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An artistic engineer storytelling his experiences with public speaking, social skills, EQ, creativity & level up mentality ๐ŸŒ๐Ÿš€

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If you write it down, you will soon become it. Just watch. Journal who you want to become every day of your life. Force yourself to level up daily. Watch yourself blossom into a legend.
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Social Intelligence 101: If your friend is telling you about an accomplishment, do not try to one-up them by sharing an accomplishment of your own. Tame your ego. Sit back and actively listen.
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Don't let people know how smart you are. Just give them clues. The less they know, the better. The less you show, the wiser.
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Social anxiety is a form of narcissism. You think other people are spending the entire event watching you? Nah. You're not a celebrity like that. Kind of funny when you look at it that way. Nerves will melt
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'How do I stop taking things so personally?' By understanding that people do not do stuff because of you. They do stuff because of themselves.
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Side effect of learning a lot of psychology: You find it difficult to get mad at people because you know why they behave the way they do. It is a liberating feeling.
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5 Life Lessons Learned from Kobe: 1. Execute the process with full enthusiasm. 2. Put more pressure on yourself than the outside world can. 3. Don't put yourself in a box. 4. Always be learning & asking questions. 5. Chase greatness. RIP Legend.
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'How come I procrastinate so much?' Bc you keep envisioning the end product vs the work it's going to take to get there. You're looking at the macro. You should try looking at the micro. Break your workload down & take it step by step Gradual improvement beats procrastination
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If you are going to burn a bridge, do it silently. No need to get emotional. Just distance with grace.
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Think like an engineer Create like an artist Communicate like a comedian
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Humans were born to solve problems, not get outraged by bullshit. But here's what happened. We live in the era of comfort. Most humans don't have real problems to solve. So what happens? Their brains create an ILLUSION of a problem to throw a hissyfit about. Sad way to live
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Manipulation Sign: If you are compromising too much, there is a chance that you are getting manipulated. Why are you the one that's always compromising? How come the other person always gets their way? Be more curious. If something seems off, stick up for yourself.
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It's rude to introduce someone new to a group & just leave them hanging. You gotta integrate them into the convo by stating interesting facts about them so the other members can ask em questions. That's how winners introduce
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If you look CLOSELY at charismatic people, they aren't talking that much. Most of them follow the 70/30 rule. 70% listening. 30% talking. But when they do speak? They do so with enthusiasm and intent. Their words carry more weight than a rambler.
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Why you hate life: You have 0 purpose All your friends hate life You eat like a sack of shit You neglect your sleep You think life happens to you You're always alone You are a slave to your thoughts & emotions You misuse technology You whine like you get paid for it
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If someone does you a favor. Ask them how you can return the favor. They may say nothing is needed. But simply asking how you can repay them back showcases that you ACKNOWLEDGE that they did you a favor in the first place. And that's what matters. Think about these things..
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Boiling water softens the potato. Boiling water hardens the egg. Same situation, different results. Same with life. Tough situations creates wimps. Tough situations creates legends. Same situation, different results. Choose your path wisely.
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Social Tip: If you know most of the people at a social event & see someone standing by themself, then: 1. Introduce yourself. 2. Build rapport. 3. Introduce them to others. That what you'd want others doing for you if you were in there position. So do it & be a winner.
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If you are going to invest in self education, then do yourself a favor. Learn how to learn. You were never taught this in school. Read up on: -Stages of learning -Slow practice -Myelination -Neural pathways
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There is NO shame in working a 40 hour a week job as you build your empire. Many people do not have business experience, so they will need some cash flowing in to make mistakes. Normal. Do not ever attack someone who is balancing a 40 and working endlessly on their dreams.
