I enjoy hurting men and them giving me money. Apparently that’s now called findom. Sadist...I guess. Back up for
@justsuziem
, which is currently restricted.
I love when men are upset. When they are struggling and relapsing and full of regret about findom.
I love when they tell me they are crying and don’t know what to do. When I know they’ve done something irreversible, that they are in debt or broke because of me
It’s just divine.
For me, findom isn’t just about making money. It’s an exploration of the limits of human suffering.
Tribute without suffering is fine. I do like it. But to push at someone’s boundaries? To feel their heart or mind breaking as they attain a new level of misery?
Delightful.
What to do?
I mean, obviously I want to help, but this is findom after all. If I were to help him stay away he would miss out on so much.
And relapse is so enjoyable.
Men say they want to submit, then panic when asked to carry out the simplest task.
Findom isn’t complicated. You send money, I make the decisions.
This sub wants to go out on a date with an unfortunate woman from Tinder.
I’m allowing it, am I not?
It’s not like I’m a monster.
Poor
@belowwomen
.
He planned to see a friend this weekend. Hasn’t seen her since before lockdown.
I’m sure it would have been lovely.
But I don’t want that for him. I told him to change his plans.
Findom requires commitment. And total obedience and submission.
It’s such fun
When a sub can’t cope with findom anymore, when they are at their lowest, when they are at rock bottom.
That’s when I like to hand them a spade and tell them to start digging.
They all thank me for it in the end.
Well, maybe not all of them.
A sub hasn’t sent to anyone for a while. He thinks he’s almost out of findom.
As a kindness, free of charge, I told him not to make his little mess again until I tell him.
Three days now. He’s scrolling Twitter. Soon he will relapse.
It’s so the right thing for him.
Never, ever, help a sub to leave findom or be more responsible.
It spoils everything for them.
Take everything as soon as possible and be utterly firm and heartless. That way they have a wonderful memory for all time, no matter how badly their situation becomes as a result.
A substantial send from a sub who has served me for a long time.
I feel like we’re really getting somewhere. Perhaps we can finally ruin him properly.
It would be nice, and so arousing, to destroy his life permanently.
It’s what he deserves, after all.
Having just returned to findom it seems to me that some dommes on here have no ethics or sense of responsiblility when it comes to subs and their mental health.
It’s so inspiring.
One of my favourite things to do in findom is to message old subs who are now stable and in control and trigger them to spiral downwards again.
I don’t even care if it’s me they send to. I just find their weakness and suffering amusing.
If there is anyone out there struggling with relapse, please be assured that it is absolutely the right thing to do.
Just touch yourself while you think about returning to findom, how good it feels, the risk of it getting out of control.
Then message me if you need reassurance.
I’m sure many subs out there have had a stressful Christmas.
What better way to relax now than to relapse, get back into findom and do something you might regret?
I promise to help you make the wrong decision.
I promise never to feel sorry for you.
Findom is very simple.
Send, and sexualise sending.
Much of the confusion, deleting and relapsing comes about because subs are trying to have some kind of sex life. Sending should be your sex life.
Just relax and accept it.
Sex, affection and love just aren’t for you. Ever.
Some dommes out there think when a sub is having a breakdown you should stop draining them
I see where they are coming from but, to me, that’s the best part of findom. They need to push through it. They are being reborn.
And even if I’m wrong…well, it’s only men, isn’t it?
I can tell some of you are struggling not to relapse. That’s OK. But realise that relapsing and coming back to findom is the right thing to do.
I can help. Just DM me and you can relax and stop pretending you don’t need this.
I recommend permanent chastity with findom.
I had a sub glue his lock and flush his keys. He had no regrets.
Well, I assume he didn’t. He sent me all his money, deleted, then reappeared and did the same again.
Now I think about it, I suppose I should have asked him.
Oh well.
@StupidStalkerB
Highly frustrated and yet with a desire to move towards permanent chastity. I feel a much stronger love in abstinence. Love for Her power and privilege. While my own needs and privileges remain scant and invisible.
I have an English sub sending me money for every time Spain score.
So for once I am very much looking forward to the game of football tonight.
Making a Scotswoman look forward to an England football game. Is there no end to the wonderful effects of findom?
Must I spell it out?
Relapse is always the right thing to do. Leaving findom is always the wrong thing to do.
I can’t believe any sub actually needs to be told this.
Before and after.
If this doesn’t arouse you I would question if findom is really for you.
This pleases me greatly. Receiving the money is almost as good as causing the suffering.
Almost.
I believe it is to be rather hot tomorrow.
Subs shouldn’t be indulging themselves with air conditioning
Get the curtains open and the windows shut
Put the heating on. Make it nice and uncomfortable
Tell me how unbearable it is, while I relax with a cool drink.
I love findom.
People just don’t see the caring side of me.
Like last night, when I allowed a sub to make his little mess after less than six weeks.
Is this what people mean by caring findom?
It’s very arousing to meddle in someone’s marriage, gradually affecting their relationship, telling a findom sub to do things that slowly build resentment.
