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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

7 months

Things I Observed While Talking To Girls ...or, random things I noticed in my pickup experience:👇

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

2 months

TEXTING GIRLS An area many guys seem to obsess over: what/how to text girls. A formidable literature has sprung-up offering advice on frequency, quantity, msg type, ping type, subtext, implication...the list seems endless My advice? Keep it simple. An example w/beautiful 20yo👇

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

5 months

My single tweet game advice: Do things that make you feel (quietly) proud of yourself Just talk to girls. It will be awkward at first, but not forever Even the best guys mostly get rejected Being relaxed & enjoying yourself helps a lot Treat it as a game not as a competition

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

4 months

+1 SDDL 24 yo 🇺🇸 Saw her on way to dinner: ultra sexy 🔥 (cute, petite bod terrific b**bs & a**). Hadn't intended for this to be an SDL but she oozed s*x appeal & felt 'on' from the get-go. ~1 hr from meet to pull (but did HOURS of foreplay...loved caressing her v sexy body)

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

3 months

Something I learned abt chicks that may help your game: The VAST MAJORITY of chicks cannot emotionally function without a man Even the hottest, baddest IG thot (and I've been w/many of these) feels EMPTY w/out a guy she looks up to It is just how they are wired

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

2 months

+21yo 🇺🇸 hottie - simple D2 lay posting here to emphasize importance of escalation. Shes a MIND girl (heart/body/mind h/t @DaysOfGame_com ) but if you LEAD & ESCALATE, chicks follow. Rejected kiss attempt but sent👇txt after D1. I reassured her its all good 2nite she was handsy

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

3 months

I don't post +1's coz most of mine are fairly standard (meet girl, 1-3 dates, then +1). I wrote this one up coz SDDL's are more of 'exhibition' gaming

Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

4 months

+1 SDDL 24 yo 🇺🇸 Saw her on way to dinner: ultra sexy 🔥 (cute, petite bod terrific b**bs & a**). Hadn't intended for this to be an SDL but she oozed s*x appeal & felt 'on' from the get-go. ~1 hr from meet to pull (but did HOURS of foreplay...loved caressing her v sexy body)

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

4 months

More on '6' vs '9' Been seeing this girl (not exclusive). Slim body, clear skin but plain jane. Y'all might say she's a 6 She is ALSO: uninhibited, open, so adventurous, so sexual, compliant, WANTS to please, intelligent, happy To me she's >> 9 who's a starfish YMMV

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

4 months

@BrownCasanova3 >Chances better Wednesday Had something tonight that I couldnt miss Yesterday while massaging & kissing her neck I said: 'does this feel good?' & she goes 'Yes. I want to sleep' I said: With me She looked at me with her piercing blue eyes & goes: Yes but not tonight It was 🔥

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

4 months

UPDATE on the 🇺🇦 model: ended-up not doing any 'long game'. Figured if the connection was powerful enough (which I felt it was) she'd reach out when she's back And she did Date tonight 👇

Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

5 months

What I mean by 'numbers game' & frustration Date last night: gorgeous 21 yr old 🇺🇦 She >> Megan Fox in her prime. Sweet. Curious. Into me. Put her in my lap ~45 mins into 3+ hr date And...she leaves in 2 days (cont'd) 👇

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

1 month

@Disco_Stooo_ @_pacificspirit >Lads don't go approaching random girls Speak for yourself... Cool, confident & charming guys LIKE talking to women (in bookstores, bars, clubs, grocery stores, anywhere really) & they make the women FEEL GOOD about it Source: met many women this way & had great relationships

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

6 months

This is a common challenge/complaint among my female friends also. Forget all the hoe-flation nonsense.. Chicks are *starved* for actual, in-the-flesh, real male attention. More guys would benefit from cold approach

Paige 🛼🤍

@climatepaige

6 months

Serious question: I am totally over dating apps. All I ever do is exercise, work at my job, work on creative projects, drink coffee, walk my dog, garden, read books, and spend time with my girlfriends. Not a fan of bars. Not religious. How do I meet someone?

