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Kamal Effendi K.

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Educationist and full-time paper pusher 📑 | Mental health advocate 🧠 | Twice-published poet 📚 | Lifelong learner on pause 🌿

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Kamal Effendi K.
4 years
Belajar diam dalam dunia yang bising. Membisu bukan bermakna tak tahu, riuh pun belum tentu berilmu.
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Kamal Effendi K.
2 years
You know it’s Ramadan when you see women comfortably in telekung everywhere after terawih 😸
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Kamal Effendi K.
3 years
Kurang faham orang yang ambil mudah adanya isteri. Saya kira apa yang saya rindu beristeri dulu; doa dan teman setia yang paling baik. Banyak mudahkan urusan saya sebagai suami. Saya kalah dalam mencintainya, dia lebih mencintai saya. Namun tiada penyesalan, hanya kenangan 🙂
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Kamal Effendi K.
3 years
Kurniakanlah aku sepasang mata yang suka mencari hikmah, sekeping hati yang mudah bersangka baik dan sepasang tangan yang suka memberi. Cukuplah barangkali bekal untuk menghadapi dunia yang penuh dengan ragam dan tingkah laku manusiawi.
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Eight years have swiftly passed — just one with you, and seven in your absence. Yet, every moment feels both fleeting and eternal. Coming down today to lay flowers by your resting place is probably the least I could do to celebrate us. Happy 8th anniversary, my dearest sayang ❤️
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Kamal Effendi K.
7 years
Little did she know, she was not part of my plan too.
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Kamal Effendi K.
3 years
“You deserve a slow love. Uncomplicated. No rush. Sure. Stable. Consistent. You deserve that love. You deserve someone that’s sure of you, that you’re sure of.”
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Kamal Effendi K.
4 years
Farewell Ramadan, till we meet again 🌙
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Kamal Effendi K.
2 years
Standing here annually to feel the still air breezing through the wind of sorrow and misery. I already lost count of which year this has been since you went away. Probably signifies how far I am at the other side of grieving. Happy seventh anniversary sayang…
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Kamal Effendi K.
2 years
Everyone is allow to panic, totally unexpected 😂
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Kamal Effendi K.
6 years
In the end, all I learned was how to be strong, alone.
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Kamal Effendi K.
3 years
Dating someone who understands your mental health is so important ☝🏻
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Kamal Effendi K.
3 years
If wifey would be around, she would be 30 today 🎂
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Kamal Effendi K.
6 years
Nowadays I like my circle small, and prefer to be unnoticed wherever I go. This way, I could focus on each friend that I already have, and less overwhelmed with my surrounding.
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Kamal Effendi K.
4 years
Healing is the loneliest journey I must say.
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Kamal Effendi K.
5 years
I hope you find the person who is trying to find you.
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Kamal Effendi K.
4 years
Some will test you. Some will use you. Some love you. Some will teach you. But the ones who are truly important are the ones who bring out the best in you.
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Kamal Effendi K.
5 years
You have to stop the habit of explaining to others. You owe nobody explanation. Do your thing, care less about what others think. The only explanation matters is to yourself.
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Kamal Effendi K.
5 years
That’s the problem with being the strong one. No one offers you a hand.
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Kamal Effendi K.
4 years
Something I learn recently: Try not to simply cut people off, instead draw boundaries. You still acknowledge their existence, but accept the fact that you aren’t close anymore — on completely two different pages.
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Kamal Effendi K.
4 years
Saya suka memberi, tapi saya cukup tak gemar orang yang suka meminta.
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Kamal Effendi K.
2 years
Please tell me that I am not the only one who is anxious about polling results announcement tonight 🫠
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Kamal Effendi K.
4 years
So twitter turns to instagram and instagram turns to a shop app 😶
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Kamal Effendi K.
4 years
The right one will heal your soul.
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Kamal Effendi K.
4 years
Jauh lagi perjalanan, tak salah jalan perlahan. Ada masa penat, berhenti rehat.
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Kamal Effendi K.
3 years
The broken ones will always be able to love harder than most. Once you’ve been in the dark, you learn to appreciate everything that shines.
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Kamal Effendi K.
5 years
“Please be patient with me. Sometimes when I’m quiet it’s because I need to figure myself out. It’s not because I don’t want to talk. Sometimes there are no words for my thoughts.”
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Kamal Effendi K.
4 years
Imagine finding both love and friendship in one person 💭
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Kamal Effendi K.
7 years
I appreciate effort. No matter how small, silly or irrelevant, I appreciate effort.
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Kamal Effendi K.
4 years
Broken heart when healed, it‘s already in a different form. It won’t be the same anymore.
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Kamal Effendi K.
5 years
Tak semua bertuah bila bercinta. Ada yang diambil tuhan disaat berdua, ada yang disibuk dengan orang ketiga, ada yang tersepit pasangan berdusta, ada yang hiba keluarga tak menerima. Mahal harga bahagia, tak semua dapat merasa.
