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🏳‍⚧she/they | #ActuallyADHD 🤯 | #ActuallyAutistic 🧠 | doing my best✨results may vary | 🔞 NO MINORS!

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@raisingwhasians +Merida refused to be married despite tradition +Rapunzel lied to Mother Gothel to sneak out with a wanted theif that she met when he broke into her home +Moana disobeyed her father & took a boat out into the ocean TWICE! (second time with her mother and grandmother's help 😉)
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@raisingwhasians AND disobedient boys too! +Simba took Nala to the elephant graveyard +Quasimodo & Phoebus helped Esmeralda +Tarzan took humans to the gorillas' home +NEMO TOUCHED THE BUTT! +Miguel stole a guitar from a crypt +Luca went to the human town +HIRO WAS GAMBLING IN ILLEGAL BOT FIGHTS?!
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I just read the article about Tiffany Haddish and Aries Spears and I just want to say to anyone who has ever been manipulated by adults when you were a child, IT WAS *NOT* YOUR FAULT. Read that part again. Children are NEVER to blame for the gross ass shit adults do to them.
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@MsAnn773 @Bel_Aviateur Imagine knowing how awful you have been to women and being so TERRIFIED of it happening to you instead, that you feel you need to WARN the person you want to be with, not to be like you.
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@smoke_nd_pearlz @PopThatCultr This!!! And besides, why does society expect people to “age out” of what they enjoy in the first place??? Sometimes hobbies and interests naturally shift and change over time, and sometimes hobbies and interests are bullied and abused out of you.
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@KillerCarcass @thedigitaldash_ Tbh imo, if you can "pass" (which is being assumed white" you're not Black. Black people are NEVER assumed to be white.
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@plvnetmimi One of THEE best Michael Jackson covers in history tbh.
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@SupernovaMomma Men aren’t expected to take care of themselves bc their worth isn’t measured by their appearance in the same ways feminine people & women are. They don’t risk much by not caring about how they look. In fact, the social script stigmatizes it, bc self care is considered feminine.
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@GummiPies @msomi_mawa They respect, admire and adore the men in their lives. Women are only tools used to improve their status with other men.
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THIS!! THIS!! THIS!! You are NOT ready to revolutionize SHIT if you can’t even wear a fucking mask. I really did lose all hope for any real radical change when I saw how many of y’all just went “back to normal” while thousands continue to get sick, disabled and die EVERY. DAY.
“When are we going to riot.” You all are so unserious. You’re currently participating in killing your potential “comrades” and disabling thousands more. COVID was the first battle and y’all gave up. Pls BFFR.
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@teonnykardash @PopCrave Yes, and me a Black Autistic person was also called “spaz” growing up to describe ME as irritating and annoying. The word is a slur. Let it go and let some compassion for people who have been harmed by that word in instead. 💙
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@thedigitaldash_ When people say this they are really saying they are surprised that you don't hate being fat because they know they would if they were. When fat people are confident, people "admire" it because they don't expect anyone to love and enjoy fatness. They expect you to be miserable.
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They did it. They have been working on it for years and I think they finally have perfected Digital Blackface. If you used Ai photo, art, voice and video generators, you contributed to this. We told you what they were doing and you didn’t believe us. And we can’t go back now.
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Well this is scary
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@blkchka @_Courtneyimani_ @amokicks The wild part isn't that they are going swimming. Ofc bears swim all the time. The wild part is that this mother bear took her cubs out swimming NEAR HUMANS. Bears are known for how protective and territorial they are ESPECIALLY mothers. It's a huge risk to be near humans.
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@moneyymaya This is so gross. Why are you so jealous of a child???? Also, mother love will never be the same as romantic partner/intimate companion love. Why is she so threatened???
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@fatpussyhex @mygenderisblack They microchipped Nana because she keeps running the streets! 😂😂😂
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People wondering why their heart races, hands shake, and body sweats whenever they get into a disagreement with a friend and think someone is going to be mad at them for saying “no.” Meanwhile, they were getting screamed at and hit by adults for exhaling too loudly.
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The link between child abuse & the shyness & social anxiety that you all talk about having as adults is very much real… 😶😶
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@Ninnin_xo I have ALWAYS been envious of people with tight knit friend groups that last for several years - lifetime. I have always wanted to be a part of a friend group like that and I've tried all my life, but I'm now at a point where I've accepted it won't happen for me and that’s okay.
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@f8the I’m still here out of spite tbh. I tell my depression to fuck off because I’ll be damned if I let y’all run me up out of here. I’mma stay and annoy the living fuck out of y’all until I die and then I’ll haunt y’all on occasion just for funsies.
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Remember a couple weeks ago when massage therapists and other professionals were saying why they refuse to take male clients? What David Choe did happens to women at work, OFTEN. This time, it just happened to be a celebrity committing the assault. This is rape culture.
