The pursuit of being a man is to be down-to-earth. Be sincere in your pursuit of friends. What lovers seek is trust. To be a child is to be innocent. Being a parent is all about taking responsibility.
When everyone believes something is risky, their reluctance to buy often drives the price down to the point where there is no risk at all. Widespread negative opinion minimizes risk because all optimism is removed from the price.
Only when you learn to give up will you gain something. Life is indeed very tiring. It depends on how you taste it. Find more joy every day and ignore your worries. It only lasts for a few decades, so why not face it with ease?