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

7 months

I did a coaching call with @DaysOfGame_com recently, and I want to share my experience. Nash didn't ask me to write this, but it was a wonderful experience so I'll share 👇

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

3 months

That hot lil mami being all cool & aloof, is putting on an act. She wants nothing more than a cool, confident guy to pick her up and ease all her lil neuroses Just look at the lengths they'll go to get attention IMO girls want/need guys way more than we need them

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

7 months

It may improve your interactions to view girls as children: Be playful; care for them; correct them, if necessary. Above all, don't take anything they say or do very seriously. Corollary: women change their mind often. Analyzing their behavior too much isn't useful.

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

4 months

Perfect spring night in NYC ~10pm stop a cute Indian girl. She hooks. Few mins in I start stroking her hair HER: You cant touch me like that (feigning anger) ME: Even if you like it? I lean into her HER: But I'm not going to kiss you ME: Not tonight We talk more # close

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

3 months

Went on 4 dates w/a chick. Each felt progressively deeper; felt like she'd open-up more & more each time Then she ghosted...FeelsBadMan Ofc it happens. Happened many times before & this won't be the last But has anyone fig'd out why girls do it? cc: @DaysOfGame_com @YoyloPUA

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

5 months

This is kinda cringe crap guys need to ignore I've said before that I almost never get LMR. Many reasons behind it but a big one is def bcos I genuinely care abt the girl, what she's feeling, etc Yes, you gotta lead, but don't be a psycho 🤦‍♂️

Daygame Charisma

@DaygameCharisma

5 months

She opens up about her feelings with the man who cares about her emotional safe being She opens her legs with the exciting man who doesn’t give a f*ck about her feelings

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

7 months

+1🇨🇿 25yr old. D2. Amazing sex. Very interesting girl will write abt her later. Same one from 'frame control' thread. Full msgs below @DaysOfGame_com should I have called her out more firmly on 'send car'? I didn't send a car ofc. Wondering if I should've been more stern.

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

4 months

So many smokeshows today I said to one chick: wow you are so fkn beautiful I don't even believe you're real...can I touch you? She burst out laughing & stopped filming her stupid tiktok thing. We spoke for a few more mins then # Some other sets and #'s too

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

2 months

>lack of results from DG depends on what u mean by results, but some diagnostics Id suggest: not getting nums = likely approaches are spammy/intimidating nums but no dates = not coming across sincere/'normal' dates but no sex = not escalating physically

Geralt

@mrshelby1920

2 months

I am finding very hard to push myself to go out daygaming. Once I start, it feels good. just cant find a solution to this. I think part of it is lack of results from DG.

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

6 months

9 approaches and 9 blowouts One of those days

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

1 month

Chicks want what FEELS good & if anything I've found younger girls are MORE INTERESTED in me now than a decade ago...it almost feels *too* easy tbh And its got nothing to do w/my looks. The 18-23yo chicks def ask, but guess my age correctly (late 30s) & most are into it

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@ellegist

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almost every single unmarried 28-32 year old woman that I know wants an age-appropriate husband

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

4 months

Your periodic reminder that “there are way more No’s than Yes’s” & “It’s okay to feel down sometimes” & “Chicks dig scars” & “The journey is the reward and glory is forever”

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

1 year

@DexterDaygame absolutely true tried the apps for a solid 3 months thinking it was more 'time-efficient' than daygame nope only matched w/ THREE hot chicks during that time ... and only one of them came out on a date 99.9% were sub-par fat/weird/etc girls

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

5 months

@SuburbsDaygame 👏 👏 For advice, I’ll quote Kipling: ‘If you can meet success and failure and treat them both as impostors, then you are a balanced man, my son.’ Women are emotion creatures, and can change moment to moment. Surf the wave; appreciate both the highs and the lows

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

5 months

Have trouble escalating/sexualizing dates? Play w/her hair Lightly brush it aside, behind ear. Stroke/run fingers thru it. Grab a chunk near neck. Do again & pull her close, etc Keep upping ante It's what I do & builds tension since u can keep talking/eye contact as u do it