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The smarter you become, the harder it can be to empathize. Which is why you need to allow your awareness to keep your intellect in check. Just because you're smart doesn't mean everyone else is OR others may be smart in a different lane Avoid being overly analytical w/ humans
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-Be introverted when you need to. -Be extroverted when you need to. It's not one or the other. Don't view the Myers Briggs test as a lifelong sentence. Rather, use it as a measurement to see where you stand. And where you can improve. โ˜†Growth mindset: Personality Edition.
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If you're in your 20s, you need to be grinding towards something. Most people your age will probably be getting fucked up all the time. Partying is fun & fine But don't let your 20s solely be defined by that. Work towards something bigger. โ˜†20s = planting the seeds
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I've been practicing gratitude everyday for the past 6 months. Energy levels have skyrocketed. Gratitude isn't just mental. It's physical as well.
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Procrastination Hack: When you procrastinate, you are focusing too much on the big tasks. Stop. Flip it. Focus on the small tasks & build up. Ex: instead of focusing on getting the entire blog done, do 1 paragraph. You will strangely want to complete another paragraph...
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Most of your problems in life come from: Being controlled by your ego. Overthinking. Giving a fuck about other's opinions. Planning out failures before you even did the event. Thin skin. Being controlled by your thoughts. You can fix most of these issues with meditation.
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The Birth of a Creative: 1. Imaginative as hell as a child. 2. Imagination is put on hold when entering the school system. 3. Lives logically. 4. One day goes thru traumatic event. 5. Unleashes the emotions on an artistic vehicle. 6. Inner creativity is rediscovered.
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I don't trust sensitive people. Biggest snakes & easy to brainwash. It's just a matter of time before you say something that irks them. They also end up being group thinkers. Don't keep sensitive people in your squad. Thick skin winners only
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Fantasy: you mature with age. Reality: you mature with experiences, pain & introspection.
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Words rewire your nervous system I didn't even know this was a thing until I began public speaking, podcasting, tweeting etc. Psycho-Linguisitcs When psychology meets language Speaking your life into existence is a thing It rewires the internal which influences the external
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Don't worry about losing people. Worry about people losing you. To graduate to this mindset, you need to be a valuable human. Gotta invest in yourself & stand by it.
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Study Hack: Try this. Whenever you are studying, pretend like you have to teach someone the content right after. This mentality shift is huge. You will scope thru the fluff. And you will start paying attention only to the important points. Level up your learning ๐ŸŒ๐Ÿš€
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Distraction & focus are both muscles. Every time you get distracted, you're reinforcing neural pathways for distraction. Every time you override a distraction, you're reinforcing neural pathways for focus. Choice is yours tbh
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Signs of Social Intelligence: Trustworthy Able to create small talk Able to create nuanced conversation Remembers names Can have a big circle, but chooses for a small one Observant of the small details Gives thoughtful compliments Laser like listening skills High level empathy
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Life Laws: When you are angry, distance. When you are bored, learn. When you are anxious, do. When you are sad, introspect. When you fail, analyze. When you win, win more.
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Being lonely is mental. Being alone is physical. Use loneliness as an opportunity to become best friends with yourself. When you do this, you are able to recondition your mindset. You'll never be lonely again. Simply alone.
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Study Hack: Try this. Whenever you are studying, pretend like you have to teach someone the content right after. This mentality shift is huge. You will scope thru the fluff. And you will start paying attention only to the important points. Level up your learning ๐ŸŒ๐Ÿš€
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I have been studying social dynamics for a while. Listen to me carefully. Look around you. You see most of those people? Lowkey snakes. They ain't looking out for you. Stop telling your dreams to everyone. Only your squad. ALWAYS have people earn your trust.
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At the end of the day, you're a magnet. You attract what you put out there. Which is why it's dangerous to pretend to be someone that you're not. You begin magnetizing people who love the illusion of you. But do not really love the real you.
