๐ฉ๐ฐ 30 y/o danish neurodivergent introvert | Autistic | lgbtq | Mental Health | Video Games | Horror Lover | Books | Music | Drawing | Just here to vibe & rant
@adamfare1996
Ok, first of all, this is what they wanted, but now they don't want it? ๐คจ
Second, what happened to going to the restroom to do your business, wash your hands and get out? Do you have to look a certain way to be allowed to empty your bladder in a public restroom? ๐ฅด
@hannaweeny
i love this ๐ฉท don't infantilize someone just because they have down syndrome. often times they're just as capable and qualified as someone who don't have down syndrome ๐
@dysautonomian
@fcknsyd
It's not a competition on "who has it the worst". Your story and struggles are just as valid as Syd's and anyone else. No matter if one was born with a disability or became disabled later in life, no one is trying to steal your experience away from you, by sharing their own.
@KingsleyCortes
First of all, we didn't. All these women are beautiful, whether or not they fit your "standards", sounds like a you problem.
Second, this is an ad for menstrual products... you know, something that's completely natural and most women get.
@GNQ__
@mattxiv
I literally got suspended for telling a creep to go on a hike, and people are getting their accounts banned for showing their support of the lgbtq+. Elon supports free speech as long as it's bigotry and hate speech.
@MamaDoctorJones
"I have no disgust for him or any like him"...
You sure about that?
"Yes I know that there are many atrocities such as school shootings, terrorism, genocide etc. going on in the world, but a man with pink painted nails who's just existing, is where I draw the line". ๐คฆ๐ปโโ๏ธ
@Autistic_Lia
Oh gosh, where to begin...
Vaccines cause autism
If you're able to speak/communicate, you're not autistic
Autistic people can't feel empathy
An autistic person can't help it if they're being racist/homophobic/abusive etc.
@MattWalshBlog
You've never walked in her shoes though. You are so lucky to have been born in the right body, so you've never felt what a trans person feels. For SOME, transitioning is the only option for them to be happy and feel confident in their own skin, and that is none of your business.
Reminder:
Women are NEVER to blame for being raped.
Women are NEVER to blame for getting assaulted/killed because she rejected a man.
"NO" is a full sentence.
Men, start taking responsibility for your own actions and holding other men accountable for their actions.
@GNQ__
@mattxiv
You good? ๐ฅด LGBTQ+ definitely exist. What do you think the G stands for?
There are indeed people who get suspended or banned for speaking up and showing their support for the lgbtq+ .
@emmma_camp_
I'm really gonna try to be nice.
First of all, what's with the quotation marks? Anxiety can be very debilitating to the point of not even being able to leave the house.
Being disabled is not a trend or a "fashion accessory". The problem here is people like YOU!
@_celia_bedelia_
Also, there are 8 billion people on this planet. The overwhelming majority of women are cis women. The fact that a small % are trans women, doesn't in any way erase cis women.
And no one is telling cis women that they can't refer to themselves or others as women.
@ShawtyKeish
So.. pls do tell me, what's the difference between someone who's married with kids and posting vacation pics on social media vs someone who's single and childfree and posting vacation pics on social media?
In reality, not everyone wants marriage and kids.
@Mattmanbrownbro
@Jimothy2401
@gullyvuhr
@ElijahSchaffer
Stop blaming women for your lack of self-control. It doesn't matter if she's wearing a mini skirt or sweatpants, she'll still get harassed by people like you. Take responsibility for YOUR actions or don't go out in public at all. Leave women alone.
@pierrefleury_
Thank you for speaking up about this. Way too often are women being gaslit and blamed because men refuse to take responsibility for their own actions. A woman could walk around naked, and she still wouldn't be "asking for it". So genuine thank you for standing up for women.
While it is true that autism can cause struggle to understand certain things e.g. social cues, you cannot use it as an excuse to play innocent when you've harassed and bullied someone over and over again, pretending you don't know what you're doing.