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

6 months

@nightfire0 @MrBlackwing1361 @DaysOfGame_com OKC data != real life. OFC online dating is superficial, coz that’s all you can showcase. Interracial marriages are about preferences, sorting, proximity, not just attraction. IRL attraction is based on much more. Race is way low on that list. I’m not white & never had trouble

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

3 months

This is simple, but EXCELLENT advice I did this naturally but realized that some guys don’t, after watching a friend & helping diagnose why he got harsh reactions (didn’t smile that’s why) This works to decrease YOUR anxiety too

Thomas Crown

@CrownDaygame

3 months

190. Start smiling AS you turn around and walk towards the girl. If you're not projecting warm energy as you talk to her she'll step back, scared, you'll see it in her eyes and she'll start stepping around and away from you. That warmth should be part of your charisma already

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

2 months

Sometimes I see extremely cute & feminine-looking chicks with totally butch lesbo gf’s… This should tell you how ‘programmable’ most chicks are. Just gotta make her FEEL something & they’re all over you

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

5 months

@TucoDaygame This is correct. I'm very comfortable around good looks. Dated many IG-type chicks. An ex was a runway model (street-scouted by Elite at 19yrs when visiting NYC w/fam). Key is to be very relaxed & normal. That'll set you apart. After that it's more about lifestyle compatibility

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

6 months

Some chicks...🤦‍♂️ It is not enough that I'm taking her to an event that's cool AF. Bitch wants me to feed her too...🖕 Let's see how this plays out cc: @DaysOfGame_com @angeldevenganza

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

7 months

The best set is when the girl is attentive AND seems just a lil nervous. If she mentions a boyfriend, she's not gonna cheat on him. Has nothing to do with how cool you are. Corollary: when a girl loves a guy he becomes the most attractive man in the world in her eyes.👇

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

7 months

Stealth hotties: some some really beautiful girls with bad style are hiding in plain sight. Pay attention. I picked up some strippers this way. 2 weeks of NoFap eliminates approach anxiety. Also makes me insanely horny. I don't recommend it.👇

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

5 months

Went for a swim & started talking to the chick next to me. She was cute (in her 30s tho...) but I haven't been in the mood to 'game' lately. So at some pt I go 'ok gotta run!' and she # closes me GUYS--> Learn game. It becomes an unconscious thing eventually

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

6 months

@DexterDaygame People make PUA out to be this big deal when what is it, really? Just smalltalk w/ chicks here & there, & inviting the willing to play some bedroom golf It's not some heroic initiation ritual It's only guys who obsess & derive their worth from results who go nuts eventually

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

5 months

Set up date w/big time IG influencer chick 👇 She essentially has infinite options. Most are 'low quality' (diffident, don't take charge, etc) Just having a plan and leading puts you ahead of most guys. Also: zero chance I could ever get her attention online

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

5 months

If u have any cold approach skill at all, advice: go to events based on your interests. Shooting fish in a barrel (unless ur interest = dungeons & dragons) I'm into a specific indie music scene and I get so much traction at those events. It's a better form of night game imo

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

4 months

I’m sitting at a restaurant rn and there’s a stocky Filipino dude with a cute girl who is ALL OVER him No excuses

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

4 months

I project a relaxed, sensual vibe; like I'm catching-up with someone who's already my gf. I dont worry about offending her ('play it safe') nor do I tell a bunch of "DHV stories" ('win her over'). Instead I just talk about things I want to know abt her: likes/dislikes/dreams

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

7 months

Girls rarely show overt interest initially, even when they REALLY like you. Part of their charm. The real task in daygame is not Attraction, it's Comfort. Many girls hesitate because they feel unfamiliar/unsafe. That is why being extremely relaxed and warm is important.👇

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

4 months

@R_Daygame Girls ask frivolous q's that don't mean anything. Don't engage with the q at all Respond w/ something like: "you're such a girl, it's adorable" Then switch thread & move interaction forward, e.g. "Do you like ice-cream?" She'll say yes bla bla, then you setup the date

