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@BrandiAlexandir

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Philanthropic Hoochie and Dominatrix. Baby Muva. Organizer. Writer. (They/She)..

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Monthly reminder. Philanthropy should be paying for people’s abortions.
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Sex educators from the health department are on Tik Tok explaining how you can get bacterial vaginosis from depression and I’m thankful the babies have that app because they wouldn’t learn that in the school house.
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Britney Spears has a court ordered IUD....don’t argue with me about autonomy or the state ever the fuck again...
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Update, someone found out they were pregnant and they were informed that they have to get off the ship before they reach 23 weeks.
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Ayo, what happens if you get pregnant on this nine month cruise… Abortions? Prenatal care? They drop you off somewhere?
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Planned Parenthood is not the voice of the repro movement and this statement is a reminder.
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Statement on violence in Israel and Gaza.
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I don’t do cruise ships so I don’t know what the rules are and I’m not shocked they don’t let folks stay on after a certain trimester. The original question was, what happens if/when someone finds out they’re pregnant after boarding a trip that is nine months long….
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It’s a lot of counterproductive, performative shit happening right now. Give to damn abortion funds, follow the lead of RJ folks on the frontlines and make sure your networks and communities know abortion is still legal at the moment.
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“I have an IUD in my body right now that won’t let me have a baby and my conservators won’t let me go to the doctor to take it out.” #BritneySpeaks #FreeBritney
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Pay for your friends abortions. Pay for strangers abortions. Monthly. Seriously, become a monthly sustainer to your local abortion fund.
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Um Santa is a super spreader. I’m not understanding how mall Santa’s are a thing in a pandemic and I’m blown so many folks are taking their unvaccinated children to take pictures with him.
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Also follow @2010TJR the duet video that pulled the alarm and let us know our coochies are just as depressed as we are ❤️
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No because that will interfere with how much I get in food stamps miss mamas
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Hi. Y’all can address maternal mortality, build daycares, abolish the school to prison pipeline, raise minimum wage, house every child in foster care, make IVF more accessible and guess what? People will still need abortions. Abortion doesn’t need solutions, it needs access.
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I’m having to confirm my age on @instagram to see informative post from abortion funds. Fix it. Now.
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An abortion doula in the south has sustained a serious injury to her eye and needs $250 to be seen at the doctor. If community can support and share that would be appreciated. (Cash App/$thontie) (Venmo/Brandialxandir).
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@ItsLaDarrion That baby was minding they damn businesses...
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Ayo, what happens if you get pregnant on this nine month cruise… Abortions? Prenatal care? They drop you off somewhere?
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I am so proud of the work y’all are holding and hearing Nia speak was the grounding I needed today to continue with this work.
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Nia Jones is the one that spoke at the Supreme Court this morning
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Follow the educator in the video @bronze_alphonse 🖤 wasn’t expecting this to do numbers. Was just thankful my daughter could learn about BV on Tik Tok because she thinks I’m always having coochie conversations because that’s my job and I worry she’s not listening.
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Brandi, 30, new-ish to the DMV. Bisexual and looking for a situationships. Also open to new friends in the area to grab dinner, drinks and whatever else the DMV has to offer #twinder
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Wow. VP and the P stands for police.
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Y’all cannot casually share abortion organizers personal phone numbers. For safety reasons and because we all exist beyond this work & have to have boundaries for when we do or don’t engage. Do you understand the range of emotions I just got hit with post yoga because of a text?
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@awkward_duck Who’s voice did I read this in and why did it turn me on?!
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#Philanthropy , do not spend today tweeting about Blacks lives, our survival or our liberation. Fund it. Abundantly. Unapologetically and Unrestricted.
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GOAL MET‼️ Y’all funded someone’s abortion in 20 minutes and we love to see it!!
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I hope Black repro folks are taking care of themselves today.
