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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

7 years

#Sexwork is serious emotional labor, and self-care is essential.

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

6 years

I just learned this term, "toxic positivity," and it's a term I've needed all my life...

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

5 months

Disgustingly even more relevant tweet 7 years later.

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

6 years

Never occurred to me to frame it like this, but it's a terrific question.

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

1 year

THIS. #SexWorkShouldBeSafeWork

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

2 months

Etsy going rated G--I just simply cannot. How can we continue to live in a world where sex = bad, violence = entertainment???

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

25 days

Every single sex worker that lives and breathes has: ~Feelings ~A family ~Friends ~A future Treat them accordingly.

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

6 years

Pretty much this.

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

18 days

Sexy workers: whether you love your job or hate it; whether you make bank, or are just barely getting by; you and your work are important. All sex workers deserve dignity and respect.

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

1 month

Paying for sex NEVER overrides consent. Paying for sex NEVER overrides consent. Paying for sex NEVER overrides consent. Paying for sex NEVER overrides consent. Paying for sex NEVER overrides consent. Paying for sex NEVER overrides consent. Paying for sex NEVER overrides consent.

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

1 month

Sex workers are service workers, no more dirty or shameful than nurses, plumbers, or dog walkers.

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

16 days

Denying that sex work is valid work leaves sex workers exposed to violence--from both criminals and law enforcement.

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

23 days

There's nothing dirty, despicable, or disposable about sex workers--they're lovable, gorgeous, amazing human beings.

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

10 months

Paying for sex NEVER negates consent. Paying for sex NEVER negates consent. Paying for sex NEVER negates consent. Paying for sex NEVER negates consent. Paying for sex NEVER negates consent. Paying for sex NEVER negates consent. Paying for sex NEVER negates consent. Paying for sex

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

1 month

If you've never done sex work, you need to LISTEN to sex workers when they tell you about their lives. The changes they want, the laws they need to survive, be safe, and thrive.

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

15 days

Anyone who thinks sex work is easy money has no damned idea just how complex and contradictory the job can be.

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

12 days

Paying for sex NEVER overrides consent. Paying for sex NEVER overrides consent. Paying for sex NEVER overrides consent. Paying for sex NEVER overrides consent. Paying for sex NEVER overrides consent. Paying for sex NEVER overrides consent. NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER EVER.

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

6 years

This is just science, guys...

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

6 years

Priceless.

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

7 years

#sexworkisrealwork

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

2 months

Paying for sex NEVER negates consent. Paying for sex NEVER negates consent. Paying for sex NEVER negates consent. Paying for sex NEVER negates consent. Paying for sex NEVER negates consent. Paying for sex NEVER negates consent. NEVER. EVER. EVER.

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

10 months

You don’t give up personhood when you sell sex. You don't give up citizenship when you sell sex. You don't give up bodily autonomy when you sell sex. You don't give up dignity when you sell sex. You don't give up humanity when you sell sex. #SexWorkerRightsAreHumanRights

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

6 years

Ha!

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

6 years

Uh... I think I'm at the wrong meeting...

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

6 years

Nothing like having the clit mansplained by an idiot...

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

5 years

Suddenly I've got a taste for glitter, and nothing else will do... Happy Pride, ya'll!

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

4 years

You don’t give up personhood when you sell sex. You don’t give up consent when you sell sex.

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

7 years

Criminalizing prostitution is ridiculous and hypocritical. #decriminalize #sexwork

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

6 years

Careful everyone! Are you properly protected?

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

28 days

Sex Worker Knowledge: The vast majority of clients will test you on your time, your fee, and what you’re willing to do. Many will try to bend your rules on all three. Setting boundaries is essential in sex work

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

7 years

Perfect description of the hypocrisy of criminalizing #sexwork . #decriminalize

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

2 years

Who, exactly, is harmed by paying for sex? What, exactly, is wrong with sex as a job?

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

6 years

Just what exactly the fuck is going on here???

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

3 months

They call sex work "easy money." That's bullshit-- it's hard work.

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

6 years

Paying for sex NEVER negates consent. Paying for sex NEVER negates consent. Paying for sex NEVER negates consent. Paying for sex NEVER negates consent. Paying for sex NEVER negates consent. Paying for sex NEVER negates consent. Ever. #sexworkiswork #sexworkersarepeopletoo

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

6 years

Perfect encapsulation of the hypocrisy of criminalizing full service #sexwork #sexworkiswork #decriminalize

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

2 months

Sex work between consensual adults is a service that harms no one. So, why criminalize it?

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

6 years

Do. NOT. Be this guy.