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

5 months

Holy shit rough one today - 12 sets 12 blowouts. And most were PROPER blowouts where the bitches wanted me to KNOW they’re rejecting me… fkn legendary haha And yet tomorrow I’ve got the IG hottie coming over These street chicks have NO idea what they’re missing out on

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

5 months

3 apps, 1 num: 21-yr old NYU student. Immediate hook. I stepped back after the opener, and she moved fwd to close the gap Other highlights: very pretty blondie. Maybe coz she was also a Princeton student, but reminded me of young Brooke Shields...BF unforch

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

2 months

@SpectreDaygame 🔥🔥amazing! A lotta guys wouldve played it too safe coz she's a '9' ("I better not f- it up" etc) but you escalated (as you should!) Probably one (among other) reasons that set you apart from all the other guys who were afraid to be bold

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

3 months

@SpectreDaygame You're doing great, man! 👏 One advice tho... >cute high 7/low 8 ☝️that kind of thinking will hold you back. There's absolutely NO difference in gaming a 6 vs 9. I know coz I've slept with/LTR'd both. Was in a LTR w/ a runway model (signed with Elite MM) + many other ex's

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

5 months

We often personalise rejection: girl didn’t respond…what did we do wrong?? Usually has NOTHING to do w/ you. Girl below👇met her Sat, strong hook, responded to feeler immediately Date request. No response. This afternoon I see her arm-in-arm w/a guy, ~ her age, BF prolly

Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

5 months

3 apps, 1 num: 21-yr old NYU student. Immediate hook. I stepped back after the opener, and she moved fwd to close the gap Other highlights: very pretty blondie. Maybe coz she was also a Princeton student, but reminded me of young Brooke Shields...BF unforch

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

7 months

Girls get excited by taking your clothes off (just as guys do). But they'll rarely do it unprompted. Guide her hands and place them on your belt/shirt/etc. A girl who kisses well (light, connected, sensual, lip+tongue) will usually give great head.👇

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

2 months

@daygameburner @KG_Daygame Secondly: learning cold approach is an INVESTMENT. The pay-off compounds over many years & in many diff ways (beyond just girls) UNQUESTIONABLY it is worth it

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

3 months

@SpectreDaygame Approach whomever you find intriguing. Waiting for IOIs is ineffective because most girls don’t give IOIs, even when they’re interested

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

4 months

One final summary point I just thought of: be BOLD in your actions and AUTHENTIC in your words ie touch her/escalate/get sexy & don’t try to impress her in any way. Most girls IME cannot resist this combo of attitude and behavior

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

5 months

What I mean by 'numbers game' & frustration Date last night: gorgeous 21 yr old 🇺🇦 She >> Megan Fox in her prime. Sweet. Curious. Into me. Put her in my lap ~45 mins into 3+ hr date And...she leaves in 2 days (cont'd) 👇

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

6 months

"Most of real life consists of silence versus engagement, not direct feedback." Beautiful

The Red Quest

@TheRedQuest

6 months

Your life is a reflection of who you are, by @TheRedQuest

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

7 months

I don't think guys realize how much leverage they have in dating/relationships. Hell, even the dumbest strategy of approaching a f*ckton of chicks is bound to land one that clicks. All a girl can do is stand around and hope.

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

7 months

A little resistance is a good sign. Girls put up barriers initially because they know how much they'll invest in you eventually. These are the kinds of girls with staying power. Corollary: a girl who doesn't put up any barriers won't last for long. Easy come, easy go.👇

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

4 months

Fascinating discussion going on Angel vs. Nash The form of the debate comes up over & over (only the content changes) Like the discussion of the paths to enlightenment: Zen (just realize ur awake) vs. Theravada (train urself to wake up) Latter has a better track record

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

2 months

@SpectreDaygame You: I want to do things that make u smile You: Maybe I’ll buy u flowers maybe something else… You: But I’ll do these things when I WANT to do them…not just coz u asked You: When something comes from the heart it means more doesn’t it You: you’re a special girl - see u on (day)

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

6 months

Girl tells me one time she txts a guy that she's excited to see him Guy txts back: wear something sexy. Girl doesn't like it, but doesnt wanna cancel On the date shes cold. Guys frame breaks completely. Literally starts crying 🤦‍♂️ Lesson: dont write checks ur body cant cash...