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Kamal Effendi K.
5 years
If I distance myself from you, trust me it is for a reason.
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Kamal Effendi K.
4 years
People who make you feel better about yourself when you’re sad are so important.
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Kamal Effendi K.
3 years
Some people never worth explaining, so unworthy. Walk away, ignore them.
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Kamal Effendi K.
6 years
I don’t spend my time hating. It is tiring to hate. I simply let go, and walk away.
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Kamal Effendi K.
5 years
Peringatan untuk diri sendiri: Ikhlaslah dalam persahabatan. Dalam keikhlasan ada barakah. Bila ada barakah, kekal di dunia dan mungkin berjiran di syurga kelak.
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Kamal Effendi K.
3 years
When someone makes you happy, make them happier.
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Kamal Effendi K.
4 years
There’s a special place in my heart for the ones who were with me at my lowest and still loved me when I wasn‘t very loveable.
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Kamal Effendi K.
4 years
The friendship (or relationship) that makes you become a better person is the one to keep.
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Kamal Effendi K.
5 years
Friends can break your heart too.
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Kamal Effendi K.
3 years
“She struggled with her sadness, but tried to conceal it, to divide it into smaller and smaller parts and scatter these in places she thought no one would find them.”
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Kamal Effendi K.
4 years
Kena selalu ingat, kita banyak tidak tahu dari tahu.
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Kamal Effendi K.
5 years
“Deep in my heart I know I am a loner. I have tried to blend in with the world and be sociable, but the more people I meet the more disappointed I am. So, I’ve learned to enjoy myself, my family, and a few good friends.”
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Kamal Effendi K.
1 year
Being fluent in English doesn’t instantly certify intelligence. True smarts go beyond language proficiency. It’s sometimes reflected in the quality of ideas, the impact of actions, and the depth of character. There’s no language monopoly on brains!
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Kamal Effendi K.
6 years
Repeat this after me: No more efforts for the wrong people.
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Kamal Effendi K.
4 years
You’ve been hurt so bad and you still love so hard. I admire your heart for that.
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Kamal Effendi K.
4 years
Never run back to what broke you
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Kamal Effendi K.
3 years
“May flowers grow in the saddest parts of you.”
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Kamal Effendi K.
4 years
Oh dear, when you are nice and kind; you don’t go around expect people to be nice and kind to you too. Life sadly doesn’t work out that way, but if you get back what you give then consider yourself lucky. Probably give, but never expect.
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Kamal Effendi K.
3 years
Tak sempatlah nak sibuk masalah orang, masalah sendiri pun tak cukup masa nak selesaikan 😂
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Kamal Effendi K.
5 years
Kalau ada perasaan marah, saya akan senyap. Ada yang salah faham cakap saya merajuk dan tarik muka, bukan begitu sebenarnya. Elok saya diam dari berkata-kata. Bila berkata ketika marah, penyesalan hasilnya. Saya ambil masa untuk bertenang sedang saya berdiam diri.
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Kamal Effendi K.
3 years
Always allow yourself to be a beginner. No one starts off being excellent.
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Kamal Effendi K.
3 years
It is always nice to feel wanted and to be loved no matter how independent, self sufficient and introverted a person is.
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Kamal Effendi K.
5 years
Avoiding you at all cost because of your negativity. I don’t hate you, but my life is way better without you.
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Kamal Effendi K.
4 years
“How beautiful to find a heart that loves you, without asking you for anything but to be okay.”
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Kamal Effendi K.
4 years
You are forever a student of life. What you don’t know, you learn.
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Kamal Effendi K.
7 years
“I love talking to you, even if I have nothing to say.”
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Kamal Effendi K.
8 years
Take photos, videos, take lots of it, use whatever mean you could to preserve the memory. Someday, it might be the only thing you have.
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Kamal Effendi K.
3 years
“One day you will learn to love yourself just enough to let them go.”
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Kamal Effendi K.
5 years
You know how long I have waited to meet someone like you?
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Kamal Effendi K.
4 years
So far nobody ever said to me healing is easy. It is not easy when it comes to healing. It comes with challenges, and these challenges eventually grow you. You will never be the same person.
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Kamal Effendi K.
2 years
Distance is my new answer. I won’t argue, I won’t react. I simply remove myself.
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Kamal Effendi K.
2 years
“Promise me not to hide yourself when you’re in pain, it’s unfair that we laughed together but you cried alone.”
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Kamal Effendi K.
4 years
Sending love to those who are healing about the things they don’t talk about 💚
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Kamal Effendi K.
5 years
Sometimes, you’re better off not knowing.
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Kamal Effendi K.
5 years
It hurts to let go, but it hurts even more to hold on.
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Kamal Effendi K.
