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Felix Kitaka

3 months

When did you last see marriage-related books on a wedding budget? Isn’t it ironic that we spend more on the event than on the purpose? That’s how we end up with beautiful weddings and ugly marriages. If a friend or loved one is soon getting married, consider gifting them a

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Felix Kitaka

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1 year

For years, I heard people say, “marry your friend.” It seemed unrealistic. “Friendships take time to build,” I thought. I was wrong, and they were right.

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Felix Kitaka

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2 months

My son, when you encounter these women, run. Do not be baited by their beauty; they’ll label your natural desire for respect as toxic and gang up on you with their friends until you’re broken into a submissive man. For your sanity, let their liberal souls unite with other

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2 months

The new episode of bump love screams toxicity. None of the hosts is interrogating the submissions of the guests, all they are doing is laugh out loud. We really Miss Pumla and the old cast. They invited one of the most toxic men to discuss toxic masculinity🤧

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

7 months

“Twatandika babiri, ne mukyala wange…”

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

1 month

My son, when choosing a wife, please pay attention to her values. If you don’t party and marry a woman who loves to party, partying will be the source of conflict. Marriage is a long journey—in fact, it’s a lifelong journey. The more conflict you can eliminate, the better

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

22 days

My son, when all is said and done, a good woman is a gift from God.

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

19 days

My son, the desire to sleep with multiple women isn’t a result of the devil. It’s a survival tactic the old brain devised when men didn’t live long due to diseases, wars, and wild animals. Men slept with multiple women to increase the odds that their lineages could survive.

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

1 month

My son, if you fail to control what’s between your legs, you’ll give your power to women, and they’ll use it to control you. A self-controlled man is a powerful man. Be blessed.

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

20 days

My son, many women were taught, “a man is supposed to take care of you.” They believe their money is “mine” and yours is “ours.” I say, avoid that lot. If you desire your family to thrive, I suggest you find a woman who can contribute to its productivity. Even in the most

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

8 months

The woman’s bait - Part 16 // Marital Drama Before meeting my wife, I had considered the prospect of marriage but hadn’t yet found the right candidate. I’d heard that one ought to marry their friend, but since dropping out of university, I hadn’t made many new friends. Around

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

7 months

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

21 days

My son, the seasons of life aren’t within our control. We don’t decide when it rains, and neither do we determine when it doesn’t. Such is life. Today, the world and its riches might yield to you; tomorrow, they might all rebel against you. So, when choosing a woman for a

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

12 days

My son, every morning since the beginning of the month, I’ve shared my thoughts to assist you as you choose a wife. While I’m a highly spiritual man, I focused on the practical wisdom I have cultivated regarding relationships because I believe success requires a balance of the

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

1 month

My son, don’t be fooled into thinking she’s the one just because you are in love. Love is a good start in decision-making, but never forget that love is blind. Love is a hormone released in your body that tells your heart to beat faster and your stomach to generate butterflies.

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

8 months

The woman’s bait - Part 17 // Marital Drama After giving my wife a ride, exchanging numbers, and returning to the office, I was excited, shocked, and intrigued. Immediately, I started debating when the right time to text was. Years before, having spent many years on the

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

8 months

The woman’s bait - Part 18 // Marital Drama After dropping out of university, I spent days in my bedroom in my father’s house, seated at the computer, hoping to start a successful technology company. I will never forget the day a friend called and invited me to his graduation

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

8 months

The woman’s bait - Part 13 // Marital Drama At the age of 27, I started life without the covering of my parents. Because I’d dropped out of university, I’d never lived alone. I didn’t know what to expect. It also didn’t help that even though I had no job, I rented a two-bedroom

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

1 year

It’s been two months of silence. We’ve been tested. We’ve been challenged. But most of all, we are back! 6th Aug 2023.

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

14 days

My son, one day, rain will fall, and one day, the sun will be too hot. Many people think that life will always be the same. Why don’t we learn from nature? One day, it rains, and one day, it shines. When life isn’t in your favour, prepare for when it will rain on you because

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

8 months

The woman’s bait - Part 6 // Marital Drama Usually, on Saturday afternoons, I drive my wife to work and continue doing my business. In the evening, I go past KFC, pick up something to eat, head to her workplace, and wait in the parking lot. In my past writings, I have seen

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

15 days

My son, when a child receives a new toy, he leaves the old one behind and goes for the new one. New things are exciting, and because there will always be a new thing, the person who chases new things will never be satisfied. Isn’t it strange that a man can dump his girlfriend

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

1 year

My son, I’ll let you in on a secret. Women value consistency more than big gestures. A man that finds out how she’s doing every morning earns more points than one who buys her a car on her birthday. A man that leaves kameza money earns more points than one who pays the rent.

