people keep asking me how i did this idk i’ve tried so many things over the course of my life and it’s basically
1. traumatize them back
2. hit them where it hurts
3. rationalize your arguments EXTREMELY well + basically make a powerpoint in ur head .
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Shameless plug idgaf I’m a photographer can someone hire me so my parents can stop thinking i’m a disappointment under thinly veiled comments about my life
idk why i’m making a list i think the biggest thing is just to make them trust you as a person and as an adult… convey your feelings but support with Actual facts and events that are irrefutable… but love them with a childlike tenderness at the same time Ya it’s hard af idk
@ddominjizz
ur not wrong some of these texts are three years apart it takes so long to get here and even when u get there you still have to keep going 😭
bc some ppl r taking me too seriously u can’t actually traumatize your parents. the power dynamic just doesn’t exist for that happen.
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just means shock them. i think asian parents often only see extremity so u need to make an extremity happen for them to understand ur distress
@nanastudioz
okay wait what the fuck????? why did she put them on a rental house??? not only that but to put the wrong info?????? who is this first stylist like this is actually so unprofessional i’m so astounded
every time smth i say blows up i read everything anyone says bc i’m so afraid of being misunderstood Bruh i love my parents obv if urs are abusers this does not apply nothing i say is absolute and everyone is different obviously i was also compassionate to elicit such a reaction
@marsjupii
LOL i looked ugly i didn’t want to post my face 😭 he was so nice though !! he’s so polite i was talking to him and i don’t think he understood what i said but he still acted like he did LMFAOOO
the texts from my dad were from 3 years ago it was the only real fight we’ve ever had and he texted me that at 3am saying he couldn’t sleep and every time i read it was done upon you you had no choice i literally
brunch today :3
homemade sourdough slice toasted on cast iron. left is kabocha & roasted rep pepper w garlic rubbed on topped w basil and maldon. right is light whipped cream w thyme, homemade apple cinnamon compote, topped w black pepper and honey drizzle.
your dog and cat do not "love" you. they are animals who are food and comfort-motivated and/or have been bred to be affectionate. they are not capable of human emotion. nor should you expect them to be ♥️
Every time i start playing a game obsessively its mechanics work its way into my dreams like why was i frantically pressing dont crush flower bed in my dream sim dream
@kissmemiyake
hair oiling!! like coating your entire head of hair w oil letting it sit for an hour or maybe overnight depending on how thick ur hair is and then washing it out
every coin i have ever tossed into a fountain, eyelash caught on my cheek, candles blown out on a birthday, passing shooting star, i have wished for the same thing. still, it hasn’t come true