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#SoliDeoGloria • UK-based Integrative Therapist MBACP MACC & Minister• Speaker & Soul Work Specialist †

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There are some wins that only you and God understand the magnitude of. In those moments, remember that an achievement doesn’t need to be noticed, acknowledged or celebrated by others to be valid and deeply significant.
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If you’re someone who withdraws during hard times & re-emerges when things are lighter, you have to understand that the people in your life may struggle to adjust to your ebb & flows, especially when you don’t communicate them. They may not be ready to re-engage just bc you are.
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Ask, don’t guilt trip. Replace the “so you’ve forgotten about me” for “I’ve really missed you, let’s catch up” Replace the “hey stranger” for “I’d love it if we could speak more” Replace the “you never hug me” for “could I have a hug?”
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Truthfully, if we don’t learn to carry people along we can’t be surprised when they aren’t around as we’d like.
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@IfyAlexis
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3 months
God frequently responds to our emotions. See Hagar. See Hannah. Let’s stop pitting emotions against the word of God.
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When Jesus wept, Lazarus didn’t walk out of his grave. But when Jesus spoke, Lazarus came forth. God does not respond to your emotions, but his WORD. Instead of worrying and crying over that situation, speak his WORD over it and watch him honor his WORD.
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2 years
Vulnerable communication will achieve much more than manipulation ever could.
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7 years
God’s best is truly best... It’s been a whole week and my heart knows this fully well! God’s best is worth praying for, waiting for and fighting for. 💛 #FaithfulLee #MrsLee Photography: @_JesseKonadu
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The best Bridal Shower 💛. #FaithfulLee #BecomingMrsLee
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8 years
The fear of the Lord is what commends a woman to God. Not beauty nor charm. Godliness.
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7 years
When God does it He does it well. 💛 Future Mrs. Lee #faithfulLee
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3 years
Never underestimate the power of humility. Sometimes saying “I don’t know” is the wisest thing to say. No need to fabricate an answer.
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4 years
Reminder: Worship is not simply your song on a Sunday, it's your obedience to God Monday through to Sunday. 🙏🏽✨
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3 years
You struggle w/ defensiveness if: - you can’t receive correction w/o correcting the person back - you can’t receive correction without deflecting & seeking sympathy by highlighting your goodness - correction automatically feels like an attack or indictment against your character
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1 year
I pray you’ll learn to stop resisting the person you desire to become; the person you’re praying to become. May self-sabotage no longer have the final say. May you accept who you were predestined to be. Stop fighting you. Make peace with you.
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3 years
We live in a no-mercy generation. But let’s be clear - ‘blessed are the merciful, for they shall receive mercy.’ (Matthew 5:7) Mercy does NOT negate facts. Mercy does NOT overlook truth. Mercy does NOT minimise hurt. Mercy says ‘I am not your judge, God is’. 🙏🏽🤍
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2 years
Not all advice online is for you and that’s okay. Be discerning. Use wisdom.
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3 months
What Father doesn’t respond to the sincere emotions of their child? Dangerous doctrines.
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@IfyAlexis
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7 years
I’ve been praying recently about the relationships I’m in and about those I’m connected to. I pray for you also that God will truly set you in a solid community. That He surrounds you with people who encourage you to grow, and allow you the grace to be and become. Amen. ♥️
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9 months
Remember it’s ‘love your neighbour as yourself’ not love your neighbour instead of yourself. Meet yourself with that same compassion and tenderness you so quickly give others. Silence the inner-critic.
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1 year
Everytime you shrink for people you abandon yourself a little. You diminish yourself.
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Friendship betrayal is a devastating thing. But I’ll always be thankful for the ways God highlights that someone is not for me.
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4 years
As we grow in our love for God, we also grow in our hatred for sin.
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7 years
You better believe it ! 💓
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@IfyAlexis
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8 years
You only turn 25 once. ❤️
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@IfyAlexis
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1 year
There’s an aspect of grief that is so lonely. No one can journey it for you. And whilst people can come alongside you, it’s you that has to feel the feelings, it’s you that goes through the stages. So if you are grieving today, here’s a reminder to be kind to you…
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1 year
Trauma rewires the brain. And so does love and connection; acceptance and belonging. These are reparative experiences. Even though the hurt happened within relationships, please know that the healing happens within them too.
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3 years
Help me God to focus more on what I have than what I don’t.
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9 years
My future is secure. In Christ I have sure hope. A blessed assurance.
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7 years
Using the game "Chinese Whispers" to teach on Hearing From God. @OGGM_
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7 years
The voice of sin may be loud, but the voice of forgiveness is louder. 💛
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7 years
Our romantic lives should look strange to the world, and so should the joy in our singleness. 💓
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4 years
“Outcome is God’s responsibility; Obedience is ours.”
