I was a trans kid in the 80s. I knew that I would rather have been a girl. I prayed to wake up as a girl every night, well into my late teens. I also knew that it was something that you didn't talk about unless you wanted to get beat up.
Last night was my first time wearing a tube top. I think I'm pulled it off. I was also correctly gendered by everyone that I spoke to. Feeling good! Can I get a W?
Anybody been friends with me long enough to remember this pic? This was my original profile pic here, 1st time I shaved my legs, pre-everything. In fact if you could see the top half, I still had a beard. This pic was so much euphoria though, & convinced me to give this a shot.
Just found out via Facebook that my sister-in-law had a baby sprinkle a couple of weeks ago and my wife and I were not invited but my sister and my mother were. So yeah...
Happy Birthday to me! This is 47! I'm proud of my life, my family, my friends, and to have been living my truth publicly for over a year! Hope that you have a fantastic day and a fantastic weekend. And don't forget to drink water and take your meds! Love ya! ๐
Good evening, cuties! Happy Tuesday! I am 11 days post op, still swollen, but I did my makeup a bit and feel good. Whatcha think? As always, be good to yourself, and don't forget to drink water and take your meds! Love ya! ๐
I blew out a tire last night (boo!) & had to drop my car at the tire place this morning. I haven't been there in a while, so I kinda knew that their record of me would be under the deadname, so I was bracing for how to deal with that, but when I gave them my phone number...(1/2)
they looked at my account and said "Melissa?" (my wife's name). I just said "Yes", because I didn't want to have to deal with changing my name in their system, but I kinda think that's a W, right?
So it occurred to me that in the 3 months since I've started HRT and maybe even including the last couple of months leading up to it after I accepted myself, I haven't played a single video game. Almost like I was mainly playing them to escape reality or something...
For whoever needs to hear this... If you want to be a girl, you can just be a girl. You don't need anyone's permission. In fact, you already are. It took me far too long to realize that. I never knew that I was allowed to be this happy. Love ya! ๐
This post has drawn out the transphobes for some reason, but I really don't care. Not taking it down. You can't dim my shine, and I am sorry that your lives are so miserable that you have to shit on a trans person just being happy in order to feel better about yourself. ๐๐๐
It's funny, before I transitioned, I was always concerned about the gap in my front teeth. I was convinced that it was the first thing that people noticed about me. Now that I actually like what I see in the mirror, I hardly even notice it. It was never the gap, it was dysphoria.
It's funny, before I transitioned, I was always concerned about the gap in my front teeth. I was convinced that it was the first thing that people noticed about me. Now that I actually like what I see in the mirror, I hardly even notice it. It was never the gap, it was dysphoria.
My daughter is so sweet. She was saying that she liked my hair, and I was upset about the length. I said it reminds me of pictures from a year ago that I don't like. Then she said "But you're so much prettier than you were a year ago." ๐
Most of the time, I don't feel like I pass, but my daughter & I sat next to a father & son at the game & we had a ten minute conversation & he ended it by saying how cool it was to see a mother & daughter taking in the game together. Affirmation in unexpected places is the best.
Did anyone else buy a bunch of tight women's T-shirts as they transitioned and became more comfortable displaying their femininity only to realize that they were too tight to wear when their tits finally started to come in, or is that just me?
Good morning, friends! Happy Thursday! Hope that your week is going well, the weekend is nearly here. This is my Friday though, because tomorrow I will be under the knife. Wish me luck? Be good to yourself, and don't forget to drink water and take your meds! Love ya! ๐
Good morning, cuties! Happy Friday! I am at the hospital and will be going back shortly. Send good vibes. I might not be posting pics for a bit. Take care of yourself and remember that you are loved! Don't forget to drink water and take your meds! Love ya! ๐
To all my new followers in the last day, I really don't just argue with transphobes all day. I mostly just post selfies and positive messages. That cool?
Good morning, friends! Happy Monday! Hope that the week ahead is as amazing as you are! You are special and you are loved! Be good to yourself and don't forget to drink water and take your meds! Love ya! ๐
Good morning, cuties! Happy Friday! Hope that you have some fun plans for the weekend! Take care of yourself, and remember that you are loved! Be good, and don't forget to drink water and take your! Love ya! ๐
Seems like I'm loosing followers since I posted unfiltered current and pre-transition pics yesterday.
All I have to say to that is "See ya!" I'm happy with who I am and where I'm going 3 months in. If you followed me because you thought I might be hot, that's not why I'm here.
Ok, I didn't talk about this before now because I was afraid. I found a lump in my left breast earlier this month. I was worried that I would be forced to stop transitioning. Anyway, I had my first mammogram today (yay?) and was given a clear bill of health! ๐
Good afternoon, friends! Happy Tuesday! Hope that your week is going well so far! What are you up to? Please take care of yourself and remember that you are loved! And don't forget to drink water and take your meds! Love ya! ๐
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Right? I was on HRT for over a year before I fully socially transitioned. And even now, looking back at pics from when I did it, I kind of can't believe that I was ready at even that point. lol
Good afternoon, friends! Happy Sunday! Hope that your weekend has been incredible! Remember that you are amazing and you are loved! Please take care of yourself and don't forget to drink water and take your meds! Love ya! ๐
Good morning, cuties! Happy Hump Day! How is everybody doing mid-week? The weekend will be here before you know it! Please take care of yourself, and don't forget to drink water and take your meds! Love ya! ๐
Good morning, friends! Happy Tuesday! How is your week going so far? Hope that you're doing well! Take care of yourself and don't forget to drink water and take your meds! Love ya! ๐
Good morning, cuties! Happy Friday! Hope that you have something fun planned for the weekend, because you made it! Take care of yourself, and don't forget to drink water and take your meds! Love ya! ๐
Starting to get gendered correctly more often than not, even by a plant maintenance guy yesterday who acted very concerned for me when I told him I was the only IT person there on Sunday. Apparently, I can't handle it myself. Lol.
Good afternoon, cuties! Happy Sunday! Hope that your weekend has been amazing! I am doing well and I can finally pull things over my head, so t-shirts are back! Take care of yourself, and don't forget to drink water and take your meds! Love ya! ๐
Good afternoon, cuties! Happy Star Wars Day! How is your weekend going? Mine has been good! Any fun plans for today? Be good to yourself, and May the 4th be with you! Also don't forget to drink water and take your meds! Love ya! ๐
Good morning, friends! Happy Hump Day! Ur halfway there! U got this! Hope that everything is going well! Be good to yourself, and don't forget to drink water and take your meds! Love ya! ๐
Good morning, friends! Happy Tuesday! Hope that you week is off to a great start! Please remember that you are amazing and you are loved! Take care of yourself and don't forget to drink water and take your meds! Love ya! ๐
Good morning, cuties! Happy Tuesday! Hope that your week is going well so far. Please remember that you are amazing and you are loved! Be good to yourself and don't forget to drink water and take your meds! Love ya! ๐
Good morning, cuties! Happy Hump Day! Hope that your week is going great! 2 days until my FFS! Aaaahhh! It will be ok, right? Take care of yourself, and don't forget to drink water and take your meds! Love ya! ๐
My boss (who I love) is really putting me out there for exposure. First, she was working with me for practice interviews for a promotion. Then, there was a leadership group that she recommended me for. Tomorrow, I am part of a lunch meeting with the CIO. Wish me luck.
3 months to the day for FFS. It will be here before I know it, ahhhh! I haven't told my mother yet. Doubt that it will go over well. Waiting till after the holidays.