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The best speakers have a HIGH tolerance for embarrassment. Pretty sure they have choked a speech or forgot a point on stage. They were embarassed. The audience giggled. And life moved on. Since that moment, they realized the biggest critic of embarrassment is the inner voice
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Cheatcode to a better life: Sleep well Meditate Journal Visualize Do yoga Know financial literacy Have hobbies Get sun Workout Eat healthy Drink water Have a social support system Know when to rest
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I've never met one hater that is doing better than the person they are hating on. That alone speaks volumes.
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Shy people are either overthinking or highly observant of the social setting.
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Emotional Intelligence in a Nutshell: -Emotions come in waves. -It's not a life sentence. When you learn this, you can look at emotions as a 3rd party observer vs. a 1st party participant. Keep reading this till it clicks. Understanding this concept can change your life.
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'Why do I suffer from analysis paralysis?' Because you try to be strategic before you put in any work. Strategic thinking is a byproduct of putting in work & then connecting the dots. Until you put in the work, there won't be dots to connect. Just a lot of thinking & anxiety.
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The key is to begin before you're ready. Learn along the way. Only 1 out of 10 can do this. The scrappy ones Be scrappy rather than overly intellectual. A scrappy individual with awareness will build intellect along the way AND have results to show for it.
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Multiple Intelligences Theory: 1. Linguistic- good w/ words 2. Intrapersonal - self aware 3. Interpersonal- good w/ people 4. Logical- good w/ rationale 5. Spatial- good w/ visualizing 6. Kinesthetic- good w/ body 7. Auditory- good w/ music 8. Naturalistic- good w/ nature
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When you are angry, distance. When you are bored, learn. When you are anxious, do. When you are sad, introspect. When you fail, analyze. When you win, win more.
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Social Tip: Every shy person has a story. No one is born shy, it is developed. Don't be too quick to chastise a shy person for being quiet. Some of them are recovering from trauma. Aim to understand their silence, rather than pass judments.
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If you're going thru a tough time right now, I'm telling you.... Just 6 months. That's all it takes to MASSIVELY turn your life around forever. I'm speaking from experience. Life doesn't have to be this way for you. For 6 months, invest in yourself. Begin today.
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One of the most dangerous misuses of technology is excessive scrolling on the feed. Each content piece is different. Causing your mind to go from thought to thought. You're practically training your distraction muscle Strengthening it & making it a powerhouse Anxiety ensues
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'How come I feel so rigid when I'm first learning something?' Because the new neurons are forming. With practice, the neural pathways will solidify & the moves become fluid. Don't quit in the rigid stage. It's only temporary
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'How come no girls like me?' Because you don't even like you. And they can tell.
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Friend Tip: If someone is going out of their way to help you out like: -Helping you move -Dropping you off at the airport -Planning you a party for an achievement etc. Offer to buy them lunch or something. Be appreciative. Never take someone's time for granted.
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The Birth of a Winner: 1. Spends years just existing. 2. Goes thru some traumatic event. 3. Struggles. 4. Breaks from within. 5. Introspects & rebuilds. Time elapses.. 6. The Phoenix rises from the Ashes. The Winner is Born. Amazing.
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Women view maturity as the ability to express emotions Men view maturity as the ability to control emotions General heuristics
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Becoming best friends with yourself happens in the darkness. When you hit rock bottom, you have nowhere else to go. That's when you HAVE to get to know all of yourself. The good & ESPECIALLY the bad. Once that happens, you now have your back for life. Best friend status.
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When a loser sees a successful person, the first thing they do is look for loopholes. They wonder if the person was given a big sum of money by their parents. Winners don't think like that. Rather, they analyze the successful persons present day habits & business model
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You need problems. Without problems which force your growth, you dwell. Your brain likes solving problems. Without them, it creates them. So don't run away from pressure. Run towards it. If you're going to get problems no matter what, might as well grow from it
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Reinventing yourself happens gradually & suddenly. You gradually put in the work, day in & day out. You don't notice much significant changes like that. Then BOOM. You look back one day & everything is different for the best. Keep grinding
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Social intelligent people don't trust easily. They became socially intelligent in the first place by dealing with a lot of back stabbing. This group is knows the art of building rapport without revealing too much about themselves.