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@YourDivineMuse He had nothing to be embarrassed or ashamed of because he did nothing wrong. Cis hets, don’t y’all get tired of conforming to homophobia???
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@downtown7thave @Tendurag There ARE many laws and policies in place that prevent us from practicing our culture. Dress codes that ban us from wearing our braids, locs, scarves and durags is a huge example of rules that actively ban our culture.
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@niggaolas When you say “I don’t do this because I don’t want white people to think or do that.” you’re making white people’s thoughts and actions a Black person’s responsibility to manage. White people think and do whatever they want. Don’t police yourself and others on their behalf.
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@xogabbyelle Gender identity and genitals aside, do y'all know how many people are fataly wounded while working on cars on the side of the road??? If you value your life over your perceived "manhood", please call the professionals.
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@purr105 Maybe you’re ableist. So 🤷🏾‍♀️
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@123itsmeMary This could apply to so many things but I don’t know what you’re referencing to specifically. 😅
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@rayroinair @SemiDedGworl @jimmy_rickets @ncm0611 Damn! Animals can't want to have privacy either????
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@AdoreDelano Racists don’t deserve respect. 💙
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@yakfrost I have a theory that ALL children are "gifted" when you give them all the necessary tools, resources and nurturing support to thrive.
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@IntersexAF People really will casually say to your face you should’ve never been born if you are Autistic, intersex, trans, or disabled OR that if they were you, they would kill themselves. People have no problem telling others that their life is not worth living & EYE am the crazy one???
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I have no idea where this comes from. @SupernovaMomma do you have any insight to share on this? Why do so many adults believe children are “faking” their big emotions and behaviors to be manipulative and take advantage of the adults who are supposed to be caring for them?
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#AskingAutistics do you ever feel like meltdowns act as a pressure release valve and after the meltdown is over, you can concentrate and function a lot better than before the meltdown happened?
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@catharticus Steve really wanted to know who allowed this nigga on the elevator.🤣
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@MrsBundrige Can I get a 101 explainer or something? I have no idea what any of this means. 😅
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@LoveAndShalom We shouldn’t have to do this. We shouldn’t have to disclose that we are Autistic so that people will stop making assumptions about us. And the thing is, even when we do share that we are Autistic, there are just new assumptions that are made about us. I absolutely hate this.
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@susangwap @TheHoneyMa Tim Burton is racist. Gothic fantasy & horror are not “his” genres for him to control and gatekeep. Nothing you listed inherently describes Black people either because Black people aren’t a monolith. Yes, he is portraying his racist vision of fantasy worlds without negros.🖤💙
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Tbh, it bothers me that majority of the dissent about the game is centered around JK’s transphobia & not her anti-Semitism. YES ofc she is a proud TERF, but the blatant, violent anti-Semitism in her books, movies and THE ENTIRE PLOT OF THIS GAME, is being overlooked & ignored.
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@foreverimbetter The great thing about accessibility is, it isn’t exclusive. If the class can be recorded and watched later by one student, it can and should be for all students. It doesn’t take anything away from anyone to make it an option everyone can use if they want to.
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@batbushka !!! It's important to note, "addicted" is a loaded word that actually doesn't describe why alot of people consistently use drugs legally and illegally. I am DEPENDENT on Adderall. I will need this stimulant to help my brain regulate & function properly for the rest of my life.
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@foreverimbetter @lepetitereboot So… the issue with making the class accessible via recordings to one student, is that all classes would have to be made accessible to all students?? It’s almost like this wouldn’t be an issue if this was done for everyone from the beginning anyway. Welp, not too late to start!
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This technology will be used to give fake Black Ai models sponsorship deals, marketing ads and promotional campaigns. This technology will be used to create fake Black Ai models in violent & pornographic scenes. This technology will be used to frame REAL BLACK PEOPLE OF CRIMES.
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@MichaelT_72 @foreverimbetter lol why are you assuming that I’m against better pay for teachers? I want that to happen too. AND I want struggling students to be supported.
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@ParissAthena They want a child and not a spouse. Men often use children as leverage to get what they want. And multiple babies can also mean access to multiple people to manipulate and take advantage of for their own benefit.
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@KaytsAdventures I don't understand why parents keep jumping to "it's not that easy!" when reacting to Positive Discipline strategies. No one ever said it would be easy. Also, would you rather face the difficulty of learning new strategies or face the difficulty of your child resenting you? 🤷🏾���♀️
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@BEAUTYBEYYY @teonnykardash @PopCrave You were there? My entire life? You saw all of my personal experiences? You can fact check my memories? Amazing. 😳
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@TrikkiVic2 My Autistic ass twerking in the grocery store and being told I need to act like I got some home training all my life.
