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Ash (trauma elitist)

2 months

— #WetSand #웻샌드 #tjian Hello! Consider this my incredibly late contribution to #TJIANDAY . Hopefully you enjoy reading it just as much as I enjoyed writing it. Take Me Back to Eden by hymn3tic - 웻샌드 | Wet Sand (Webcomic) via @ao3org

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

3 months

Youngwoo going from confident power bottom to feeling insecure only for tj to immediately comfort him and admit he’s fantasized about him a thousand times… cut the cameras it’s over me. #WetSand

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

3 months

“he’s seen a lot of “it was my ugly side.” never ugly.”

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

3 months

And somehow they want you to genuinely believe the bitch-made bastard responsible for the fourth picture loves Shin Youngwoo more than the man in the first three pictures. #WetSand

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

5 months

these panels hit so much harder now. tj never chose the gang over ian. tj chose the gang FOR ian. so he could keep the boy he loved safe from monsters like david kim. happy fucking pride oh taejoon. nobody doing real yearning quite like you. /the/original lover boy. #tjian

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

2 months

I’m about to end it all #shutline

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

4 months

if you wanna talk about unhealthy love…. hope this helps 🫰💕

Тесьма 🩵💜

@TECbMA

4 months

@JusTr1fling Yes, he still loves TJ. but, this love is unhealthy, toxic, without relationship development over the years. Now that Joe has appeared and gives love, Yank has someone to compare TJ with and will make the right choice 😉

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

4 months

I aspire to be a bitch this bad

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

5 months

are you thinking about how tj’s anger and fixation on keeping an eye on ian in the very first interaction we see of them is ultimately because of fear since the last time he took his eyes off ian he was SA’d and made into an addict, or are you normal?

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@JusTr1fling

2 months

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@holyaches

2 months

i'm scared of the love i have for you. because i know it will ruin me. and i also know that i will let it.

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

2 months

and the only time we see tj cry is when he was despairing over not being able to help youngwoo with his addiction. both times, we don’t see either of their full faces. because the only people allowed to see them that vulnerable are each other. #WetSand

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

5 months

put me in a room with this man and one of us is coming out pregnant and it sure as hell isn’t gonna be me

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

3 months

@iansbikehelmet HE WAS 18 AND BALLS DEEP INSIDE THE BOY HE’S BEEN IN LOVE WITH FOR 3 YEARS FOR THE FIRST TIME GIVE HIM A BREAK

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

4 months

@theereaderer deadass this chapter changed my life. altered my brain chemistry. i was in there w my reading glasses and taking notes

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

2 months

no relationship is all sunshine and rainbows, let alone one between two deeply traumatized people. but at the end of the day—no one will ever love oh taejoon as much as shin youngwoo and no one will ever love shin youngwoo as much as oh taejoon. #WetSand

Tj’s neck tattoo

@Woongsungz16391

2 months

If it isn’t the consequences of my own actions #WetSand

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

3 months

LOOK AT THAT FUCKING LOSER BUYING COFFEE FOR NOT JUST HIMSELF BUT ALSO HIS MAN HE’S SUCH A FUCKING LOSER I CAN’T STAND HIM!!!!

DOYAK

@dkbyak

3 months

새 굿즈 초안🤭 올려도 된다고 허락받아서 여러분께만 슬쩍 보여드립니다✌️

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

2 months

these are the same people trying to convince you that they’re in any position to judge who’s a narcissist and who’s a “good person” btw #WetSand @strange_seas @pcrGoWell @hisagisgf_ @JoannaB3B3

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

3 months

“you’re just mad jo has more stamina” baby tj is Seven Whole Years older than yosef and STAYS flipping that man around like pizza dough until his eyes are rolling back into his skull, keep your missionary minute man out of conversations where he can’t compete, let alone compare.

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@ivlunna

3 months

after seeing ian's facial expressions during his intimate moments with tj i'm certain that no one has ever made him feel as good as he did throughout his entire sexual life.

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

4 months

“my, my, those eyes like fire i’m a winged insect, you’re a funeral pyre” #WetSand #tjian

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

4 months

@eunsungseyemole man was so down bad for a second the facade came tumbling down and he was 18 and super shy x2 again

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

1 year

@kawaiiangel_u @lart_art1 do y’all not have jobs? incredibly performative to come on here and attack random artists who aren’t even pro-israel. “she’s lucky i’m too busy—“ busy doing WHAT bitch? larping as a tough guy online? being a keyboard warrior? corny as hell.

