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🇿🇦 | Clinical, Forensic, & Consulting Psychologist | Tweets ≠ Therapy or Professional Advice 🌱🌻🐶🤍

She/Her in Santa Barbara, CA
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
I’ve successfully deescalated teen fights at foster group homes. Teens who had knives, nunchucks, BRICKS. The only thing I was armed with was a *whistle* — there are ways to effectively & compassionately deescalate without killing CHILDREN. Invest in mental health.
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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You have privilege if you've never had to look up cities and places to avoid because of your skin color while planning trips.
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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Told my bf I wanted a snack and he went to the kitchen and returned with this 😍
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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I had a meeting at a coffee shop this morning and this very sweet little girl looks at me and goes, “excuse me, are you a princess? Are you princess Jasmine?” I…🥺🥰
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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Bantered on twitter for a while, met in person & fell harddd, dated long distance, drove cross country together so we could move in to our new place in my (now our) city, and now we’re engaged! 🥰💫
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Does anybody have some wholesome stories about meeting people on this app in person?
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
2 years
All psychology programs should teach students how to work with & advocate for people living with chronic mental health conditions, ppl who are unhoused, ppl who use substances, & ppl who have been/are incarcerated Schools are failing communities & students without this training
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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It's a privilege to be able to pick & choose IF and/or WHEN you want to engage in advocacy & activism.
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
2 years
I am a therapist who has a therapist & I often reactively think about writing a progress note…about my own therapy session 🥴
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
2 years
Being a professor & a therapist this week has meant talking about the war & processing feelings surrounding helplessness & grief almost every working hour. Not to mention watching events unfold for yourself when not working. Secondary trauma is heavy & rest is essential 💙💛
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
Is it a "radical" idea? Or is it simply just a practical idea that will have dire financial consequences for those currently benefiting from the exploitation of vulnerable people? 🧐
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
Was supposed to tackle all of my notes today. As a result, I am happy to announce that I've finished all of my laundry, deep-cleaned my entire bedroom, did some lecture prep, responded to emails, and am now considering going on a walk...🙃😅 #TherapistTwitter
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
Never have I ever been more proud to be South African. Shout out to the brilliant South African scientists for detecting the variant so quickly & to the public information officers for sounding the alarm so that the rest of the world can prepare 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦 #ProudlySouthAfrican
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
Me in zoom therapy sessions listening to clients excitedly share recent boundaries they implemented outside of session
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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@DrBritWilliams Thank you for your service ☺️😏
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
Wonderful people are really out there encouraging their online dating matches to get vaccinated before meeting up & lemme tell ya—THAT is the highest form of public service 🙌🏽
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
Ok but have you ever accidentally sent out an email that said “zoom kink” instead of zoom LINK—bc yikes I did today 🥴😵‍💫🥴😵‍💫
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
2 years
Grad school + working in community mental health will have you believing that grinding until you’re exhausted is something to be proud of Rest feels like an uncomfortable act of resistance when you’re finally out of those spaces
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
The University that I teach at just extended remote instruction until April. They cited that the decision was made and centered in the “safety of our community” in which it is located. This is leadership 👏🏽
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
2 years
Someone wise once told me: “whatever you do IS professional because YOU are a professional.” I think about that when I hesitate to bring my full self into work spaces
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
Include more therapists in policy change Often, the precipitating factor for symptom onset or increase *is due to* political & social injustice Therapists support clients through the resulting emotional + behavioral distress—our work & education can assist in effective policy
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
2 years
Time off from working will have you contemplating all major life decisions. Like, do I *really* want to work myself to exhaustion everyday OR do I want to sleep & eat tiramisu all day long instead?
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
Wonderful people are really out there encouraging their online dating matches to get vaccinated before meeting up & lemme tell ya—THAT is the highest form of public service 🙌🏽
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
Mental health clinics forcing therapists to provide treatment face-face without providing PPE? Call that shit exposure therapy (sorry).
