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Folabi Tomisin

1 year

My biggest fear is staying faithful and loyal to a partner who’s secretly in love with another person and still act loyal to me.

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

25 days

She won’t marry you unless you have a promising future. And that’s fair. You shouldn’t marry her unless she has a clean past or less body count. And that’s also fair.

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Folabi Tomisin

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5 months

Until married, most ladies don't consider themselves taken, even when in a relationship. They are selfishly & ruthlessly keeping their options open. This is why, as a man, you must put yourself first ALWAYS.

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Folabi Tomisin

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2 years

Marrying a struggling guy with high aims and vision for the future is not a bad idea. Also try & support him through the process until he makes it should be top tier in relationships. After all reasonable men don’t forget about ladies that was there for them in their lowest state

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

1 year

If you want to spend the rest of your life with someone, you will need to practice forgiveness and make it a lifestyle. A relationship is a union of two quick forgivers. Remember; to err is human, to forgive is divine.

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

7 months

When a woman falls in love with you, she will start to imitate you. She turns into your little mirror. She would even change her own beliefs & opinions for you. When a woman is in love, she turns into a little kid.

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

1 year

I avoid eggshell type of relationships, can’t express myself, can’t be myself, can’t ever be straight forward without you twisting my words, can’t be comfortable, can’t talk like adults, can’t be heard, can’t respond with love without it turning into something negative. I’m out!

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Folabi Tomisin

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6 months

It’s a new level. It’s a new season. Happy birthday to me.

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

1 year

If you’re in a relationship with someone, you shouldn’t be flirting with other people online, whether your partner is on social media or not. Some of you call it cruise, I call it lack of discipline and emotional disrespect to your partner.

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Folabi Tomisin

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1 year

Nobody talks about the amount of guilt you feel when you finally decide to leave someone you genuinely love, because they continuously hurt you and refuse to change. if this is you, i’m sending love and light to you.

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

5 months

@BlessedGirl001 “When you meet a man that is intentional about you, do not assume he's like the rest. You may loose him at that spot.” That’s the theme of this tweet. I hope most ladies will listen rather than tasting waters ear and dear.

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

3 months

A woman ruins her body the more she sleeps around. If body count is not as important as she thinks, then how come ladies hide the REAL number of guys they have slept with. Tbvh, a piece of a lady’s soul dies each time she sleeps with different guys. Take it or leave it.

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1 year

@Solomon_Buchi When I was dating an Igbo partner this thread refuse to trend, but now that I’m single na now the thread pain me pass. 😭😭😭

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

1 year

If you can’t train yourself to stay and be committed to one person during your dating period and you feel marriage will automatically make you stick to one person, then you’re living in a fool’s paradise. Just dey play, your hear.

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

5 months

@bojan_knight And if he gives her a ring and isn’t yet to do the needful due to one or two challenges beclouding him, they will call the relationship “Lord of the Rings”. 😂😂😂

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

1 year

My next relationship we're having a monthly sit down. Just sit and discuss us and how things are going, what we can do to develop our relationship more. You'll be surprised at what just a little communication can do for any relationship.

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Folabi Tomisin

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1 year

Do you ever miss a bond you had with someone? Like regardless of what happened between you two, you miss the conversations, the laughs you guys had over the dumbest things, or the way they were there for you when you weren’t at your best. The little things really matter though.

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Folabi Tomisin

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2 years

Can we go back to the time when this hardship never bere, when we refill gas for 180 Naira, buy egg for 25 Naira, one congo of garri for 150 Naira and bag of rice for 6000 Naira. Omo walahi, this suffering no be here.

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

1 year

Some people are just naturally nice and kind. It's not flirting, it is not greenlight neither is it a sign of potential mumu or maga. Let wisdom guide you when you meet them and don't allow foolishness cloud your sense of reasoning.

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Folabi Tomisin

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1 year

Being in a healthy relationship has taught me that there’s no such thing as “this is who I am, take it or leave it”. When you genuinely love a person, you work on those toxic traits, you learn to communicate, you listen to each other’s feelings and encourage individuality.

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

2 years

Her new guy was never new, you just never knew.

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

1 year

Relationships now a days are literally just mind games. Who calls first? Act like you don’t really need them so they don’t get too comfortable with you. Don’t respond to chat quickly so it won’t look like you’re desperate. Tbh, this mentally has destroyed so many relationships.

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

1 year

Love in a relationship is not all about the spark. Rather it’s all about the commitment to love the person everyday even if it’s boring and loss of vibe. Disagree to agree not only in the best situations, but especially in the worst situations makes the relationship worthwhile.