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

3 months

to the rest of the world he might be former left hand man to k35’s second in command, a convicted stone-cold killer, someone who could take 9 men his size in a fight. But to Oh Taejoon he’s just princess babyboy 😭😭😭

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

2 months

@fubroshi also labeling any sort of sexual desire exhibited by gay characters, especially lesbians, as “fetishization” is why a whole generation of little girls grew up ashamed of their desires. which is hilarious considering queer and sexual liberation are fundamentally intertwined.

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

3 months

@iansmanager “nobody compares” ok but have u met HIS MAN???? face bank. face economy.

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

3 months

OH TAEJOON IS NEVER BEATING THE LOSER IN LOVE ALLEGATIONS EVERYBODY GO HOME COURT IS ADJOURNED

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

3 months

TJ: wait, wait, I’m gonna come. Ian: don’t care—i’ll just get you hard again. AND Y’ALL CALLING MY SON A LOSER FOR BUSTING IN 2 SECONDS?!? #WetSand

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

2 months

— #WetSand

Lui 🐾 Луї

@l_o_u_i_s_s_y

2 months

The way you all bark and speak about past sex between Ian and TJ, meanwhile Ian and Jo nowadays living happily, have smexy times and enjoying themselves, Ian even thinking of them DATING, while your ankle breaker sitting in a dark place and can't make a step🤭🤭🤭 #WetSand

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

4 months

sometimes i think about how tj looks at ian. like ian’s an old god, long forgotten. touches him like his body is a dilapidated temple, a place of worship. he looks at ian as if the man could ask him for blood sacrifice and he’d tear his own heart out just to lay it at his feet.

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

3 months

“You know? You know nothing.” TJ thinks Ian is doing this exclusively out of guilt and has no idea of the depth of his true feelings for Ian, let alone reciprocate them 😭😭😭 #WetSand #tjian

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

5 months

have these panels been living in your head rent free since 55 or are you normal?

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

3 months

explain to me what a trauma response is. What distinguishes a traumatic event from an unpleasant event? How does the brain code traumatic events? how is it stored? where is it stored? define codependency vs. relying on your loved ones for support for me. #WetSand (1/2)

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@kanamezerro

3 months

Anyone who thinks Ian and TJ will be endgame is crazy 💀 All of these flashback chapters are showing the exact reasons why they can't be endgame. Loving eo doesn't negate the fact that their relationship is codependent, started as a trauma response and never changed. #WetSand

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

3 months

thinking about their tattoos and that clip of tj reaching out to pull ian out of the darkness—he used his right hand. the one with the anchor tattoo. almost as if he’s the anchor tethering ian to the shore, the only thing stopping ian from drifting into the sea.

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

2 months

this is post jason’s spiel about the heart being fickle. tj’s eyes didn’t wander he’s playing the role that’s expected of him. its obvious from how he noticed ian disappear quickly enough to go interrupt his hookup. he’s torn between his feelings vs the role he’s expected to play

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@theereaderer

2 months

#WetSand #웻샌드 I’d drag Tj too but I have to admit it’s the writing itself I don’t find too convincing here 😭😭 not just because of that 180… [TJ used to be the one staring with at Ian at parties and…. actually having sex made him wander elsewhere? When it should’ve had

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

3 months

the way he was turned on after shooting a man in cold blood for tj…. absolutely psycho. invented freak4freak foreplay. #WetSand

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

3 months

i think alot of people are misreading ian’s guilt in today’s chapter as “i need to let tj fuck me as payback” when it’s more so “i need tj to fuck me so i can forget about my own crippling guilt at ruining the lives of everyone around me.” #WetSand

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

3 months

Did you know that the diagnostic criteria for PTSD includes that the traumatic event needs to involve exposure to death/threats of death, serious injury, or sexual violence? This can be in the form of experiencing the traumatic event yourself, witnessing it happen to someone, +

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@bluei_nk

3 months

He was at his most miserable and you're romanticizing it.

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

3 months

“yw slept w tj out of guilt” baby that is a starved jaguar ready to pounce be so fr

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

3 months

“I need a gangster, to love me better, than all the others do. to always forgive me, ride or die with me, that’s just what gangsters do.”