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
👀 Family Therapy be like
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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Leaving community mental health & that 50+ case load for literally any other path in the field:
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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I spent a lot of time figuring out my rates for therapy/consulting/forensic evals. I eventually settled on a rate but was afraid that I'd get pushback - but I didn't. I actually got more requests for services than anticipated Know your worth, trust your work, & shoot your shot
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
Here’s to 31 🥂 30 was WILD—left a job & relationship, passed the EPPP, got a life-saving vaccine, elected to a youth-led political exec board, published articles, & became a professor. AND decided to start a community-led service w/ the help of smart & kind ppl! What’s next 👀
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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There’s a not so small population of ppl in jail (& juvenile hall) who over the years have told me, “I keep coming back because I get food, clothes, shelter, & meds in here” We COULD just make all of these things readily available & accessible in the community 24/7…but we don’t
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
Santa Barbara staycation vibes ✨
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
4 years
Poverty is a policy failure. Food insecurity is a policy failure. Underemployment & unemployment are policy failures. Mass incarceration is a policy failure. Quit blaming folks on the ground.
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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Candid shot of me reviewing and responding to emails and all other correspondence every day until January:
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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@AglobeAgog @mayachutts Same! Well, not guns but other forms of lethal weapons. I’ve often swapped out weapons for food — “let me hold on to that for you while you eat this sandwich I just made!” Then we safety plan. Very effective.
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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Are there Black Friday sales for CEUs or…? This is a real question
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
Less victim blaming. More system blaming.
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
Jail is not detox. Jail is not rehab. Jail is not treatment. Solitary confinement & “safety cells” are forms of torture. We don’t need to build more jails under the guise of “medical facilities” or “treatment centers for the most resistant” — it’s harmful & not helpful
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
Kinda wild how coffee changes my whole entire mood. All I do pre-coffee is yawn. Post-coffee? I still yawn. But more energetically...I ✨yawn✨
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
2 years
I support clients who need/want to reschedule/cancel therapy sessions with me. I think it’s important ppl feel empowered to ask for what they need/want. And if I can accommodate, encourage, & cheer them on for doing so — then that’s what I’m going to do ✨
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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Notes done ✅ Both syllabi submitted ✅ Out of Office response activated ✅ Email app deleted from my phone ✅ Tequila in my hand ✅ It's vacation time 🥳
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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Mentoring this new generation of curious, intelligent, & determined Black, brown, & Indigenous students & therapists 🥰🥰🥰 >>>>>>>>
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
My last tweet re: MH & the effectiveness of de-escalation seemed to resonate w/ many MH clinicians & staff, medical staff, educators, etc., It’s great to see that these skills ARE impactful. However, I have some thoughts as to how we can reduce LE involvement. A long thread 1/15
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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Romanticizing my life by drinking all of the coffee, ignoring all of the things, & reminiscing about this Positano trip 💙
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
I had a chaotic day yesterday so this man called my nail place in the middle of his busy workday, made an appointment for me, left his card info with them, & left a note saying “she can get whatever she wants” I meannn…🥰
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
2 years
Wrote “antipsychothicc” instead of antipsychotic so that’s…something.
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
Unfunded grad school (as a first-gen student + immigrant for me), unpaid practicums + internships, culturally insensitive exams, costly recurring fees, & other licensing hurdles all play an active role in these outcomes These stats have *actual implications* in most communities
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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Reading the BetterHelp fine print like
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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@trantdoan lol I think I was just very surprised and so I said "ohmygoodness hi!" and then she wanted to share her cupcake and so I mean -- I did not confirm nor deny...🙃
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
Hi hello — I just want to say that honesty without kindness is brutality. Don’t be that therapist, educator, friend, etc.,
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
2 years
Many ppl in jail are on waitlists for inpatient/outpatient treatment programs. Some die in jail while waiting. Many would not have been arrested if they had access to tx & community supports prior to arrest. More accessible & non-stigmatizing outpatient tx (and housing!) is key
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
2 years
Every therapist that I personally know is drained right now. It’s exhausting working with or in systems of “care” that expect & turn a blind eye to therapist burnout Clients are not supported if therapists are not supported & we cannot self-care our way out of this crisis
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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Thinking of the many people who are mourning loved ones today & of those living and/or spending the day alone or in negative spaces. Hoping you get to feel some love (self-love is love!) today ♥️♥️
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
Manicurist: “Boyfriend yet?” Me: *stares blankly right at her* Manicurist: “You’re right. They are trouble. Want wine?” 😅😂
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
Accidentally typed "doom" in an email instead of Zoom and honestly? Checks out.