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

1 year

Relationship are based on TRUST so if i’m in a relationship with you, I will not have you tied down. You have your friends. I have mine. You want to go out with your friends? You’re free. Just keep me updated so i know you’re safe and don’t do anything you wouldn’t want me doing.

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

1 year

DATING ADVICE FOR LADIES • If you're looking for a boyfriend, date men 2-4 years older • If you're looking for a husband, date men 5-10 years older • If you're looking for a sheer waste of time, date men your age or younger. T for Thanks

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

2 years

Some got married at 25, some got a good paying job right after graduation, and just because you haven't figured your life out yet at 30 doesn't mean you're a failure. Everyone has their unique timing. I do hope that 2023 will be your year to shine. Don't give up!!!

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

2 years

My greatest moment of intimacy wasn’t the evening we took all our clothes off, but it was when you saw me at my most difficult state, witnessed the most unlovable parts of me as I slowly unraveled each imperfection in front of you like a scar, and you love me harder regardless.

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

1 year

I don’t care what social media tells you, but the truth is that not everyone is replaceable. Y’all be messing up with people’s loyalty, kindness, vulnerability and you think you will get another person to replace that good vibes. Just dey play

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

2 years

Do not waste time on a lady who loves you only as a friend when all you wanted in the first place was a relationship.

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

2 years

@yabaleftonline If you allow a woman to do all this, she will rub it on your face some day. Just do your best to be the provider in the family.

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

1 year

Once your partner finds a replacement, every decent conversation turns to an argument because they won't see you as the lover that sparks a butterfly feeling in their belly anymore, but the one with the coconut head that won't just listen.

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

1 year

A worthy relationship may cost you your ego, your time, your energy but should never cost you your peace,your purpose and your sanity.

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

2 years

Dear God: Please give me a breakthrough because I’m tired of breaking down.

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

1 year

Dating will always involve teaching someone something about how to love you, and how they can be better. The red flags pops up when you realize you’re doing all the teaching, all the work, all the fixing, all the problem solving, and not actually being poured into.

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

1 year

Pray for a teachable partner Pray for a loyal partner Pray for a supportive partner Pray for an understanding partner Pray for a reasonable partner Pray for a loving partner Most importantly, pray you end up with someone that sees love as a verb.

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

1 year

Your partner coming to you and telling you about something you’re doing wrong isn’t a personal attack, rather it’s communication and a heads up. So listen, fix it and do better.

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

1 year

And if tomorrow we don’t talk again and become strangers, please protect what we both shared.

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

8 months

Single men, you need to really learn how to pray. When you get married, you will need to have faith for the whole family, including your kids. You will stand in gap for everyone under your roof. One of your roles as a father will be as a Priest. Men, please learn to pray early.

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

1 year

I like reassurance. I like attention. I love affection. I love feeling appreciated. Is it too much to ask?

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

1 year

My relationship will always be private but I’ll never keep my partner a secret. There's a huge difference between privacy and secrecy.

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

1 year

Divorce is scary and has been the order of the day. I pray that the person I decide to marry, I will enjoy marital bliss with them, be happy and love them all the days of my life even when our ups and downs moment comes knocking at the door.

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

7 months

If you open a man's head to see half the things he's trying to sort out, you'll learn to appreciate the men in your life and not stress them.

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

2 years

Your partner should be your soft spot, you should always make an exception for them and never treat them like everybody else.

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

2 years

Tbh, anyone who can put their ego aside & say “I’m sorry, I made a mistake or I’m sorry it’s my fault & I’m correcting my mistake”. I respect such people cos it takes a lot to accept one’s flaws especially in this our generation where there are wars of egos, and the winner loses.

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

5 months

@BlessedGirl001 Please do, because most ladies do this a lot. I still don’t understand why they keep their options open when most of them are sure they are getting married to that partner.

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@FolabiTomisin

1 year

Stop sending long paragraphs & messages explaining how you feel, just don't say anything. I've learned that it doesn't matter what you say, if they don't care they just don't. And nothing you say will change that. Keep your guard up. Don't waste your time and energy. Move on✨

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Folabi Tomisin

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5 months

Dear HR, Job seeking is a mentally & emotionally draining activity When candidates have gap years on their CV, don’t see them as unserious people. Most times, they take a break either for career progression or to care for their mental health. Gap years shouldn’t be a big deal

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

1 year

For those of us that have never been in a relationship during valentine, may love find us very soon. May we never be single anymore on Valentine’s Day.

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Folabi Tomisin

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1 year

Can we be honest with ourselves? Relationship without money would never workout. Although, money shouldn’t be the basis of a healthy relationship but it’s highly needed for a smooth ride in the relationship.

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@FolabiTomisin

1 year

Once you start giving someone outside your relationship attention, just know you are destroying that relationship. A little here, a little there, will eventually wreck your relationship.

