Stop letting niggas force you into settling. A man who is truly interested in you, will consistently talk to you, check on you & make time for you. He won’t let a day go by without hearing ya voice. There’s no such thing as excuses when you don’t want to lose the one you love.
One thing about me.. I can sense when some shit is not right. Instead of speaking on it or reacting, I just calmly remove myself from it. No conversation needed. As I get older I’ve learned that it’s better to just walk away because you can’t change who someone is.
There is nothing like a grown/mature man who knows how to be romantic, continues to date you, assures you & makes you feel secure in every realm. If it doesn’t feel like that, don’t accept it.
Men that think having money equates to them being ready to date is truly mind blowing to me. Yet will have no idea how to properly communicate, romanticize & LOVE a woman properly. Learn how to build a healthy relationship first. Please.
I do not like people questioning me, my business or what I have going on. If I don’t openly tell you, don’t worry about it. I’m good, I’ll always be good 🤗
I’ve never cared how people perceive me, what they think of what I do with my life or how it makes me look. I genuinely show up as myself every time & in everything I do. That’s all that is important to me.
There is NO nigga who has EVER left me or stop fuckin’ with me. PERIOD. If it’s over with, better believe I was done with him & it was my decision.. if I called a nigga today, I can put him right back where I had him. FACTS.
People are filled with so much evil & jealousy.. the things I have experienced and witnessed is actually insane. I thank God that I am protected and aware.
I work hard as hell & I’m expensive. It’s a bill every month to keep my nails, toes, eyebrows, lashes, wax’s & hair done.. you think I got time for some lame ass nigga who got too much time on their hands, talking about “you be too busy for me”
My love language is being taken care of. Yes I can do for myself… but the act of someone taking the weight off of my shoulders & helping me handle business means the world to me.
The best piece of dating advice I can give is.. if they really like you, you’ll know. If they don’t, you’ll be confused. Honestly, that’s all you need to know.
I’m so unproblematic. I don’t be in anybody shit.. I keep to myself. I talk a little shit to my friends for fun, but other than that... you’ll never hear about my name in anybody bullshit.