@Theholisticpsyc
Unresolved childhood trauma will lead you to attract persons with the same personality traits what you were used to experiencing as a child.
If not resolved, as an adult you will choose what you are familiar with (as safety) from childhood.
@_Pammy_DS_
First, your gut feeling tells it all, if bells are ringing, you must listen. It rang for me, not always listened.:)
Second, everything that doesn’t feel good, what feels ‘off’: the lies, the manipulation, the lack of true love. Those are red flags.
Third: lessons must be
I don’t know how to build a personal brand.
I don’t have a clear message.
My bio sucks.
My banner sucks.
But I had 410K+ impressions in the last 2 months and gained 930+ followers.
I am here figuring it out and building…..
Something that feels right….
I don’t think, I
Some of you are so fluent in social media.
I can not keep up.
This language I still have to master.
Lmk
Irl
Imo
Tbh
Imho
I find myself constantly googling…
Anyone else?
@healingfromlc
Yes! I did. I was bedridden unable to eat almost anything, it was hellish scary, but slowly improved. But it was a lot of effort, lot of research. I hope you will get through it soon🫶🙏
@_Pammy_DS_
Healing requires a deep dive into figuring out what holds you back. And most of the time that means that you have to detox your environment, including the people around you. This is not a bad thing, it is self-love and self respect. A must. 🌸
I speak 7 languages imperfectly.
Am I fluent in all of them?
No.
Do I get by and able to have an intelligent conversation, yes.
These imperfect skills gave me a very lucrative business for the past 20 years.
I built a global language agency.
I traveled the world.
Started
Thank you for 1000+ followers this weekend.
I have no idea how I got here.
I was not afraid to skydive, nose down free fall with a plane, escape socialism, speak my mind, etc...
But I was f*ing afraid of being on social media. Here I said it.
And I am so grateful to all the
@Theholisticpsyc
Unfortunately that chaos that children experience will affect their entire life. Their decisions, partners, health, all will be regulated by the fight and flight response that their nervous system created. Until and hopefully.. they realize it at as young adults and get some help
I’m no expert at building a brand at all.
But what I realized that if you speak your passion to people with the right words, the right frequency and the right time, you can have all the success you want.
Normalize not giving an explanation for everything you do. This is your life, why do you feel like you owe an explanation to everyone? You own your life.
@lovewins11011
This is not a joke. Constant, unending abuse can really harm you. Don’t forget that it alters your brain forever, causes irreversible emotional distress and your system will get stuck in a fight and flight cycle that causes chronic illness.
STOP celebrating and promoting 'overworking'.
Lack of sleep, time away from loved ones, bad diet, no mental break, extreme stress, and lack of exercise will lead to burnout.
Overworking is not something we should be proud of.
Leading a balanced life is.
I told my 9-year-old to repeat these affirmations:
I’m unstoppable.
I’m motivated.
I’m incredible.
I’m powerful.
I’m fearless.
I’m strong.
I can do it.
He hesitated. He said he couldn’t remember all that. He seemed to ignore me (usual kid attitude;) along with what he thought
We have 22 more days to go until the end of the year.
Old cycles end, new ones begin.
So many challenges I overcame this year. So many lessons learned yet so many more to conquer.
What about you?;)
@ParamilyUK
In addition to that, not only do you have to facilitate contact, but you are forced by a court order to communicate with the abuser any time he decides to do so.
@coercivecontrol
I know of a case where the mother was sentenced to 45 days in jail for the child refusing to visit with an abusive father. (The mother later appealed, and the judge removed for bias) but imagine how many can't appeal and fight for their rights? Sad, and this is happening here in
I tried and I can’t.
I can’t schedule posts, it doesn’t feel right. I need to feel in the moment, my flow.
I know, don’t yell at me, fiends.
What do I do? I want to grow as a creator here but am I limiting myself by just feeling what it right to me?
Any suggestions?
I’m not on X to compete and chase followers.
For me, it is not a race.
It is a journey to build and share; to be with like-minded people, learn and create.
Why are you on X?
Please be kind to each other.
You never know what someone is carrying on their shoulders.
Some deal with invisible trauma, unresolved childhood issues, loss, grief. Most suffer in silence.
"The only happy people I know are the people I don't know well." - Helen Telushkin
Hard truth.
If your parents were controlling, you will be controlling.
If your parents neglected you, you will neglect yourself.
If your parents were judging you, you will grow up judging yourself.
Healing is the only remedy.
No regrets.
You shouldn't go through life regretting anything. That is a heavy bag to carry.
If you still have that feeling of regret, forgive yourself, so you can move forward, there are so many things you can still achieve.
If you don't want to have any regrets, listen to
I had to capture this on the beach.
These birds fly together, hunt together, yes, the strong feeds first. But they leave enough space for the others to fly freely, side by side.
And they do it in a way that they don’t bump into each other, they are in complete harmony.
What
By avoiding an uncomfortable situation, we put ourselves into it.
The more we push it away, the more it comes our way.
Be mindful, because energy attracts energy.