5 years
I think I give up on people. I want to focus on only myself. I‘m not sad, I’m just done.
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Kamal Effendi K.
3 years
Sending love to anyone who is struggling with their mental health right now 🌼
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Kamal Effendi K.
4 years
Jangan pernah lelah memujuk diri sendiri. Bersabarlah bila berdikari.
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Kamal Effendi K.
2 years
I am not sure about other fellow introverts, but I do struggle a bit to socialize after two years of low-key Eid celebration 😵‍💫
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Kamal Effendi K.
4 years
I wish you well, I always wish you well even without you knowing.
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Kamal Effendi K.
7 years
I stopped holding on to people. If they stay, great. If they don't, others will come along; replace them, just like others would replace me.
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Kamal Effendi K.
2 years
Removing you without warning because I am too old to explain and you already know what you did wrong 😮‍💨
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Kamal Effendi K.
4 years
You are always in my prayers. Remember that.
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Kamal Effendi K.
3 years
Nobody ever really knows how much anyone else is hurting. You could be standing next to somebody who is completely broken and you wouldn’t even know it. That’s why you should always try to be kind.
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Kamal Effendi K.
2 years
My parents’ anniversary today, standing strong at 45 years of marriage. Mine only lasted a year but god knows what is best for them and for me. Alhamdullilah ala kulli haal 🍂
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Kamal Effendi K.
4 years
Jangan biasakan memendam rasa bila hati terluka. Akhirnya yang binasa kita juga. Lepaskan dengan cara yang kita selesa. Asalkan sukma kita terjaga. Selamat mencari ubat yang kena dengan jiwa dan raga.
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Kamal Effendi K.
6 years
Healing is lonely, something that you learn on your own, and only real to you. Nobody could do that for you. When you begin to heal, it should be the first priority in your life.
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Kamal Effendi K.
5 years
“The older I get, the more I realize the value of privacy, of cultivating your circle and only letting certain people in. You can be open, honest, and real while still understanding not everyone deserves a seat at the table of your life.”
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Kamal Effendi K.
7 years
I miss you so much. I feel so alone.
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Kamal Effendi K.
3 years
If you knew how hard it was, and how long it took; to rebuild my little universe of peace and happiness then you would understand why I’m so picky about who I allow in my life.
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Kamal Effendi K.
5 years
“Just because you carry it all so well, doesn’t mean it’s not heavy.”
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Kamal Effendi K.
7 years
Choose people who choose you.
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Kamal Effendi K.
5 years
Memujuk hati, hidup bersendiri. Mungkin bukan rezeki di dunia, tapi rezeki di akhirat kelak. Bukan dunia namanya, kalau tidak diuji. Sabar itu makannya, agama itu udaranya.
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Kamal Effendi K.
5 years
Speak kindly, speak softly.
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Kamal Effendi K.
6 years
“Deep in my heart I know I am a loner. I have tried to blend in with the world and be sociable, but the more people I meet the more disappointed I am. So, I’ve learned to enjoy myself, my family, and a few good friends.”
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Kamal Effendi K.
3 years
Remember that you don’t have to react to everything. Pick your roles carefully and select your thoughts mindfully. Guard your peace 🧘🏻‍♂️
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Kamal Effendi K.
6 years
Second chance is not for the same mistake.
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Kamal Effendi K.
5 years
I have been really tired and confused for the past month. I hope I get better in October. A lot calmer with an ample time for myself.
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Kamal Effendi K.
3 years
Your only permanent home for your soul is yourself. Be sure to know yourself, to love yourself and to celebrate yourself.
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Kamal Effendi K.
4 years
Bad times aren’t permanent, remember that.
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Kamal Effendi K.
4 years
Found you when I wasn’t even looking. How is that for a blessing?
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Kamal Effendi K.
4 years
Trust me, trapping in the memory sometimes is worst than the pain itself.
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Kamal Effendi K.
2 years
Remind yourself that you have been there before and you survived, surely you will survive this too.
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Kamal Effendi K.
4 years
“Travel and tell no one. Live a true love story and tell no one. Live happily and tell no one. People ruin beautiful things.”
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Kamal Effendi K.
4 years
“It takes a huge effort to free yourself from memory.”
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Kamal Effendi K.
4 years
Mana yang berkehendak ingin meninggalkan saya, pergilah. Saya jauh dari hendak memaksa untuk terus bersama. Asalnya sayang, saya lepaskan. Saya kalah pada kehendak orang lain. Demi bahagia mereka, saya bersedih seketika tak mengapa.
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Kamal Effendi K.
6 years
Of course I will love again; slowly and surely.
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Kamal Effendi K.
2 years
“No one is afraid of heights, they are afraid of the fall. No one is afraid of the dark, they are afraid of what's in it. No one is afraid of love, they are afraid of the broken heart.”
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Kamal Effendi K.
3 years
Pretending to be stupid is not attractive, at all.
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