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

1 year

I love the idea of building with someone. U both aren’t exactly where U want to be, but on the way. Then U can look back & see where it started & how much U both have it together now. Having it all together b4 loving someone is like waiting for the perfect moments; it never comes

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

2 years

If we're in a relationship, you can have your freedom. Just stay loyal, be open and honest with me. Little things like this counts.

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

25 days

@Sabiboy_TL You didn’t make the rules, nature made the rules. And that’s on period 👌

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

5 months

Definition of a good woman but some of you just like to date nonsense that comes with no value. Ask a woman what does she bring to the table. It's doesn't necessarily have to be money. She can bring; 1. Respect 2. Good Connections 3. Emotional support 4. Submission 5. Loyalty

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

2 years

Sometimes you just want to have a consistent conversation with the opposite sex without the fear of anyone catching feelings.

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

2 years

My brother said “why should I cheat on my partner when I have everything I need in a lady”. I asked like what & he said, “she’s godly, she’s financially stable & have big breast and yansh” so what else am I looking for & I felt that. I think most guys cheat because they want to.

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

2 years

Nobody can knack your babe unless she agrees to it. So stop making excuses for cheating on your partner calling it a mistake because is not a mistake, the both party talked and agreed to knack each other.

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@FolabiTomisin

1 year

It hurts when someone just wakes up one morning and decides they will never talk to you again, no reason, no explanation. They just leave you there wondering what you did wrong or why you were not enough. They leave like that and it becomes a forever pill that is hard to swallow.

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Folabi Tomisin

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2 years

@yabaleftonline Marriage is not for the faint hearted. When one party stop putting the energy to make it work, it crashes within the blink of an eye.

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@FolabiTomisin

1 year

The real goodbye is the one that happens slowly, overtime, wordlessly. There are no call logs, no chat or good morning sms. There is no see you again. There are no future plans. You stop checking up on each other, and you go back to being strangers.

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Folabi Tomisin

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2 months

Stay away from a lady who has had a history of being fvcked by many men, it will never work out. She’ll eventually cheat or leave you in the long run. If you like drag me like generator, I no send una papa 😂😂😂

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Folabi Tomisin

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2 years

You didn’t lose them, they lost you. They lost someone who has pure intentions for them. They lost someone who can love them unconditionally, and the truth is that they may never have a genuine person with pure intentions as you again.

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@FolabiTomisin

1 year

Telling someone you’re not ready for a relationship, but expecting them to give you relationship benefits is selfish. It’s either you’re all in or out.

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

6 months

Women are a product of their past. They repeat their patterns over and over again. If she cheated on someone else with you? She's gonna cheat on YOU with a third dude. No man should ever ignore a woman’s past.

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@FolabiTomisin

1 year

Don’t leave a relationship that gives U substance for the one that gives U sensation. Yes, there are things U complain about in your current relationship bt a new relationship doesn’t give you a new slate. If your partner has been gud to you, you owe it commitment, not a break up

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

1 year

When a lady falls deeply in love with you, nothing will break her loyalty. No matter if a richer guy showed up or the most handsome guy is chasing her. She won't even think twice about leaving you because all she can see is your worth, timely care, love and leadership skills.

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

1 year

A woman will cut off anybody and will go an extra mile to do anything for a man she’s emotionally attached to. Emotional attachment is always stronger than love and if she’s not emotionally attached to you, it means you’re not her significant other.

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Folabi Tomisin

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1 year

You deserve a relationship with someone who doesn’t make you compete for their attention and affection, and never have you second guessing where you stand in their life.

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Folabi Tomisin

@FolabiTomisin

3 months

Being in a healthy relationship has taught me that there’s no such thing as “this is who I am, take it or leave it”. When you genuinely love a person, you work on those toxic traits, you learn to communicate, you listen to each other’s feelings and encourage individuality

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Folabi Tomisin

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1 year

When you start loving someone new, you laugh at the indecisiveness of love. Do you remember when you were sure the LAST ONE was the ONE, and now here you are redefining the current ONE all over again. Indeed a fresh love is a gift and you need to open your heart to love again.

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Folabi Tomisin

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1 year

Congratulations to the selected few that moved on without fighting for closure or waiting for the genuine apology they deserved. I know it's not easy, but it's worth it.

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1 year

Some of the underrated things about romantic relationships is your partner carrying you along with everything going on with him/her. Like involving you in decisions, asking for your opinion and wanting you to be involved with the little details of their life is a top tier for me.

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Folabi Tomisin

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8 months

If a man is willing to risk his own life to protect his woman. She should be doing the same. Not in the physical but spiritual way. If he struggles with stress & work. It's her duty to make sure his mind stays calm & relaxed by giving him peace, love & support.