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7 years
Opinions change. Norms change. Friendships change. Seasons change. Plans change. But God Your Word NEVER changes. #SureAssurance
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9 years
Quick to listen. Slow to speak. Slow to anger. Slow to get in your feelings. Slow to get annoyed. Slow to get emotional. Slow to be offended
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7 years
Singleness is a time God has carved out for you to be purposeful and meet His agenda here on earth. Our duty is to be Image-bearers; God’s hands and feet, God’s equipped and deployable army. 💛 @LoveLimitless
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4 years
While you wait: 1. Trust God. His will for you is far better than your own. 2. Heal. Spend time working on yourself. 3. Repent. Waiting exposes the idols of our heart. Lay them down. 4. Don’t compare. Your journey is separate and unique. ...
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6 years
Be strong with your convictions. Be gentle with your opinions. - @LisaBevere
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4 years
Here’s your reminder to do the right thing, even when it’s unnoticed, unpopular or uncelebrated. ✨
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@IfyAlexis
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5 years
We do ourselves a disservice when we link our purpose solely to the things we do. You are so much more than how far you’ve progressed in your career, much more than the grade you got in your last assignment, and so much more than the things you’ve achieved or haven’t.
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8 years
Don't be afraid to start small. Don't despise small beginnings. Start with what you have and build towards having more.
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Your fearless and courageous pursuit of the things of God liberates and pushes others to do the same. Don't hold back.
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@IfyAlexis
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3 years
I pray you find courage today to know that although you may be pressed, you are NOT crushed. You might be persecuted but you are NOT abandoned. You may feel struck-down but you are NOT destroyed. The experiences may feel the same, but you are KEPT & preserved by a good God. 🤍
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3 years
Humility opens doors that pride could never!
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Feeling out of your depth is okay. Just remember that you being out of your depth, doesn’t mean God is out of His.
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3 years
The seeds of faithfulness you’re sowing will manifest in due season. Stick with God’s plan, stay the course, don’t lose hope, don’t weaken in heart. 🤍
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@IfyAlexis
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7 years
This has been a word on my heart this week. God has given us the grace to complete everything He has ordained. He is both the author and finisher; the pioneer and perfecter. He started it and will be faithful to complete it! Don’t faint before the finish line. 💛
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@IfyAlexis
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6 years
Yes. Neither is Singleness punishment for bad behaviour. 💛
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Marriage is NOT a reward for good behavior (paraphrased) - By @IfyAlexis
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8 years
Make no mistake sexual freedom and promiscuity is NOT empowerment! You're fracturing your soul. You're worth more than that.
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2 years
Let’s talk spiritual bypassing!!
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@IfyAlexis
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2 years
Let go of the need to share your side of the story... to people who don’t care. May you find the peace to not have to control the narrative around you. Because you can’t. 🤎
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3 years
Many of us are walking on water unaware. Every time you step out in obedience and in faith you are actively putting one foot in front of the other. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith. 🤍
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7 years
Sharing God's Word is one of my favourite things to do. 💛
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A way in which I’ve come to measure maturity in my own life is by how much I can sacrifice without the need for recognition or a thank you. I often challenge myself to give without expectation & love without reciprocation. Tough but possible. #LayYourselfDown #HowLowCanYouGo ?
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8 years
It's so important to be sober and vigilant always. 💛
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6 years
“Humility is the willingness to be know for who you really are.” Known for the gifts and graces at work in your life. Known for the things you’re great at and the things you’re not so great at. Who would you be if you were not hindered by the negative opinions of you??
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5 years
@courtnydaniella My love you are preaching! Marriage is the not the source of fulfilment. Your husband is not your saviour, marriage is not your heaven! The fulfilment we are looking for comes when we embrace the fullness of who God has called us to be.
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@IfyAlexis
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7 years
*NEW* Why I Quit My Job Three years ago in the month of January, I made the decision to leave conventional work... Listen to this podcast episode where I candidly share my journey thus far. SoundCloud: iTunes:
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2 years
‘Living for approval’ is immensely different to ‘living from approval’. I pray in this week, you find the courage to rest in the reality that you are already loved beyond belief by God. You don’t have to earn it, you have it. Now live from it.
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@IfyAlexis
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8 years
Day 2 preaching in Bulgaria was absolutely beautiful!!
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7 years
Just because you gained experience doesn't mean you gained wisdom. Experience isn't always tantamount to wisdom.
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8 years
There is no peace outside of Jesus. True peace is found in its Author. #PrinceofPeace
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Got to preach in Nigeria for the first time yesterday. It was such an experience 😍. So thankful.
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8 years
When you’re secure in whose and who you are, you won’t settle for a relationship God didn’t design for you.