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**deep sigh** if I thought this was going to become mass information I would’ve worded it differently. This was just a happy tweet from my doom scrolling. No. Depression doesn’t cause BV. But there are side effects to depression that have an impact on your reproductive health.
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I’m not arguing with people I’m not having sex with about what I know about my vagina or mental health. I’m also not defending my education or background. The sexual health educators on Tik Tok are getting information to folks and that excites me.
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My daughters high school has no dress code, no SROs, actively practicing restorative justice and she’s apparently writing a paper about why marijuana should be legalized… hella people told me not to let her go there because of their measurements against other schools. We good.
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Y’all I really get sad as hell sometimes as a birth worker and reproductive justice organizer... but this weekend was everything🖤 we trained over 20 all black doulas. With a black DONA trainer, in a training organized black women.Y’all don’t know how major this is for birth work
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Hoochies doing hoochie things… talking philanthropy and movement ish… so proud of you @_benjvmins_ @HoustonHoochies
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Every repro organizer this morning.
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Let’s all be clear that reproductive coercion is at the root of this DaniLeigh/DaBaby situation. The man decided to argue and put her out the house for ordering plan b to prevent another pregnancy with him. The man went on live to humiliate her for having bodily autonomy. Smh.
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You put me on something for nine months and think I won’t be at risk for a pregnancy if you want. I’ll prove you wrong.
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@theangiestanton @icecube Somehow it feels racist when you say nigga and I don’t like that miss mamas.
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TW/repro violence involving minors X X X X X “In what reality does a social worker believe the appropriate response to a nine year old in foster care who is at risk of statutory r*** is not to protect them,but to force that child to be subjected to an IUD”
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@T3RR1F1ED @non_angelic Aht aht. Certain americans.
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Abortion is still legal in all 50 states therefore #philanthropy should be investing in abortion… in all 50 states. Specifically…at the state and local level.
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Greensboro. Amplify and share this. I wasn’t going to make a public statement but I’m pissed and have been pushed to my limits. #Greensboro #NorthCarolina
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@high_rebecc_ra @digislr Thanks for raising this❤️ bumping up in this thread to remind folks
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TW/repro violence involving minors X X X X X “In what reality does a social worker believe the appropriate response to a nine year old in foster care who is at risk of statutory r*** is not to protect them,but to force that child to be subjected to an IUD”
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Antis have no clue the intersections of this work most of us come from. I’ve grieved children, I’ve grieved pregnant and birthing parents, I’ve supported folks through every choice and option available regarding reproductive parenthood. And I’ve remained pro-abortion thru it all.
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Quick thread of abortion funds based in the states/regions that were impacted by the tornados. A point of reference for both individual donors and philanthropy. A reminder that natural disasters are a reproductive justice issue, when folks decide if and when they have children.
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City of Greensboro just pulled their funding for SROs in the schools which covers the admin cost. The county still pays for the 17 officers but a shift is coming y’all.
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I want us to be mindful of circulating images of people’s children in moments like these. Especially when they aren’t images the parents or caregivers offered to the public. These babies do not belong to the movement or social media. It just doesn’t feel okay....
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An ongoing thread of abortion funds in areas impacted by the storms. Clinics and abortion fund staff have lost power. I urge folks to donate and share, when they return capacity will be low and request for care/support will be high as they reschedule folks and new request come in
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If I ever tweet this assume I’ve been taken and y’all need find me lmao
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Y’all niece has maybe 20 minutes to get out the door and she’s standing in my kitchen in a mud mask, blackhead strip, and bonnet. Eating a croissant and dancing. Her morning routine gives me anxiety.
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This, and don’t get me started on the grown ass adults that make it the child’s responsibility to reach out to absent parents. Once my daughter got a cell phone, all of a sudden it was “well she doesn’t call”…. Whet!?
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It’s possible to love your children and dislike motherhood, both things can be true. And that’s okay.
