My wife said that I be "doing the most" in like a slang way. I brought my son in it & said "mommy be doing the most right?" He got all literal & said "yeah, she works the most, cooks the most, everything the most." Im like ABORT MISSION! Worst cosign ever. Of course she was like
And for those of us with children now and in the future, hopefully you read the replies and see how so much of what we say and do can make or break our children.
@CarlWinsHigh
@_TheShawn
I teach 10th grade now so I see & hear about the grown “boyfriends”.
And yuck. I was definitely tripping, but I wanted to be grown
@_britt_el
@KaylarWill
@CRose5_
Lmao I’ve done that too. I’ll pull out a whole chick fil a meal. I was trying to spend a bag on him. It won’t happen again. I’ve let my sisters down
@ChefWaites
Elephants are matriarchal, so not single mothers because it’s a bunch of ladies watching them babies lol. Their herds are mostly females and babies. The males mostly live solitary lives.
I don’t know why there are some folk who think a husband should pay for everything. This ain’t the 40s. We live in a modern society. The average man makes only $36k. That is not enough to take care of a family.
@elcavaqueen
If they don’t see immediately results then it’s pointless to them. Girls will play the long game. Even girls who don’t want to do college just see school as a means to an end & do what’s necessary to succeed
@slimdichotomous
Soda is trash but the scientist in me just won’t accept this video without knowing everything involved. What was on the paper? So much is missing from the video.
@breonthebeat
I was angry with him and he was wondering why I wasn’t the fun carefree girl he knew. I couldn’t be cuz I was exhausted & felt abandoned. And low key some men are jealous of their own kids
@RyanTheHoly
It’s about comfort & safety for me. I’ve done first dates at a man’s home but it’s with men who I’ve known for a while or we have mutual friends. Men I just met, I would meet in a public place.
The thought if this school year is really stressing me. I know someone whose child was only in school for 2 days, but is now doing remote learning because someone sent their kid to school with a positive test. The whole class is isolating.
@SupernovaMomma
This is why I try to offer help to my new parent friends. I got through the early years with LOTS of support. As much work as having a child is, a part of the blessing is seeing your network rallying around you & support you.
@bagpipe_mouse
@ParisNoire
Because childless people won’t have to try to figure out childcare in the fall. The OP is childless and was essentially asking what she could do to help parents.
@smoothnchilled
But that’s not true. Several studies within the past 5 years have shown that women with bachelors+ are more likely to get and stay married.
@SupernovaMomma
I have this convo with my white coworkers about the mostly Black kids we teach. Being loud & talking with hands & a lot of face doesn’t mean anger or aggression