To all my lover girls, may Allah bless you with spouses who match your energy and are equally lover boys just bursting at the seams with love for you 🩷
1. Avoid talking about where you work
2. Try not to post about where you are at the moment
3. Avoid talking about something happening on a route you’re presently on
4. Don’t give specifics about your car, house etc
Periods are already so uncomfortable even with running water and the comfort of your own home. To have to deal with everything that comes with that in captivity or in the midst of a genocide must be horrific. May Allah grant ease to the women of Palestine and all over the world.
It’s important for the family of a woman to let her man know that she didn’t drop from the sky and that there are people actively invested in her well-being and happiness.
Married or unmarried, as an adult you’ll find yourself in situations where you’ll need to curb your desires.
If you don’t start learning discipline while you’re unmarried, being married may not save you.
You won’t have to push for commitment with a man that wants to marry you. It’s him that’ll be on your neck.
“Okay I know we said next month but how about next week?”
“Your dad traveled? Oh what state let me go and meet him there”
I have so much respect and admiration for women who become a true mom for their step kids who have lost their moms. It’s so beautiful to see. May Allah reward you 🩷
If you’re a Muslim please don’t refer to yourself as a “Child of God” or anything similar. We are completely against the notion of that our Lord has even a single child.
I love love. I love seeing newly married people with that glow and excitement. It’s absolutely lovely and heartwarming.
May Allah grant all married and intending couple’s beautifully happy marriages filled with His barakah.
Realistic tips for abstaining as a young Muslim lady. PS: I’m far from perfect and I’m not claiming to know everything. I’m sharing tips that have actually helped me based on the Sunnah and Hadith as well as personal experience. 🧵
As a Muslim adult it’s very important to have voluntary ibadah you’re performing regularly and consistently . It could be fasting, Sadaqah, nafil prayers, even better if it’s more than one. Find what that is for you and try your best to be consistent and sincere.
Imagine you’ve been hearing about a spa,“The best spa in the world”. You believe them and naturally,expect the best treatment in the world.
Now imagine you get there and they say you should sit in a bathtub full of mud.
Don’t tie your virginity anything other than to please Allah. Not your parents, not an imaginary future husband and definitely not society. Allah alone.
Soothsaying & fortune-telling in whatever form is shirk and every Muslim must move away from it. The Prophet (PBUH) said: in one hadith that the soothsayers are liars, even if what they say turns to be true. Soothsayers and their magics should not be believed by a Muslim....
This is something I’ve always been terrified of. One minute you’re fine next minute you’re wearing Ankara with your husband’s face on it cutting ribbon because you’re sharing mosquito net to empower women. 😭
These women that their husbands wake up one morning and want to run for office, are the real superstars oo. Cos before you know it, you are in an open SUV with mic and party face cap shouting “Ndi Nne mama!!!”
That you’re giving in charity does not mean the receiver should be stripped of their dignity. You’re only a vessel for Allah to provide for His slave through.
It takes both spouses to make an effort for a marriage to work. If one of them makes all the effort, reads all the books, and employs all the strategies, it can’t amount to much until the other starts to make an effort as well.
@omotolaniee
Everybody will now revert to government name. Sugar pie will now turn to “Olugbenga, I have put your dinner on the table. Kindly go and eat.”😂😂
I really don’t like conversations about what’s compulsory and what’s not compulsory for spouses to do for each-other. If you’re both caring and fear Allah with each other, many things fall into their natural place.
When you get to a certain age nobody will teach you to be making tahajjud, your problems will be tapping you awake in the night and you’ll find your way to your mat.
I would actually love to be a part of a big, healthy Muslim community/neighborhood. Like everyone meets up at the mosque, there are potlucks, sisters can just hang out and all the kids are buddies and everyone helps each other
This madrasah gives out “certificates of fasting completion” for their little students and I think that’s so adorable. What a sweet way to encourage participation in Ramadan. Alahumma barik.
I think it’s bad manners to see a newly married person gushing about their spouse or seeming super happy and make comments like “enjoy it while it lasts”.
Whether you believe the happiness is temporary or not don’t taint people’s happiness with your projections.
One of the things that come with wearing the hijab consciously is the urge to try to make the inside match the outside. Sometimes shaytan can try to twist things and deceive you by reminding you of your shortfalls. Don’t fall for it.
A common response to comments on a person not doing *insert compulsory Islamic thing* is usually “but they might have a very deep connection with Allah” “you never know maybe they pray tahajjud more than someone who does x better”. While that might be the case (Allah knows best).
Subhanallah. May Allah forgive
@notSalmata
and make her grave a beautiful and peaceful abode for her. May the life of the hereafter the more pleasant than her life in the dunya and may Allah comfort all her loved ones.
Avoid mocking people with things you have that they don’t.
All the good things we have are from Allah and He can take them away in the blink of an eye.
Say you mock someone for being single while you’re happily married, do people not lose their spouses every day?
Please treat your domestic staff like human beings. Yes, they’re with you to work but they’re people with feeling. Nobody said don’t set boundaries but please treat them like humans.
I think a lot of us subconsciously associate Jilbab and niqab with suffering, especially in Yoruba land but honestly you can be a cheerful enjoyment babe with it.
So if he was indeed homeless it would be socially acceptable for a stranger to interrupt his meal, shove a camera in his face and ask him invasive personal questions?