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

3 months

god look at him. LOOK AT HIM. HE’S BEEN DREAMING OF THIS MOMENT FOR YEARS. Oh Taejoon the loverboy you are. The oldschool YEARNER you are.

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

3 months

😭😭😭 y’all are so deeply unserious on this app

Тесьма 🩵💜

@TECbMA

4 months

The saddest and most vulnerable expression I've ever seen on Ian's face was in the scene where he asked Joe for forgiveness #WetSand #Joian

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

3 months

Chapter 2 of From Dusk Till Dawn is now up! lol it’s 23:47 here so I still made it in time for #TJIANDAY . I hope you enjoy. #WetSand #tjian From Dusk Till Dawn by hymn3tic - 웻샌드 | Wet Sand (Webcomic) via @ao3org

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

4 months

oh taejoon killed a man that tried to push ian back into prostitution and possibly also the man who sexually assaulted him. joseph landi took him stargazing and camping and sexually assaulted him. they are not the same. hope that helps 🫰

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

2 months

“Ian was in a vulnerable state” AND??? emotionally vulnerable people are still capable of logical reasoning and can choose to have sex bc they want to. emotionally vulnerable, sober adults are still capable of CONSENT, Vanessa, unlike someone who’s passed out cold. #WetSand

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

5 months

both evolution and the public education system have failed you. your entire bloodline should be ashamed of you. be grateful that human society has advanced past the point of intelligence being a factor in natural selection bc you would not have survived to procreate otherwise.

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

2 months

#WetSand Shin Youngwoo better than me fr bc if my best friend/love of my life/situationship made out with a woman right in front of me just to interrupt my hook-up, someone’s getting their ass beat.

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

4 months

ian with jo vs. ian with tj. be serious. 😭😭😭

milano

@odceles

4 months

You want ian to be with him just because it will make him happy, but I want ian to be with jo because I know they will be happy together. we are not the same girl.

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

3 months

@mistr3ss3d WAKE THE FUCK UP OUR POWERBOTTOM YW DREAMS ARE BECOMING A REALITY

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

3 months

lmfao “trauma elitist” 😭 i’m a neuroscientist, I’m not speaking based on whatever summer oppression olympics y’all be holding, I’m speaking based on the fact that you’re spreading factual misinformation on subjects you know nothing about to suit your agenda 🫰

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@knivessama

3 months

The way that one Wet Sand account thinks no one is qualified/emotionally intelligent enough to speak on ptsd and codependency is so incredibly narcissistic, like are you a trauma elitist? Genuinely, what a nasty & crass person. The way they speak to people on here is shameful.

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

5 months

all the “tjian is just smut with no emotional depth” folks losing their minds today lmfaoooo

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

4 months

smth deeply romantic about the way tj’s hands seem to hesitate for only a second before reaching out and grabbing youngwoo almost bruisingly. “i refuse to give up on you—even should you give up on yourself. i will drag you out of this darkness kicking and screaming if i must.”

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@ivlunna

4 months

latest ch made me re-interpret this part of yw's mv where tj tries to reach for yw's hand but he dodges & grabs it by force at first glance you'd think he's imposing his possessiveness on him but to me, he's pulling him from harm/darkness to light as we've seen.

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

5 months

can’t stop thinking about how much more visible tj’s actual personality is (soft, sensitive, serious) in these panels of when he was younger. with the smug facade he puts up present day tj manages to hide these traits so well they’re almost invisible. but this chapter truly +

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

2 months

instead of worrying about endgames two years in the future i’d worry about the fact that yw is thinking about tj with jo’s nut still warm inside him in the present

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

3 months

@momo_youo97690 shut your b*tch *ss up and go argue with your mama about why you think a man that sexually assaulted yw, a survivor of sexual abuse and exploitation, should end up with him bc i’m not in the mood to explain basic morality to you. get absolutely f*cked.

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

3 months

you ever think about how technically we still havent seen tj and ian talk about their feelings since the break-up so tj probably still thinks ian doesn’t have feelings for him and already moved on

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

4 months

he’s such a fucking princess and tj loves every second of it

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

5 months

certain folks calling him a stalker for sending people to watch ian when it was for his security and safety all along…. the jokes write themselves

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@JusTr1fling

4 months

people who think tj wouldn’t bottom if yw wanted/asked…. yw could ask that man to jump and he’d do a flip. be serious

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@JusTr1fling

4 months

@Woongsungz16391 my dude bought a MANSION in MALIBU, CALIFORNIA. he does not need jo’s honda civic.