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

8 months

The woman’s bait - Part 5 // Marital Drama Yesterday at 6pm, my wife came to the room and told me that dinner was ready. Every Friday in our household is a fasting day, hence the late lunch. I learned from experience that without fasting at least once during the week, I’d get

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

1 year

Even the best spouse is guaranteed to do something that misses the mark every other day. It's wise for one to separate the incident from the pattern or the error from the behavior. Failure to do so, peace will elude the home. @RukhShana

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

28 days

My son, most women have a man they look to for guidance. It’s either a brother, friend or pastor. That man usually counsels and advises them on relationships and other life decisions. You should aim to be that man in her life. Failure to do so, your relationship will be

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

23 days

My son, the beauty of the woman’s body is a gift of God. The education of her mind is a gift of her parents. But her heart, that is her gift to herself. I dare say, don't compromise the heart. Be blessed.

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

6 months

It makes sense that H. E. President Museveni defended the speaker of parliament, Hon. Anita Among. To understand the situation, you need to zoom into society's nucleus, which is the home. When the children attack the mother in the home, it would be unwise for the father to

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

27 days

My son, you should know that most women aren’t in charge of themselves. The majority of them are ruled by their emotions. If they were truly in charge, there would be days in the month they could change, but they don’t have that power; they simply submit. So, if a lady ever

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

6 months

The woman’s bait - Part 54 // Marital Drama Yesterday, we received the printed copies of The Woman’s Bait book. On Monday, during our morning meetings, where my wife and I discussed what we worked on the day before and aligned on the day's tasks, I told my wife that we had to

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

16 days

My son, if you don’t possess the wisdom or the experience to advise a woman about her life affairs, she’s probably out of your league. With a bit of witchcraft and pretending to be what you’re not, you might get her into bed, but beyond that, there’s no future. She might

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

8 months

The woman’s bait - Part 19 // Marital Drama One day, while living under my parent’s roof, I went out with a lady. As the night got darker, I waited for her to want to go home, but the request never came. I knew my parents were probably starting to get worried, but my intrigue

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

24 days

My son, success beautifies a man just as good looks and style beautify a woman. A successful man will intimidate most women just as a beautiful woman will intimidate most men. However, the man has one advantage: everyone can become successful with hard work and favour. So,

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

1 year

My son, don’t marry a woman before you have her heart. Most of the women you see, when they have a challenge in life, there is someone they call. That is the person they trust and that is the person who has their heart.

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

30 days

My son, women only have power over weak men. If you can master yourself and your desires, then women cannot control you. If you cannot control your desires, the woman you desire will put a price on her love, and if you are a weak man, you will stretch beyond your means to meet

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

18 days

My son, if everyone can see the value of an asset or land, then it will be overpriced. However, if you can see a value most people cannot, then it will be underpriced, and you will most likely make a significant profit. If what you see in a lady is what everyone sees, then

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

1 month

My son, you should never beg for love; it’s as pitiful as a hunter begging an antelope to be his lunch. Relationships aren’t built on compassion and pity but on self-interest. Of the millions of sperm a man releases, the woman’s egg usually only accepts one. That

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

6 months

The woman’s bait - Finale // Marital Drama Weeks ago, a young man at university reached out with a request for mentorship. “I downloaded all The Woman’s Bait stories,” he told me when we met, “and compiled them into a folder on my computer.” He reminded me of Jesus’s parable

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

29 days

My son, you should never assume that any woman is an angel until you’ve seen her wings. That naïveté is responsible for many a heartbreak. Human beings, male or female, are flawed creatures. Keep your expectations high, and you’ll be disappointed. Keep them low, and you’ll be

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Felix Kitaka

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8 months

The woman’s bait - Part 20 // Marital Drama I will never forget standing in our bedroom in front of the door to the balcony and thinking to myself, “I should get a mistress.” I had always told my wife, you can deny me anything, but I desire one thing: "Peace.” Nonetheless, peace

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

4 months

The way to the next mountain peak is through the valley. The fear of the valley can keep many stuck without growth. Success is a matter of faith.