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Happy Father’s Day to Desus.... we don’t have any kids together but the offer always stands 🙃
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Day twenty-four day of @HowardU gaslighting student organizers and blaming them for the university's own negligence. #BlackburnTakeover is a student-led protest demanding real solutions to the campus' housing crisis and the reinstatement of student, faculty and alumni positions.
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Since Twitter isn’t going to ruin this with a janky crop job, here y’all go 🙃
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Watching this app gasp at RGB being a racist asshole because now white women are exposing her while Black and Indigenous folks said it everyday including the day she died is the reminder that I’m not on the same frontlines as a lot of y’all and that’s okay… I’m safer that way.
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As much as I talk about my depression and vagina on this app, the bacterial vaginosis tweet does numbers and I love to see it. Just a bunch of people with vaginas still figuring out how this thing works and that’s okay.
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My baby brother just called me from the car. He’s headed home🥺
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My baby brother has spent all of his 20s in a cage and hopefully tomorrow he will be able to come home to his family. I have a niece who has never seen her father outside of prison walls. All behind some bullshit. Fuck the state, free them all.
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People are asthmatic, we can’t burn shit in every space y’all
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what’s your hot take on the spiritual community that’ll have u like this 👻
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@WrittenByHanna lmao I've tried watching This Is Us a few times over the years but that low blow is my kind of carrying on so I'll give it another try
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@angryblkhoemo I feel like The Sopranos made it a point to include how anti-Black Italians were in those spaces, so the shock factor regarding those storylines is always surprising to me. Same with any movie that centers them, Goodfellas, Casino…
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This is a dangerous opinion to amplify, and as someone that's been "in the trenches" with "struggling families" in a number of capacities, including supporting parents in accessing abortions. It's unsettling to see this call to action.
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Philanthropy Should Focus on Building Stronger Families — Not Supporting Abortion Advocacy
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Vaginal. ELASTICITY!? Men sitting around discussing the value of women is a joke, please go to hell.
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I get so scared when I see men around a table with mics and this is why
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Two request for upcoming appointments. One needs $750 for an abortion that’s been rescheduled multiple times due to lack of funds. And another request of $615 for the appt and childcare. CashApp//$thontie Venmo//Brandialxandir Please share, I’ll update the request as funds come.
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Update! She went in for the interview and the counselor already had her letter of acceptance waiting for her. She applied a few weeks ago and they were planning to mail it out this week but held it for her visit today and got to give it to her in person. 🥺
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Y’all niece and I are headed to a college tour that’s doing on-site admissions. It’s her second pick for a local school so send good vibes y’all.
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Being told I couldn’t talk to the teen parents I was working with about abortion as an option because it would lower the participant numbers of the teen pregnancy program and impact our funding….
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What experience in the workplace radicalized you?
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NC folks, the Greensboro clinic needs escorts BADLY. When the weather breaks more protestors are coming out, including the weekly morning march/praise and worship on Saturdays. If you want more detail/info comment below or DM me and I’ll answer questions and connect you with folk
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As a doula that has served majority teen/adolescent parents, doula care and access has no business being advertised as a part of this luxury aesthetic. Black capitalism isn’t a pillar of the repro justice framework but some how y’all have placed it there.
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Okay... where is the lie?...
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My baby brother has spent all of his 20s in a cage and hopefully tomorrow he will be able to come home to his family. I have a niece who has never seen her father outside of prison walls. All behind some bullshit. Fuck the state, free them all.
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Imagine if philanthropy funded abortion at the state and local level instead of pumping millions into orgs like NAF that allow them to gate keep and harm abortion providers and organizers on the frontlines….