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A few psychology concepts to check out: - Spotlight Effect - Illusion of Transparency - Pratfall Effect - Negativity Bias - Gaslight Effect - Michelangelo Phenomenon These are just a few of many proposed principles of the psychology world. Begin learning today.
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Socially unintelligent moves: -Interrupting others -Talking about yourself the entire time -Just answering questions rather than asking them -Darting eyes -Low energy -Making abrupt changes to the convo -Incessant arguing -Rambling -Bringing awareness to others flaws in groups
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Social Tip: Saying 'I know' lowkey comes off as rude. When someone gives you advice, just say 'thanks for letting me know'. Something like that. And if people are always saying 'I know' to you, then quit giving so much advice. Or be more aware of who you're talking to
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Concentration HACK: Listen to videos on 2x the speed. Maintain concentration. Now when you listen to a human talk at regular speed, keeping up will feel much easier.
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In school, memorization is rewarded. In the real world, understanding is.
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Writing by hand is one of the best kept secrets to develop a sharper brain. Although it's not really a secret. Most are just too lazy to try it out. The motor, memory, logic, creativity processing centers of your brain light up. 360 effect. Just with the power of pen & paper.
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Things you can control: Your mood Your finances Your work ethic Your character Your mindset Your friend circle Your creativity Your empathy Your next big move Your physique Your progress Your consistency Your results Things you can't control: Other peoples opinions
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The Trinity: -Make your character so expensive that it cannot be bought. -Make your time so scarce that it is never wasted. -Make your emotional currency the money that you never spend on low value people.
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Introverted doesn't mean shy. And extroverted doesn't mean talkative. There can be talkative introverts. There can be shy extroverts. It all comes back to energy. Do they feel more energized around people or do they need time to recharge by themselves? That's the difference
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'Why do real people have less friends?' Because they understand most people are not real. Therefore, they don't look for more friends. They look for more real friends.
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Sneaky ways people hate: โ–ชPompous questions โ–ชExcessive sarcasm out of the blue moon โ–ช'Joking' โ–ชinsinuating that your accomplishment was easy โ–ชevident subtweeting โ–ชsaying stuff like 'we'll see how long it lasts'
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The calmest person in the room probably: 1. Has had the most past conflicts in the room & is hard to rattle nowadays. 2. Meditates a lot. 3. Both 1 & 2.
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'Why don't introverts like small talk?' Because they spend a lot of time deep thinking. They feel like they have to dumb themselves down for small talk. They prefer in depth conversations with nuance.
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Dark truth is that many parents have the right heart but the wrong mind. So what happens? They love their kids to the moon & back. But they pass on their limiting beliefs to the next generation. Tough because unlearning limiting beliefs is a journey. Still possible though.
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Humans judge each other by their behavior. Humans judge themselves by their intentions.
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When you try killing the ego, you get a 'nice guy.' A people pleaser who gets pushed around. Don't try to impress humans. That's when you'll see their dirty disgusting sides. Impress yourself. Build your confidence That's when you'll attract those who matter
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Breakups produce: -Drunks -Crybabies -Binge eaters Breakups produce: -Entrepreneurs -Amazing physiques -Thick skin Choose your path wisely.
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'Jack of all trades & the master of none.' ^One of the biggest fake limiting beliefs out there. You can be a master of many things. But your approach needs to be strategic. Rather than trying to master everything at once. -Master one at a time. Skills eventually intertwine.
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'How do I control my life?' By controlling your attention.
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One of the reasons you feel lonely is because you over analyze who you don't have & undermine the people who stay by your side
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Mind Gym: Non fiction to work out your left brain. Fiction to work out your right brain. Meditation to exercise awareness. Visualization to sharpen imagination. Writing to slow down your thoughts. Focus for strength training. Reframing thoughts for reps.