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

21 days

unpopular opinion but i’m not mad gege didn’t bring back gojo bc i’m sure he’s happier in the afterlife, i’m mad his death was such a fucking ass-pull and that he really did die nothing more than a weapon to everyone else around him #jjk271

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@JusTr1fling

2 months

— #WetSand This idea that tj leaving is somehow supposed to be a loss for tj and ian’s relationship is so funny to me. literally everything and everyone still reminds ian of him. they’re shown to be reminiscing about the past at the same time with recent chapters. +

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

2 months

#WetSand don’t wanna hear anything about how yw doesn’t deserve tj ever again. They both have their flaws and they’ve both made mistakes. tj was too much of a coward to admit his feelings and try for something deeper in secret, but he was also too selfish + afraid to let him go.

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@JusTr1fling

2 months

you know, you /could/ just make a joian da—oh wait 😔

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

2 months

so… seeing concern/guilt on the face of the man you love…which implies he needs you and cares for you… as someone who lost his entire family in a car crash and has crippling abandonment issues and ptsd because of it…is strange to y’all??…

kara 🌩️

@hisagisgf_

2 months

Instead of focusing on a flower Jo gave Ian why don’t we address this weird but expected behavior from tjmaxx #WetSand

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

4 months

everyone questioning the depth of ian’s love for tj: have you ever looked up the statistics on addiction? recovery from addiction? ian prostituted himself for access to drugs. the very real threat of /dying/ from an overdose didn’t stop him from going back, again and again. +

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

4 months

now show me where he says the memories are bad or unwanted. quickly. he looks back on his memories with tj fondly. again, stop embarrassing yourself on the world wide web like this by showing your clear lack of reading comprehension.

Lui 🐾 Луї

@l_o_u_i_s_s_y

4 months

@JusTr1fling Hallo again girl<3 Ian was pushing TJ only because TJ was aggressive and again brought up smth that Ian didn't like, yes he felt unworthy of TJ but at the same time he wanted to be free from he, or why do you think he moved and wants by the way move again somewhere far far away

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@JusTr1fling

4 months

y’all can froth at the mouth like a bunch of rabies-infected squirrels all you want: jo landi taking ian fucking camping and coming on his face without permission while he’s passed out will never compare to a man that has /killed/ and sacrificed /everything/ for yw. cope + seethe

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@Josephmialfa

4 months

"donde esta jo?" Aquí enseñándole lo bueno de la vida a Ian, porque lastimosamente Ian, no tuvo un hombre que le enseñará cosas buenas, solo tuvo un hombre que le mostró lo tóxico y oscuro de la vida.

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@JusTr1fling

3 months

all this reaching with “trauma response” “co-dependence” therapy speak that you learned off of 5-minute psych2go videos, just to turn around and want yw to end up w the dude who… sa’d him? be serious #WetSand

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@JusTr1fling

3 months

one thing Oh Taejoon is always gonna do is fold Shin Youngwoo like a lawn chair #WetSand

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@JusTr1fling

3 months

you ever think about how ian is the only one tj allows his softer side to show through with? it’s not even by choice. a single word from shin youngwoo is all it takes for his carefully crafted facade to come crashing down like a house of cards. #WetSand

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@JusTr1fling

4 months

HE WANTED HIM TO SEE HIS FUCKING FACE BEFORE HE BLEW HIS HEAD OFF IM SCREAMING FROM THE ROOFTOPS

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@JusTr1fling

3 months

While Ian killing DK is very much an act of taking back his power, I 100% think TJ getting hurt was the spark that lit the fuse: I don’t think Ian’s ever been the type to pursue vengeance solely for himself, but killing for the people he loves is entirely in character for him.

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@JusTr1fling

3 months

@mistr3ss3d he wears it with so much pride and 0 regret/shame. he’d do it again a million times over. it’s the single most tangible piece of evidence of his love that will tie him to youngwoo for the rest of their lives. ik they mad about it inside 😩

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@JusTr1fling

5 months

@0htaejoon share to traumatize a j* stan

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@JusTr1fling

3 months

shin yw chasing arc… shin youngwoo loverboy era… do y’all see my vision

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@JusTr1fling

2 months

god these two panels make me so monstrously horny WHEN WILL IT BE MY TURN LORD

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@JusTr1fling

4 months

@akisguns at this point i just screenshot all your best tweets bc u can’t be trusted

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@JusTr1fling

10 days

— #WetSand

너란 밤 | nic

@_neolanbam

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do you think the universe fights for souls to be together?