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@HalleBailey If your body is telling you it’s hungry, listen to it and go eat some food. Starving yourself but calling it something else is still starving yourself, and this is how you end up developing an eating disorder. GO EAT.
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@ArgyleBestiary @FatBodyPolitics Fat people work essential jobs too. So now what? 😐
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@iconicproblem_ Sean “Diddy” Combs has been a loud and proud predatory abuser to soooo many people who worked for/with him in the music industry, for literally decades, but nothing will ever happen to him while his victims struggle to heal themselves from the trauma for the rest of their lives.
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@batbushka Adderall is a life saving medication! Adderall is also federally classified as a Schedule 2 Narcotic. If I stopped having access to my Adderall, I would quite literally struggle to keep myself alive. So, if I had to, I *absolutely* would buy it illegally to keep myself ALIVE.
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@msdrayaking I’m transitioning into a life where my gender isn’t anyone’s fucking business but mine. I suggest you do the same. 🏳️‍⚧️💙
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@hoIlowgraphic @TEXASTITTIE @moodyxclouds Then she’d be Black & gorgeous with Bantu knots.
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@omegaling17 @jpunerabread You know Nani didn't sleep at all that night. 🥺
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@DownToMarzGuy Yes, disabled folks are quite used to people not caring about us. We are going to keep advocating for ourselves anyway. 💁🏾‍♀️
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@blkgirllostkeys I’m called annoying bc I talk “too much”. I’m called annoying bc I laugh “too loud”. I’m called annoying bc I ask questions “too many” questions. When I’m called annoying, I want to stop interacting with people completely. I don’t want to annoy anyone, so I’ll just disappear. 🤷🏾‍♀️
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@MiyukiNia What does 6 months ago have to do with the money they are making right now currently in this present day???
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Or..... Students should be able to redo ANY assignment or test as many times as they want to within the semester.
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at the end of every semester, professors should do a small free-for-all where you can makeup as many assignments as you can by a certain date/time. like maybe a 24 hour window
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I always hated seeing y’alls Ai generated profile pics. Now I’m going to hate them even more. Y’all gave them MILLIONS of photos to train their models with. For what??? A shitty “painted” profile picture??? Was it worth it????
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Muting this. I will not engage with adults who are determined to see their own children as their adversaries. I sincerely hope y’all get the help and support you need so you can start building a foundation of trust and healthy communication with your children for their sake.✌🏾
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I cannot fully explain how much this shit fuck terrifies me. WE TRIED TO WARN YOU. But Pandora’s Box can’t be closed.
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@thediamondboyj @cmw7320 @verchice I encourage you to listen to Black disabled folks who have been speaking on ableism for years. I assure you, I am not the only one. 💙
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I really hope this Zach Campbell mess opens up y'all eyes. There are alot of Black gay men who hate Black women too. It's not just the Straights™.
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@thediamondboyj Y’all need to learn that slurs are slurs regards the context in which it’s being used. I’m happy Beyoncé understood that impact mattered more than intent here. Maybe you can learn something from her here. 🙂
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@PrinceZ00ko @Bluewerks_ You do know other people can have experiences that are not the same as yours right? Perhaps, you can’t relate to some of the comments because those experiences are just different than the experiences you had. Sadly, far more children experience abuse than you may realize.
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@foreverimbetter Now if the class is something that can’t be recorded then obviously, there would need to be another solution instead. But I don’t have all the answers and neither do you and that’s okay. I’m just here to say that the school could and should at least TRY to be supportive.
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@Ronnchannn @bluepantheress That won't happen because currently, Tumblr is NOT allowing pornagraphy on their site. Nudity that Tumblr decides is "art" (acceptable by their ToS) is NOT the same as the porn that you have become accustomed to seeing commonly accessible on Twitter. THAT Tumblr is gone.
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@livflowersz Skinny people’s body insecurities are usually about them being afraid of looking fat. 🙃
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@SlackfulCyclops @no_goblins Your commute being longer on a bus/train doesn't make a car driver's commute suck any less. ESPECIALLY since there is a whole separate load of expenses that goes into vehicle ownership, AS WELL AS many places *simply don't have accessible public transportation* - I've done both.
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They absolutely would be happier, but we also live in a world that is violent to the people who are considered undesirable. So until that is addressed, most people will continue to be uncomfortable with being undesirable.
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If people were comfortable with being ugly, uncool, unfashionable, older, or whatever, I think they’d be much happier.
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@pierrefleury_ As a survivor, calling things r-pe and people r-pist where it does not apply actually harms us and does not help us. This is not to minimize the extreme violation of consent that deepfake/Ai pornography is AT ALL. But words mean things. Please listen to us on this. 💙
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