Hey y'all--I'm KG.
I...
🖤 believe in kindness and compassion
🖤 write
#erotica
and (N)SFW scripts
🖤 am a Buddhist
🖤 am a BDSM enthusiast
🖤 am a recovering musician AND music critic
🖤 am 420 friendly 🎄
🖤 am a standard nerd 🤓
So...if my calculations are correct, some women want men over the age of 40 with grey in the beard and a little extra tummy, who love to create kind, nurturing, sexually safe spaces for both partners to explore without shame?
A little PSA for anyone who needs it:
You do not always have to have orgasms from sex.
You can take the time to explore and enjoy your body or your partner’s body and it not be about “getting someone there” so they come.
The end goal of sex does not have to be orgasm.
Tw: sobriety
I’m eight damn years sober today.
Eight years.
Eight.
I spent at least 3 years trying to get clean prior. But this day, eight years ago, I achieved what I never thought possible.
I’m grateful for my sobriety because it taught me to never, never give up. 🙏
Cw/Tw: addiction, sobriety
Hey. Real talk: I almost relapsed last night.
But I didn’t. I’m glad I didn’t, but if I did, it would have been okay.
But I didn’t. And that’s okay. I just needed to say it out loud.
Sometimes I beat myself up for sharing my feelings on this app.
But the I also feel better after I do.
Because y’all are some of the best people in the world and I’m fortunate to be here in your presence.
Took a big step (for me) this evening into my expanding sexuality:
I went out to pick up food in a dress for the first time in several decades. It was genuine and wow it felt good.
I’m still learning to love my body, but I love wearing dresses and want to do it more often. 🖤
Every single consenting adult of every gender and every non-gender, too, along with any and all sexualities and lifestyles deserve a safe space to explore their sexuality without fear of shame or judgment.
That includes our Trans brothers and sisters. Get into it.
Hey babes and degenerates.
I’ll post this out again but I’m gonna start an alt account just for music. I’ll try to keep the sex out of it whenever possible. It will be a locked account bc I’ll share show/concert pics.
Let me know with a ❤️if you’re interested. Happening soon.
It's just been a stupid, tough day/week/month for everyone. I love you all and I want to help.
Just leave a comment here on this tweet and I'll respond with something positive and affirming that I love about you.
Hey friends—I’m down again with anxiety attacks and covid symptoms. They may be related. Who knows? I’m in pain today and feeling it hard.
I’ll take good thoughts and/or good vibes. I’ll take prayers or light or whatever you can spare.
I feel silly asking but…it does help.🖤
I would never just disappear and not say goodbye to my friends. But some days the urge to vanish and leave no note is very strong.
Today is one of those days. 🫥
Unfortunately, social media and Twitter don't fall into that plan, so I must exit stage left temporarily.
I'm just reprioritizing. I'll come back and in a new form, like always.
It's not forever, it's just for now.
I love all of you. Thank you. Yes.❤️
2/2
Tw/Cw: addiction, sobriety, relapse (typical KG update)
Thanks to everyone who checked on me. I’m the luckiest person alive right now. I was perilously close to a relapse a few days ago. My physical pain was unbearable.
But I’m here. Healing.
Thanks y’all. I ❤️ you all.
Friends, KG is struggling hard with sobriety today. Little fires, little demons…but I’m here and I’m sending love out to everyone doing the work. 🖤🙏
“I can’t go on, I’ll go on.” -Beckett
Ok, friends--we're going to take a minute to celebrate our super amazing Male VA friends and their vocal talents.
Got a Male VA you want to shout out to? Let's do it and hype those lovely guys up. 👇🙏🖤❤️
I'm going to speak my truth: it breaks my ❤️ a bit when folks show up on here then drop off the grid.
I don't want to form bonds quickly, but I do. I know it's the nature of this thing called 'social' but I feel it HARD when someone I shared experiences w/ leaves unexpectedly.💔
Mmkay, I’m gonna celebrate me for a moment bc I’m practicing self-love.
I just confronted a big scary moment with my anxiety and curbed it with the tools I’ve learned from therapy, books, and Buddhism. I grounded myself. I took deep breaths & went for a walk.
I’m proud for me.
So Kitten and I are headed out of town for the weekend tomorrow and it dawned on me that I basically booked a trip based around food, bookstores, Fall foliage, and hotel sex.
I’m a simple man.
Good morning, starlings.