May Allah infuse joy in their hearts in this life and the next. I ask Allah to lighten their hearts and comfort them the way He comforted the Propget ﷺ in his darkest times.
If someone is deliberately not responding to your greeting it’s not because of what they’re wearing it’s because they’re badly behaved. There are snubbish “hijab sisters” and non-“hijab sisters”.
The Jilbab doesn’t necessarily make people saints. Humans will human.
Women, please stop making it known to the whole internet that you’re lonely. Not because it’s your fault but because there are bad people out there. They will look to take advantage of you. Please. Talk to people you can trust.
You will bring 50. Then you will carry pregnancy and breastfeed and rear kids. You may do housework and general emotional labor of being a wife. That’s not 50/50. That’s 80/20.
@saanyaww
I’m not sure. I think if she lives a very healthy lifestyle, her hormones are in a good balance and she starts early, she probably can. Even if she doesn’t start early, if that’s what she wants, Allah is Ar-Razaq, she can make dua.
@deenprogress
The rights have to be upheld by actual structures not the moral compass of individual Muslims. Same way the penalties for other things aren’t in the hands of individuals, the upholding of women’s Islamic rights shouldn’t solely be left in the hands of individual men to uphold.
Lol! People are in the comments trying to defend it with big big English. Someone said it’s geomancy, another said it’s numerology.
Call it what you like but shirk is shirk.
A decent person has every right to want a decent spouse. If a person has held themselves to a certain standard all their life they’re within their rights to be married to someone with the same standards.
A promiscuous man is not worthy of having me as his wife, I don't rate promiscuous men, I don't rate men who pay for sex, I find them repulsive, I have zero respect for men who patronise prostitutes, I can't marry such a man.
Only a decent man is worthy of being my husband.
Allah knows He didn’t decree for you, His beloved slave to be in endless hardship. So be patient and know that ultimately things will get so much better. Be optimistic and trust that Allah is Who He says He is.
As Muslim women, our hair isn’t particularly more sacred than say - our legs, shoulders, arms etc- they’re all private for the purposes of dressing in public. We’re all on a journey with the hijab but this is a rule of thumb that has helped me be more conscious.
My contribution to society is that I don’t let my cynicism about something spoil another person’s positive experience of it.
Eg. If I had a terrible mango, I’m not going to tell you your mango will be terrible.
As Muslims, we should aim to better ourselves outwardly as well as inwardly .
Set a goal for yourself.
“Before next ramadan I’ll start wearing looser clothes”
“Before the end of the year all my trousers will be the correct length”
Etc
One of the perks of wearing the hijab is that it makes it harder for you to sin publicly.
For example, people aren’t likely to encourage one woman wearing big hijab to be dancing in public.
For me, “mainstream” hijab was pretty easy.
Wearing jeans and a top with a matching scarf, easy peasy. Ankara and Jersey hijab, piece of cake.
But then you learn the true hijab and everyone starts complaining and crying, that’s the real challenge.
To hijabi girls,
was it difficult to put on the hijab? How can someone start putting hijab without fear? Was it easy? How can I be a hijabi and find the perfect style for me and my face?
@diaryofa9jagirl
This David doesn’t sound like he has a job so what is he using all his free time to do that ordinary to pick remote is vexing him. It’s time for them to start earning their keep.
It may seem like there are other options but there’s nothing you can do other than wait for Allah to give you what you want that you’re yet to have.
You could either wait prayerfully and with patience or you could wait anxiously and impatiently but you will wait.
Most of all, Palestinian men are humans.
If they were not kind, caring and respectful it would not justify the wide scale killing, maiming and loss that’s being inflicted on them.
Palestinian men are kind.
Palestinian men are loving.
Palestinian men are caring.
Palestinian men are respectful.
Palestinian men are doing whatever they can.
Stop dehumanising us. We are human beings. We have emotions and feelings just like the rest of you.
I just saw something where someone asked if people would watch their whole lives with their parents for 20 million dollars, naturally I said God forbid.
But Allah Himself will actually play our whole lives back to us. That is a very scary thought.
You know the beautiful thing about Allah’s decree? It doesn’t conform to our logic. We may see some issues as setbacks when in reality they’re the catapult that will propel us into what we’re trying to achieve.
Mac’s Matchmaster Foundation. It works for full face beats or when you want a little bit of coverage. It’s very flexible, last even when I put water on my face and is so highly underrated.
As a regular Muslim who isn’t a scholar, social media can be a very dangerous place.
One minute you’re learning about the proper way to make dua next thing you’re participating in debates about very sensitive topics that you’re definitely not cut out for.
Be very ambitious in your duas. Allah created galaxies full of planets and inside those planets there are many miracles. Making you rich, giving you children, giving you the perfect spouse and whatever it is you want are light work. So please ask away.
Doing a good deed with the primary intention being to please Allah is the best. Any other reason and you might be leaving room for regret if things don’t go well and why should you regret doing a good deed?
Look. Whether you put your trust in Allah or not, your destiny is set. Worry and panic will only do more harm. But if you put your trust in Him, not only will you be more at ease, with the right intention and actions you can earn rewards in Sha Allah.
@SHXNYE
The worst part is that these people get so upset when you do them to ask for prices and end up not buying. You wouldn’t be having this problem if you just posted your prices b
@duchesskk
My client is within her rights to be upset. She gave you the finest corn and chicken and she was met with ingratitude. We will be seeking damages.