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Folabi Tomisin

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1 year

When a woman falls crazily in love, she will try out her man's last name for fun. She will even brag about it to her friends & enjoy being called by his last name. That's why, if a woman doesn't want to take your last name, It's worse than it seems.

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Folabi Tomisin

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1 year

Imagine having a girlfriend who ignores other guys to take her out on Valentine's day just because she’s really obsessed with you.

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Folabi Tomisin

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1 year

You don’t know how much ladies hate wearing clothes until you live with one. They literally be undressing the moment they walk in the door and bras are their arch enemy.

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1 year

A great relationship consists of two people pouring into each others needs and working together as a team.

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Folabi Tomisin

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1 year

Once you betray me, you lose that version you once had of me forever. whether i choose to forgive you or not, you'll never get that same me again and it's not even intentional.. my heart won't love you the same, my soul would tolerate you the same & my mind won't ever forget it.

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Folabi Tomisin

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8 months

I don’t think your parents should meet your partner till you know this is the person you actually want to settle down with & get married to. I can’t bring just ANYBODY to my parents until I’m fully convinced that this is the person I want to spend the rest of my life with.

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Folabi Tomisin

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2 years

Why do ladies talk a lot about men who support them financially & not enough about men who support them emotionally, protects their hearts and peace and love them unconditionally despite how they feel? I think most women prefer financial support from men than emotional support.

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1 year

Always check your own attitude too. It’s not always the person around you, sometimes you’re the toxic person. Understand that you can make mistakes and hurt people. You just need to learn how to apologize, unlearn and relearn, that’s growth.

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Folabi Tomisin

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11 months

Men, please marry a woman who respects you and is loyal to you, not a woman you love. Always choose a woman that respects and is loyal to you over a woman you love when it comes to marriage. It'll be very hard but in the future, you'd be glad you did.

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1 year

A woman was born to submit to her man. A man was born to lead his woman. When you try to change this roles, the end result is that you will have a weak family that lacks love, support and respect.

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1 year

Even a man who’s not ready will get ready if you’re the one he really wants. Don’t overplay or downplay yourself just to win his approval cos every man knows who they want to settle down with from the start. If you don’t get this tweet, then forget it.

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1 year

I hope my story gets a happy ending because I've been through some shit i never deserved.

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1 year

People know exactly what they’re doing. If they’re doing something and it’s hurting you but they don’t want to change, it means they simply don’t care about you mental health and peace of mind. I always give 3 chances to change a toxic behavior. First time you “didn’t know”.

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1 year

"I only have male friends because they understand me better." A woman who says this is a woman who's in a desperate need of attention. She only hangs out with them because she'll always be in the spotlight. Never trust a woman who doesn't get along with her own kind.

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2 years

There is nothing desirable about seeing the woman you love every day. It becomes boring, and it makes the relationship less appealing to her. Being overly accessible will bore the relationship. Make some space and observe how she appreciates your presence whenever you both meet.

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1 year

If we are in a relationship and i communicate to you I don’t like a particular thing you’re doing and you continue to do it, I will take it as total disrespect and sheer wickedness.

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2 years

85% of guys in a woman’s DM want to chop and clean their mouth. Don’t allow the attention these guys are giving you get to your head; cos only few like you. The two ways to identify a guy who intends to chop & clean mouth is by him texting and calling you daily like a jobless man

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1 year

I hope my daughter grows up thinking “I have to tell mum, she will know what to do” instead of “I’m scared to tell mum because she won’t understand or scold me”. Creating a safe space for your kids should be a top tier for every mother.

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1 year

A real soulmate is someone who’s committed to working things out with you & doesn’t see breaking up as an option. They’re willing to have difficult conversations & are always devoted to finding solutions that make you both feel secure, reassured, & happy in the relationship.

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1 year

When people in a relationship use cheating as an excuse to taste many waters & promise to stay committed & faithful once they’re married; I just laugh them in mockery because it will be difficult to stop a habit that has already become a lifestyle. Ngl, habits are hard to conquer

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2 years

Stop being the only one who always makes the effort to keep the relationship. Relax and let the ship sink cos one sided effort will always keep you drained.

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1 year

May you attract the people who resolve problems with good communication, healthy boundaries, emotional intelligence, and an intention to find solutions.

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2 years

Everything that includes God will always work out perfectly.

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1 year

When a woman is not 100% sure about you, she will have male friends as backups plans. They exist if they need to replace you. If a woman is sure about you and deeply in love with you, she won’t even look at another guy or have male friends as backup plans.

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1 year

I don’t easily give up on people but when I feel like they don’t care or reciprocate the same energy I put into them, that’s when I know I need to stop and walk away.

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