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My daughter has requested to make a dramatic exit from her current relationship by dropping off his wrestling hoodie while I blast @lizzo truth hurts in the drive way after summer camp today.... and I’m here for it lmao
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The Sturdy, Black Boy Joy side of Tik Tok has a hold on me at the moment… I feel like a proud auntie lol
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@WrittenByHanna Of all the carrying on you do on here this is the one time I’ve considered unfollowing you because wtf lmao
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That movie was horny as hell…
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Patient traveling to NM for her abortion this morning is still $300 short. Between abortion funds & organizers this is what left of her $8500 abortion cost. Send what you can. Cash app $thontie / venmo @ Brandialxandir . Will update ask in thread.(Check thread before sending)
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The only thing we should be teaching our children about virginity is that it isn’t real and how to identify the red flags of purity culture. And that conversation should happen before middle school.
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Unpopular opinions about parenting that would get you in this position?
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@NewsandRecord irresponsibly filmed me sharing my contact information to provide bail support which led to my home and life being targeted by white supremacist.
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First picture of me as a mama. Right after my 15th birthday, wasn’t shit anybody could tell me to prepare for these last 14 years. But I’m doing a cute ass job, told statistics and a whole lot of people to kiss my damn ass. Happy Mother’s Day to me.
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Shoutout to the baby mothers reclaiming their time… normally I’d be approaching the second hour at the ice rink during her ice skating practice… today I put on fishnets and a lip for brunch then sent her coins for lunch. And I love that for me.
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Pay Black Farmers. Reminder, there is no reproductive justice without food sovereignty and security
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There’s no reproductive justice without trans visibility. That doesn’t just look like saying pregnant people, & it damn sure isn’t us speaking for our trans comrades. This movement cannot and will not exist without trans leaders, fix more than your language #TransDayOfVisibility
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@JLBarrow The fact that I clicked on it assuming it was a Twitter crop….Only to find that it’s just the photo that was used🥴
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#ShaunKing at the diamond ball 🙄
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Please. I’m begging. Stop telling people happy Mother’s Day of the odd chance that they are a mother. Please.
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Abortion folks, take care of yourselves. Eat what feels good. Cancel zoom calls. Ignore those emails. Let the kid eat Doritos for dinner and watch the annoying ass movie for the hundredth time. Whatever. Just take care of you.
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Last month I was raising funds for two abortions, both patients have had to reschedule multiple times and the need is still there. The remaining ask to cover both is $675. Give if you’re able CashApp//$thontie Venmo//Brandialxandir and amplify this tweet.
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Yes, I’m an Abortion Tete. I’m able to help folks access abortion because abortion funds make it possible. Send coins to your local abortion fund. For me that’s. @CarolinaAbtnFnd @DCAbortionFund If you live in another state and need direction. I’ll point you towards your fund.
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I’m begging y’all to follow abortion organizers before getting on here being loud, wrong and dangerous.
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My first work day in my new apartment. In a new state. Listening to @ScottieBeam and @SylviaObell discuss all the things. And baby when @MaraBrockAkil said “They believe in you, they don’t know how to help you” in reference to support systems and family... #okayNowListen
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Stop letting anyone and everyone write about abortion… please
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Mail-order abortion services are a little awkward for clinics and abortion funds, since they weaken the argument that pregnant people face an undue burden
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4. You provide space for me to write an op-Ed about the dangers of irresponsible journalism during uprising to Black lives. @NewsandRecord my Black life is more important than your following or platform.
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Knew this was coming. When I took over the local doula program years ago and stopped training middle aged white women with a savior complex and strictly Black folks, white women that were denied called my CEO and told her I was being racist. Fuck them and fuck Penny Simkin.
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Conservative groups have sued to shut down the Abundant Birth Project, which provides 150 pregnant Black San Franciscans a $1,000 monthly stipend They allege the project illegally discriminates by giving the stipend only to people of a specific race
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@midnightsliply I didn’t think it could get worse smh
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2. You issue a public apology to both myself and the Black residents of Greensboro for your careless journalism and danger you put Black lives in. This apology needs to come in the form of both social media AND print.
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They not only posted the video but ignored the comments made by racist white people and didn’t see that as a concern. My immediate ask for the editors at @NewsandRecord are as follows.
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