I'm going to take a break for a few days to reset--this bad brain won't let up and ya'll deserve better than me just moping song lyrics into the void.
I'm gonna listen to The National about it until my eyes hurt.
I'll see you soon. Promise. Namaste.
A reminder if you follow me:
I support, tip, and subscribe to as many SWers and content creators as I can. You will occasionally see me boost them on my feed. I do it bc KG supports sex work and the beautiful folks who create it.
Now you know. Carry on, loves.
I’m going back to bed for the rest of the day. I’m super nervous about ‘The Snip’ on Tuesday and having all the feels.
Hospitals are not fun places for me. If you got some extra love, I’ll happily borrow some now to pay you back tenfold later. 🖤❤️
Hello my sweet lovely, friends.
I am overwhelmed by your support and love for me. Silly old me. Thank you for the well-wishes and the kindness.
Truthfully, I am still not well. I may not be for a few months or more and I have to focus on healing.
1/2
Yeah, it's great and cool that you indulge her kink praise during sex, but are you bringing that same energy to her daily life? Because she needs it there, too.
Hey friends.
I’m trying really hard to keep my head up but I’ve had a few really painful mornings/days these past few weeks. We still don’t know what’s wrong or what’s causing it, but…I was trying to keep it all inside so as not to burden anyone else but, that’s probably…
1/
I don’t know who needs to hear this today but your body is beautiful.
It always has been and always will be.
No one should have ever suggested or said otherwise to you. I’m sorry if they did. ❤️🖤❤️
It’s a tough day for KG. Past trauma sneaking up on me, rearing it’s awful head, and manifesting as physical pain.
This is for all of us out there that live with chronic conditions on the regular.
We’ve got this. We’re strong. We’ve got each other. 🖤
PSA: IDNGAF I will block you for one tweet—ONE—that disrupts my peace of mind.
This is MY space.
I’m always checking “replies” and “likes” when folks follow. You got blocked? Oh well. Do better or find someone else to follow who agrees with your ideas cuz it ain’t me, babe.😘
So I'm having a day where I'm just crying over small things. And that's okay.
Crying is normal, crying is natural. Crying is cathartic. It's okay to cry. Sometimes we just need to wring the trauma out of our bodies with tears.
I genuinely and deeply want everything in life to work out for you all, my friends. I know it doesn’t work like that but I wish none of you had to go through difficulties and hardships. I wish we all had enough money and time and support to do what we love. I wish joy to you. 🖤
My sole purpose as a DD is to be a perfect fucking gentleman—chivalrous, romantic, passionate—until you ask me not to be.
Then my sole purpose is to fold you in half and help you see God. 🖤😘
Did I miss the memo that said we were all about to get clobbered by a tidal wave of depression and anxiety?
I would like to speak to the Manager, please. I am not ok with this. 🥹
Tw: sobriety, addiction
Good morning, starlings.
I’ll be 8 years sober from alcohol and opioids tomorrow. The day before a major milestone always wrecks me so I’m gonna zip my lips for today and just breathe and be.
But I just wanted to say:
Thank you. Yes. Thank you. 🙏
I am WAY too high to be tweeting but…
Let me say: Y’all are so hot and cool and funny and intelligent and open and loving and I know it’s tough and people are struggling but how did all of you lovely people come into my orbit bc I am one lucky KG.
Grateful for a lot tonight 🙏
Don’t get me started on the psychological and emotional (i.e., violent) implications of saying, “What’s your body count?”
Seriously, remove that term from your lexicon, post-haste. It’s not a good look.
Thank you all for checking on me.
I'm ok. I had a small episode yesterday from an incidental trigger.
My account is locked temporarily because of it.
My apologies for the messiness of the past 48 hours.
I am, as it turns out, a human. 🖤
Hey starlings,
I don’t usually do this but Kitten has a rough few days and could use some positivity and light. If you got some, send it my way and I’ll make sure she gets it.
It’s hard to stand up for yourself. I’m proud of everyone that does. ❤️
And if you are experiencing low-level or chronic pain, you should know:
1. I believe you
2. Your pain is real.
3. It will pass.
4. Sharing it with someone can help.
5. Don’t keep it in secret
I send you all love. We are all deserving.
Namaste 🙏
3/3
So, um, I’ll take any of those good vibes this weekend if you got some. COVID is doing a number on my anxiety and I’m trying to lay low. But it hurts and I’m in pain.
And sometimes I need to say it out loud.
I love you all. ❤️🙏🖤