But, also, the idea of just ending their marriage right now, just because I can, is also very arousing.
Sleep well, sub.
One of my subs deleted.
It must all have been too much for the poor thing.
Thing is, you can delete your Twitter but it doesn’t get the glue out of your chastity cage lock, does it?
It doesn’t bring back those keys you flushed.
Sometimes findom is forever.
😘
There seems a bottomless pit of men here who want to be emotionally damaged and financially ruined.
It is a service I am happy to provide. I only wish I had more time to assist every findom sub who wishes to relapse.
This is the aim. This is findom. Once a sub gets a message like this he has really achieved something.
Such wonderful commitment and service. Of course, the irony is that now he’s broke there’s no reason for me to talk to him anymore.
Oh, well.
I love draining subs. I love everything about it.
I love the obedience, the squirming, the arousal, the misery.
I love that they can’t stop.
Findom is so wonderful. And there is nothing more satisfying than a lovely, hopeless, despairing relapse.
Delicious
I treat this as a challenge.
It’s such an achievement when they break down. Such a feeling when you think about how you are responsible for all that damage.
I always think all that safeword and aftercare stuff sounds rather complicated.
But if you like findom and relapsing and just want to be impoverished by someone who doesn’t care about the consequences for you then DM me
No initial tribute. Just be ready to send when I tell you.
If anyone is struggling not to relapse into findom again please feel free to get in touch.
I will help you make the right decision.
Just try to remember how good it feels.
How it started vs How it’s going.
Another lovely relapse. I’ll never, ever, let this boy go now.
He just needed put on the right track.
Nobody should ever leave findom. It’s perfect for every man.
I gave a sub lines today.
So arousing. If you’re into findom and you’re thinking about getting into lines you should get in touch.
If you’re looking for someone who will be nice to you, start slowly and ease you into it…you should maybe pick someone else.
#writinglines
If you are finding findom difficult I feel the best thing you can do is send more. Just lean into it.
It will make you feel so much better. Relapse is such a wonderful thing.
The pain, the regret.
Think how good it would feel.
When it comes to findom, there is something to be said for cultivating long-term relationships with loyal subs.
However, generally, I just talk to whoever washes up on the beach in front of me. Then I drain then and throw them back.
That also works.
Remember, when it comes to findom relapse, crying is perfectly natural.
In fact, you might argue that if you aren’t crying you aren’t relapsing hard enough.
The best advice I can give is to stroke through it, sexualise the despair.
A sub just approached me to say how much my tweets turned him on. Apparently he has been staying away from findom and hasn’t sent for a year.
I was able to help him relapse. I enjoyed it immensely. Not so sure about him but that’s not as important.
I see subs who want so ruined through findom they have to eat only ramen.
Not too interested in that.
But I have had subs only eat stale bread for extended periods.
First I have them soak it in warm water for an hour. I’m reliably informed it’s utterly disgusting. Seems right.
I feel bad, in a way.
My absence has meant that all these findom subs have gone without proper draining for far too long.
Thank goodness I’m here to help them relapse and deal with them appropriately.
I should say “I wonder how that sub I had lock himself in permanent chastity is doing”.
But…I don’t really care.
Locked and forgotten.
Just how findom subs should be treated.
A findom sub, belowwomen, is disproportionately upset because he paid a pretty girl to block him on onlyfans long ago.
He’s never seen her naked. Which seems right.
Should he pay me his subscription money so I can subscribe and tell him what he’s missing?
An interesting idea.
Just to let you know, this is how findom should be done. It’s not complicated.
Recognise your mistakes and put them right. This sub has demonstrated their loyalty and regained their place at my feet.
I’ll be honest, the devil here sounds an awful lot like me.
Especially the part about financial hardship and rejection. It is the best part about findom, after all.
My sub has returned.
His family have sent him some money. That’s so nice of them. I wonder how much if it I will take tonight?
I should probably leave him with something.
Then again…this is findom, isn’t it?
Decisions, decisions…
I haven’t been in here in such a long time.
I should start doing findom again. Just think of all those men who aren’t going hungry, getting into debt, spending hours doing corner time or being made to feel bad about themselves.
I find it quite upsetting to consider.
Goodness. I post for the first time in weeks and I’ve already had a lovely chat with a sub.
So many lonely findom subs desperate to chat to me.
And who can blame them?
I think it’s time.
Time for my new sub to glue the lock on his cage and flush his keys.
If he never cums again he never leaves findom. I can’t think of a single drawback.
This poor student was talking about £70 to £100 a week. I just had him send everything at once.
Why not?
So he doesn’t have money for food for a while? That doesn’t seem like my problem, surely?
It’s findom. Sometimes you have to make sacrifices.
Well, it worked.
Belowwomen is back. I do hope he trusts me to look after him from now on.
I knew he’d be lurking. Men are so predictable.
Findom is the best place for him. And relapse was inevitable, after all.
I had forgotten how much I liked men’s misery. Amazing.