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

7 months

The woman’s bait - Part 40 // Marital Drama On the eve of our wedding, my wife was seated on my mattress on the floor without a bed. And I was sitting on a plastic stool behind my work table. “Felix, we don’t yet have a song,” she said, panicking. I avoided stress, but I

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

8 months

The woman’s bait - Part 12 // Marital Drama At 27 years old, I felt an urgency to leave my parents and start my own life. My bedroom had grown very small. The walls felt very close, and I thought they prevented my mind from seeing further. Sadly, I was broke. Two years before, I

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

7 months

The woman’s bait - Part 38 // Marital Drama When I met my wife, I lived in a three-bedroom apartment on the top floor of a three-story building. I slept in one bedroom, used the second as a home office, and the third was mostly empty. “Why did I live alone in such a big house?”

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

1 year

My son, when I was exiting a job at about 24yrs old. My mentor told me, “gyova toyombye, gyotela okudda [where you leave without quarreling, is often where you return].” Allow me to pass the same wisdom to you. DONT BURN BRIDGES.

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

1 month

My son, your greatest weapon in dating and life arenas is confidence. Confidence is a state of the mind. It isn’t confidence after perfection; it’s confidence despite imperfection. A man lacking in confidence will blame others but himself. He’ll blame God for his physical

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

26 days

My son, you should never be blinded by the beautiful faces because behind them lies the real person. The real person usually emerges when we are offended or stressed. There’s a beautiful woman who will shut you out for days when offended. When you perceive that the

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

8 months

The woman’s bait - Part 21 // Marital Drama I remember standing before my living room window and seeing her entering the gate. It would be my wife’s first official visit to my house. She wore blue jeans and a purple top and carried a small black rectangular bag. I’d later learn

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

8 months

The woman’s bait - Part 11 // Marital Drama Yesterday, my wife and I set off for town. One of my errands was to renew my driver's license. Usually, I drive, but this time, I asked my wife to drive instead. I must admit, sitting in the co-driver seat made me feel small. That’s

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

8 months

The woman’s bait - Part 14 // Marital Drama I have not witnessed the birth of a newborn. But I have watched movies and heard stories that when a baby is born and becomes aware of the new world, it starts crying. The baby cries because it has died. We think of death as an ending,

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

7 months

The woman’s bait - Part 34 // Marital Drama Once upon a time, I read a meme that said, “Tenants don’t get invited to village meetings.” Amidst the rush of laughter, it dawned on me that the joke was on me. Instantly, my eyes were opened, and I could see that the lady who owned a

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

8 months

The Woman's Bait | Marital Drama This morning, my wife and I were having a discussion that quickly got heated. I knew it had heated up when my wife rolled away from the bed to sit at the edge of it. In a way, it was like one preparing herself for war. The trigger for my wife

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Felix Kitaka

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25 days

My son, it would help if you didn’t listen to women with your ears but your eyes because sometimes their actions speak louder than their words. The human brain, like the human body, is made up of different parts. There are separate parts for reason and emotion. That’s why a

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Felix Kitaka

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7 months

The woman’s bait - Part 25 // Marital Drama I was broke two years after leaving home and living alone. I had learned through experience not to chase money. Every time I pursued money, it ran away, leaving me weary and tired. The way that seemed to work for me was to sit back and

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Felix Kitaka

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7 months

The woman’s bait - Part 45 // Marital Drama Women have two brains. If a man only remembers that simple fact, he will significantly improve his relations with women. With that out of the way, I don’t believe in Valentine’s Day. I think it’s a pagan holiday or a day capitalists

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Felix Kitaka

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7 months

The woman’s bait - Part 33 // Marital Drama We encounter our nakedness daily when we shower, and we are okay with it until someone suddenly opens the door. The first instinct is to quickly grab the towel and cover our nakedness. What is it about nakedness that we cover it up?

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Felix Kitaka

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4 months

1/ After university, a gentleman had to decide whether to return to the village or remain in the city. While his friends chose to return to the village to build momentum so they could return to the city with full force (okusinzila), he chose to remain and figure it out.

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Felix Kitaka

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3 months

Is there a greater enemy of marriage than PRIDE?

