@bellasesandy
@Wizarab10
If a woman can give numerous stories of women who have being through a lot in marriage, but can't give one of a woman who was the actual problem, she should be avoided. The world is large enough to give you instances of both but It is clear what your bias is.
@talk2veee
You actually saved her. Real life is just what it is. In real life, we take sh*t, we simp, we sacrifice, change diapers, women pay bills, men take care of kids, fights happen and we settle. Itβs on twitter that no one takes nonsense.
@jon_d_doe
Lemme say this on time. Before Agba, insanity was on the rise on this app. Few women moving real mad under the umbrella of feminism but influencing a lot. Men doing too much to counter it and the whole place was a farce. Agba brought some much needed gbas gbos and here we are.
@ThePamtechGroup
@jon_d_doe
@instablog9ja
@PulseNigeria247
@KraksTV
@GossipMillNaija
Marriage is an ultimate goal for women. They may say otherwise but watch the Joy that fills their faces when they find a man truly willing to marry them for good. For this reason, you donβt joke with their heart this way. This is too costly a joke. This boy should be arrested.
@jon_d_doe
The mistakes people are making on that thread is to assume that the thought is the same as the actions. The percentage of men that said they walked away is quite minute. It happens alright but it isnβt the majority. Letβs celebrate our milestones. Mentally, men go through a lot.
@jon_d_doe
If you prove him wrong about his impression of you, believe me, a man knows whatβs good for him. What men pass through at the hands of women in the so-called saner-climes is nothing short of demonic. He is simply saying he canβt trust you.
@Mochievous
By your logic, that wig on your head should be in the waste basket. Heels shouldnβt be worn mostly too. Many of the outfits women wear arenβt comfortable either. You choose to go braless for reasons that are easy to understand, but donβt worry, letβs look for another reason.
@TitoOfLagos
We encourage people to misbehave in public but want them to pray and worship in private. Anyone having an issue with this just hates worship and is misguided. That's it.
@sheni_coker
@khanofkhans11_
When in a marriage, perspectives change and reality sets in. Hot takes no longer cut it. It's why I don't engage a lot online on marital issues. I have an actual home to lead, a woman and a child to love and guide. I'd rather spend more times talking to God about it.
@NonyeKings
Na set up be this. No man should fall for this. They want us to start having big bellies, get too comfortable and boom, our mumu button don activate πΆπΆπΆ
We no go gree.
@jon_d_doe
Personal, my finances is the only place I failed at and I am taking well tailored measures to ensure that I budget and live a minimalist lifestyle whilst doing my best to improve the standard of living for my family.
@Georgebabss
@_Debbie_OA
It isn't by Church. God shows Grace to whom he would. I dare say it isn't even by prayer. God again shows mercy to whom he chooses to. That said, you should still find a Bible believing church.
@Anikkybaby_
Iβve seen many. If I draw attention to it, theyβll say English is not our native language. The same language you used in passing exams, to communicate with other tribes, got at least a C on it at high school level and use for almost every and all subjects.
@_BossMANIa
So women do their best to dismiss the gravity of false rape allegations when we discuss it.
Women are also saying that this movie broke them.
I want to believe that it isnβt the same women or it only hits them when itβs their brothers or loved ones.
@jon_d_doe
Every man wants to truly own his wife. With single moms, itβs tough. The father of her child can call anytime. The child will be used as an excuse to see the man. You no go even fit discipline pikin like your own. These are the issues that are difficult to addressβ¦
@jon_d_doe
I love what Agba did here. The same women who tell their daughters to leave men because those men donβt give their daughters money would hold breast swear for any girl that their own son is giving money. Selfish greed.
@jon_d_doe
How can I say this?! You are not the cause of this problem. There is a difference between a problem that you caused, and the one that you canβt help. This is something you couldnβt help and he is responsible for his actions therein, not youβ¦
@Wizarab10
What is interesting is that, virginity used to be priceless. People could vet and women were domesticated. Now, people with so many body counts are talking about how they donβt want to co-habit because it encourages sex before marriage.