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

4 months

Update: they just left. Girl was about half an inch taller than him, in flats and a HOT body. NO. EXCUSES.

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

3 months

@KarlMagnuz It’s also helpful to reframe. For example: seeing another guy with a hot girl Instead of thinking: ‘Why him? Why not me?’ You could reframe: ‘Nice! So this is possible for me too’

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

30 days

@fervidmusings @DaysOfGame_com @FrenchOG3 @angeldevenganza The best mindset for interacting with women is to project a kind of relaxed confidence and warmth In fact I'd say that a nice smile, confident voice and posture, and good eye contact generates all the attraction you need for a successful daygame set Anger is detrimental

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

2 months

Watch your thoughts [...] for they become your destiny...to paraphrase Lao Tzu

Rob Henderson

@robkhenderson

3 years

Negative beliefs about the world (that it's dangerous, cut-throat, getting worse, etc.) is associated with less career success, worse health, reduced life satisfaction, increased depression symptoms, and increased likelihood of having attempted suicide

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

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@WildPUA You’re young, so get as much experience as you can. With all sorts of girls:crazy, sweet, smart, bossy, etc. The only thing is don’t commit to just one girl. Date and sleep with many, and learn about them; about what you like; don’t like etc

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

3 months

I read something on X once which has been 💯true in my experience: Women can’t be controlled. But they ARE very willing to be led. Kind of like a horse.

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

5 months

@DaysOfGame_com >In your case, maybe that you can stay grounded ^💯 IME tho the relative value of 'remaining grounded' is higher to a hot girl & 80% of the battle (coz around her so few men are) But doesn't make you stand out as much to a normal chick who experiences groundedness frequently

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

4 months

@DaysOfGame_com @hitOnMe_tandori Agree very very rare I’m a big guy myself w/ shaved head so I don’t get AMOGs. Instead guys will sneak-in & try monopolizing the convo What I do is engage him for a min and then literally say: alright buddy nice meeting you, and hold my hand out to shake good bye & it works

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

3 months

@angeldevenganza My condolences man. Keeping you in my thoughts ‘Talk to your ancestors before they’re gone’ ^💯& also thank them. Society wants us focus on the ways in which our parents let us down (trauma this that etc) But remember that for any perceived wrong, they also did a LOT right

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

4 months

When it pours, it rains

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

7 months

Girls who respond quickly to feelers usually flake. As do the ones who are too slow. Real interest has a rhythm. If she saves her full name and number, she'll usually flake -- especially if she's young. Someone else called it 'The Surname Curse'.👇

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

3 months

@R_Daygame >they wont know im a sex addict Never good to have the reputation of guy who always hits on chicks Being good with girls AND being discrete abt is catnip to chicks (they can tell who f's & remains quiet vs who doesnt)

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

7 months

Guys who cold approach & girls who are receptive, inhabit the same, small world. Rarely was I someone's *first* from cold approach. Her looks have nothing to do with how easy/difficult she will be. And *your* looks merely get you in the door. 👇

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

5 months

I'm guessing me putting up a mirror hurt his feelings (2nd image) Dude mostly posts RP crap, or vicariously about what xyz dating coach said/does, no personal exp, argued w/everyone giving him real advice (me, Nash, UrbanPUA etc)...still not a single approach Don't be this guy

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

3 months

@DaysOfGame_com @angeldevenganza >looking a little over invested to me Yeah I didn't wanna admit this but you're totally right. WTF is wrong me with me... Alright. Time to move on >Get busy with something BIG on your list. ^💯 Noted, and thank you 🙏

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

6 months

Whenever I cold approach girls, I feel like I'm releasing little birds from a cage -- the ennui of their quotidian lives... Most of the birds fly away. I don't mind But sometimes a bird will fly back... 👇 she never responded to a date req; a few months pass now this 👇 love it

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

2 months

Good work @WildPUA LFG!