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
It is my birthday weekend and I've decided that I will just absolutely not tolerate *anything* at all. Just scotch and vibes all weekend long.
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
Undiagnosed + untreated mental health disorders can lead to externalizing behaviors—resulting in incarceration. These behaviors tend to be ⬆️ present among ppl living in poverty & lacking support Helping to link ppl into effective care is key vs perpetuating stigma + punishment
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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Kinda wild that there are ppl who never think about the impacts of poverty & who don't consider what life is like for someone who can't access food/restrooms/jobs + $/healthcare What does it even feel like to never reflect on how your privilege may directly/indirectly cause harm
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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The amount of unhoused people who end up in jail to access immediate medical & mental health care after repeatedly being turned away by ER's is...not a small number.
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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Is there anything cuter than your dog SPRINTING towards you after not seeing you for like...40 seconds? 🥰🥰
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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I. AM. GETTING. VACCINATED TOMORROW!!!!
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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This week, I taught undergrad + grad courses, provided therapy, evaluated ppl in jail & consulted w/ drained HCWs There is a collective sense of fear, helplessness & hopelessness that can’t be reduced/resolved w/o accurate, consistent + practical support—*everyone* is struggling
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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Must be nice 😴 🥰
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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Gave a talk tonight at my alma mater. What a surreal experience it was to share my 13 year long educational & clinical journey on the same day that I received official hard copies of my psychology + business licenses to practice independently Keep going, you’ve got this ❤️✨
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Periodic reminder:
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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Me right now 3 hours after receiving the 2nd Pfizer dose.
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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Woke up this morning craving coffee + pizza. New year, same me ✌🏽
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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I have ordered pizza *every single week* ever since COVID lockdown last March. Love that for me
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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Media pushing "the law is the law so we need to accept the verdict" narrative is equivalent to the "it is what it is" trope - as if laws & their enforcers can't be changed/repealed/removed if society *really wanted* to eradicate unjust power dynamics in the criminal legal system
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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Having self-awareness is exhausting sometimes. Powerful. But exhausting.
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
WHY are social justice articles hidden behind a paywall??? This is not ✨socially just✨
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
2 years
Bf caught me smiling because of these crab enchiladas. Went from feeling grumpy to blissful after one bite 😇☺️
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
Yes! And chronically homeless folks pick up warrants (mainly failure to appears bc they have no $, car, NOTICE bc no physical address to *receive* notice). Then they experience a mental health crisis, cops are called, name is run. Cops see warrant and...arrest. Happens every day.
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There seems to be this common misconception about warrants based on some of these takes. Warrants get issued all day everyday like it’s nothing and people are none the wiser. They’re not just willfully disregarding it lawlessly and do not need to be met with violence from police
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
I present to you the POV of a therapist in session with a patient who is dealing with the effects of living in a ruthless, unjust, & capitalistic society:
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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Hot take—all supervisors, managers, directors, researchers, & legislators need to spend significant time *on the ground & in the field* w/ people that they are attempting to provide direction for. You can’t fix problems if you don’t know what the real-world conditions are.
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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Stoked and proud to be a #DS50 Founding Fellow 🚀✨
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Time to congratulate Dr. Merushka Bisetty, she is one of the founding fellows for #DS50 ! 🎉 @DrBisetty is launching a community-led nonprofit and plans to start her own private practice through DocSpace. We're excited to support her career goals. Join her:
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
In addition to office hours, I also have sleepy hours and they occur every single hour that I am awake
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
I’m doing absolutely nothing besides watching Hallmark Christmas movies in bed all day. I love it here 🤶🏽♥️
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
I know this gets talked about A LOT but I spent 2 hours of my time this morning worrying about a task that I needed to get done but kept putting off. I realized I was getting more anxious & decided to just do it—It took 30 *actual* seconds to complete. 30 Why are we like this 😩
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
What is a good indication that you are tired beyond belief & should probably take a day off? Could it be that instead of tossing your phone onto your bed…you toss your COFFEE? 😫😂
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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I miss working in the courtroom & providing mental health support to people in distress due to the potential consequences of a hearing. I miss providing clinical insights to judges and it having positive outcomes in real time—like charges dismissed Psychologists are invaluable
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
Have we tried solving problems before they occur? Hear me out. What if we just prevented mental health crises & homelessness from happening? What if instead of criminalizing the results of trauma we...invest in prevention, early intervention, & trauma-informed tx & services...?