@Babythisiskeke_
@kwets11
There is nothing bigger than being a wife and a mom. It's at Par with being a father and a husband. That's a woman's contribution to family and family is the bedrock of society.
@bluprint7g
This young man here should let me enjoy my wife. I donβt care what I did when I was his age abeg. πΆπ½ββοΈπΆπ½ββοΈπΆπ½ββοΈ
@talk2veee
By and large, men are providers, women are nurturers. There are overlaps true, and when roles are reversed, it isnβt intentional but a necessity that must be temporary until things are restored to normalcy. My prayer is that God will continue to bless and guide our men & women.
@nwunyeegombute1
We all know what we are doing. People like that know what they are doing too. They hide under the guise of Grace to perform all sorts of immoral atrocities, then come around to say they that have been washed clean and God has forgiven all. We all know what we are doing...
@jon_d_doe
Her mom is speaking from her own well of knowledge. This lady needs to set her path herself. Her momβs understanding isnβt necessarily true, but thatβs her perception. Parents can draw one back if one doesnβt outgrow their seemingly boxed ideologies.
@General_Oluchi
Dear men. Surprise your woman today. Cook what she will eat. I said cook, not go and buy from a food vendor. Cook, wear apron or whatever you use and cook. You wonβt die if you do so. Shalom
@Irunnia_
@Mc_Phils
Well, the idea is to not waste time. Alaye go sabi Alaye so on dulling.
Disclaimer: what you have read is a result of years of research observing what other people do online. I have no affiliation with the perpetrators nor the act itself.
@jon_d_doe
My sister in-law was exactly like this. She also asked how she can be more feminine and my wife was able to help her. A summary of what my wife did is this:
1. She changed her wardrobe
2. They spent time together going out
3. She went on dates with trusted menβ¦
@jon_d_doe
You are an opportunist that is messing around. Your previous GF needs to move on before you ruin her life. I am strongly doubting that this is from a 30yr old.
Thank you
@aptlearn_io
. Thank you
@adeoyesoniregun
You may not remember, but u helped me afford further learning in UIUX design after completion of this certificate. Took the course and can now create beautiful mobile and web designs. I will keep learning even after I land a Job.
@bekee_bekee
@Nwunyeegombute3
The tweet speaks to the many evil women are capable of and most of you support, which explains why you cancel out anyone who points them out. Agba does a lot to state some of these things by way of his writings. If they are false to you, how you refute them is equally important.
@PenTitan
At 18, boys same age with them aren't their class. At 20, same. Then the 30s come and suddenly, a 35 year old woman suddenly sees nothing wrong with marrying a 35yr old man. In short, every woman, young or old wants a man in his prime, and that's a 30s man...
@CHUKWUMEBUKA_
I donβt understand what you think you are doing or saying. Whatever your niece may think, how is what she did better then switching to the right hand in that split second. She can explain her being left handed but returning the phone and walking away is doing what exactly?
@jon_d_doe
What I wouldn't want you to do is take your wife's words to mean hatred. If you do, then even when things get better, you'd become what you shouldn't because you wouldn't forget. Love her still. It might be tough, but please do. That is the only way things can work.
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@i_am_UCHE
@FisayoLonge
A married or sensible woman would understand what youβve said. I doubt sheβs any of the two, because if she is and is still spewing this, then something is so wrong.
@AfricaFactsZone
This thread reveals exactly what many women have been doing and how they reason. Theyβve always been getting married for money. Now, they canβt do that and it is all noise and career blah blah. Marriage will still happen, it is you Mrs feminists that will not.
@jon_d_doe
This isnβt casual spending. Absolute sponsoring. The kind you do when you think that the female is yours. Women in this position know what they are doing. They string men along, knowing that they have other intentions. Men, I pray for you.
@oladyussuf
I am playing this in my head but putting a mother in place and seeing the outrage it would have caused. The way we disregard men is baffling. God help us all. Happy Fatherβs Day to all fathers out there anyway.