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You work the best when your back is against the wall. You waste so much time because you don't have any deadlines or pressure. So create your own deadlines & pressure. Put your back against the wall. It's either win or your darkest fears come true. Now pick.
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The reason that many people never feel confident is because they never acknowledge their accomplishments. They cross off a bunch of goals & immediately are onto the next one. This will have you always feeling unfulfilled. Slow down. ACKNOWLEDGE your accomplishments.
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๐Ÿ”ฅTHREAD: 27 Lessons๐Ÿ”ฅ In light of my 27th birthday, I would like to share 27 lessons that I have learned on my journey. A lot of these lessons were learned the hard way. But better late than never. Let's begin. ๐Ÿ‘‡
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Do not date someone that you have to babysit. You are not a parent. If they are holding you back from reaching your full potential, end it.
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Public Speaking Mentality HACK: Talk to the audience like they are 5 year olds. This does a few things: 1. You speak to their inner child. Do that and you cradle their attention. 2. You simplify your language. 3. Your delivery enhances. 4. You feel more confident.
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6 years
Two incomplete people getting into a relationship to complete each other, ends poorly. Two complete people getting into a relationship to amplify each other, goes more smoothly.
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5 years
A lot of people you consider extroverted, are actually introverted. Grant Cardone is primarily introverted. But just like him & many others, they can switch gears. Social intelligence is when you can switch between introverted & extroverted depending on the circumstance.
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6 years
People who practice accountability are hard to control. They know how to think for themselves. Society doesn't want that. 'Why?' Because people who think for themselves are the first ones to break the norms that society has set for them.
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5 years
Life Lessons: Being broke teaches you how to survive with less. Being dumped teaches you how to tame your ego. Being discriminated for something you can't control teaches you the ugly of the real world. Being bitten by snakes teaches you the value of your trust.
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5 years
Only a few people are genuinely happy for your wins. The rest don't care or resent you. That's why it's important to keep your best friends squad small. But it's more important to ensure that you're your own best friend.
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5 years
The key to charisma is unlocking your inner kid & maintaining the structure of an adult. A kid doesn't take themselves too seriously. They are fully present & can make something out of nothing. However, they are wild. Tame that with the adult side. Balancing act
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ArmaniTalks ๐ŸŽ™๐Ÿ”ฅ
6 years
Your Most PRECIOUS Currencies: -Energy -Time -Attention -Trust -Love -Loyalty -Respect Only give these currencies to high value people. Never spend these currencies on low value shitheads eg: trolls, weasels, snakes, naysayers etc.
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6 years
Loneliness makes you trust too quickly. You want to open up & talk to someone. But this can have you saying too much to the wrong people. Quiet. Let the trust build on its nature pace. No need to rush.
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4 years
The Birth of a Winner: 1. Spends years just existing. 2. Goes thru some traumatic event. 3. Struggles. 4. Breaks from within. 5. Introspects & rebuilds. Time elapses... 6. The Phoenix rises from the Ashes. The Winner is Born. Amazing.
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ArmaniTalks ๐ŸŽ™๐Ÿ”ฅ
6 years
Life is 10x harder when you're sensitive. Being emotionally fragile has you taking everything personally. Draining as fuck. Your emotions are simply physical sensations with a perception attached to it. That's all. It does not depict reality.
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6 years
If you are better than the person you were a year ago, then you are doing a lot better than you think. A lot of people are the exact same or even worse than the year before. Acknowledge the hard work that you've been putting in.
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6 years
If you have abundance mentality, then you should not be crying all day about someone walking out of your life. Plenty of people out there. Take some time to process the emotions & on to da' next one. Treat yourself like the prize.
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4 years
HACKS to Never Run out of Content: โ˜†Talk about what you've been thru rather than what's hot right now โ˜†Create content for your younger self rather than a market โ˜†Lead with emotions, edit with logic โ˜†Act like you're the only person In the universe, then create
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