID which I typically only ask for in the second email. WHAT?!?! I am SO turned on!! 🥵🥵 Boys, it really is that simple.
I wasn't necessarily planning on traveling up to DC for a second time this month, but the presence of
@MayaRosexx
and
@CelesteBelle2
on our fair coast IS rather enticing!!
Make my dreams come true and book us with
@PenelopeWestDC
?
June 19-22!
@BodyBionicNY
Camille, I’ve been caught up in cancellation by a fellow SWer and it pretty profoundly affected my life. The person even doxed another SWer in the process. However I would NEVER even consider doxing them for hundreds of reasons—least of which is bc they’re multiply marginalized.
It's National Girl's Night In Day. Apparently this day was started as a way to encourage a night in.
Clients, sponsor a night in for your fave providers by sending them money for beverages & snacks, a gift card to their fave restaurant to order in, or for some cute loungewear!
Aaaaaaand intense copper was the winner!!!
I’m so thrilled with the result! I feel like such a babe—my colorist is THEE best!
I hope y’all like redheads because I’m part of the club again. 💁♀️🍁🍂🧡❤️🔥
Attention suitors! Honey Birdette is having a 20% off store wide sale today and tomorrow! Please act accordingly and buy the HB lovers in your life gift cards (with amounts enough to buy a full set ofc).
This makes it a question, shows you care about what I like, gives me the opportunity to say "yes" or "no" and keeps me focused on making sure you're enjoying yourself, rather than being worried you might violate my consent.
See the difference? Good! Now go do better! (6/)
🍂It's Fall🍁
Plus I’m continuing my fundraiser through November! Visit
Nov:
1-10 Richmond
14-18 NYC
19-25 Richmond
26 BWI/Baltimore
28-30 DC/Arlington
Available for FMTY
Duos with
@PenelopeWestDC
@JamieClarkSF
@datemarcella
Just a friendly reminder that if you’re a US citizen or otherwise documented resident of the US you do not have to submit to facial recognition screening for domestic travel at the airports. You can, and should, request a manual scan. It’s no different than how they used to do.
This weather has me in such a great mood!! I’m not made for the cold. 🙀 Getting excited to see
@PenelopeWestDC
and
@SiennaBanksLDN
soon!
(And please enjoy the cat hair on my shirt too. 😹😹)
THREAD 🧵
Because
@AndrewYang
has recently spoken in favor of full decrim (🙏) some folks have asked in good faith, why not legalization? It’s usually because they think regulations will provide us with benefits like mandatory health screening. (1/)
Banger of a thread!! If you’re a client who has even had the thought that anyone who is
-Black/brown/Not-white
-Fat
-Trans
-Disabled
-Not conventionally attractive
Should charge less because of any/all of those things, we’re not going to get along. Pay marginalized ppl more!
It makes me sad that providers who do not fit the mold of conventional attraction (ie thin, white, cis-appearing) are rates-capped, and will never get booked as much as our much pricier peers. Some of the sexiest people in this industry are being slept on because people have
Friendly regular reminder that when I say “keep it G rated” on my booking form I mean that if it wouldn’t be in a Disney movie, don’t put it on my form. This means DO NOT put the word “sex” or any of its derivations in there! Why is this so hard for some of y’all to understand?
You CAN sit with us! (If you screen and book properly.)
Reach out to
@high_priestesss
or myself to make your dreams come true:
datemikaela
@protonmail
.ch
highpriestesss
@protonmail
.com
Are you on my mailing list? If not, you missed out on a special incentive I’m doing for
#bondassage
!
Go sign up now, at the bottom of each page is a sign up form!
📧
🎶Duhnuhnuh-nuhnuhnuh-nuhnuh TODAY IS MY BIRTHDAY!🎶
Another twirl around the sun, and it's been spectacular! Thank you to all the suitors who have pre-booked dates with me this month. I can't wait to see you!
Want to celebrate?
@LauraCohenSolo
Jonah, we retain that warm glow by taking your money and depositing into our bank accounts. Oooooo, yes, just so toasty warm knowing you're doing what we agreed to by paying us for spending time with you!
Revealing secrets...
I’m hosting in Raleigh this weekend (October 24-25) and have some last minute availability.
Also offering duos with
@TheAbbyBlythe
Let me be your best kept secret. 😘😘
Screening/deposit required.
(
@Date_Carolinas
)
After years of being online friends with this cutie, we finally were brought together IRL by a lucky suitor. It was SUCH a joy and a pleasure to meet you,
@KarolineFirefly
!!
Cheers to many more fun times together! 🥂🤩🥰