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

17 days

My son, many people are stage-managed. They show what they know people will like and hide what they won’t like. Fortunately, people’s true natures show up in various ways, which can be used as a proxy for the person. For instance, how someone drives on the road can tell you

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

3 months

My wife can’t get enough of our new podcast episode. I believe you will love it too. Check it out on YouTube at the link below. Unscripted E34: The power of language // Know the truth and it shall set you free

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

8 months

The woman’s bait - Part 10 // Marital Drama In 2020, a month before the lockdown, I gave almost everything of mine away. I moved from having a personal chef in my house to having no food. For six months, I slept on the floor without a mattress — cushioned by an old duvet I had

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

1 year

The radical nature of faith.

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7 months

The woman’s bait - Part 30 // Marital Drama Since the beginning, man has desired control over his wife and children. However, the woman, as an independent being, wants her freedom and can’t willfully submit to the rulership of man. If even the angels could rebel against God and

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

6 months

Many people are pursuing dead-end careers. Careers they ended up in because of the course they were given by the university. It’s never too late to pivot and consider your destiny. Who knows? You might strike gold.

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

8 months

The woman’s bait - Part 23 // Marital Drama Yesterday, my wife and I were in a jolly mood, conversing as I readied myself for a walk. Then suddenly, she started talking about a matter close to my heart, and before she could finish her sentence, I interjected. Many years ago, I

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

3 months

If the woman only respects you when you have money, she isn’t your wife; she’s a mercenary. A mercenary army stops fighting when the money runs out. But a citizen army fights even without money. When looking for a wife, look for a citizen, not a mercenary.

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Felix Kitaka

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4 months

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8 months

The woman’s bait - Part 7 // Marital Drama I once heard a funny story of a man who was enjoying himself in the company of people who were all sharing stories. He shared all the stories he had and then ran out. “I’ve told all the stories I have,” he thought, “I’m now left with

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Felix Kitaka

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4 months

“Success is not a moment in time. Success is the entirety of a life…”

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8 months

The woman’s bait - Part 22 // Marital Drama A few months before meeting my wife, I traveled to the United States for the first time. I was a remote software engineer for an organization in Boston. While there, I noticed that Americans had an advantage over me. They walked on the

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Felix Kitaka

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8 months

The Woman’s Bait - Part 2 // Marital Drama Last night, my wife entered bed in a rush without a word spoken and slept as far from me as she could find. There was a war between us, except I didn’t know what we were fighting about. If you aren’t married, you can’t imagine the

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Felix Kitaka

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1 year

My son, don’t set your focus on a 50x100 plot of land in Kira because many people are doing the same. Dare to set your gaze on a property in Kololo. Its understandable that you might have limitations physically, but please don’t allow those limitations in your mind.

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Felix Kitaka

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3 months

Who told you marriage was supposed to be easy? 🤔 #marriage

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@TheMutambuze

6 months

Beyond the content of The Woman's Bait series and the book, there is a remarkable story of commitment, dedication, and consistency that I hope the reader appreciates.

The Kitakas

@thekitakas

6 months

The Woman’s Bait. Now available at UGX 50,000 only! To order your copy whatsApp 0763497057. Free delivery within Kampala!

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The woman’s bait - Part 15 // Marital Drama During a debate, when someone feels challenged, it takes a great deal of humility to concede defeat. Many times, self-preservation kicks in, and they shift the discussion from the matter at hand to a personal matter. “So, you’re saying

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7 months

Coming soon.

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10 days

Today, Kings College Buddo has been on my mind. On one hand, it seems to be a blessing, and on the other, a curse. The curse is the hubris that sometimes befalls its students. It should be conventional wisdom that one ought to humble oneself while at the top. The blessing is

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1 month

My son, while paying attention to the woman’s values is essential, don’t expect to find a woman that matches all your values. It’s not impossible; it’s just as likely that you'll find Elon Musk in Owino Market. What’s important is for you to consider your most important

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The woman’s bait - Part 58 // Marital Drama In 2020, a month before the lockdown, I gave almost everything away and moved to an empty house without a mattress. My only appliance in the kitchen was a percolator to make tea until my mother sent me her rice cooker, a bag of rice,

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3 months

Marriage is a miracle… 🤔 #marriage

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7 months

The woman’s bait - Part 24 // Marital Drama Yesterday, I saw our daughter sip her juice while we sat at the table to break our fast at 6PM. “Have you prayed?” I asked her. “No, I was just tasting,” she replied. She didn’t respond to the question asked; instead, she justified

