I prayed for a partner who sees/hears me & big sandals did their big one with my lady.
The burn out has been real, if you know me you know how I’m on go.
My woman said ”Enough!” & sent me on my way for the weekend.
Grateful is an understatement 🥹
Fatphobia and colorism really be keeping y’all from some of the finest, sweetest, supportive, most loving & worthy women/folx & I’m glad.
Good, keep far away from them, you don’t deserve their greatness.
I want people who never made it out of the 30-60day trial period with me to stop telling people we used to deal. Especially you’ve never seen any part of me other than my face.
Extra if we never met in person.
You don’t get cool points for getting my number & having convos.
My dumplin’
My dance partner
My baby babushka
My headache & my medicine
To the spookiest b*tch I know & love, I wish you the happiest birthday yet!! It’s up tonight!!! 🤸🏽♀️🐧💕🤞🏽
I feel like people are losing (or simply never had) the art of catering attentively & intentionally to their partners & lovers. It saddens me that people seem to miss so many steps.
If I feel love I speak on it, no matter time frame or history.
I’m letting people know that while I have breath in my body I love them at whatever capacity I love them.
It’s good for the soul.
Spread it more.
@BEENHADMOTION
There’s nothing they’ll really have to fall back on to save face. And, they just got that contract with the DOD so they’re about to have plenty more money to shell out with these suits bound to come
Dear babes: Tire rotation is like when you have a multifunctional wig (yall have had at least one in your life) & switch the parts around/rotate it so you don’t wear out the lace or over pluck it.
You bring the back to the front to give it more life & volume, right? Same concept
Lmao my woman really thought she was gonna be outside having a hot girl summer. Now look at her, snatched up planning matching pjs w/the nigga she thought was just a summer fling 😌
Tone abuse is definitely a thing & one of the quickest ways to trigger the nervous system.
It sticks & I feel it’s one of the hardest things to heal in because your system is ALWAYS looking for it. Shifts & tones become
#1
to gauging things.
One way my ex used to gaslight me was by saying things with a tone of rejection and contempt;
Then, when my response was to his harsh tone he’d say “all i said…” then he say the same thing in a caring tone and then accuse me of wanting to start a fight
THIS!!
Also when he said he makes his girls lock their bedroom & bathroom doors when there are men around even if it’s just him around. Sir, your girls gotta protect themselves from you & possible impulses??
I've not respected Rickey Smiley since he said that he doesn't allow his daughters to walk around the house barefoot when his male friends come over bc men have foot fetishes. Like???? Terrible man.
Today’s little harvest 😌
Variety of potatoes
Some eggplant
Tomatoes & Cucumber
Variety of garlic/onions/shallots
Collared, mustard, turnip greens, kale &cabbage (gonna make a pot of mixed greens)