My dad is in the hospital. Me and my mom visited him for hours today. After we got home and were watching tv together she asked me where is dad? The dementia is getting worse. Feeling a bit sad tonight.
I want to talk to people who don’t have a ton of followers. I’m tired of seeing posts from people that have a massive amount of followers that are basically following no one. I don’t care how many followers I have. Why do they care so much?
@CokerNeville
@jenifer101212
sorry, I can’t help it I have to speak my word. Women aren’t into game players who put out false flags. That is immature. Women want responsible, respectful, caring, honest men who can communicate and keep their word. I think most men want the same out of women hopefully lol
Trying hard to take care of my Mom and Dad who are in Florida from Michigan. Dad’s a paralyzed vet and Mom fell down twice last week. I go there once a month for five days and do what I can while I’m home in Michigan working! Prayers please for my loving awesome parents 🙏
The lady I take care of was so sweet today. Amid her dementia she asked me to call her when I got home safe because of the snow. When I got home I called her and she said “You’re as snug as a bug in a rug.” It melted my heart ❤️
Although I’m feeling joy in my life right now it broke my heart when the lady I take care of called me on the phone today twice after I left her to beg me to arrange for someone to “take her home.” I did my best to console her but I feel so bad for her! Be there for the elderly!
My son’s dog Chase was not feeling well last week so my son took him to the vet to get some tests. The vet sent him to the emergency vet last night. Chase has advanced liver cancer. I’m going with my son tomorrow when Chase gets put asleep. I’m devastated and heartbroken 💔 😭
I don’t care about numbers but I’m just honestly looking to interact with people here with little luck. Not sure what I’m doing wrong because it’s not working that often 😢
My son text me today and asked if he and his girlfriend could come over and hang out this evening. It’s Saturday night and my kid wants to come over…feeling blessed and also like a super cool mom lol!
Mom has early dementia and she is taking care of my dad who is paralyzed. I go to Florida every month to help be their caregiver because they won’t move to my house yet. Trying desperately to convince them. My mom lost her purse today 🥲 Lots of things to fix. I’ve got this.
If I follow people on here and I can’t see their tweets what is the point of following someone. I follow people because I’m interested in what they have to say. But I’m not seeing a lot people I follow. It’s frustrating.
Be patient and understanding with the elderly, especially those with Alzheimer’s and dementia. Their reality is different than ours. Calling them out on it only intensifies their confusion, insecurities, and anxiety.
So, yes my Christmas tree is still up. I had plans to take it down and then life happened. Worst things could happen. I love my tree. Maybe next week I will actually get to take it down.
I just binged watched the second season of “Sanditon” a tv series based on Jane Austen’s unfinished novel. It was so good I don’t want to be over! I’m an old school romantic lol!
I went on a long road trip with my son today to pick up something he purchased on Facebook marketplace. We stopped in a very small town in Ohio for gas. The gas pump was extremely old school lol
I had very productive day. I cut the grass, cleaned the house, did laundry, grocery shopped, paid bills, packed for work, and cooked some awesome barbecue country pork ribs. Life is good! Long work shift starts tomorrow and I’m ready. God is good!
I cooked for my parents again today. Tender chuck roast, diced gold potatoes and onions sautéed with garlic, carrots, and gravy. It was the bomb and they were loving it. I’m a happy girl right now. 😁
Last night I had a crazy dream. I kept waking up and falling back asleep to the same crazy dream over and over. It was exhausting lol. I’m hoping I have a more peaceful sleep tonight!
The lady I take care of who has dementia held my hand today and told me that I spoil her and that she misses me when I’m not with her. It was priceless and it made me feel like what I do is worthwhile!
Yep! My ex slammed me into a wall which left a huge bruise. I only experienced verbal and emotional abuse up until then. I got out soon after thankfully.
So, last night the lady I take care of woke up and I went to help her. She said “Who are you?” I said “I’m Debbie.” Then she said “You’re my friend.” I said “Yes, I’m you’re friend.” She kept thanking me over and over again for helping her. So sweet!