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@JusTr1fling

4 months

you know what did stop him? had him willing to turn his life around, get help and go to rehab? oh taejoon’s desperation. his tears. now look me in the eyes and tell me shin yw doesn’t love tj. be so fucking fr

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

4 months

someone’s already highlighted how brilliant dyk is at drawing the same character at different ages but i can never get over how well she depicts differing personalities through expression, even within the same person across time.

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

27 days

@Woongsungz16391 lmfao it takes me out that the attitude is largely why they fell so hard too 😭😭😭

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

2 months

The alleged “no evidence”

| 𝐇𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐚 𝐁 .

@HistoriaB2301

2 months

Interestingly, there's no evidence that Joseph ever forced Ian into sex. Up until recently, they were laughing because Ian said "no" and Jo stopped. #Wetsand #웻샌드

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@JusTr1fling

3 months

Jo-stans-go-5-seconds-without-calling-anything-and-everything-a-“trauma response”-and-“romanticization”-bc-you-don’t-actually-know-what-these-words-mean challenge (impossible)

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

3 months

remember the old saying that home isn’t a place, it’s people? yeah.

𝐇𝐚𝐧𝐚🦊

@eunsungseyemole

3 months

“Wake up, Shin Youngwoo. Let’s go home.” 🧎🏻‍♀️🧎🏻‍♀️🧎🏻‍♀️

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

3 months

All this yapping about TJ did this, TJ did that, TJ invented poverty + homelessness + global warming. and yet even after all that, Ian still loves him; looks for glimpses of him everywhere and in everyone regardless of what he’s doing and who he’s with. I’d be mad too #WetSand

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

4 months

i LOVE the “tjian are popular bc of the sex” takes bc a) so you’re admitting they have better sex, and b) every day some tjian post will go triple platinum and it’s just tj staring at ian’s face or tjian holding hands

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

2 months

all he will ever be is a dollar store substitute for the man yw actually loves and wants. even if jo and ian end up together by some miracle, he will spend the rest of his life chasing after the shadow of a man he could never compare to and whose shoes he could never fill 🫶

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

2 months

even assuming ian IS falling in love with jo, which is a stretch—love built on lies and betrayal is a house of cards destined to fall. it’s probably bc they know this that they start foaming at the mouth at any analysis that doesn’t support a jo endgame

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

2 months

my heart is breaking for both youngwoo and taejoon. youngwoo, for having to watch the love of his life fuck around while feeling like a filthy secret and a side piece. taejoon, for being too scared to claim youngwoo in public.

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

3 months

@mistr3ss3d the fact that they STILL DONT FUCKING TALK ABOUT THEIR FEELINGS SABRINA IM GONNA START SH**TING

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

16 days

imagine admitting in 8K that you and your entire side of the fandom aren’t capable of comprehending longer sentences 😭😭😭

April 🧚🏽‍♀️

@AprilGhafa

16 days

so it’s unsettling cause jo wants to stay with ian? are yall okay???

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

3 months

“size doesn’t matter.” let’s ask shin youngwoo, shall we?

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

3 months

@Woongsungz16391 tj said if sucking ian’s titties is sickness just consider it terminal

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

3 months

@shinyoungwoo_1 lmfao i love when they pretend that jo assaulting ian being shown right before we get the sexual abuse flashbacks wasn’t a conscious narrative choice 🙂‍↔️

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

2 months

… this genius has a psych degree by the way. allegedly. maybe she got it from costco wholesale.

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

4 months

can i speak my truth…. is this a safe space…. yw sleeping around is not and was never the issue, yw sleeping around as a substitute for COMMUNICATING w the man he loves is i support slut yw, i do Nawt support communication and vulnerability issues yw

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Ash (trauma elitist)

@JusTr1fling

4 months

/the/ original f*gs. invented homoerotic yearning. the only real lover boy no one fucking touch me i can’t believe dyk wrote the pinnacle of selfless queer love

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