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8 years
Biblical correctness > Political correctness
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@IfyAlexis
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3 years
There are many things we might wait for this side of eternity - physical healing, marriage, children, career progression, salvation of loved ones, clarity, restored relationships and more. Remember: God is with you in the waiting. He promises to strengthen you and keep you! 🙏🏽
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@IfyAlexis
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8 years
Being Perfected in Christ 👌🏾
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3 years
We are in a turbulent time spiritually. A real shaking is occurring. May our roots go deeeeeeep in Christ so we can withstand. Not deep in an institution, not deep in a person. Deep in Christ. Deeply rooted in His Body. It’s the ONLY way.
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3 years
There’s nothing wrong with acknowledging that you weren’t able to complete everything you set out to this year. You can restrategise and go again in the year ahead. This doesn’t have to be the end. You can continue. 🤍
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@IfyAlexis
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7 years
With every page that turns I see Your faithfulness. 💛 Cologne, Germany
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@IfyAlexis
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TOMORROW ☺️☺️💛💛 I’ll be interviewed on Premier Christian Radio for the LIVE Woman To Woman show!! @PremierRadio @WomaninLondon . I’m so excited to be discussing all things sisterhood and relationships!
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8 years
Walk comfortably in the things that make you YOU. Stop wishing to be someone else. Love you. So much freedom is found in accepting you.
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7 years
Defining & Refining. 💎 Trust His process.
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4 years
Yes 👏🏽 yes 👏🏽 yes 👏🏽 Covenant faithfulness isn’t taught. We are simply taught to remove ourselves from things that don’t ‘serve’ us. Whatever happened to two people sticking at it through the hard times?! So much selflessness and maturity is needed to make marriage work!
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our culture doesn’t teach us how to be married or stay married, it teaches us how to fall in love and how to date. It’s called “follow your happiness movement” people don’t believe in vows and commitments.
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8 years
Thoughts on the prosperity Gospel...
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8 years
Dealing with ministry pressure. 💛 Full vid: (Cc. @Tee_Timexo )
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8 years
Dealing with male attention. 💛 Full vid: (Cc. @Tee_Timexo )
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11 years
"Women are so jealous, I bet Eve counted Adam's ribs everyday to see if another woman had been created." OMG LOOOL 😂
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@IfyAlexis
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8 years
Don't let people hold you hostage to your yesterday. You're not the person you used to be. Anyone that be in Christ is a NEW creation.
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8 years
Nope. None whatsoever. 😌
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3 years
Some ways to help: - pause, take a step back emotionally before responding - be hesitant in making conclusions - ask questions to gain understanding and perspective - decipher: is this persons genuine motive to attack, hurt or malign me? Is this consistent w/ their actions? 🤍
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4 years
Be generous. God knows how to balance the books. ✨
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9 years
Forgiveness is a choice not an emotion. Choose to forgive even when you don't feel like it.
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3 years
I pray you find the strength to trust God even when your circumstances haven’t changed. “And we know that for those who love God all things work together for GOOD, for those who are called according to his purpose.” Romans 8:28 🤍
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8 years
Beware of anything that competes with your loyalty to Jesus Christ. Sin ain't loyal.
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@IfyAlexis
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8 years
I could preach so much on this right here.❣
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4 years
Prayer is finding out the will of God and aligning yourself to it. - Derek Prince ✨
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7 years
Some trust in chariots, some in horses but we will trust in the name of our God - Ps 20:7 #Daughterhood #FaithfullyFathered @lovelimitless
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@IfyAlexis
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7 years
Thank you for having us yesterday @JAFessex ☺️
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3 years
It’s vital in relationships to ask for what you need. Discuss your expectations and desires in different seasons. Compromise, challenge and concede where necessary. But saying nothing and/or assuming the other person should just know is a recipe for disappointment.
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3 years
“for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,” Romans 3:23 What a sobering reality. May we remember this often when we begin to pick up stones. 🙏🏽
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4 years
Even when feelings are strong... Even in the height of emotions... Obedience to God is always possible! ✨
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@IfyAlexis
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7 years
Beautiful time spent with my sister @_caitlinnunez 💛💛💛. I love our dates!! Walk intimately with God. Walk boldly in His Calling over you.
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8 years
There is so much grace where God has assigned you to be. The will of God is the safest place 💛.
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6 years
“Two powers are striving for mastery over you: Spirit and flesh; and if the Spirit is not ruling you, it is because the flesh is ruling.” #Choices #Decisions 🙏🏽
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3 years
To go a bit further: - look deeper. Why do I feel the need to constantly defend myself? Am I living in state of fear? - Fear being seen to be incompetent or inadequate? Do I care too much about what people or a particular person thinks? If so, why? What’s driving my responses.
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4 years
✨ How to communicate with empathy: 1. Engage fully. Try not to multitask. Lean in. Hold eye contact. Let them feel like what they’re saying truly matters to you. 2. Reflect and summarise. “If I heard you correctly, what you’re saying is...”
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