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
A woman’s skills & abilities are distinct from her level of attractiveness. If she’s successful—or on the road to success—why do men (& some women) reactively link that to her looks. Stop attempting to disempower women. Elevate & support them instead. FFS.
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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Dismantling corrupt, unjust, & ineffective systems and replacing them with kinder, just, evidence-based, & culturally conscious supports that benefit *everyone* is good, actually.
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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I have this intense desire to pack it all up and move to the woods immediately. Just me, my dog, and my 10 thousand unread poetry books.
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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Hi hello. Just a quick reminder that race is a social construct, has roots in the Atlantic slave trade, and was and *is still currently* used to justify social & political superiority.
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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Hello, Substance Abuse Disorder does not exist. It is Substance USE Disorder—mild, moderate, or severe type. Thank you in advance for not perpetuating harmful stigma that is often used against people in the criminal-legal system 👍🏽
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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We just voted “NO” on the @GavinNewsom recall election ✅💙
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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My sweet potato 😍🍁❤️
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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Twitter feels like a chaotic, informative, funny, messy, supportive & loving family group chat and I LOVE IT ❤️ ❤️
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
Our local MH dept has *19* vacant MH practitioner positions. That’s not including vacant positions in CMH/MH nonprofits The crisis began ~6 years ago but ppl in power chose not to hire more help in hopes that the already overburdened clinicians would cover. Instead, many left 🤷🏽‍♀️
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California is grappling with a massive shortage of behavioral health care workers
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
Me going through my inbox full of requests for complimentary consultation & teaching “opportunities” from orgs & institutions w/ absurd amounts of money & power
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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Taking care of yourself IS a form of productivity 🦋🌻
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
I wrote a piece for @voxdotcom outlining de-escalation techniques I’ve used when responding to crisis calls. I discuss what some cities are doing to ⬇️ police involvement & ⬆️ mental health response. I also discuss victim-blaming when it comes to police killings.
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Ma’Khia Bryant didn’t have to die. A technique called deescalation could have saved her.
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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TL is flooded w/ exhausted therapists, trainees, nurses, public defenders, & teachers expressing how underpaid, undervalued, & overworked they feel + are ❤️ Working within & under this overwhelmed, overburdened, & underfunded system is traumatic Fund & support the helpers FFS
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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Also, 90% of kids & teens in the juvenile justice system endorse a form of trauma. We know that many of those same kids end up in the adult criminal justice system. We NEED to address underlying trauma in order to prevent MH crises from leading to more deaths (15/15)
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
Accidentally dipped my pizza in wine instead of ranch tonight. That's what kind of a week it has been.
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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Listen. It is too hot to do anything productive. Everyone should just eat ice cream & nap. If everyone is napping then there can be no meetings. It’s sound logic.
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
My dog brings me a toy every time he wants some of my food. He’ll see me with food, grab the nearest toy, run over, & drop it at me. This is adorable. But this is also manipulation. And it is highly effective
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
Kinda feel like perhaps the @APA & other boards/platforms should put out statements re: unregulated “therapy” services that many apps are pushing? For you know…the sake of public protection & maintaining public confidence in actual psychological & therapeutic sciences & services
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"Therapy without the Therapist," isn't Therapy. It's talking to someone about the state of your psychological wellness & what's affecting it without their being adequately trained or libel in their response to it. This is dangerous & someone needs to step in & protect the public.
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
Do you ever just sit in silence and think about how and what you're *really feeling* given what we've been living through during the past 19 months? Brb going to go hug my dog for the next 12 hours.
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
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I found Joshua’s Tree
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
Today was a really hard day BUT I just walked outside and saw a very bright shooting star so that was nice 💫
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Merushka Bisetty, PsyD
3 years
@PoodlesLLC @RitikaGoelTO I receive many of the same comments & DMs. I never engage bc it’s not worth it & I know that there are other effective solutions—bc I’ve used them myself. Disregard the ignorant & keep on keepin’ on ✊🏽
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