So I’m still in Florida taking care of my parents. Dad is paralyzed so he is in a separate hospital bed. Tonight, after a long day we were watching Jeopardy in their bedroom. I look over and I see this. True love does exist. They have been married for almost 57 years. 😊
@JackPosobiec
I don’t know. My dad tried to go off of Wellbutrin several times and he got severely depressed again. Did not even recognize him. When he is on the med he is a happy, funny, easygoing man even though his life is hard due to being paralyzed.
Being a caregiver for an elderly dementia patient has taken a toll on me. I love it because it is important work but I feel broken right now after my 50 hour shift.
My caregiving shift is getting scary. I’m watching my friend whom I love, deteriorate in both mind and body. Today was tough. I gave her hugs, kisses, jokes, and prayers however nothing has pulled her out of her dementia today 🥲 Tomorrow is a new day I hope I can reach her!
Life doesn’t always go as planned. I’m supposed to be in Florida helping my mom and dad right now but the flight was canceled last minute so I’m sitting on my couch. I’m going to try again tomorrow. 😂😂😂Wish me luck.
Today was a great day! I feel so much joy in my heart cooking for my kids. I got the house cleaned, presents are wrapped, and my oldest is coming home tomorrow from Florida for a visit. Tomorrow I’ll be with all of my kids, my son in law, my son’s girlfriend, and my grandson 😊
May 4th was my birthday but I was working. Then, yesterday my daughter got her master’s degree in special education and I attended her graduation. So proud of her! Today, I took a self care day. I watched old movies and ordered DoorDash to celebrate. Life is good!
@bennystarks
I would get my parents a customized wheelchair van so that my paralyzed veteran dad could be transported easier. Then I would buy a private jet so that I could be there more often to take care of them.
Well, turns out I can still ice skate. I wasn’t sure if I would be falling a lot because it has been awhile since I have gone ice skating. I had so much fun today with my son and his girlfriend today 😊
I’m so tired after my long caregiving shift. Once again I’m going to have to apologize for being lame on a Friday night😂I need sleep. Have a great night everyone!
New update on my car. This morning when I got home from church my car started. Who knows why 😂 maybe because it’s a little warmer? I’m still going to have it checked at the the dealership.
Today was one of the hardest caregiving days I’ve had ever. Not complaining, I’m just explaining why I’m going to bed at the same time as a 94 year old 🤣 goodnight!
I’m feeling extremely grateful that my kids still feel comfortable enough to talk to me about what they are feeling and what’s going on in their lives as adults. They are still calling me to talk and get advice. I’m blessed.
Just finished babysitting my 2 month old grandson. I love that boy so much! He was a bit fussy but I just held him walking up and down the hallway singing him Christmas songs until he fell asleep. His favorite was Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer 😂
I’m probably never going to say anything super clever to get lots of likes and comments. I don’t care about that, I care about people. I’m here for you if you need me. I really mean it!
My daughter doesn’t want me to post pictures of my grandson’s face, which I totally respect. But look at how cute this picture is. I rocked him to sleep today and he grabbed on to my finger. So sweet ❤️
Went to church, had a barbecue with my kids, saw my grandson, my son in law put up a fence for me, had a bonfire, and then I played basketball with my son in the backyard just like the good old days. I did pretty good btw. Now I’m on the porch swing. Life is good!
The lady I take care of is restless tonight. She’s seeing people who are not there and it’s kind of freaking her out. I just told her that they are angels watching out for her. I think she liked that.
Came back to work today after a week off and the lady I take care of told her son in law with a big smile on her face that “my buddy is back.” That’s me, I’m her buddy. I’m making a difference in her life and it feels great! 😊
I was talking to my son about needing to cut my grass before having people over. He said “I’ll do it, I want to!” Talk about melting a mamas heart! 😊I must have done something right!
So I’m stuck at work until tomorrow morning and my power has been off at my own house since yesterday afternoon due to a heavy storm. My sister went to check on my house for me. She said there’s debris and down tree branches in my backyard. Thank God none of them hit my house.
To everyone responding to my tweets I appreciate you! I’m trying to respond to everyone however I am new to this please be patient and know that it means a lot to me honestly!