@MattWalshBlog
Besides my dad, I would not look to a man for protection. There's a reason why single women are happier these days and wants to stay single.
You as a man, do NOT get to tell what women want.
@FatsPostingLs
Are ya'll really so insecure and miserable that you feel the need to insult someone's appearance, so you can feel better about yourself? I hope you realise how pathetic that is.
@_celia_bedelia_
Geez people are still insisting you're a man? ๐คฆ๐ปโโ๏ธ I guess the "we can always tell" is very telling about their ability, or lack of ability to actually tell.
@bindelj
I'm autistic and have ptsd, signs like this are very helpful to avoid a panic attack. So while you might think it's silly, remember that signs like this aren't made for you, but for others.
@cooltxchick
@krassenstein
I agree. As someone with autism and mental illness, I do get panic attacks/meltdowns, but when that happens I try to find a quiet place where I can sit by myself until I've calmed down. I get not everyone's the same, but there are steps you can take to not let it go out on others
1/2
Women: *talking about our struggles and traumatic experiences.*
Men: "Riiiight because only women struggle. You know, men built this world you're living in, but you don't hear us complaining about how hard life is."
...
STFU! Just shut the fuck up! Shush ๐คซ๐
@pierrefleury_
I've never strived to become rich, because it's not important to me. Of course I want to have enough money to have a roof over my head, food on the table and be able to do the things I enjoy, but I strive for happiness, not wealth.
@LilaGraceRose
Not married, never been married, never want to get married, still having sex ๐๐ป
Oh and guess what? If I end up pregnant, I'll get an abortion ๐๐๐ป
@GNQ__
@mattxiv
That's like saying gay/bi/trans people etc. don't exist ๐คจ
You're gay, therefore you're part of the G in LGBTQ+ ..unless you wanna tell me you dont exist ๐ฅด
@adamfare1996
I have paranoid schizophrenia and though I still experience hallucinations and psychosis, meds have made a huge improvement in making it less intense and how I react. I probably would've been dead by now if it wasn't for my anti-psychotic and anti-depressants meds.
@s8n
Religion deserves to be mocked. Too many people hide behind religion to justify their horrible behaviour and to feel morally superior. People can believe whatever they want and if you feel the need to pray, I won't stop you, unless you're praying for me, because don't.
@RosannaGusler
@_celia_bedelia_
Because period blood is a biohazard. If you need to wash you blood stained underwear, do it at home!
Also, shitty hands? ๐คจ If you're shitting in your hands, then you're not using the toilet correctly.
@ask_aubry
I mean, unless someone has a rare form of alopecia, everyone has body hair. The double standard of it "only being gross on women" is just immature and makes no sense. In my case its just a personal preference, but I'm also not disgusted by those that don't shave ๐คท๐ปโโ๏ธ
If someone posts a photo of themselves and you're commenting stuff such as "go to the gym/you're ugly/wear less makeup" etc. You're not being helpful, you're just being an asshole. Stop trying to dictate other people's bodies and tearing down their confidence.
@jiggyjayy2
They do this with all women tbh. We're nothing more than objects in their eyes, here to serve men and don't you dare look anything other than their idea of "the perfect woman", or else you'll get critiqued relentlessly.
@KeneAkers
White people who are scared of being replaced, are really just scared of being treated the same way they've been treating black people.
They think equal rights for others, mean less rights for them.
Either way, white supremacists should be replaced with those who are for equality
@PunishedAG
1/3 Thank you for this!
I have schizophrenia and I absolutely hate when they bring up any mental illness to try and justify their argument.
I am often discredited bc of my diagnosis, like my feelings or opinions aren't valid because I'm just -
@KeneAkers
This is where American politics is so confusing and mind boggling to me, because how did someone like Marjorie even get in office in the first place?! How are there people who support her views?! ๐คฆ๐ปโโ๏ธ
@adamfare1996
This!
Them: "Just be honest with me about how you feel and what I can do to help. I promise to just listen and I won't get upset. ๐."
Me: Tells them how I feel and what they can do to help.