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

6 years

The perfect encapsulation of why full service consensual #sexwork should be 100% legal. #sexworkshouldbesafework #decriminalize

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

3 months

Who, exactly, is harmed by paying for sex? What, exactly, is wrong with sex as a job?

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

2 months

Sex workers offer beauty, excitement, variety, fantasies, creativity, and pleasure. Sometimes love, too.

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

6 years

#benicetosexworkers #WWJD

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

6 years

Amen.

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

6 years

This. Yup. Uh-huh.

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

7 years

Yep! Fuck the #doublestandard -- no #slutshaming in my house today!

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

7 years

Mmmmm..... I think is is *yummy.*

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

4 years

#sexworkerpride #noshameinsexwork

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

7 years

There will always be a client pool that thinks you’re smoking hot. You’ll leave some clients cold. The rest are just glad you are looking them in the eye and smiling. Focusing on the clients that find us attractive and letting go of the ones that don’t, is tremendously freeing.

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

6 years

Do NOT be this guy.

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

3 years

Sweet Sexy Workers— With a heavy heart, I’m announcing I’m stepping away from what I call “The Lola Project” for the foreseeable future. I’ll no longer be involved on SM as Lola and won’t be available to the sex work community writing articles, offering advice... 1/9

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

7 years

Just because YOU can't imagine ever doing #sexwork doesn't make it bad or wrong. #sexworkiswork

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

5 years

Anyone want to answer these for me? --Who, exactly, is harmed by paying for sex? --What, exactly, is wrong with sex as a job?

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

7 years

Who, exactly, is harmed by paying for sex? What, exactly, is wrong with sex as a job?

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

6 years

There will always be a client pool that thinks you’re smoking hot. You’ll leave some clients cold. The rest are just glad you are looking them in the eye and smiling. Focusing on the clients that find us attractive and letting go of the ones that don’t, is tremendously freeing.

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

7 years

#liveandletlive #decriminalize #sexwork

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

2 months

Just because YOU can't imagine ever doing sex work doesn't make it bad or wrong.

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

7 years

Yep! #sexworkiswork

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

8 years

This neatly sums up the hypocrisy of criminalizing prostitution.

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

7 years

#truth

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

6 years

#noshameinsexwork #sexworkiswork

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

6 years

Love it!

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

3 years

Seriously. #sexworkiswork

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

6 years

Hahahahaha.....

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

6 years

If you think all #sexworkers are female and all clients are male, I'm going to ask you to wake up and smell the 21st Century. The sex industry is the marketplace of ALL genders and ALL sexualities.

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

6 years

Ha!

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

7 years

No #whorephobia in my house today!

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

5 years

Why is paid consensual sex between adults illegal? Can someone explain it to me?

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

6 years

Word.

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

5 years

Who, exactly, is harmed by paying for sex? What, exactly, is wrong with sex as a job?

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

5 years

Uh... I think I'm at the wrong meeting...?

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

9 months

Yup. Hypocrisy in the sex industry abounds. #NoShameInSexWork

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

6 years

Yep! 100%.

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

3 years

This.

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

6 years

If you think all #sexworkers are female and all clients are male, I'm going to ask you to wake up and smell the 21st Century. The sex industry is the marketplace of ALL genders and ALL sexualities.

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

9 months

Anyone wanna answer these for me...? Who, exactly, is harmed by paying for sex? What, exactly, is wrong with sex as a job?

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

6 years

If you don't like or approve of #sexwork that's fine, but know your reasons why. #sexworkiswork

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

7 years

#decriminalize #sexwork

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

8 years

This made me laugh, but that kind of dried-out, hollow laughter at something that doesn't feel that funny...

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

7 years

THIS. RIGHT. HERE. Someone explain to me why this is wrong. #sexworkiswork

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

1 month

I believe that so much of the root of whorephobia (meaning the fear and hatred of sex workers) is that to civilians, swers don't seem "real." To them, we're objects of fantasy, or revulsion, or some confusing mix of the two. Our humanity is obliterated.

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

22 days

Why is sex that's legal when free illegal to pay for...? Can anyone explain that to me?

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

8 months

Paying for sex NEVER negates consent. Paying for sex NEVER negates consent. Paying for sex NEVER negates consent. Paying for sex NEVER negates consent. Paying for sex NEVER negates consent. Paying for sex NEVER negates consent. NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVER. #SexWorkersArePeopleToo

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

7 years

#mood No #whorephobia in my house today!

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

7 years

Tell me more.

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loladavina

@Lola_Davina

6 years

#fuckslutshaming

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