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The woman’s bait - Part 9 // Marital Drama I once heard a story of a man who wooed another man’s wife. He stayed in the same community, and occasionally, he would ask the other man’s wife to keep millions of shillings for him. Eventually, he would pick up the money and always

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The woman’s bait - Part 8 // Marital Drama A story is told of a man who wanted to sell his used car. He put the car on the market at a specific price. Eager buyers showed up without bargaining. He had second thoughts. “Perhaps the car is more valuable than I had priced it,” he

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The woman’s bait - Part 39 // Marital Drama This week, my wife and I kicked off a new journey. We finally entered the office of our company, Audersity Studios. Unfortunately, that and all our other work left me exhausted. On top of the work, my wife and I have been having

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The woman’s bait - Part 26 // Marital Drama There used to be seasons in our marriage where everything was a conflict. Everything I said and did seemed to trigger my wife. It was akin to walking on eggshells. I couldn’t explain it. I wondered whether a spirit of darkness had

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3 months

Don’t waste your time on marriage… 🤔 #marriage

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1 year

Every episode we’ve done, I have enjoyed just as a father loves his children. But this one, it felt special to me. Join my wife and I for yet another unscripted conversation.

Rukh-Shana Kitaka

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1 year

He alone knows the plans He has for us....and it's just as well 🤗. E12 of The Kitakas podcast with @TheMutambuze will be live at midnight EAT.

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The woman’s bait - Part 28 // Marital Drama One day, a short while after our wedding, my wife and I entered the bedroom, and we were both tired. I was so exhausted that I wanted to sleep until morning. However, the bed wasn’t laid. My wife was also tired and asked me to help her

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The woman’s bait - Part 43 // Marital Drama It was the evening of 13th February 2019, about a month after meeting my wife. My mind was racing; I couldn’t figure out how to listen to a particular radio station. The Apple guys had decided to be clever, so my iPhone wasn’t much

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4 months

It’s been six months since we last released a podcast episode. It’s a joy to be back. #thekitakas

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6 months

It doesn’t matter what university degree you hold; what matters most is what you can do or get done. The degree is merely a certificate, proof that you were educated, but it isn’t a trustable certificate. A person who cheats during exams can be certified. A person at Nasser

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The salaried worker is the poorest person when he bases all his actions on the size of his purse. The man without a salary who needs to meet his daily needs has to base his actions on something else. That’s usually faith.

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

7 months

The woman’s bait - Part 41 // Marital Drama My wife and I were seated on the floor on opposite sides of the room. We were both tired, having had the biggest fight of our married life. In frustration, I had removed my wedding ring and thrown it on the floor. The fight had no

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

7 months

The woman’s bait - Part 51 // Marital Drama I remember driving out of the office premises in the evening at around 8PM and parking alongside the road. It was the season when I opened my first office and asked my cousin to come work with me. We had the ambition and faith to start

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

3 months

Think twice about unforgiving people… 🤔🤔 #marriage

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

5 days

When a man is disadvantaged for a long time, perhaps with poverty or an incurable disease, religion and prayer become his best or only option. The downside is that when that man encounters challenges within reach of his ingenuity or problem-solving, he still resorts to the one

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

5 months

Money is a trick. I dare imagine it was invented by a pimp. The more you desire money, the more you sell your soul. I learnt not to envy people with money because some of them paid too much for it. Money can never satisfy. Satisfaction is a matter of contentment.

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

7 months

The woman’s bait - Part 27 // Marital Drama “America is going to the moon,” President Kennedy said, “not because it’s easy but because it’s hard.” Many of us have believed a lie that things are supposed to be easy. Marriages are breaking up because of hardships. If a single

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

7 months

The woman’s bait - Part 29 // Marital Drama Yesterday, I shared a story from our first year in marriage and how I navigated my way out of making the bed. Far from my intent, many were incensed. I’m not dogmatic; I meditate deeply before formulating an opinion. Therefore, I’m

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

7 months

The woman’s bait - Part 31 // Marital Drama The day had arrived. It was the day I was to be officially introduced to my wife’s family. My siblings and friends accompanying me gathered at my father’s house. It was symbolic. This would be the second time I left my father and

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Felix Kitaka

@TheMutambuze

7 months

The woman’s bait - Part 47 // Marital Drama “If you can’t sustain it, don’t start it,” goes conventional wisdom in women’s circles regarding marriage. That’s not a statement of love; it’s a statement of a freeloader who wants maximum benefits with the least amount of work. It’s

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