WildPUA

@WildPUA

2 months

+1 25y/o 🇲🇽 AHHH LET’S GO! I’m getting on a role now. Shortly after getting my second lay w/ another near miss right after. Marks my third ever lay. Used to be shy & antisocial & after all this learning im getting very confident at running dates & escalating Full write up 👇

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

3 months

Chicks are far more clueless abt dating than guys realize. I help older (mid 30s) friend-girls of mine w/their love lives. Mindblowing the amount of goofy shit they do despite being desperately into the guy Dont read too much into what they say. Always have a plan & execute

Prometheus ☄️

@realityengaged

3 months

@ItsDaraShikoh @DaysOfGame_com @angeldevenganza Interesting take haha, her tone seems to be on the “shit test” side imo, but that might just be me

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

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@angeldevenganza @legendarywdr @DaysOfGame_com + flirting and other things, but by no means am I just "shooting the shit until I ask for her number" I don't even ask for every chicks num unless I'm interested. Just tonight I spoke a very cute blondie, very stylish & interested...but I found her boring so I said bye

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

3 months

UPDATE: Just got back from the date. Given the discussion re: 'too slow' I invited her back to mine. She said 'I want to but I cant bcuz if I come over tonight my whole schedule will be messed up' Time waster? Maybe. But tbh she seems genuine to me (cont'd) 👇

Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

3 months

Went on 4 dates w/a chick. Each felt progressively deeper; felt like she'd open-up more & more each time Then she ghosted...FeelsBadMan Ofc it happens. Happened many times before & this won't be the last But has anyone fig'd out why girls do it? cc: @DaysOfGame_com @YoyloPUA

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

4 months

@PhoenixxxPUA @CrownDaygame @DaysOfGame_com @angeldevenganza I began serious cold approach pickup ~age 20 (I'm 36 now) In the tens of thousands of approaches I've done... Of the hundreds of phone numbers I've gotten... I've never, not even ONCE, gotten a girl out who didn't respond to my feeler text Take that for what it's worth

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

3 months

UPDATE: Sent invite for D #6 👇No reply yet ~10 hrs She hasn't said 'No' (just like last time) so it's at least 'Maybe' Thinking: msg her tmw about logistics (address/time/etc). That'll force confirm/deny Better options? @DaysOfGame_com @angeldevenganza

Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

3 months

UPDATE: Just got back from the date. Given the discussion re: 'too slow' I invited her back to mine. She said 'I want to but I cant bcuz if I come over tonight my whole schedule will be messed up' Time waster? Maybe. But tbh she seems genuine to me (cont'd) 👇

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

1 month

In his biography of Steve Jobs, Walter Isaacson shared how Jobs insisted that Macintosh circuit board components had to be beautifully arranged, despite not being visible to users I've always loved that anecdote It isn't just WHAT you do thats important, it's also HOW you do it

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

3 months

Something random I've been wondering: Do girls from wealthy families make better gfs/partners? Thnking abt past experiences, it was the case for me. Chicks who grew up rich seem more easy-going than middle/lower income -- latter seem closer to survival mode at all times

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

4 months

Also, you dont *have* to go to the popular spots it's just something I personally like/can do Mindset: Probably the most important part. My mindset is that if a girl comes out on a date, then she likes/is attracted to me. Therefore I dont 'play it safe' nor 'try to win her over'

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

2 months

@mrshelby1920 >find a solution to this You just need to build the habit. Approach 5 diff chicks everyday for a month. Don't even worry abt getting a # - simply compliment and move on if you want Just like fitness. Sucks going to the gym first few weeks, until it becomes a habit. Then easy

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

3 months

@WildPUA @DaysOfGame_com @YoyloPUA two more pts: 1. this why i dont like too much chitchat on txt. too many tacit expectations = confusion; 2. Your main problem is wanting too much reassurance that a chick likes u before you make a move. IME, early on chix dont give much even if they dig u. Always LEAD

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

4 months

What I mean by that is: LOOK at her (she looks sexy for YOU), SMELL her non-creepily (she put perfume on for YOU), LISTEN to her (she's telling you things about her so that you'll like her), etc Make the date a *sensual* experience for you. That may help you get out of ur head

