Today is my 7 year eunuch anniversary! As every year goes by I can’t believe how incredibly happy being castrated makes me! Bring on the next steps to getting a vagina
So I finally received my letter of support for my surgery today and I must say the use of the word “support” is a stretch! So disappointing after all the emotional draining appointments to end up here. Lets just keep🤞 that is good enough at this point 🥺
Also, best part for me is this surgeon is in Australia. So many people and medical professionals have told me this would NEVER be possible! I finally feel seen, understood, valid, and most of all, just a normal person ❤️
My D has been driving me insane as of late.
As some may know I’m on a surgery waiting list that is extremely long!
While I was in the process of getting on the wait list I was coping ok, knowing I was making some sort of progress. But now, it’s just a waiting game 😑
@eunuchfag
This is very much how I felt also, except I live Australia and at the time non binary was not recognised here. I traveled to the USA to have my surgery in 2017. It was a long and hard trip but totally worth it.
I just now need to decide if I want to have penile inversion or PPV. Once I get back to him I will be on the wait list. I’m leaning towards penile inversion with PPV hybrid, but I’d like to hear others thoughts on it?
@4QuartzG
As someone who wants to have bottom surgery and remain male like you, I’d like to see it more from an appearance and function view. I feel that this would be a big help to others wanting future surgery for the same reasons.
The letter is just all over the place.
On one hand it states that I’m of sound mental health and I’m able to make an informed choice on surgery and that I also meet the wpath guidelines for non binary surgery.
todays video consultation went incredibly well. I went into it not getting my hopes up, but was pleased to hear the surgeon say yes he will do the surgery and is not phased that I will still remain male in external appearance and has worked with others like me.
@DragonsDenAD
You have helped me so much, and I’m so grateful for you sharing your experience and happiness in being in the right body!! I know 2023 won’t be my year and that’s ok! But, I have decided it will be my year to get things in order for when the opportunity comes up!
It then goes on to say that I’m an unusual and atypical case and that he has not been able to locate any such cases in literature. And that is unusual that I continue using testosterone after having had an orchiectomy.
He explained everything very well to the point of actually had very few questions left to ask him. He showed me his results, and to me they looked great. I think I have pretty realistic expectations of how things will look/feel after. And I was happy with what I seen from him
@Layli_Nullo
Hey, I’m looking forward to hearing your thoughts and experience with MTC. I have been considering surgery there to. Seeing your photos just makes me want it so much more atm
@lewinmodified
I got to see mine and I got a few photos that I have since deleted. I never wanted mine attached and so I didn’t want them after they were removed! I’m happy with the thought that they were disposed of! I only wanted to see them so I could be sure they were gone!
@CaptainBobbyV
Congrats! I can’t wait to be able to say the same, hopefully I’ll have my letter sorted in the next few months and then it’s just the waiting list time.
@boifusion2
I do hope that when the new wpath is out things with start to change here. Australia is still a very conservative country and without it being backed in writing I feel doctors are hesitant and worried about law suits!
@eunuchfag
I’m now working with doctors and psychologist here in Australia to get a vagina. The new wpath standards of care have helped so much and now we have options here, just the wait times are long unfortunately
@BallessBoy1
As I get older I feel the Dysphoria takes over and I don’t find i get as much pleasure from it now. I still use it, but it’s more about the end point then the getting there now.
@kinky_nick
@boifusion2
Also, it’s a very positive start that you have the support from a psychologists in Australia. I know it’s not enough, but it’s a start towards the right direction for people like us! In time, get enough support from psychologists and doctors will notice soon🤞
@DragonsDenAD
Hey, hope your well and the decision to move away from posting is for positive reasons. I can’t begin to express how much your posts and being visible on open about your journey has helped me. Thankyou so much ❤️