Them: ๐ก๐๐ "Stop being lazy, the world doesn't revolve around you."
@CaraLisette
Couldn't agree more. There's no way to become a billionaire without screwing some people over, but even if there was, why wouldn't you help those who are less fortunate when you have the wealth and ability to do so.
@adamfare1996
The most disturbing part about all of this, is the people who call someone a woman as soon as they start to menstruate. They are often the same people who'll defend child pregnancies, because "now that they menstruate, they're old enough to give birth". ๐๐คข
@Mirror6161
@befbadbelly
The problem is, its unsolicited advice and chances are she's already thought of or tried whatever people are suggesting. Talking about her experience is not wallowing in self-pity or playing the victim. Unless you're her doctor, stop trying to solve other people's health problems
@UsingCigarettes
@ChefAnthonyDC
Usually I'd agree with you, but you can barely see the person and while he may not have done anything illegal, its still weird and kinda dick move to sit so close when literally all other seats are available.
@hannaweeny
I hate how autism and mental illness have become a "fun quirk to have" on tiktok.
The spread of misinformation on there is plentiful and harmful.
@adamfare1996
I completely agree, although its still kinda sad to see so many people just walk by without helping him ๐ also, the way that woman's bf just yanked her, is a huge red flag.
@ThreeDailey
This isn't the first time Jeffree has made claims about having dirt on someone. I doubt he actually has anything on James, bc what's the point in keeping this so called proof of James being absolutely terrible, to himself? Jeffree is a liar, he's proven this many times.
@AbortionChat
certain people have really been reaching by saying you hate kids and making it your whole personality, all because YOU had to parent a kid that isn't yours. smdh ๐
@CryptidFluffy
@AbortionChat
She was being more responsible than the kid's parents and showed more care for both her dog's and the child's safety.
"Hey parents, please keep your small child close to you and make sure you teach them about safety around animals" should not be that controversial of a statement
@adamfare1996
And people need to learn the difference between intrusive thoughts vs impulsive thoughts, because despite what TikTok says, intrusive thoughts are NOT "I should dye my hair purple".
@JohnathanPerk
I have seen people getting upset over being called white people lol, but isn't "white people" just a way to refer to people who are white tho? Anyone who gets offended by being called white or comparing it to the n-word, needs to take a history class.
@PunishedAG
3/3 Schizophrenia is heavily stigmatised and many people are completely ignorant about it.
Despite what the media says, most of us are not violent or a danger to society, and we don't smear shit on the walls or draw with our own blood.
@Thiohna
If I may add:
"You're a murderer, even if you haven't had an abortion yourself"
"You're worse than the nazis"
"KYS"
"You're a (R word)"
Oh and let's not forget when they start attacking your family and friends, who's not even part of the conversation.
Such a lovely bunch huh? /s
@Thiohna
Whaaat? That's silly, no one regrets having children. Having children is every woman's purpose and the only way they'll be truly happy in life. Children are God's greatest gift, so remember to dedicate you and your children's lives to God. ๐๐ป
..me, sarcastic? No I would never ๐
@adamfare1996
This! I've seen a surprising amount of cis men on here recently, who are basically admitting to be in support of rape or already having done so/wanting to rape.
AND they're the same ones saying that women are being dramatic and overreacting when we say we don't feel safe ๐๐ฅด
@adamfare1996
I've never once in my 30 years of life wanted children and romance makes me extremely uncomfortable, which obviously means I'm a failure and don't fulfill my "womanly duties" cos that's ofc my only reason for existing... according to some people (men) at least ๐๐ฅด
@PunishedAG
2/3 A "delusional attention seeker and a psycho".
Yes, I have moments where I am paranoid and delusional due to hallucinations, BUT that doesn't mean I lack the ability to be clear minded and think logically. -
@adamfare1996
Gonna have to disagree here. In a world full of ableism and ignorance, "staying positive" is easier said than done. You're using your voice to spread awareness about the reality of living with a disability and making people feel less alone.