@DavidNwajibia
@Wizarab10
And this isnβt because they arenβt mates but because what is required of a man is actually higher. An 18yr old boy is just as matured as an 18yr old girl, but it takes the man more to manage a woman than it takes a woman to live with a man, hence the reason he needs more time.
@OfficialMoreign
@jon_d_doe
@Jhohel1
The point of the tweet is that these things arenβt your responsibility & as such, you arenβt mandated to do them. Should you choose to do them, ur pickles, meaning that not doing them shouldnβt affect the dynamics of your relationship. For your wife, itβs a different ball game.
@Wizarab10
The fact that these laws that empower these women negatively are heavily guarded by men is very baffling. How is it that this evil stands, even when itβs well known?
@CHI_funmii
You speak my mind even better. The way the human world is designed, boys and girls are supposed to be catered for, but somehow, we have convinced ourselves that only one side of the complete whole should be catered for. The other half will become a problem automatically?
@TeemarsBeauty
@Gucciicecream__
@olamidezzz
Many women will say a broke man doesnβt deserve them. Now, a rich man can afford it right? Why should he be loyal, if love was just an item for sale. Heβs bought it, and wants to buy another. Loyalty is only for someone whose love was never for sale in the first place.
@Madam_Ufuoma
Found it, Malachi 2:15
So the whole picture here is a three-way relationship between a husband and a wife before God with his Spirit blessing this union. So a husband, accountable to God for the way he loves his wife. A wife accountable to God for the way she loves her husband
@eomotayo1
You know a woman can be a good mother and a bad wife right. In fact, she can be a bad woman to other children that arenβt hers. This picture tells nothing.
@psg_chief
This is an everyday occurrence in football. It is only becoming an issue because a woman is in the picture. If it's a problem, keep women off men football then, and let the game go on.
@talk2veee
I think people need to understand that the inception of these problems was activated with the help of these International communities. They know the status quo and love it that way. If we get things right, it will be difficult for them to exploit us as a people.
@_spiriituaL
I will say all day. She walked away, not him. The only reason we have people feeling sorry for her is because the guy made it in life. If not, theyβll call it a smart move on her part. She said, βwe are never coming back togetherβ. Whatever we think of it, she left, not him.
@Cadaver_a
@Naija_PR
I definitely listen to my dad when he expresses concerns. I donβt just dismiss it, and assume itβs fun for him. It isnβt always fun.
@arojinle1
This conversation isn't ending anytime soon. There will always be arguments for and against. The real king of the jungle isn't any of these two. Have we seen mosquitoes? Those guys hold the record for the highest killers of humans.
@talk2veee
At the gym, I saw a lady doing something wrong, tried to help by correcting, but her expression made me realize that she wasnβt interested. I removed myself from her space. A few months after, a friend of mine at the gym was telling me how she complained that I was avoiding her.
@MEKIZZ_
@47kasz
You realize that what he said and what these screenshots say are basically the same. "No other tribe has this much", and "Igbo blah blah are the best" hold the same weight.
@talk2veee
We often forget that those we drag or make fun of have souls too, are prone to falling into depression as we, and can lose themselves in just the same way. She may not look as pleasing to the eye, but it doesn't make her less human. Those people are just wicked.
@Emiola_isback
@Wizarab10
I know a company that wanted to let go of some cars at very affordable rates, cars they didnβt need anymore. This was an end of the year thingy. Na Nigerians like us go tell GM say the price dey too cheap say make them triple amβ¦ Mental slavery is very powerful.
@Wizarab10
Donβt mind them. If he didnβt scale, theyβll tag her decision the smartest since Messi played for Barca. They donβt understand consequences. Itβs sad, but what else could Robert do aside monetary compensations. A woman that said, βwe can never come back togetherβ.
@jon_d_doe
He who invest a lot will feel the pain the more. Men invest so much, so it will generally be very painful. Money, time and all sorts. When a man loves, he loves a lot.