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

4 months

@JaxDaygame I would pursue a little, but flip the frame. Say something short like: "Intriguing...say more" Let's see if she qualifies herself & what thread she picks In general you should ALWAYS set frames implying that they are pursuing you & that you are evaluating THEM

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

1 month

@legendarywdr @DaysOfGame_com @angeldevenganza You don't need to text this much. She gave you her num so you could invite her for a date. So just ASK HER OUT. I send 2 texts. First one w/my name. Second one (a few days later) to setup a date Never done anything more than that in my decade+ of cold approach

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

5 months

She plans to be back in a month. Ofc we'll stay in touch/long game/whatever. But we all know chicks are random. The magic is lost w/out continuity... And therein lies the frustration. So many obstacles on the path...for once I'd like it to be easy 🤦‍♂️

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

6 months

@KapitanJames None of my female friends behave in the way you describe The clucking on X is by a tiny % of women. Most chicks aren't on the frontlines of gender war Most chicks like going to brunch, having nights out, going to work, going on dates, and finding guys to settle down with

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

7 months

The first few times you hook-up, don't ask her to stay the night. In the beginning, this heightens their interest. I'm not sure why. 👇

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

7 months

1. school (90%) 2. thru friends (3%) 3. online (2%) 4. cold approach (precisely zero) Lesson: wanna get laid go to school - get that D...degree @DaysOfGame_com @angeldevenganza @Raz_daygame @KG_Daygame match your experiences? let's crowdsource this effort

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

3 months

@WildPUA Her concern is that she wants to see some ‘investment’ I’d prolly say something like: ‘OK. How about we get dessert and go for a walk. There’s a cool route I’ll show you (thru X neighborhood/etc). I want to do something simple so we can focus on each other’

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

3 months

This one is for my man Red & his ‘fundamentals’ Just got back from a date w 🇺🇦21yo, had her in my lap, kissing & listening to music, etc Maybe I shoulda read her CH’s 16 commandments of poon lol

RedDeangelo

@RedDeangelo

3 months

@ItsDaraShikoh You are reaching with your example, you just gotten flaked on and your response is to arrange straight away, without pulling away at all. Read more Chateau Heartise. You mould behaviour with rewarding good behaviour, and pulling away your attention with bad behaviour.

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

5 months

@MrBlackwing1361 You spend time doing things with that girl: going on trips, hiking in the woods, dropping acid, traveling, watching TV shows, discussing books, eating together, banging, etc Dating is about BREADTH. Relationships are about DEPTH.

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

5 months

And one more question: what was the reason you all came to pickup? Because you didn't get girls and wanted some? Because you got some girls but wanted more? Because you enough girls but wanted different ones? Something else?

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

5 months

@Wholesome_dg @TucoDaygame (3/3) I once asked her 'What does it feel like to be so extremely beautiful?' & she said 'You know the answer...what does it feel like to be extremely intelligent?' (referring to me) Sounds like a line out of a movie (& tbh my rel w/her at times felt like that) but 💯 true

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

2 months

@SpectreDaygame @DaysOfGame_com See txts for D2 setup👇 Context: I was traveling for 2 wks so after D1 I told her it'll some time b4 we meet again I do this coz chicks get super neurotic if u dont contact them & they'll punish u for no reason. At the same I hate txting when traveling so I prep them ahead

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

4 months

@angeldevenganza @DaysOfGame_com Nash vs. Angel debates are MY FAVORITE Sorta like Mr. Miyagi & Hank Moody chopping up on how to get chicks Both brilliant and stellar in their own ways--but how different the ways! Nash sage dispensing sage koans on attraction while Angel oozing cool & vibe You guys my fav

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Dara Shikoh

@ItsDaraShikoh

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@DaysOfGame_com @wandererbowtied @angeldevenganza @realityengaged @BroodingSea >creating magic w/ the local girls ... than some girl 1 MM miles away ^💯 its why I think most convos on 'txt game' are lame Be so busy with LIFE that 'what to txt' is the last thing on ur mind. THATs what chicks want Having said that I too have fallen prey to rumination

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